#estonian tantra

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Tantra Festival in Estonia 2023

This festival will show you your full potential and make you feel happy. In just 4 days you will reach your heart and experience universal love toward everyone. That kind of love connects and unites all the living.  Igor Earthchild introduces his festival Tantrafest 2023 (more…) “”

[lioninsunheart]

There are a multitude of things in the daily life of a man that reduce and weaken his masculine energy while there’s an abundance of things that bring forth feminine energy. Some men are born with very strong masculine energy and are mostly unaffected by external conditions, while most men are affected quite strongly. The tantric approach looks at the man as vertical energy and the woman as horizontal energy. This is one of the many interpretations of the cross. The woman takes us further in earthly life and the man takes us higher. In ancient spiritual cultures the mans’ obligation was to be involved with spiritual practices and ascend the whole family through that, while the woman took care of earthly matters. Both roles were set and everyone knew their place. What could a masculine man be like in our modern world? I really like David Deida’s book “The Way of The Superior Man”. This book gives an excellent description in my opinion about what it means for a man to be in his rightful masculine energy. This book is well suited to be mandatory literature for each man. Here I will describe my own understanding of what as a woman recognise to be masculine and what I’ve learned and noticed throughout my years in Tantra. Estonians have a nice expression: “Man by the word, bull by the horn.” A masculine man keeps his word and goes about it correctly. A masculine man does not use words to damage or undermine others and neither does he back down from what he has said. Throwing words just to impress is not his nature. He is always honest both to himself and others. A masculine man is always precise and correct about time. He never lets anyone wait for him and respects both his own time and of others. Treating others with respect is in his nature as well as being kind to everyone. He is respectful towards life as well. A masculine man knows that to be successful one needs to take care of both their internal and external worlds: mind and body. He understands his position as a giver by nature. A masculine man gives without conditions and understands that by giving he gets back the most. He respects, values, loves and admires women. In a relationship he creates for her woman an environment where she feels secure and loved, a place where the woman can create and let her greatest values bloom. A masculine man is attentive and knows what makes his woman’s soul sing and heart open. He is always present: while conversing, making love or otherwise spending time. Caring for his woman pleases him. A masculine man doesn’t run away from obligations, children or family, but rather dedicates time to them. He knows that feminine energy is one of his life’s greatest values and thus he never takes his partner for granted. His woman’s opinion is important to him, which doesn’t mean that he does exactly as the woman wants but that he is open to the woman’s opinions while making a decision. A masculine man never lets his woman manipulate him and always makes his decisions from love not fear. A masculine man takes responsibility in all the fields in his life. He never puts that responsibility on anyone else but himself. A masculine man knows how to be strong and powerful through his heart – he dares to speak about his feelings and cry when he feels like crying. A woman’s emotions do not scare him, he does not try to suppress them, does not judge them nor run away. He understands that emotions are a part of a woman. A masculine man does not let a woman’s emotions take hold of him and turn him petty. ~Katrin Silman