#f/o: yn1ipc

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You are more than "enough" for your F/O.

People make time for what is important to them, and your F/O makes time for you whenever they can. Even if they're busy with work or school or their own life, they won't neglect to spend time with you. Some days they might only be able to manage sending you a few messages, but they make sure to keep in contact. If they have a cool new interest taking up their time, they want to share it with you!

They want to spend time with you. They want to listen to you. They want to talk to you. They do it because they want to.

Even if they have struggles that you can't help them with, they appreciate everything that you do. They don't expect you to fix all of their problems, and they don't hold your inability to do so against you. You make them happy, and that's what matters most.

As requested by Anon <3

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💫 would be rightfully cancelled for his atrocities and being militaristic totalitarian... except for the fact that he wouldn't be cancelled because he's a totalitarian. Trying to "cancel" public figures of the regime would probably get your account banned at the very least.

A silly/petty reason that 💫 would get cancelled is because he gets up super early, is quite a bit older than his partner (me), and because he loves minion memes.

for people with Problematic f/o’s -

what do you think would get them (rightfully) canceled on social media?

what‘s a silly / petty reason they would get canceled?

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Even if your F/O doesn't outwardly express their emotions much, they notice yours. They can tell when you are feeling uneasy, sometimes even before you've figured out what's wrong. Whatever it is, they want to solve the problem. If it's a person that's upsetting you, your F/O won't hesitate to tell them off and/or get you out of that situation in any way possible. If you're feeling overwhelmed with life, they will offer to take on some of your tasks to give you a break.

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Your F/O wants you to know that you can relax around them, and not only physically.

You don't have to be "perfect," or productive, or put together. You don't have to be the version of yourself that you want people to see. You don't have to constantly achieve, you can just be.

Your F/O loves all parts and facets of your being, and they think you're worthy no matter what.

As requested by Anon <3 (I split it into two, hope you don't mind!)

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Imagine your F/O helping you to clean your depression room.

Your F/O would never shame you for how messy your space has gotten. They know how hard it can be to find the motivation to tidy up.

They don't expect you to do it all at once, and they certainly won't nag you about it. They know that being reminded just makes the task feel more overwhelming, so they will follow your lead.

Your F/O respects your privacy even as they help. If you tell them that you don't want them looking in a certain area or touching certain things, they respect it. It's your room, after all.

Your F/O is happy to help; even if it means picking up trash or putting dirty clothes in the laundry. They will help you find places to put things away, and they'll rejoice with you every time you find some money in an unexpected place.

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😭 So true, what did Denny’s ever do to him?

I love having sophisticated f/o(s) who prefer the finer things in life because I'm the opposite.

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Shoutout to selfshippers who find their F/O's actions morally reprehensible and hot at the same time!

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Imagine your F/O taking you to their world. They know how much you've yearned both for them and a feeling of belonging, and they have finally found a way to take you home.

As requested by Anon <3

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You make your immortal/deity F/O feel the kind of alive that usually only mortals get to feel. To love for the sake of loving, even if it might not last forever, even if you won't last forever. When one lives eternally, a few years can feel like nothing. But moments shared with you remind them of just how much joy one can experience in one short life.

There are some things about each other's lives that you may never understand, but there is so much happiness to share. A kiss with every goodbye. A favourite food shared even if that means getting less. "I saw this and thought of you." Inside jokes, fond memories, returning to a favourite place. The smallest moments, made significant by you.

As requested by Anon, many moons ago. Sorry for the delay! <3

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For both of my F/Os I’d be the one singing it.

💫 Would think it was very sweet, she’d laugh and maybe sing along.

🪙 would stare at me, face devoid of emotion until I stopped. He would maintain his emotionless stare long enough to make me anxious, and then say “I’m glad that I am all you want for Christmas, because I don’t plan on buying you a gift.”

Imagine, if you will, that your singing "All I Want For Christmas Is You" with your F/O. Do they surprise you by singing it, or do you? How does it play out? Who is embarrassed, or rather, who is owning it?

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Imagine cuddling your F/O, but really imagine it.

Imagine the sound of their breathing, accompanied by the rise and fall of their chest. Imagine their small shifts in position as the two of you get cozy together; and imagine how it feels to be in their arms. Imagine the expression of perfect contentment on their face. Imagine the scenery surrounding you or the scomforting dark of your closed eyes. Imagine every detail, their scent, the texture of their clothes, their weight against you, your skin touching theirs, every little thing.

I hope the two of you feel safe, warm, and loved. <3

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Imagine tagging along with your F/O when they go to work! Would you help them with their job, quietly do your own thing, or would you distract them?

Feel free to rb and tell me all about it! :)

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Your F/O isn't scared away by your hot temper. Small things tend to set you off; your F/O understands that it isn't their fault.

If ever you feel bad for being easily angered, they'll remind you that emotions have no moral value, and that you can't control how things make you feel.

Even if you struggle with your reactions, your F/O is committed to learning the best ways to help you when you need it.

If you need to rant for half an hour, they'll listen. If you need a solution, they'll try their best to advise. If you need to be distracted, they'll find a way. And if you need some space, they'll be there whenever you're ready.

As requested by Anon <3

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I once experienced the reverse of this, where I had a crush on someone because he reminded me of a character (that I was in denial about still being in love with.)

I didn't notice that's why I liked my crush so much until one day when I saw a younger picture of the character and saw the similarities.

kind of stupid but it's kind of cute that for once I'm obsessed with a character who has similar features to my boyfriend and sometimes when I look at pics of the character I say "that's my boyfriend!" not just bc I love the character but bc I can see my boyfriend in him a lil bit

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ExReligious Selfshippers!

Your F/O knows that leaving a religion can leave you without a feeling of connection. They know that you can't just forget about everything you were taught overnight.

Through any feelings of confusion or fear, your F/O will be there. Even if they haven't experienced the same things themselves, they want to listen and understand how you feel. They won't judge you if you tell them that you miss it sometimes, or that some of its aspects still carry over to your present life in ways you don't mind.

You may have been told that certain parts of yourself are wrong, or that you must adhere to certain rules, but your F/O thinks you're amazing just the way you are. Your F/O loves you for who you are, and for who you want to become.

Because it's your choice who you want to be, really. You can be a good person with or without religion. Your F/O thinks that you already are. You can have community, and connection, and love, regardless of your faith, or if you have faith in anything at all.

Religion aside, your F/O has faith in you.

As requested by Anon <3

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Imagine your F/O in a military uniform; how charming and put together they are. Imagine their formal attire, perhaps decked out in awards and badges of honour.