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#especially the transfem eggs that femboys love to claim makes up however much of thier community that they think is enough to warrant
0w0tsuki · 15 days
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I looooove your title,it's so real,i'm transmasc multigender(genderfluid + bigender)and super femme and so many other tboys gets so upset when i say the fb slur is a tma slur so i don't wanna be called it and say it's not our word😭😭😭😭If f*mboys were oppressed the world would be a better,they're annoying and fragile as shit.Btw your post i liked is queued,i'm in post limit jail but i hope you're havin' a good day!!
Funny you mention how you have to tell trans boys it's not their word cause like. They're not the ones who created femboy culture. It was transphobic cis gays. Like the 3 words back then were Trap, Sissy and Femboy. While all 3 meant the same thing functionally they served different purposes. While both Trap and Sissy revolve around disgust and revulsion, the former being disgust over attraction to the transfeminine body, and the other disgust over being transfeminized themselves, they are both generous to the heterosexual narrative of those involved. Femboy on the other hand implies with the word itself attraction to men, they still see transfems as male, but they are comfortable with their attraction to the transfeminized bodies they assert masculinity onto. Dude's who would say "Traps are gay but so am I".
And as time moved forward and it stopped being cool to be the guy who wears plain white text "I'm not a bigot I just hate everyone equally" on black T-shirts as his go to wardrobe, a lot of these chuds decided it would be easier to reconcile with their internalized homophobia than their externalized transmisogyny, and started adopting Femboy terms.
But then again them knowing that would require them to actually come to terms with the history and origins of its use. And they hate that more than acknowledging the presence of the openly fascist Femboy communities that make up most of their presence on sites like Twitter and Reddit.
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