#especially when vulnerable and in search of guidance

[an-android-in-a-tutu]

sometimes I develop stock backstories for a particular character that I can tweek for a variety of aus because i just like the vibe. Like Cas growing up in a big religiously abusive family on an isolated farm and maybe murdering his dad in his teens and getting away with it (don't worry about it.)

Anyway one I like for supernatural generally is just like. The Apocalypse gets derailed entirely by accident and no one has any idea what to do now. On the one hand it's a very utilitarian thing. I wanna write early seasons fic without the looming threat of the apocalypse hanging over everything sometimes you know? But I also just really like that vibe. The fact that the world is never going to end as like a source of existential horror. Especially for this species whose purpose is entirely tied up in the apocalypse. What does a world look like when it's been abandoned by God and just keeps on going? The same as it always did.

I like to imagine the slow death of heaven as the debate on if they should restart the apocalypse and how rages, and as they try to figure out what went wrong and who's to blame the lies that sustain this system start to crumble. They find out God hasn't been giving orders for a long time and now the final thread of prophecy he left them has snapped and they're left floundering. Some dedicated few go searching for him but when it becomes clear he's not to be found and isn't coming back it all just starts to seem so pointless. The archangels are locked in debate over what to do next, middle management is just trying to keep dissent from spreading, and all the while more rank and file angels are just... slipping out the back door when no one's looking. They aren't needed in heaven, they aren't needed anywhere, what can they do but try to find some purpose for themselves? And what better example to follow than those small ignorant favoured creations who have always had to construct meaning for themselves in the face of the daunting prospect of free will?

That's where Castiel goes looking anyway.

My favourite version of this is one where he ends up making a Reverse Doomsday Cult.

[dolljunk]

Here is my M3gan custom doll using a Draculaura head on an Ever After High Lizzie Hearts body with a custom outfit and painted shoes and accessories by me.

I was a big ol' baby when it came to horror things growing up but in recent years I find myself really enjoying Horror films as a genre nowadays. And it might be graphic or violent but really good horror films pick up on themes, anxieties and the uncomfortable aspects of contemporary society.

And I do think M3gan is a good horror film, especially in the subgenre of killer toys since I think it's really hard to make a good horror about toys unless you're skilled at the genre.

Haunted dolls or murderous plush toys aren't scary because they run around killing people, they're scary because they violate a sense of safety that inherently comes with toys. It's why Chucky or Gremlins still works as a film because it isn't just the character being terrorised, it's a commentary on how vulnerable children can be when left unsupervised and the consequences of that. Versus something like Annabelle where it's just an evil doll.

M3gan is a pretty clever film that tackles the issues of how unsafe the internet and technology is for children, while also being campy and violent. I do like that not only Cady was a victim of handsoff parenting but M3gan too was exposed to the vast array of the internet without any guidance and how that messed her up.

It's why I really like M3gan and had to do my own doll.

Her outfit is one of the rare instances where I actually sewed her tights instead of long socks since she had that iconic dance routine, as well as searching for that in scale striped fabric was really difficult.

Her paper cutter is actually several layers of paperboard layered together since I used MyFroggyStuff's method, and I'm always surprised how dense and heavy this method for accessories actually is.

[normal-enderman]

TAKE MY ANALYSIS OF CHIP'S RELATIONSHIP WITH VULNERABILITY YOU MOTHERFUCKERS (long post this is nearly 600 words)

Chip is terrified of vulnerability because he is so desperate for it. All he wants is to get back his parental figures so he can rely on them to make decisions for him again. All he really wants is to have someone protect him and make decisions for him so he can finally lower his guard for the first time since the sea turned black and he was forced to fend for himself. He doesn’t want to be a captain at all, he wants his old crew back so he can fulfil his old role of being the ship’s kid and work under their command again. 

The problem is that having to fend for himself has made him desperately independent and afraid to relinquish control or trust others, so he can’t allow himself to relax and receive protection and comfort from anyone new, because he can’t bring himself to trust anyone new. The only people who he completely trusts are the parental figures who he lost, and that’s why he so desperately seeks them when many would consider it a fool’s errand and would assume the people he was looking for were long dead. What he is searching for isn’t just the people he loves, it’s a feeling of safety and comfort that he’s been without for years. All he wants is to feel safe, and he won’t ever feel completely safe around anyone except his old crew. His goal is a safe haven, people who he can finally be weak around, let his guard down and cry and be a kid and have them protect him. His entire goal of the journey is to reacquire his role as kid surrounded by bigger, stronger adults, who will praise him for his successes but protect him from any actual harm or serious consequence, and rid him of the burden of having to make serious decisions.

This might seem surprising, because especially in the earlier episodes, Chip can come off as a control freak who is unwilling to relinquish even the tiniest amount of control to anyone. But this is a defence mechanism against his own weakness. He knows��he wants someone to guide him, and he’s aware, probably due to harsh experience in the underworld of crime he grew up in, that desiring guidance = easily manipulated. And so he shuts down that part of himself completely, does not allow himself to take any advice, accept any help, or relinquish any control - because he knows how easily someone like him will slip into relying on it, losing his independence, letting his guard down. He knows he’s susceptible to being manipulated, and so years of experience have taught him to over compensate and be a hyper-independent control freak who struggles to trust anyone.

But there’s still that weakness inside. He is undoubtedly the softest character out of the Riptide Pirates. There’s also the fact that, even if he finds the people he is searching for, the protection he is searching for no longer exists. Even if the Black Rose Pirates got back together, Chip would be an adult member of the crew and would be expected to participate in protecting the crew and making decisions. Furthermore, as an adult working with other adults, he would realise that his fellow crew members were fallible and flawed and beatable, and not the amazing all-protecting, flawless beacons of safety he knew as a child. Even if the Black Rose Pirates still exist out there somewhere, the thing Chip is truly searching for - his childhood safety - is lost.

[thecherrytarot]

𝐩𝐢𝐜𝐤 𝐚 𝐓𝐚𝐞𝐡𝐲𝐮𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐚𝐛𝐨𝐮𝐭 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐢𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐫 𝐜𝐡𝐢𝐥𝐝 #𝟐.

pile 1 → pile 2 → pile 3

Pick the photo that you feel the most drawn to. The questions that i picked for this reading were taken from this post. As always, this is a general reading so take what resonates.

𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟏:

What residual guilt are you holding?

You may feel guilty every time you make mistakes. The roots go back to your childhood for example, parents or teachers comparing your marks with others or your 'friends' comparing your less scores with theirs on purpose so that they would feel better about themselves, whatever the case was it stills affects your current self. Whenever you start something, you set expectations for yourself that you will become perfect at this instantly or before anyone else. Due to this, you might be emotionally invested in whatever you do and whenever you make a mistake or see someone else doing something easily, you start to question your abilities and think that they aren't good enough and feel like your younger self again. You are stuck in a negative mindset and have many toxic emotions like bitterness, resentment and hatred could be towards others or yourself, some of you may even use these emotions as motivation. You may often feel emotionally drained and find it hard to concentrate and focus on things.

message: "learning is all about trial and error and you will make mistakes but the more mistakes you make the better you will get. You might feel like you look stupid but don't give up. If you keep doing the work, you will achieve your goal. Then the achievement will mean a lot more to you. Be patient with the learning process. Try not to lie, to others and especially to yourself. The help you need will come to you at the right time, even though it seems impossible to you. So lighten up and stop being so negative or having 'toxic positivity' and remember that is okay to ask or receive help."

How can you be more nurturing to yourself?

Get out of your head and then you will realize that you are not alone. Allow yourself to be vulnerable because it is okay to feel your emotions. Let go of your habit of doing everything by yourself especially when help is offered to you. You may ask the universe or a higher power for help (even searching for some type of guidance online) for someone to help you get out of the mess but when the help does come to you, you decline it. You may feel like no one understands you or gets you or you are afraid that people might not care about you. But the universe wants to tell you that it is not true and you can feel connected to someone only if you allow yourself. Try not to shut down these offers out of fear of vulnerability. When someone offers to help you try being grateful and be vocal about it instead of your usual "no I can do it by myself". Nothing wrong with being independent but also there is no harm in asking for help. I got this strong message of 'you are at the right place, at the right time' so for some of you, the event and the people around you are due to a divine arrangement so maybe this could be your chance to heal a part of your inner child because there is a soul connection to those around you.

message: "Have the courage to even face the uncertainties of your life. Know that you will move forward as you did with your past challenges. Victory doesn't only come from achieving your goals, it also comes from winning over your fears. Do not be afraid of failing. When you were a baby learning how to walk, you fell so many times and even got hurt but did you give up on walking? No, but instead you got back up and look at you now. Take the risk to improve your life, even if there is no guarantee."

𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟐:

If you felt drawn to Pile 3, make sure to check it out as well!!

What residual guilt are you holding?

You might feel guilty for not taking control of your life decisions. You feel like you don't have enough 'knowledge' to make decisions, so always give others the authority to make the decisions for you. Maybe when you were young, you were made fun of or looked down on for making "silly" choices or selecting the wrong option. Now you could be like 'oh I just need outside advice about this xyz situation' and end up doing exactly what they said even though you do not like it because you feel like if you followed your own advice you would fail 100%) You may also feel guilty for procrastinating or ignoring the things that need to be done, its there in the back of your mind but some of you could try to shut it by saying "well what can I do about it? Now is not the right time for it!" and continue sitting in your couch potato position. Also for some of you, whenever someone brings up this topic you try to ignore it or get irritated by it, not in a childish way but in more of a "rebellious" teenager way. You may feel like no one loves you or cares about you and people are secretly hating on you and are jealous of you but for the majority of you, it is most likely in your head (imaginary haters). You have longed so much for something better and since you are not getting it (sometimes you may even feel like there is no chance of this future for you), you have unknowingly developed a pessimistic attitude even though you say that you are being "realistic" about life. There is a strong message about having two choices( you got like 5 cards about it). The universe is telling you that every day you have two choices; to feel the passion within you or to numb it. If you can find enjoyment in your life now, even more, will come. It is either to do or to not. If you don't do it, you can enjoy your comfort now while occasionally feeling guilty about it and later on feel overwhelmed because you do not have enough time for it or you could do it and give yourself time to process it.

message: "Stop thinking that you will grow only when your surroundings will change. You grow when you change. Stop thinking that you will only grow when you are forced to do it, that isn't the case here. This time it IS in your hands, it's up to you and if you fail, trust yourself to get back up. Every day you have a choice, you get to decide which inner voice to listen to. It feels like your inner child is trapped by this version of you. It asks you every day to change but you might listen to it."

How can you be more nurturing to yourself?

You are free, stop living in your head so much it is almost as if you made a prison for yourself. Let go of your fear of looking stupid. Everyone makes mistakes (even the person that you constantly go to for advice and consider authority) its normal to make them, we are all humans. Do not let this fear stop you from even starting something that you want. Let go of your 'pride' which is limiting you from growing. You also embody the strengths you admire in the people you look up to. Don't try to "compare" yourself to the talents, and achievements of others. Identify what life lesson you seem to be repeating, it is one of the big lessons you're here to work on. Instead of getting frustrated and wanting this to be over as soon as possible, learn what this repetition is teaching you. When you decide to change from your old patterns for something good and make efforts to improve yourself every day, it is something to feel proud of. Even if you do not see it, you are getting better and wiser every day.

message: "the answers you seek, can always be found within you. always remember that your inner wisdom will always guide you. try to have a positive mind because how you think affects your reality. if you feel like your inner self is telling you something like "oh we are not good enough for this anyway, and we have to accept it because that's how life works" then you are not hearing from your best self. you can do it, everything is at the table for you, and it is up to do something with it. The cycle of the same misfortunes is repeating because the reason could be rooted in something that you need to resolve from the inside. Your instincts will guide you toward the right action every time, but only if you are in tune with yourself."

𝐏𝐢𝐥𝐞 𝟑:

If you felt drawn to Pile 2 , check it out as well !!

What residual guilt are you holding?

(i kept thinking about the song I know it's over by The Smiths while writing this song so give it a listen if you haven't already)

You might feel guilty whenever you get emotional. You might feel afraid to open up emotionally because you feel like it will backfire on you in the future and you will get hurt. Maybe when you were young you were shamed or made fun of for crying or being excited about things (i saw a little child collecting stones/ shells from the beach and then getting scolded by the parent, so take however that resonates) You may feel uncomfortable around emotions of others and unknowingly be cold towards because when you felt emotionally vulnerable you were told to not be so sensitive and you don't know what to do. Many of you could be men/ raised were raised as the "man of the house" from a young age regardless of your gender and you were told to toughen up because there was a time to have emotions and be "weak", especially from a mother figure (even in the song I recommended he is talking to his mother). Also, some of you think that if show your emotions it will lead to some sort of financial failure, which relates to the previous line where I said that some of you had to be the man of the house and had some sort of financial responsibility since a young age. Now you find yourself in an unbalanced situation, where you think that following your brain and shutting down your emotions is the right thing to do because that is what you were taught as a child but a part of you says 'this isn't how it is supposed to be, I am a human too, I am supposed to live life and feel too like all the others do.' For this, you will have to stop the thoughts that somehow convince you or put the fear in your mind that something bad WILL happen. When you are anxious about something that hasn't even happened yet, then you are harming yourself with your thinking. Tell yourself that your negative thoughts are just thoughts and not your reality.

message: "you have completed so many challenges, that chapter is done and dusted, it is over now. Now it is time for you to evolve. It is time for you to create the world that you always wanted, the one where your younger self would feel safe and not get judged for being childish, the one where your teenage self can shamelessly dance and laugh and the one where your current self can look at both of these versions and smile and help them make that sand castle at the beach (i keep seeing a beach. it could be a metaphorical situation or literal idk, but it is a message for someone.) Get out of the repeating cycle now that you have the knowledge and guidance to do so."

How can you be more nurturing to yourself?

(yeah there is something important about water bc all three cards you got have water-related images, so you could have a lot of water in your chart especially cancer or feel connected to water.)

Take a look around your environment. It has the power to unconsciously affect your mood and self-esteem. Cut out what no longer or never served you. You do not need it. The more you clean out your personal surroundings, you will feel less heavy and stressed on the inside. Your body and mind have been under immense stress, you have every right to live for yourself and be happy. Love yourself and be open to love. Renew your love for yourself and try to feel with your heart and not your ego. Slow down and enjoy the little things in life and learn to appreciate them. Learn how to balance being in the real world and what your inner self wants. You may feel like there is no time for 'self-care', but sometimes it is important to shut down your mind and listen to your body (you could even feel tremors in your body that happen due to a lot of stress) Protect your health and well-being first.

message: "Every day there is a new opportunity to feel grateful for existing, to make good choices, and to celebrate living. Go out in the sun, ride or learn how to ride a bicycle/horse and feel the warmth of a sunny morning. Stop being a night owl, it is affecting your body and you know it as well. Don't let pride stop you from making mistakes and asking for help. You are not a disappointment if you fail or take help from someone else. Everything always works out, it always has and will continue to do so."

Thank you so much for reading!!!

[doumadono]

Emergency Request.

Hi author, i finally have the courage to share this. These past few years, I've been dealing with academic pressure, means im expected to be in the Honor's list. Every single morning i get yelled at especially when i didn't wake up early (my class starts at 12 noon till 6:30 in the evening) im really tired and yesterday morning, my mom threw a chair at my room because i wake up late. My heart was really really heavy that time and so i decided that i had enough. So while my mom was taking a bath, i stole money from her wallet, just wiped my body with wipes and got dressed. She thought that I'll be heading to school early so she didn't mind. When i left my home i got to my phone and searched 'psychologists near me'. It took me 3 hours to find a clinic that was open for people who didn't have appointments. Fast forward, hours later i arrived at the clinic and got consulted by a psychologist. Before the psychologist ask me what's wrong, believe me or not i already cried hard, cried and cried and told him all the unspoken pain i kept for years. To sum it up, they called my parents and consulted them too. I was a minor that time and it was already late so they really had to call my parents.

I only went to this route since i had no one to talk and cry on. With that being said, can i request todoroki comforting someone? Maybe the reader had the same situation as me but had no one to turn to except todoroki?

(This happened last year when i was at the 11th Grade. I finished my medications months ago and feeling more happy :))))

Embrace of warmth and chill - Shoto x Reader

A/N: it takes incredible strength to open up about such struggles, and I commend you for taking that courageous step. Remember that seeking help is a sign of resilience, not weakness. I'm glad you reached out to a psychologist, and I hope the support you receive brings you the understanding and guidance you deserve

EMERGENCY REQS MASTERLIST

In the quiet sanctuary of his room, Todoroki Shoto sat on the bed, contemplating the gentle dance of shadows on the walls. The soft glow of his desk lamp provided a muted atmosphere, and his mind lingered on the words he had just heard. The door creaked open, and there you stood, a silhouette worn down by the weight of unspoken pain.

His heterochromatic eyes caught the glimpse of your eyes, mirroring a storm of emotions. Without a word, he gestured for you to sit beside him. The silence lingered for a moment, heavy with the unspoken burden you carried. Finally, you broke the quietude, your voice barely above a whisper as you began to share the weight you had been carrying.

Todoroki listened intently, his expression a canvas of empathy and understanding. The warmth of his presence enveloped you, providing a sanctuary in the storm that raged within. As you recounted the struggles, the academic pressures, and the desperation that led you to this very room, he remained a steadfast anchor.

"I… I just needed someone to hear me out," you admitted, your voice cracking with vulnerability. "It's so, oh so hard, Shoto…"

He nodded, a silent acknowledgment of the pain you had endured alone. "I understand," Todoroki responded, his words carrying a genuine sincerity that reached the depths of your weary soul.

A subtle touch of his hand on your shoulder offered comfort, a silent reassurance that you were not alone in this moment. "Sometimes, it's okay to let others share the burden," he said, his voice a soothing balm to your wounded spirit.

In the quiet of that room, Todoroki found the right words, a delicate balance of empathy and strength. "I may not fully understand what you've been through, but I'm here for you, always," he affirmed, his stoic demeanor softened by the genuine concern etched across his features.

As the weight of your confessions lifted, tears streamed down your face, an emotional release long overdue. Todoroki handed you a tissue. "It's alright to cry. It doesn't make you weak," he reassured, his eyes reflecting a depth of understanding that transcended mere sympathy as he rubbed your shoulders.

Through the tears and the shared vulnerabilities, a connection blossomed. Todoroki, often reserved, found himself opening up in return. He spoke of his own struggles, the internal battles that defined his journey. The vulnerability he shared created a bridge, a connection that went beyond words.

"You don't have to steal moments of solace. There are people who care about you, who want to help you carry the load. And I'm among them."

The air in Todoroki's room seemed to shimmer with a subtle blend of warmth and chill as you found yourself wrapped in his embrace. As his arms enveloped you, you couldn't help but marvel at the duality of his touch. One side of him radiated a soothing coolness, while the other emanated a gentle warmth. It was a sensation that defied logic, a tangible representation of the conflicting elements within him.

You nestled into the crook of his embrace, your head finding a comfortable spot against his chest. The coolness seeped through your clothes, sending a refreshing wave across your body. Simultaneously, the warmth from his other side cocooned you in a comforting embrace, creating a delicate equilibrium.

His breath, a gentle rhythm, whispered against your hair, and you closed your eyes, savoring the unique symphony of sensations.

Todoroki's grip tightened ever so slightly, as if he sought solace in the physical connection just as much as you did. His usually reserved demeanor melted away in this shared moment, replaced by a silent understanding that transcended words. "It's okay. I promise that brighter days lay ahead."

[the-chosen-fanfiction]

Philip | Perfectly Compatible | Romantic

Dialogue prompt: “Aren’t you afraid of what your father would think?”

Requested: Yes

On your wedding day, you think back on fragments of memories that have led up to this day – how you met Philip as well as how you fell in love, and the marriage your father arranged for you with Rabbi Yussif.

You can barely see where you place your feet as your mother guides you to your future husband who stands at the other side of the aisle, your face cloaked with a thick kallah that shields you from any curious pair of eyes. You don’t mind it, for it prevents anyone from seeing the tears that shiver on the brims of your eyes, threatening to spill. 

Your mother squeezes your arm and places you next to your fiancé, whose arm you take tightly. Underneath your touch, you feel him flex, acknowledging your presence without saying anything. Soft music drifts around the room, the tension in the room tangible.

“You look beautiful.” he whispers with warmth in his voice, and you have to choke back a sob. Hearing your father exchange a few words with the Rabbi who is supposed to establish the marriage, you allow your thoughts to wander to fragments of the past, all which have led to this very moment.

_ 

The first memory your mind settles on is clear as day.

Lost, you stand in the bustling streets of Capernaum with something akin to hopelessness over your features, turning left and right in your search, appearing vulnerable more than anything. It is painfully apparent that you’re not from around here, but you are too preoccupied to be embarrassed about it.

“Excuse me– Shalom? Can I ask you—” 

Your attempts to ask for guidance are in vain and you are left to wander for what feels like hours on end. So much for a warm welcome, you bitterly think to yourself, but you aren’t here at your own will anyways. 

“Shalom, ma’am, you look like you can use some help.”

You turn to the sudden voice that sounds behind you with widened eyes and are met with the kind face of a man with dark wavy hair and a full beard. “You seem lost.” he says, and you flush. 

“It’s that obvious, huh?” you huff, but the stranger simply chuckles.

“Not to worry, I’m not from here, either. I’m from Betsaïda. I’m here with… Friends, if you will. What are you looking for?” His expression is gentle.

You clear your throat and tuck a strand of (h/c) hair behind your ear. “Ah, I’m looking for the synagogue, actually. My father told me to meet him there, and… Well. I’m not sure where it is, I’ve only just arrived minutes ago, and now I don’t know where to go.”

The man hums and nods. “I see. Coincidentally, I was just on my way there as well. Let’s head there together.” 

He smiles and the sight makes your heart flutter inside your chest for reasons unknown. With a word of gratitude on your lips, you walk next to him as you head for the synagogue. 

“So, does your father live here, then? I might know him.” the stranger attempts to make small talk. You give a small shake of your head and let out a small noise.

“Ah, no. We’re staying with friends for the time being.”

The man whom you do not yet know the name of frowns. “Why would he send you to find the synagogue on your own? A nice lady like you should not be going out on her own, especially in a village like this.�� The comment makes your cheeks red. “What are you planning on doing at synagogue?”

“Well,” you hum, “My father works there as a Rabbi.”

The kind stranger allows a sound of surprise to escape him. “You’re the daughter of a Rabbi? Now that is a very honourable position.”

“Do you think so?”

He nods firmly. “Of course.” the stranger states, “I reckon you must be familiar with a lot of Scripture.”

You give an affirmative answer and his brow raises, impressed. “That is very applaudable!”

Just when you think you can’t blush any harder, the man compliments you again. “Oh, only because I have been taught such things from a young age. I simply don’t know any better.”

The man shows his palms in defence and smirks. “Hey, all I’m saying is that it’s quite the achievement and that you shouldn’t just brush it off.”

In pleasant silence, you keep on walking through the village. You veer right and then left and right again, until the features of a synagogue appear. The pair of you head up the stairs and the man gestures inside, shrugging a bit. “Well, that’s the synagogue. I’ll be heading the other way to pray.” 

With a small hum, you take a peek inside and see the door your father had told you to meet him at, the second one to the left, and then turn to the stranger again. “Thank you. Without you, I would still have been lost for who knows how long.”

He laughs – a sound that is like music to your ears – and puts a hand on his chest. “It was the least I could do. Have a good day now. Shalom shalom.”

“Shalom shalom,” you repeat as he brushes past you into the building, and you momentarily watch him as he stalks off in preparation of his prayer. He seems like he has a kind heart, you think to yourself.

Clearing your throat, you call after him.

“Uh– Sir, wait a second!” The stranger halts and pivots to look at you, raising an eyebrow in question. You swallow thickly. “I didn’t quite catch your name.”

He chuckles. “Ha, it’s been a while since anyone has called me ‘sir’. I’m Philip.”

“A pleasure to meet you, Philip.” you say with a small smile. “My name is (Y/n).”

Philip mouths your name without any sound, as if trying to figure out what it feels like on his lips, and he grins with a subtle bow of his head. “Pleasure is all mine, (Y/n). I’ll see you around, perhaps.” 

You mirror his courtesy before turning to meet your father at last, a strange bubbly feeling setting your stomach aflutter.

–

Another fragment fronts. 

You sit with your father and a Pharisee you do not know. Your mother stands behind you, nervously fiddling with her hands, her skittish behaviour making you uncomfortable. The solemn expression on your father’s features makes you think that something is wrong, or that you have said something out of turn, and that you must now atone–

“This is Rabbi Yussif.” your father speaks at last. For a moment, your eyes flit to the young man who seems gentle in his demeanour, and he gives you a small, respectful bow of his head. Something shy shimmers behind his gaze.

“Shalom…” you greet him, uncertain. “I’m… Not sure what I’m doing here.”

Your father looks at Yussif, then back at you. “He’s going to be your husband.” he promptly states.

All air is being knocked from your lungs as your jaw falls agape at the revelation. For a moment, you think that your ears are deceiving you, but when neither of your parents say a word, you realise that they are waiting for your response. “What?”

“Your abba and I had not yet discussed it with you, dear, but we think this is the best for you. You are nearing your late twenties and are not yet married, so we were worried.” your mother explains, putting a hand on your shoulder. You resist the urge to shrug it off. 

“Worried?! What for? I’ve got plenty of time to find a spouse, what do you–”

Your father slams a fists on the table and successfully shuts you up in turn. “Don’t say a word, young lady. You’d better show some gratitude. We have found you a kind and Godly man, one that has devoted his life to the service of Adonai. He will provide for you and you will have a family with him. You might not understand me now but you will eventually.”

As you stand, the legs of the chair scrape against the tiles loudly, but you don’t flinch at the noise. “I-I refuse!” With tears in your eyes, you take a shivering breath as your father begins to protest your opposition, but you don’t hear him anymore. Rushing out of the room, you ignore your mother’s plea as she calls after you.

You miss the concerned eyes of Philip who witnesses you run out of the synagogue, grief visible on your face. 

_ 

You think back on the moment you ran into Philip a few weeks after your betrothal. 

"Shalom, (Y/n).”

You look up from your reading and find him a little away, holding a piece of papyrus. “Oh, shalom, Philip. How do you do?”

He smiles and shows you the scroll under his arm. “I’m looking for a partner to analyse this text of Isaiah with me. Prophecies about the Messiah, to be more exact. But no one seems to be very keen on doing so.”

Curiously, you smile. “That’s interesting. My father has taught me many things about it. I would like to study and discuss it with you.”

Surprise covers his features. “You would? I-I mean… Aren’t you afraid of what your father would think?”

Looking around to see if the coast is clear – after all, it was not necessarily conventional for a woman to chat with a man who wasn’t her family member or betrothed like this – and lean towards him. “He doesn’t need to know.” you whisper, which earns you a wide grin from Philip. 

“Wonderful,” he says, “Let’s find a secluded area so that we will not be disturbed.”

You leave behind your own study materials to go with him, keen on learning more about Torah.

_ 

You should have seen it coming from far away, yet you didn’t heed your own internal warning.

Rabbi Yussif was not a bad man in the regard of being an optional husband. He was nice enough and treated you with respect and dignity, yet the abashed nature of his being remained no matter how much time you spent with him in the run-up to your wedding.

In secret, you meet with Philip behind the synagogue to discuss Torah passages you read and to analyse prophecies to tie to your current day over the span of months. It was only a matter of time before you truly fell in love with him. 

You feel guilty. The man from Betsaida is not yet aware of your status and you aren’t keen on telling him either, fearing that he’d repel you out of respect for your future spouse, but it begins to nag at you. 

The two of you grow closer as time passes, and once he starts showing genuine interest in you when it comes to romance, you simply break. 

“I would like to ask your father for your hand.” Philip says to you one day. 

It prompts you to fall apart right then and there, your heart racing inside your chest as you begin to sob. 

For a few minutes, he holds you in silence as you cry against his shoulder, embarrassed. 

“I’m so sorry, Philip.” you whimper, “I-I hope you can forgive me for not telling you. I adore spending time with you and I did not mean to lead you on. I adore you. It’s just… I-I’m already engaged.” 

The hurt that flashes behind his eyes shatters your heart in a thousand pieces. Philip’s brow knits together into a frown and you cannot think of a moment you have felt more ashamed than the way you are feeling right now. “I see.”

“I-I don’t love him. My… My father wanted me to marry him. He is a good man, a Godly man, but I don’t love him the way I love…” Your sentence trails off and you gulp, rubbing away your tears with your sleeve. “I’m sorry, Philip, but we can’t be together.”

He says nothing, instead gives you a friendly hug before he steps away. “In that case, (Y/n), I want to apologise for making things so difficult for you. I don’t think we should see each other anymore.” 

The words that you have feared so much knocks all hope from you. Shaking your head, you whisper softly: “No, please, no.”

“It would be wrong of me to pursue you, (Y/n). It would not be proper. I’m sorry.”

Whilst tears ran down your cheeks, he stood and bid you a final farewell. You had never been so heartbroken before and you witnessed him stalk off, defeat in his shoulders, your hope for true love fading.

_ 

You remember the moment Yussif noticed something was up. 

“I know you don’t want to marry me.” he tells you with genuine apology in his gaze. “I’m sorry.”

Shrugging, you sigh. “Does it matter?”

“I think it does. If we are to be together for the rest of our lives, I want to know how I can help you feel better.”

A bitter comment poises itself onto your tongue but you swallow it, for Yussif does not deserve whatever negative thing you have to say about him. Even more so, it is not about the man himself per say, but rather that he is simply not Philip.

“There is someone else, isn’t there?”

Your eyes shoot up in shock and your jaw slacks. “How did you know?”

Yussif’s eyes are watery as he smiles wryly. “I didn’t, but I had my suspicions, and now I know for sure. I’m sorry that your father has not chosen him for you.”

Ashamed, you lower your gaze. “It is not because there is something wrong with you, Yussif, bygones. It’s just… What I have with him is just… My father would never approve, because he’s not a Rabbi. I wish things were different.”

“So do I. I think you are a beautiful woman, (Y/n), both inside and out. Any man should count themselves lucky to be at your side, and I really want to start a family. But what kind of monster would I be if I stole you away from the love of your life?” 

Dumbfounded, you stare at the Rabbi. Had you not been in love with Philip, you are sure you would have been able to love him. Under any other circumstances, you would have been able to see your parents’ side of things, for Yussif deserves a wife who can give him all the love he is worthy of. Kind, gentle Yussif, who is entitled to someone way better than you, someone who loves him in the same way he’d love her.

“Then what should we do?” you whisper on the verge of crying. 

With a wistful smile, Yussif sighs. “I think we both know what we must do to set this straight.”

_ 

You are snapped back to reality, out of the memories that have replayed themselves in your mind over and over again in the past months. 

The hymns sung led by the cantor die down at last as the ceremony commences, and you can hear your heartbeat drumming inside your ears. The flowers adorning the chuppah the pair of you are standing under flood your senses with their beautiful scent.

“Are you ready to be married?” your groom whispers just for you to hear, as the Rabbi takes his stance. 

You blink your tears away and smile at the sound of his voice.

“Yes, Philip.” you say underneath your opaque shroud, “More than ever.”

[meowzfordayz]

I believe in dom Sanemi and dom giyuu supremacy

I just see them as doms-

Sanemi hard dom

Giyuu soft dom

(Excuse my submissive ass brainrot)

Hullo! 😁 My own opinion’s similar to yours, BUT as a writer I also appreciate and enjoy opportunities to explore versions of characters that differ from whatever’s usually in my head. ☺️

Read more below! 👀

Another exciting thing about writing (and reading) is how a character can be “accurate” in ways that 100% contradict each other❣️ I tend to instinctively write Sanemi as a hard dom, but I can totally imagine him as a sassy, stubborn sub who’s difficult to (emotionally) penetrate #pun intended, but once you earn his trust and respect, ooh hoo hoo getting to feel, to watch him melt under your ministrations… nothing compares to his rigid muscles easing, glistening, coming undone, bc you get him so needy and vulnerable and soft too, and mmm 😋 11/10 I’m still a fan. 😏😍😂

And GIYUU. 😭💙 I’ve written him greedy (sexually), patient, smooth, awkward af, pussydrunk, frustratingly controlled, etc. Point being, while I generally envision him a certain way, writing is a great medium for emphasizing/expanding upon whatever characteristics best suit the direction you’re trying to go.

Just as many ppl are ambiverted (i.e. I’m an ambivert leaning introverted, whereas my partner’s an ambivert leaning extroverted), many ppl are not sexually homogenous. There’s fluidity, search, and discovery, and it’s perfectly okay for a character to exist in a multitude of variations. Especially when they’re fictional aka can’t tell us themselves aka it’s not like a writer’s disregarding their personal identification as X dom/sub by writing them as otherwise. 😅

Last thought! 😆 I’m likely overthinking, but the timing + vibe of this Ask did feel a bit… argumentative/condescending? 😕 I’m pretty upfront, btw, which is why I’m addressing this rn. I’m big on emojis + tone indicators (i.e. /s for sarcastic, /n for neutral, /playful, etc)—bc I’m not the best at interpreting intent via txt 😬—so w/o additional guidance I couldn’t tell whether this Ask was casual/adding to the convo/just typical thirsting 😉, or had defensive/ulterior motives.

[killed-by-choice]

Angela Sanchez, 27 (USA 1993)

Angela Nieto Sanchez was the mother of 12-year-old Maria and 3-year-old Martin. She brought her children with her on the day she went to an abortion facility.

Angela’s family later told the news that Angela hadn’t wanted an abortion. She’d been excited about the baby and hoped for another girl so Maria could have a sister. She’d been offered a “consultation” at the abortion facility, which advertised itself as if it was a clinic. Angela may not have been aware that Clinica Femenina de la Comunidad was an abortion facility when she got there.

Somehow during what was supposed to be a free consultation, Angela was convinced to undergo an abortion. Abortionist Alicia Ruiz Hanna frequently did this, offering low-income or undocumented people “free consultations” and talking them into paying her for an abortion. Deputy District Attorney Rick King later described Hanna as ″a wolf in sheep’s clothing.” The prosecutor for the case said, ″She’s very attractive, has a very soothing sounding voice… The clientele she reached out to - who were mostly illegal aliens looking for guidance - she would counsel them, which many times resulted in them having abortions done by her.″ As an undocumented immigrant, Angela was especially vulnerable to this coercion. She was and her third child were just two new targets in a long line of Hanna’s victims.

Angela had no idea that she would never see her children again. During the abortion, she began vomiting and foaming at the mouth, but the abortionist refused to call an ambulance.

Her kids were waiting in the lobby for hours wondering if their mother was okay. The abortionist’s assistant took them out of the building to a fast food restaurant and lied to them, saying their mother left the abortion facility without them. The distraught children couldn’t believe their mother would do that.

She didn’t. Angela had been killed.

12-year-old Maria returned to the abortion facility later with two friends and an aunt. They had checked local hospitals only to find that Maria’s mother wasn’t there. When they arrived, the assistant told them that they didn’t know where Angela was. Then a horrifying sight greeted the search party.

Young Maria saw the abortionist dragging her mother’s dead body and attempting to stuff her into a car trunk. The traumatized 12-year-old cried and attempted to hug her mother’s corpse, but Hanna physically restrained her.

When the police investigated, they discovered that Clinica Femenina de la Comunidad was guilty of even more crimes than previously thought. Hanna had gradually fired staff licensed as doctors and let unqualified employees operate and administer anesthesia to cut costs. She’d presented herself as a doctor, but she wasn’t one. California’s ridiculously permissive abortion laws let her get away with this for far too long since there was virtually no regulation or inspection of abortion facilities. Thanks to the evidence (including Maria’s testimony in court), the abortionist was finally arrested and sentenced to 16 years to life in prison. Nobody should have to go through what Angela Sanchez and her children went through.

https://www.latimes.com/archives/la-xpm-1994-11-22-me-303-story.html

https://www.deseret.com/1995/1/29/19156288/santa-ana-clinic-owner-sentenced-to-16-years-to-life https://apnews.com/753bbc083153ebaae0cc8a1270cc3e04

[the-daily-drift]

Tragedy Scripted and Staged

I chose Act 3, Scene 4 the “closet scene” because it’s intense and shows Hamlet’s anger with his mother Gertrude for marrying Claudius, who murdered his father. This scene marks a big turning point especially when Hamlet mistakenly kills Polonius thinking he’s Claudius. In the staging I watched Gertrude’s room was dimly lit making it feel tense and secretive, which highlighted the themes of betrayal and corruption. The actor playing Hamlet made him seem unpredictable and emotionally charged, switching from anger to desperation. He clearly wanted Gertrude to understand his pain which added depth to his accusations. The actress playing Gertrude looked shocked and uncomfortable making it seem like she might feel guilty about her actions. When King Hamlet’s ghost appeared only Hamlet could see him which made Gertrude think Hamlet was losing his mind. This detail added new meaning, the ghost seemed to emphasize Hamlet’s grief and loneliness showing how he’s still searching for guidance from his father. Watching the scene acted out brought new layers to the characters. Hamlet’s anger felt more real and complicated mixing revenge with sadness and vulnerability. Gertrude seemed genuinely scared and possibly regretful, making her character feel more complex. The staging made the scene feel like a real family conflict showing me the characters’ emotional struggles in a way that reading alone couldn’t.

[nik991]

Which Floor is Best to Buy in a Building? 

When purchasing an apartment in a high-rise building, choosing the right floor can impact your living experience and even the resale value of your property. Whether you are a first-time buyer or a seasoned investor, understanding the pros and cons of different floors can guide you in making an informed decision. For those searching for trusted builders in Delhi or builder consultancy in East Delhi, the Makhijas Group is here to assist you in finding the ideal floor and property to meet your needs.

Key Factors to Consider When Choosing a Floor

Several factors influence the decision on which floor is best to buy in a building. Let’s explore the primary considerations:

1. View and Privacy

Higher Floors: Often provide better views, more privacy, and reduced street noise. This can be ideal if you enjoy scenic views or prefer a quieter living space.

Lower Floors: While they may not offer sweeping views, they offer convenience, especially for those with families or who may need quick access to the ground level. In regions where traffic is high, lower floors may experience more noise pollution.

2. Safety and Security

Ground and Lower Floors: These can be more vulnerable to security risks. However, most modern buildings, particularly those from reputable builders in Delhi, incorporate advanced security features on all floors.

Higher Floors: Provide enhanced security, but in emergencies, such as fires, it can be challenging to evacuate quickly. Reputable builders, like Makhijas Group, ensure compliance with fire safety norms across all floor levels.

3. Natural Light and Ventilation

Higher Floors: Offer more sunlight and better airflow, which can reduce energy costs and enhance living comfort. These floors are ideal for those who want a bright and airy living environment.

Lower Floors: May experience limited sunlight and ventilation, especially if surrounded by tall buildings. However, quality construction from builders in Delhi, such as the Makhijas Group, often includes well-thought-out ventilation systems even on lower levels.

4. Temperature

Top Floors: Tend to be warmer, especially during summer. Many builders address this by incorporating modern insulation and cooling technologies.

Lower Floors: Often stay cooler, making them more comfortable for those sensitive to higher temperatures.

5. Accessibility and Convenience

Lower Floors: Ideal for easy accessibility, especially for families with children or elderly members. Lower floors are also more convenient in case of elevator maintenance.

Higher Floors: May require more elevator dependence, so look for properties with adequate lift facilities, a feature commonly included by top builders in Delhi.

Why Choose Makhijas Group for Your Ideal Floor?

The Makhijas Group, a premier builder consultancy in East Delhi, understands that each buyer has unique needs. Whether you’re looking for a cozy lower floor for accessibility or a serene higher floor with stunning views, the Makhijas Group provides personalized consultation to help you find the perfect floor that aligns with your lifestyle and budget. With years of experience in real estate, our team ensures that every aspect of your new property meets your expectations, from security to energy efficiency.

How Makhijas Group Can Help You

Choosing the right floor is just one part of the property-buying process. Makhijas Group offers end-to-end assistance in finding the ideal home for you, including:

Expert Guidance: We analyze your preferences and offer expert advice on the pros and cons of each floor, ensuring you make an informed decision.

Trusted Builders in Delhi: We partner with reputable builders to bring you high-quality construction and innovative building designs.

Builder Consultancy in East Delhi: Our consultancy services provide valuable insights into the local real estate market, helping you select the best property in the area.

When you’re ready to purchase your next home, reach out to Makhijas Group. With our support, you’ll find not only the perfect floor but also a space that enhances your lifestyle.

[mydnsdubai]

CCTV Maintenance Contracts: What Every Business Should Know Before Signing

In an up-to-date global, organizations prioritize safety. CCTV structures are crucial in making sure cosy surroundings for personnel are up-to-date and belongings are maintained. However, actually installing a CCTV system is not enough. Normal preservation is key to date, ensuring that your protection gadget functions optimally. A properly-based CCTV upkeep settlement guarantees that your device stays reliable and minimizes the hazard of unexpected breakdowns. For organizations, specifically in fast-paced cities like Dubai, information on the details of a renovation contract is critical before signing.

Information The Significance Of A CCTV Preservation Agreement A CCTV upkeep agreement offers ongoing guidance and ordinary checkups to date to ensure that your surveillance system works at its up to date. Corporations rely on these structures to be updated for day-by-day operations, deter robbery, and decorate ordinary protection. A malfunction in the device goes away, and you uncover up-to-date security breaches. Partnering with a reliable CCTV maintenance contract company in Dubai guarantees that your device remains up-to-date and purposeful, decreasing the risk of failure in important instances.

Without proper preservation, issues like terrible date, nice, digital camera malfunctions or recording errors can arise. When this takes place, corporations may also face pointless downtime, monetary loss, and accelerated vulnerability. Normal maintenance from professional technicians ensures those problems are addressed earlier than they end up luxurious. That is mainly authentic for businesses that work with safety gadgets set up businesses in Dubai, wherein ongoing guidance is essential for maintaining excessive safety standards. Key Up-To-Date Updated Search For In A CCTV Upkeep Settlement Before signing a CCTV upkeep settlement, it is important updated understand what it encompasses. Here are some vital additives updated:

• Ordinary Inspections: The contract should include regular inspections of the CCTV device. Those inspections assist in discovering and fastening minor problems before they improve. Preferably, those inspections are to be held at a minimum twice a year; however, extra common checkups can be required depending on the complexity of your system.

• Emergency help: an awesome CCTV preservation settlement provides 24/7 emergency assistance. Your security machine may additionally stumble upon issues at any time, and up-to-date spark technical assistance ensures that troubles are resolved quickly.

• Software program Updates and enhancements: current CCTV structures depend upon software updates to function correctly. A protection contract up-to-date cowl ordinary updates keep the device at ease from vulnerabilities. This is especially important for agencies that depend upon advanced era provided by using security system installation companies in Dubai. • Replacement of defective parts: Over time, positive additives of the CCTV device may also be put out or malfunction. A comprehensive settlement will include provisions for replacing faulty parts at no greater price, ensuring your system remains useful without unexpected fees.

• Clear terms and Pricing: make sure that the agreement presents clean terms about the services included and up-to-date any additional expenses which could stand up. This readability facilitates agencies' maintenance finances without surprises.

The Position Of A CCTV Renovation Agreement Organization In Dubai Dubai is up to date for its dynamic enterprise surroundings, and corporations running right here face precise security challenges. Working with a reputable CCTV maintenance contract company in Dubai gives peace of mind. Those companies understand the neighbourhood policies, security wishes, and environmental factors that might affect your CCTV gadget. With their understanding, you could make sure that your safety device stays powerful and compliant with neighbourhood laws.

Furthermore, participating with security machine installation corporations in Dubai that also offer maintenance offerings affords delivery fees. These groups can provide a holistic method, from installation updated ongoing upkeep, making sure that your security infrastructure remains robust and updated.

Signing a CCTV renovation contract is a crucial selection for any commercial enterprise. It goes past preserving your surveillance gadget operational; it safeguards your business from capacity security dangers. Expertise in the key components of an agreement, up-to-date habitual inspections, emergency support, and software program updates to make an informed choice. Working with professional security system installation companies in Dubai guarantees that your safety device remains dependable, allowing you up-to-date recognition when going for walks of your business smoothly. Continually assess the contract cautiously, and make sure it aligns with your precise security desires earlier than signing.

[caneiwestminster]

Protecting My Online Presence with a Trademark Attorney

When I launched my online business, I was excited about the possibilities. I set up my website, crafted engaging social media profiles, and started promoting my brand. However, it didn't take long before I realized that having an online presence also meant facing threats I hadn’t anticipated. This is when I learned the importance of protecting my brand with the help of a trademark attorney.

The Awakening: Recognizing Vulnerabilities

As my business grew, I noticed similar names and logos popping up across the internet. One day, I discovered a competitor using a logo that was eerily similar to mine. My heart sank as I realized how easy it is for someone to confuse my brand with theirs. I felt exposed and vulnerable. That’s when I decided to consult a trademark attorney.

My attorney explained that while my domain name and social media handles were crucial, they were not enough to safeguard my brand. Without a registered trademark, I had limited legal recourse against someone who might misuse my brand identity online. This was a wake-up call for me; protecting my online presence required a proactive legal strategy.

Taking Action: Securing My Trademark

With my attorney’s guidance, we quickly moved to register my trademark. This gave me exclusive rights to my brand name and logo, providing a solid legal foundation for protecting my online identity. My attorney helped me navigate the trademark application process, ensuring that all the details were correct and complete.

Once my trademark was officially registered, I felt a renewed sense of security. I knew I had the legal backing to defend my brand against infringement. However, I soon learned that this was just the beginning of the journey.

Monitoring and Enforcement: Staying Vigilant

As my online presence expanded, so did the potential for infringement. My attorney emphasized the importance of monitoring for unauthorized use of my brand. Together, we set up a system to regularly search for similar names and logos online. It was crucial to stay vigilant, especially on social media platforms and e-commerce sites.

When I discovered a new account using my brand name, my attorney quickly drafted a cease-and-desist letter. The prompt action was effective; the infringer complied and removed the content. This experience taught me that having a trademark attorney made all the difference in enforcing my rights.

The Long-Term Benefits

Looking back, partnering with a trademark attorney has been one of the best decisions I made for my business. I now have peace of mind knowing that my brand is protected in the digital landscape. The investment in legal protection has not only shielded my online presence but also enhanced my brand’s value in the eyes of customers and potential investors.

Conclusion: A Necessity for Online Entrepreneurs

If you're an online entrepreneur, I cannot stress enough how vital it is to protect your brand with the help of a trademark attorney. In a world where digital identity is paramount, safeguarding your online presence is not just an option—it's a necessity. By securing your trademarks and having legal support to enforce them, you can focus on growing your business, knowing that your brand identity is well protected. Don't wait until it's too late; take action now to safeguard what you've worked so hard to build.

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[daynewilliams1]

Exploring Mental Health: Male Psychologists in Cape Town

In today's fast-paced world, the importance of mental health has become a growing focus for individuals and communities alike. Seeking professional guidance to navigate life's challenges, more people are turning to psychologists for support and understanding. In Cape Town, the demand for mental health services continues to rise, and male psychologists are playing a crucial role in providing tailored care to those in need.

The Role of Male Psychologists in Cape Town

Cape Town boasts a diverse pool of highly skilled psychologists who bring unique perspectives to the therapeutic space. Male psychologist Cape Town, in particular, offer an essential balance in addressing mental health concerns, especially for men seeking therapy. Societal expectations often create barriers for men to seek help, with long-standing stereotypes that associate vulnerability with weakness. Male psychologists can help break these barriers by offering relatable insights, understanding the cultural pressures on men, and creating safe spaces for their clients.

A male psychologist can serve as a role model in therapy, particularly when working with male clients. He understands the struggles of masculinity, fatherhood, career pressures, relationships, and other issues from a lived experience. While this doesn’t necessarily mean that women therapists can't provide similar care, a male therapist may bring a different approach to issues traditionally perceived as male-centric.

Tailoring Therapy to Specific Needs

Each psychologist approaches therapy with their own philosophy and techniques, but many male psychologists specialize in areas where men typically feel more comfortable. This could include therapy for stress, anger management, career challenges, relationship difficulties, or substance abuse, which are common among male clients in Cape Town. By engaging with male psychologists who are experienced in these areas, men may feel more understood and less judged, making it easier to open up about personal issues.

Furthermore, male psychologists are not only for male clients; they work effectively with clients across all genders, age groups, and backgrounds. Their unique perspective on certain topics, such as fatherhood or male adolescence, can also be valuable for women and families seeking guidance in understanding the male psyche, especially in family therapy or couples counseling.

Breaking the Stigma of Mental Health for Men

Men in South Africa, like in many parts of the world, face cultural stigmas surrounding mental health. There is often pressure to remain "strong," and emotions are sometimes suppressed to maintain a sense of control. This stigma can discourage men from reaching out for help, leading to higher rates of untreated mental health issues among men. Depression, anxiety, substance abuse, and even suicide rates remain high among South African men, underscoring the urgent need for accessible psychological care.

Male psychologists can be instrumental in dismantling this stigma by encouraging open conversations about mental health. They can normalize therapy for men and demonstrate that seeking help is a sign of strength rather than weakness.

Finding the Right Male Psychologist in Cape Town

Cape Town is home to a variety of Psychologist Cape Town with different specialties and therapeutic approaches, from cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT) to psychodynamic therapy and holistic methods. It's essential to find a psychologist who aligns with your needs and therapeutic goals. Some psychologists focus on individual therapy, while others may specialize in couples or family counseling, adolescent psychology, or specific issues like trauma recovery or addiction.

When searching for the right psychologist, it’s helpful to schedule an initial consultation to determine compatibility and comfort levels. Many psychologists in Cape Town also offer remote or virtual sessions, making therapy more accessible to those who might find it difficult to attend in person.

 

Male psychologists in Cape Town offer valuable insights and support in the mental health landscape. Whether you’re seeking therapy for yourself, a loved one, or your family, these professionals can provide understanding, empathy, and practical tools for personal growth and healing. Breaking the stigma surrounding men's mental health is a crucial step toward a healthier, more balanced society, and male psychologists are at the forefront of this important journey.

[treatmentangel]

Navigating the Path to Recovery: How Treatmentangel Helps You Find the Right Rehab in Dallas

At Treatmentangel, we understand that the journey to recovery is both an emotional and challenging path. The search for the right rehab facility can feel overwhelming, especially when faced with the multitude of options available. Our mission is to provide compassionate guidance and support to help you find the best treatment option tailored to your unique needs in Dallas.

Understanding the Emotional Journey

Recovery is not just a physical process; it is deeply intertwined with emotional and psychological healing. The decision to seek help is a significant and courageous step, often accompanied by feelings of vulnerability, fear, and hope. At Treatmentangel, we recognize these emotions and aim to be a source of comfort and clarity during this crucial time.

Personalized and Compassionate Guidance

Every individual's journey to recovery is unique, and so are their needs. We take the time to understand your specific situation, including the type and severity of addiction, any co-occurring mental health issues, and personal preferences. Our compassionate team listens to your story, providing empathy and support, while gathering the necessary information to guide you effectively.

Comprehensive Assessment of Treatment Options

Dallas offers a wide array of rehab facilities, each with its own strengths and specialties. Navigating through these options can be daunting. Our experts at Treatmentangel conduct a comprehensive assessment of available treatment centers, considering factors such as:

Types of Treatment Programs: Whether you require inpatient, outpatient, or intensive outpatient programs, we evaluate facilities that offer the right level of care.

Specialized Services: Some rehabs specialize in dual diagnosis treatment, holistic approaches, or specific types of addiction. We match you with centers that provide the specialized care you need.

Accreditation and Reputation: We only consider accredited facilities with a proven track record of success. Patient reviews and testimonials also play a crucial role in our evaluation.

Location and Environment: The setting of a rehab center can significantly impact your recovery. We consider whether you prefer a serene, secluded environment or a more urban setting.

Tailored Recommendations

Based on our assessment, we provide you with a curated list of rehab facilities in Dallas that align with your needs and preferences. Each recommendation comes with detailed information about the treatment programs, facilities, staff qualifications, and patient reviews. Our goal is to empower you with the knowledge needed to make an informed decision.

Ongoing Support and Follow-Up

Our support doesn’t end once you’ve chosen a rehab facility. We stay connected with you throughout your treatment journey, offering encouragement, resources, and assistance as needed. Post-treatment, we help you find aftercare programs and support groups to ensure a smooth transition and sustained recovery.

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[tumblingxelian]

So, having received some wonderful comments in the notes I wanted to share some additional evidence to my above points!

With proper citation of course:

@grundpfeiler After Tai's 'lecture', Yang is shown demonstrating a leg sweep. Normally this would be used to visually indicate she heeded his advice and picked up what he was putting down.

Unfortunately for Tai, not only has Yang shown deft skill in leg work before now, her Volume 5 Character short showed her utilizing leg sweeps while coaching Ruby on CQC.

Thanks to @pictures-of-yxl for the easy images: She is familiar with this idea, she is not learning anything new here.

& before anyone says it was a simple mistake, I am going to be blunt, CRWBY are very careful with their visual storytelling & place a great deal of emphasis on body language.

There are fractional instances of miscommunication but those relate to the intensity of the acts, not the acts themselves. IE, Yang demonstrating a leg sweep was, in my eyes, undoubtable in the script in both cases.

Next up we have @bestworstcase

In Volume 2's Painting the Town Blake shows great distress when Yang is, by surprise, seemingly seriously injured by the Paladin.

Despite the seeming injury & how staggered Yang briefly looks, Ruby is entirely unconcerned, having the line:

Don't worry! With each hit she gets stronger, and she uses that energy to fight back! That's what makes her special.

This level of confidence in Yang's strength seems to be a recurring element in early volumes & so could have made its way to Tai from hearing Ruby talk rather than by anything Yang did. Assuming its not just him projecting his inaccurate mental image of Raven onto her again, or perhaps both.

Though for angst and intriguing, an example of Ruby's confidence in Yang can be seen inVolume 3's The End of the Beginning:

Ruby finds Yang still recovering from her injuries in a room that is not her own, seemingly depressed while Ruby is excited.

One can say she's happy Yang is not dead but she'd known that for awhile & had spent the intervening time trying to get information out of Qrow on the enemy. Its largely all business or dazed confusion until she sees Yang.

She is seemingly rather... Confused that Yang isn't simply bouncing back as usual.

Then, when distressed by all the revelations asks Yang for guidance despite how she is obviously not in a state of mind to give it.

Ruby: So, what do we do now? Yang: You can do whatever you want. I'm gonna lie here.

I am familiar with not getting social cues, but I do still think this conveys how much faith she had in Yang's unbeatable façade, especially compared to Yang herself given our next contributor, @sir-adamus who wisely highlight that in

Volume 2, episode 6, Burning the Candle.

Yang herself made it expressly clear how aware she is of her own limitations, weaknesses and vulnerabilities. Or in other words, she is far from arrogant or of the belief she is indestructible

Yang: I don't want you to stop; I want you to slow down. Yang: It's not a luxury; it's a necessity. Yang: There we were: A toddler sleeping in the back of a wagon and a stupid girl too exhausted to even cry for help. Yang: My stubbornness should've gotten us killed that night.

Ignoring Yang's self loathing for herself in the summary, (for something done at 5 & only possible due Tai's negligence) Yang chastises her own childhood self's "Stubbornness" & "Stupidity" two insults Tai has levelled at her in volume 4.

Rather than supporting Tai's case, this is another sign in my eyes he does not know what he's talking about.

Because it makes no narrative or thematic sense, to have Yang already maturely cover these issues if they were still major character faults of hers.

Blake:... I'm not a child, and this isn't just a search for answers! I can't just- Yang:... We're going to find the answers we're looking for, Blake. But if we destroy ourselves in the process, what good are we? Blake: You don't understand! I'm the only one who can do this! Yang: No, you don't understand! If Roman Torchwick walked through that door, what would you do? Blake: I'd fight him! Yang: You'd lose! Blake: I can stop him! Yang: You can't even stop me! Yang: I'm not asking you to stop. Just please, get some rest. Not just for you, but for the people you care about. And if you feel like coming out tomorrow, I'll save you a dance.

To have Yang advise Blake on how to avoid following a self destructive path because of the lessons she learned from this experience.

Only to have an, again secondary to minor character who doesn't even know how her Semblance works, turn around and say she has these exact problems makes no sense!

It means she not only learned nothing from that traumatic experience when she was five. It means she essentially became a whole other character for that conversation.

Plus, given how important this scene was for laying major Bumbleby groundwork, showing how Yang's anger, kindness and wisdom are all more controlled, more genuine and more real compared to Adam's, IE contrasting with her narrative foil.

I simply cannot imagine this scene and dialogue not ranking as incredibly important when it comes to writing Yang in future scenes.

In conclusion,

To take Tai at his word, is in essence to accept claims without evidence, critique without basis, advice without merit and descriptions of Semblances bereft of accuracy.

It is to embrace a form of story telling where major characters actions, dialogue and the structure of entire scenes can be overwritten by a few lines of dialogue.

All while neglecting the series overarching themes & removing integral story beats that serve for major character development.

I simply cannot take it seriously when it feels like everything in the show is screaming "He's wrong about this!" at the top of its lungs.

Thanks for contributing everyone!

A Necessary Post - Yang, Taiyang & Seeing Red

I debated this being a message or a note or a reblog, but ultimately this warranted an essay. Because a hatred of nuance is not even remotely the reason why Tai is critiqued as a teacher or father.

With that fact in mind, let's begin:

During RWBY Volume 4, Episode 9: Two Steps Forward, Two Steps Back Taiyang has a great deal of critical feedback for Yang regarding her fighting style, personality & Semblance.

The issue is that Tai's words and advice when compared to what we saw on screen before & afterwards demonstrate he does not understand how it works or how she used it.

So here for your reading pleasure if a more or less line by line breakdown of Tai's advice and why I don't feel it holds up & more to the point, why I don't believe Yang utilized it.

Taiyang: Do you realize that you used your Semblance to win every fight after the qualifiers?

Yang rightfully points out that her using Burn is no different than anyone else using their Semblances. I would add that Yang's Semblance only serves to enhance her already present abilities with damage taken in a fight. So her not using it would be stupidly holding back extra energy for no reason.

Tai's critique also fails to register that when using her Semblance to take out FNKI, Yang specifically disrupted the ground so Neon could not skate effectively & used the boost in power to turn Flynt's own weapon against him.

I will be addressing Mercury further down but she used it effectively and intellectually here and to great effect.

What's more, every other fights fighting style, weapons or both were literally built around their Semblances. Yang's threat level remains fairly consistent without her Semblance, all three of these other characters take a huge dip.

Taiyang: Because not everyone else's is basically a temper tantrum.

Ignoring that calling the manifestation of Yang's soul a temper tantrum is another in a long line if dickish things Tai says to Yang. Her Semblance literally does not work that way.

Her anger has jack and shit to do with it, this has been explained & demonstrated time and time again. Yang only gets a power boost when she's been injured, the fact she tends to be angry when using it is because being hurt sucks and she's usually in an intense fight. When the fight is going well and she still gets to use it she's not angry, as seen with a pleased smirk here:

So as before, Tai's critique is bereft of any merit, Yang's Semblance does not work that way.

Taiyang: I'm serious! Once you take damage, you can dish it back twice as hard, but that doesn't make you invincible!

Cite a time Yang thought she was invincible, cite it provably that Yang thought, said or indicated that she felt she was invincible. You can't because Yang never indicated as such this is something Tai is assuming about her at best.

& no her jumping in the Nevermore's mouth is not an example because she was not using her Semblance, did not take damage, it was a very effective strategy & seemingly either part of the plan, or was so easily understood that it could be safely and reliably worked into the plan. She wasn't using her Semblance here but finding evidence of risky behavior was hard, especially with her Semblance, go figure.

In fact every time Yang used her Semblance she did so only because someone landed a blow, which just happens in fights sometimes.

Taiyang: It's great when you're in a bind, but what happens if you miss? What happens if they're stronger? What then? Now you're just weak and tired!

We know what happens when Yang misses, she can swing again!

After the first blow on the Paladin she missed & needed help to catch it, her missing had zero impact on her Semblances.

As to what happens if they are stronger, um, she loses, that sometimes happens in fights. Its not something Yang can do anything about by holding back on extra strength. Not to quote Qrow but sometimes bad things happen. Other characters losing to stronger opponents don't get given this kind of diatribe's because its pointedly obvious that there was nothing to be done about it.

& on the final piece, she was very pointedly not weak and tired after using it. The only times she has been shown to be is when she was extremely low on Aura regardless in which cases not using her Semblance is a death sentence.

So again, we've established Tai's critique comes from nowhere & his understanding of her Semblance is nonexistent.

Taiyang: But you gotta keep your emotions in check. Keep a level head, and think before you act. Your Semblance is a great fallback, but you can't let yourself rely on it.

This is so painfully unfair it hurts.

No other character gets this kind of shit for expressing emotions in combat. In fact we see characters expressing emotions in battle all the time. Nor has she stopped displaying emotions in combat:

I already outlined how in all two of the Yang fights Tai actually witnessed she used strategy and retained excellent combat form. So again, baseless claims from Tai.

What's more, Yang primarily does use her Semblance as a fallback rather than rely on it in these fights. She only whipped it out against Mercury when he'd unleashed his seeming kill move on her and was confident he'd won.

Not using it here would be dumb and make no sense.

Yang doesn't rely on it to save her, she deploys it when it makes sense to & she has the energy or the need. This is more than we see from many characters.

Taiyang: It won't always save you. Obviously.

So now he is critiquing her for a fight he didn't even witness & knows jack shit about. So let's break this down once again:

Yang has spent the last 24 hours questions her sanity.

Yang's new home (Her words) is burning down.

Yang's sister is missing in all this chaos.

Then Yang's partner gets fucking stabbed, and the guy who did it is standing between them with a sword & gun, with fire all over Grimm all around.

Anything Yang can do he can counter, she tries to go around he only has to pivot. If she tries to fire from long range she might hit Blake. She tries an earth shock wave, she launches Blake into the fire.

She quite literally had no others options & zero time to try anything else because he can just shoot or stab Blake whenever he wants.

Taiyang: You definitely have your mom's stubbornness.

This, this right here is where all this is actually coming from. Tai is once again projecting Raven onto Yang despite them frankly having almost nothing in common.

With most of Yang's visible personality tells being inherited from Summer, such as the mother daughter shoulder check of V9. Thanks to chittychittyyangyang for the GIFs

Or as outlined in some songs with Yang's side of the lyrics explicitly citing how she is trying to fill the Summer shaped void in their lives.

Like the smell of a rose on a summer's day, I will be there to take all your fears away.

Taiyang: Your mother was... a complicated woman. Like everybody, she had her faults, but those faults are what tore our team apart. And, it did a real number on our family.

Tai blames Raven for tearing their team apart. Save that by all accounts, barring her absence things seemed to be going fine. Qrow seemed to be present in their lives, Tai looked happy, the girls were happy & Summer at least seemed happy though we know she was covering up a lot of dread.

Keep in mind Tai is projecting Raven, the woman he blames for destroying the team and damaging the family onto his daughter who literally kept the family together after Summer died. Yang's established this, Ruby has established this, its canon.

Yang: I had to pick up the pieces. I had to keep things together. Alone. (pause) Weiss, if you have something to say, then say it. Ruby: If you thought we wouldn’t come for you, then you must’ve forgotten who raised me.

Tai was not the one holding that home or family together. Unless you think the writers are gonna randomly swerve & say both Yang & Ruby are big whiny liars for some utterly nonsensical reasons. So no, I don't take him seriously as a narrator or critique of Yang, I have no reason to.

But let's push on, because I'm not done.

Taiyang: You both act like the easiest way to tackle an obstacle is through it. (pointing at Zwei) That strength is all that matters in a fight.

Ah yes, Raven, the woman famously known for thinking the easiest way to deal with an obstacles is to tackle it head on. That's why she spent years adorning herself in a Grimm helmet that hid her eyes & raised a False Maiden to serve as her body double.

A woman so inclined to rely on her own raw strength that when she was ambushed by Salem's forces she decided to trick them into an ambush.

Then when fighting Cinder and was at a disadvantage she freezes her in place while making Cinder think she is going on the offensive leaving her to be crushed by Stalactites & also utilized mind games to distract her & deal the finishing blow... Cos she only relies on strength.

As to his final piece of advice I already address it up above, there was no way around Adam, the situation was fucked from the start.

Saying it was Yang's fault she was dismembered is no more than victim blaming, I stood by that in Volume 3 to to this day & beyond.

Taiyang: But if you just take a second look, then maybe you see... (walking toward her, stepping around Zwei) there's a way around as well.

But let's actually look at Seeing Red & if Yang listened to Tai's advice or if she not only ignored it but did the opposite of what he ordered.

Let's see she goes in with open aggression & emotions, and also takes many blows rather than going 'around' them somehow.

Yang, as if she were 'indestructible' outright tanks a massively charged up Aura beam for the purpose of increasing her strength.

Then burns through all of her Aura & Semblance energies delivering one direct blow, relying on it to save her & leaving her weak & tired.

Or in other words, she:

Yang didn't miss, but we know that isn't a real issue anyway.

Yang used her Semblance to 'win' the fight & very much did rely on it to save her.

Yang expressed anger & many other emotions in the battle & still continues to does so.

Yang willingly took huge risks that involved her being able to take tons of damage rather than go "Around" the problem.

Yang knew Adam was likely stronger given it was 2 V1 but relied on her Semblance to get her out of that bind and she was in fact left weak and tired.

This is also the first time she has done several of these things, or otherwise demonstrated these traits, such as being left weak and tired or willingly tanking big attacks rather than just being hit by surprise or due to being overwhelmed.

I don't take Tai's advice seriously because none of it was accurate or aligned with the Semblance we saw in action or had described to us.

I don't trust Tai's opinion on Yang because his take on her is explicitly informed by Raven & not the Yang we spent four & then five more volumes getting to know.

I don't take Tai's words over Yang's, Ruby's or what we see on screen because Tai is at best a secondary or minor character & a recurring theme in RWBY is the failure of older generations.

These failures are not just in the past but how they have been consistently failing the next generation as the story is being told. There is zero reason to think Tai is some magic exception to this narrative trend when much more well explored characters like Maria, Qrow, Ozpin, Ironwood, Raven, and hell, Summer Rose are not.

& that is my stance on that, thanks for tuning in!