#esp as a dykier girl

[lesbianyarnkit]

okay i’m speaking on something. the whole ‘men are easy women are scary that’s why i’ve never had a girlfriend’ thing. on the one hand, skill issue. on the other there is something to be said which is that when you treat a man the same way you treat women you’re trying to befriend he will fall in love with you. because the average level of emotional intimacy in cishet male friendships is so much lower. and so you treat him like one of the girls and he assumes you desire him carnally. meanwhile often when you’re flirting with women you basically have to say ‘i want you in a romantic way’ before they realize you’re not flirting with them as homies. so yeah. i still think it’s a skill issue. but i will allow that flirting with women does take a different approach whereas flirting with men doesn’t even take flirting sometimes