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i am. so normal abt natural habitats. SO normal (<- clearly Not Well)
#i cried 3 times#does NOT happen ofteb#(to be clear it's abt the fic. on ao3. by woodenpicador)#and im not even half in#crying screaming throwing up#heavens sake there's so much to say abt it and nothing at all#dreaming abt that i tell yall#only not livebogging it bc most of the time im reading where i dont have WiFi soo#BUT SERIOUSLY it's always in my mind like im thinking abiut nothing? wrong. Im thinking abt woman who makes bad decisions I and II#and like all of them it has not left my mind. In days#it's like a splinter that's fucking lodged into my brain only it doesnt hurt (mostly)#and I can NOONE of my irl friends GOD#js if it was a book id buy it fr#mitos incredible life#more or less incredible how am I gonna focus on anything else#yellowjackets#ig#EVERYONE READ IT (many many ppl read it but more should read it definitely it's like evedthuf)#anyways hi if youre still heree i dont actually think anybodys gonna read all of this. but as they say#'its not truly ur public trashcan on which u display the stuff u like best without fucking lamenting or somtheing#verbs suck
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it’s 2am i’m posting something i shouldn’t or uhmmm vague posting about a post i don’t want to respond to in reblog bc i don’t want to bother anyone (like this isn’t a big deal just an annoyance)
personally,
i don’t think the idea that misandry affects trans women negatively is transmisogynistic.
this is bc before i transitioned i passed off my want to be a girl as me wanting to not be hated for being a guy by my group of (progressive, and entirely queer (of course)) friends.
i might be kind of an outlier 4 this. a lot of weird brain worms contributed in keeping me from accepting what was in retrospect blindingly obvious. i probably have (had? it’s much better now) ocd tbh and so when someone said “men are evil” i was like “huh they’re definitely talking directly to me and i have sinned bc of the body i was born into and should probably die lol”. lots of weird stuff w sexual attraction re: that too, some stuff which is frankly private but also like getting a crush on a lesbian and wanting to kill yourself etc etc we’ve all been there :p
but ig my point is more just that trans women ofteb *do* align ourselves w men and boys pre transition and see those people as their in group even if they hate that that’s the case. so, no, it’s not implying that trans women are men to say that negative rhetoric towards men affects us lol (i’m sure someone somewhere has found a way to do that though. but i have not personally seen that happen). it does feel like misgendering in a weird way though. like using “us” or “ourselves” in that sentence kind of made my skin crawl bc i align myself in no way w men i don’t gaf about man hating jokes (i love making fun of men tbh, sorry to the guys im friends w ur special and i like you lol. ur one of the good ones lol. i can say “men are trash” it’s okay i have a boy friend (platonic)).
idk this is just one piece of rhetoric i disagree w in otherwise very good posts about transmisogyny. tumblr should delete my account and never let me post again
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