#do ppl suddenly turn around n go 'well its completely realistic that they'd abuse someone bc they were abused themself'

[the-shark-well]

full offense if u make AUs or headcanons where characters who r canonically survivors of abuse n are recovering from it are suddenly the abuser of their kid or someone else for "the angst" you're at BEST a fucking weirdo . and super gross .

abuse survivors who are recovering in their media's canon dont exist just for u to turn around n go "well abuse victims can become the abusers so its actually pr realistic !!" be fucking for real dude you dont care abt that . u guys just love romanticising the tragic abusive parents backstory to a sick degree that you never stop to consider that maybe , just fucking maybe , you should think abt how turning "nice story abt character recovering from their trauma" into "none of their recovery mattered actually they became exactly like their abuser in the end" is a fucking hot garbage take . Its cheap "angst" and its rlly obvious u dont care abt survivors at all .