#ended up as a general PSA to stop fucking dividing any community. for any reason
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How close can you get to the edge of a cliff without being afraid of falling?
If you don't know the height of the cliff, it really depends on your personality. Some might be bold, others cautious. This can be shaped by your experiences, those who have fallen and been injured might treat an apparent drop with more respect.
But circumstances are also important to remember. You might prefer to run off the cliff, regardless of the consequences, if you're being chased or attacked. The cliff face actively giving way and falling might push you back, or spur you towards it in an attempt to save a falling friend.
And all this is regardless of the height of the cliff! If you approach and note the way down, your decision might change. If it turns out to not be a cliff at all but a gently sloping hill, you could continue onwards. Or decide the path isnt where you wanted to go after all and simply turn around.
But for some, the cliff is insurmountable. A sheer or spiked face of immeasurable height. A dreadfully difficult or simply time consuming and exhausting ordeal to attempt to traverse. No matter how desperately they wish to arrive at their destination.
All this to say, there's innumerable reasons why one might transition. There's infinite obstacles or justifications for someone to not. At the end of the day, everyone had their own unique path and is simply struggling to arrive at the place/identity where they feel most comfortable.
Some may not have the opportunity to get there.
But each and every single one of us is valid and is entitled to whatever identity is claimed. Whenever the individual claims it. Instantly. Without penalty or judgment if the same decides to claim another simoultaneously or in replacement of the first chosen identity.
The right to self determination is one all should be allowed to enjoy
stop gatekeeping identities and labels
#Started out as a rant about how we shouldnt be saying “you have to do X when you transition”#or “all trans people must Y”#ended up as a general PSA to stop fucking dividing any community. for any reason#there's few enough of literally any group you can point at in any queer community#Maybe stop trying to thin the numbers by excluding people?#also tried really hard to avoid using any “person” centric language. Shoutout to all my non-humans/unpersons.#(I really tried to avoid pronouns at all other than “you”)#B/c this is abt all of us. Trans or not. Whatever identity/sexuality/group/community
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