#dr-drea🌙

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I think some people already made up their mind about bobbie being toxic and are now unwilling to see her in a different way

I'll be honest, when the season description was published, I wasn't too keen on Bobbie either, because 1. Its wtfock and I don't really trust them and 2. I thought they would go a completely different route than we're at tight now. But watching the clips I realised that Bobbie is simply just trying to help and be there for Anais, and also, she's just 16, she's trying her best. and I also think the show doesn't want us to think of Bobbie as the villain, or else twhy wouldn't have put so much emphasis on Bobbie helping Anais or noticing her when her friends didn't

Also, isn't the point of Skam that everyone is fighting a battle you don't know about, so be kind, always? That phrase always gets misused when it comes to genuinely bad characters with bad motives, but when it comes to Bobbie, it's suddenly radio silence lol

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To be honest i don't get why so many people are calling bobbie manipulative. Her actions on saturday really weren't cool and you could definitely call them problematic/toxic, but manipulative? i think she expressed her emotions very strongly and in my opinion honest way, but I don't see her doing something to get a particular response from Anais. I see her flirting with Finn in an "I am mad at you so I am doing something to hurt you, too" way and not in an "I will make you jealous so you will want to be with me" way.

Same, and also, they're 16, we can't really expect rational responses from any of them tbh

What Bobbie did was NOT okay, and its good that Anais just didn't take it and that Bobbie apologised, but also they're still trying to figure things out, they've known each other for 4 weeks, and two of those Anais couldn't stand Bobbie, and they've been officially dating since Wednesday only, they're still getting to know each other, and I think they also have a bit different expectations when it comes to how they want to navigate the relationship, I honestly think, if they talk everything out, and when they make their relationship public, there won't be problems in the relationship at least

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You were so right about Anais' patience!! If I was interrupted during my coming out and my girlfriend looked at me like that the whole time...

...I would've already flipped the table or something. Seriously how does she do it

Honestly same, and she's also only 16, I already have 0 patience but me at 16 was even worse, I really hope this is theblast time friends interrupt her, ever

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7, 15 and 46 for the spotify ask :)

7. Get into it (Yuh) by Doja Cat

15. Danza Kuduro by Don Omar and Lucenzo

46. Budget by Megan Thee Stallion ft. Latto

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tbh I don't get why people expect Hanne to be chill about this. Given her cousin's story and that Anais lied to her (and actually lied again in the clip), I totally get that she's worried.

Also, we know Hanne from other clips of the season. She's loud, she's direct and she's not known to find the best words in sensitive situations. I'm not justifying her behavior, she definitely has to work on herself for their friendship to work, but I didn't expect Hanne to behave otherwise.

Yeah, I honestly didn't expect anything else from Hanne, and I see her point, she definitely lashed out but she's a 16 year old concerned about her friend

Just like I said that Bobbie means well and is trying, so is Hanne

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I think that you sometimes drop by in people's inboxes to ask them how they are is a pretty underrated and actually really nice gesture, so... how are you doing? (:

Hi, and thank you!! <33

I'm good, just a bit stressed because of uni, but what's new

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Omg I also remember exactly what I was doing when the kieutou museum clip came out, it's almost like a core memory 😅😂 I almost cried seeing just how long it was and I had to stop several times because I was so overwhelmed with emotions!!

It IS a core memory at thus point, I remember being on tumbkr refreshing g the tag to see if the clip already came out, and I was surprised to see how long the clip was! And same, but not only with the museums clip, there were so many times I had to pause a clip to mentally prepare myself for what's coming next, those were the good times

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Why do you think Anais isn't wearing make-up anymore?

It could have some obvious reason, that with all of the stuff going on in her life she doesn't have the time/energy anymore to do it.

But I was thinking more of the symbolism of her make-up. In one of the clips Bobbie mentions that it is Anais way of rebelling against her parents, so it could also mean that she's getting weary of that? Especially since she's now facing consequences of her 'rebellious' behavior... ?

The way I thought the main plot would be Bobbie helping Anais to stand her ground with her parents through for example make up lmao, good times

I think it's because she just doesn't have the strength anymore, I feel like it's supposed to symbolise that she's not doing well, as she's generally into fashion, and loves a good and extravagant make up look, that's why I'm confused on how none of her friends have picked up yet that she's stopped it for now

I don't think its because she's facing the consequences of her "rebellion", since the rebellion wasn't targeted at her parents directly

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1, 8 and 22 for the ask game :)

1. The character everyone gets wrong

Calliope form First Kill, no one understands her like I do

8. Common fandom opinion that everyone is wrong about

That Calliope should turn into a vampire, that kind of defeats the whole dynamic of the show imo

22. Your favourite part of canon that everyone else ignores

I don't think people actually ignore it, but Avas and Fatous different hairstyles throughout s6, another reason why that season is superior

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my theory for hellweek is that anais will be both fighting with her friends and bobbie, because in hellweek the main character usually feels all alone. For her friends my idea is pretty close to what you said, for Bobbie I have several ideas (maybe Bobbie does something which is against Anais' morals, maybe she really is the one who stole Anais' bike? or maybe Anais decides to side with her friends in a particular conflict, idk yet, haha)

I think either something will happen that'll be out of anyone's control, but Bobbie will be the one to blame, or Anais "changes" so much that her friends blame bobbie, I think Bobbie will be pissed that Anais doesn't trust her and have her back, and her friends will be pissed that in their eyes she chose someone she knew for less than two months over them. I don't think Bobbie stole the bike, she was the DJane at the party in ep1, I don't think she'd had the time to sneak out and steal a bike, and their city seems to have a general problem with stolen bikes lol, also I still stand by the fact that Bobbie wouldn't intentionally do anything that'd go against Anais' morals or wishes, let's hope I'm proven right lol

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You like Eurovision? 😍

Yep, mainly because of @superflytrap who keeps me updated

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Idk why, but I feel the need to say sorry that wtfock messed that up. There isn't exactly an abundance of sapphic characters in general, and even less so with Nigerian roots. I hope you're not too disappointed right now... :/

Let's see what they'll do with the story in the next few weeks, but I'm keeping my expectations low from now on...

Omg you're so sweet 💕💕💕

And you have nothing to apologise for!! I should've known better than to get invested in a wtfock season lol, and same, my expectations are very low for now too

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I couldn't agree more with your post about Anais being easily influenced (by her parents/friends/bobbie). That's why it was so striking to me when Hanne said: "Since when are you so easily influenced?". Anais always has been! Hanne only seems to notice now, because Bobbie is a new source of influence and her views are contrary to Hanne's views.

So I really hope that at the end of the season Anais will finally be able to express her own opinions, not just mere repetitions of what someone else has said.

Yeah, before she was influenced by her parents, and there weren't any influences until bobbie came around, so it wasn't noticeable that Anais is easily influenced, because she never had the opportunity to form her own views, so her friends just ran with that. And now that bobbie is around, they actually can see how easily influenced Anais is, but the problem is they view bobbie as the cause of the problems, rather than Anais' most likely strict upbringing, so thwy blame bobbie instead, and knowing Anais, it's very likely they don't even know how strict her upbringing was

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How is it going with your thesis? :)

It's going I still have to redo some part, and I still hope I'll be done tomorrow

That's your sign to never procrastinate kids

Thanks for asking!!!