#endless spoiling VS gentle teachings to be disciplined.. good balance

[petorahs]

papa!Churin potential......... much to be discussed.

I think Aventurine would be the best dad but the road to getting him to fatherhood itself must be paved with so much healing before it's even a topic with his partner i feel. that's what makes the payoff worth it :"] either that or he's so into the idea he skips every necessary step and just 😭 jumps straight into it. eager guy. definitely papa material.

but either way we know that he's secretly meticulous and a 'perfectionist' in his own way. he would never half-ass parenthood especially with regards to his past, he'd ensure they'd grow up in THE most comfortable and happy environment (see: Jade's text messages)

so he'd definitely and i mean DEFINITELY buy them anything they want, spoil them rotten, but also spend a lot of time with them teaching them what he wished he'd been taught. definitely the type to put family over work it's not even funny (if the question of "do you love your family more than yourself?" in the story wasn't enough of an indicator)

just........... papa!Churin :( the euphoria he would feel about an expanding family :) coming to grips with that happiness he doesn't really let himself feel now :( but he can feel it and he can be a good parent :) only a matter of time before he realizes it with some help and emotion processing :))) god why do i keep giving myself brainworms to draw. love this guy honestly.