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[mylipsdontlie]

Modern Dating

Modern dating, personally, are dates produced by online dating apps or websites. It is good coz it connects people of different locations, origins, races, etc.

But there are two reasons why modern dating makes me sick in the gut.

1. Men who are already ‘in a relationship’, hop on to online dating platforms when they feel the urge to cheat on their girls. To either taste another woman’s body or be entertained by another personality. 

How does it work? They’ll meet you online, and if you are like me who’s got excellent online stalking skills, they’ll admit of their current girlfriend, then smoothly transition to “doesn’t mean we can’t be friends”.

Fckin epic. So a girl you’ve chatted with for few hrs, get physically attracted to, but can’t date coz you have a current gf, but can’t drop coz you want her to be in your radar, in case you get tired of current gf. That girl is not a ‘friend’, that girl is a prospect.

So if you are a vulnerable chic and agreed with the “friendship”, don’t be surprised when he only has time for you when the main girl is away. That sister is the start of you being a side chic.

2. Men, who are too cheap to pay for a hooker or who don’t want to risk exposing themselves to disease, will hop on to these platforms to find a free lay.

When you are gutsy, you can ask them “what are you looking for?”, you’ll be answered with “i want to get to know you”. But bitch watch out, their idea of getting to know you is by summoning you to come to their turf to “Netflix and chill”. You’ll be lucky if it’s paid Netflix, what if it’s just a torrented movie?

Why do these moves make me sick? These are situations wherein modern dating gets abused, just because it’s right at these men’s fingertips. And women get broken because they believed every fckin word he says, when in fact it was honest to goodness “bitch what were you thinking?”

Women are so big on “i am an empowered woman, i am stronger than you think”, but when faced with a situation like this - they get caught up making decisions, because the man in the situation is fckn hot.

Let’s not tolerate please. Let’s keep modern dating fun and fit for purpose. Let’s not breed entitlement. They are what they are because women allow them to.

(c) 14 May 2018 Shalom