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[lagoonalake]

Do you still have Enhypen mtl possessive reading? Can you repsot it please? 😭🙏

Hi :) Fortunately I remembered most of it, so here it is. 💗

ENHYPEN MTL POSSESSIVE

most possessive

SUNOO: 4 of pentacles

He literally got the "possessive card” so yes, once Sunwoo is in a relationship, you are his and he is yours. 

JAY: 2 of cups, 7 of swords

Jay is rather clingy and can be a bit manipulative in order to keep his partner close, not in a toxic way though. He just doesn’t want to lose them. He gets attached very strongly and value the intimacy and exclusivity a lot. 

JUNGWON: 2 of cups, 5 of swords

Jungwon also values the intimacy and gets attached easily. If his partner did something that would make him feel jealous, he wouldn’t be afraid to confront them and argue about it. Just like in the ideal type reading, I’m hearing “I have no time for this” so don’t play games with him! XD

HEESEUNG: ace of cups, wheel of fortune

He loves deeply, but he isn’t exactly possessive. He’s the type to think “what is meant to happen happens”. For example if his partner would leave him for another person, he wouldn’t try to keep them, he would accept it and would want his lover to be happy first and foremost. He is a bit sacrificial in love.

SUNGHOON: 8 of cups, 9 of cups

Sunghoon also gets attached, he wants to connect emotionally and deeply, but he only wants to deal with the easy part. The moment something triggers negative emotions within him, he’d rather leave than have to deal with it. 

JAKE: the tower, 10 of wands

Jake can act possessive but it all comes from a place of ego. Like “how can you look at this other person when you have ME?!!”. He is easily triggered and will make a big deal out of it, but he will get over it very quickly too. Not too many emotions here. 

NIKI: the magician, 5 of wands

Niki isn’t very possessive, but he can be competitive in a playful way. He seems like the type to think “everything is possible for me!”, like Jake it also comes more from a place of ego or pride rather than deep attachment. He wouldn’t be too attached to a person right now. “Plenty of fish in the sea” kind of mentality. XD

least possessive

[banjunky]

INKTOBER DAY 9

Today's song wonderland to hitsujinouta by hachi aka kenshi yonezu

The reason why i picked that song for turkey was because the song reminded me of my travels to turkey i do every 3 years to visit my families:3

And because sadık is totally the typa guy who would rude on a sheep and have a group of kids that oddly look like him follow him

Btw sry for uploading the drawings so late idk why i procrastinate so much on repsoting old drawings *cries*

[nikist-4-n]

𝐀𝐧𝐝 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐡𝐞 𝐠𝐨𝐭 𝐭𝐡𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐢𝐦 𝐥𝐨𝐨𝐤𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐟𝐨𝐫 ⋆.˚ ᡣ𐭩 .𖥔˚

Omg y'all thank you for 160+ followers (╥_╥)

I never thought that ill get so much followers so quick like wow.You guys really support what I do and post and im very grateful for that!

It feels like yesterday that I hit 100 and now im almost at 200 followers!Thank you to everyone who likes,repsots,and follows me so much!Im very grateful.

And special thanks to my mutuals:

@suzy143 @ilovebl75 @iwonzyou @qqmariztwsse @hyelita@budincito @vernonbsite @nayeondoll @v3gue @sleepd4rling @sgyuzzz @chaetopia @hanitos @wondolli @sullybabie @yk03q @sahittofu @i-kyujin @aericita @reiiofsunn @gigittamic @dollywons@eelysia @flowlur

These are most of my mutuals.

Im not forcing anyone to reply to me!

[foulthingluminary]

AHAHAHAH HIII GUYS ITS BEEN A WHILE HAHAHAH. SO LIKE TIKTOK MIGHT BE BANNED SOON SO I JUST MIGHT ACTUALLY HAVE TO POST EVERTHING ON MY FORGOTTEN TUMBLER HAHAHA!!!!!!

ANYWAYS EXPECT STUFF REPSOTED FROM MY TIKTOCK ACCOUNTSSSS

I WILL BE POSTING THINGS OF MY HYPERFIXATIONS AND SPOILERS BUT THE REAL JUICE WILL BE ON MY YOUTUBE WHEN I DO THE BIG TRASITION HERE SO BE PREARED!!!1!1!!11

[hungry-hobbits-art]

wip oc art ft @henrylevesconte's oc erik (left) and my oc reiner (right) that i want to post the sketches of cos i am happy with how its coming out lol

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[kingkatsuki]

Anon here, do you mind if some people repsot your work? I know most writers don't like it, so I just wanted to be sure.

Thank you for being respectful and asking, Anon! I love when people reblog my work, I hate when people repost it.💕

[jessmm7]

From Jodie’s story that Jordan repsoted (and they’re cousin/other sister Sarah too by the way!) it looks like they were hanging out before by the bar and Benny, Mase and maybe some others were somewhere else so it’s a group of people hanging out and nothing more. Mason sitting next to her means nothing and the hang on the back on the back of the sofa also means nothing I do that all the time with friends and it’s genuinely a comfort thing. Basically as if it wasn’f clear as day already, I think they’re close by default because Jordan hangs out with Jodie a lot and Mase is glued to Benny’s hip so they are in the same circles and hang out in the same group.

I don't know how you find this stuff out but I don't think there's much need to talk about it much more. It's clearly just a group of friends out together 😂

[fiona-ma]

Character from Ayesha's Secret

Aida

Do not repsot

#ayeshasecret #art #artist #digitalart #aisha #sketch

[uncloseted]

what do u say to a friend who seems to be falling to a transphobic path (via insta shorts). before she told me she supportss ppl's identities and pronouns but now shes repsoting bathroom trans women in bathroom content. where do i find resources and good evidence to help her im rlly sad abotu this

Ahh, that’s a hard situation to be in. Social media algorithms are so powerful in pulling people further and further towards prejudiced viewpoints. What to say kind of depends on the person- what their stated concerns are, what they’re actually worried about, and what kind of points usually get them to change their minds. That said, there are a few things I’ve had at least some success with:

The first one is to try and get the person to empathize with trans people. Usually this involves asking them how they would feel if people insisted on calling them [opposite gender version of their name] and using [opposite gender pronouns]. This is especially effective if the person has a nickname they exclusively go by, because then you can ask them how they feel when people insist on using their “birth name” instead of the name they go by. You can also ask them to reflect on their own relationship with gender. What makes them feel like they’re the gender that they are? How do they know their gender? Is their gender identity important to them? What does gender mean to them? Sometimes just getting them to reflect on what the trans experience is like makes a difference in terms of seeing trans people as people who just want to be respected instead of as a political football. Depending on how they feel about that line of questioning, another tact you can try is “born this way” - that trans people are born trans, and that it’s unfair to discriminate against them for something they can’t control. That was relatively effective when people were debating over gay marriage, and I think it works reasonably well here, too. This can also be a good place to point out that people who we might consider “trans” - that inhabit a cross-gender role in society, who cross dress, who occupy the social role of a third gender, etc. - have been documented for tens of thousands of years. It’s not a new phenomenon, despite the fact that people treat it as if it is.

Going off of that, it can be helpful to put the trans rights movement in a historical context. I like to remind people that they were losing their minds in this exact same way about gay people ten years ago, and then they all kind of got over it and the world hasn’t ended as a result. Is this really, substantially different than that, or do people just not like change? A lot of reactionary movements are just people who don’t like change trying to retroactively justify their discomfort, and I don’t think this case is any different. This works particularly well with the bathroom debate, because you can say, “we’ve always had moral panics about bathrooms. Until the 1960s, bathrooms were racially segregated in the US. Politicians argued that desegregating bathrooms would lead to a public health emergency because because “venereal diseases were commonplace among blacks, and an integrated ladies’ room would put white women at risk of catching VD from black women”. In the 70s, the Florida Legislative Investigative Committee issued a report warning of the dangers to the “health and well being of our population” due to gay men using public bathrooms, with particular concerns about gay men assaulting young boys in bathrooms. Obviously, neither of those things happened- there was no increase in VD after desegregating women’s bathrooms nor an uptick in child molestation because we allowed gay men to use public restrooms. Do we really have evidence to suggest that trans people pose a credible threat to public health or public safety? Or are the talking points about trans people in bathrooms the same as these previous pro-segregation talking points in that they’re not based in fact?

You can also ask them about the practicalities of their concerns. Assuming we did want to make sure that the only people allowed in women’s bathrooms are people who were assigned female at birth, how do we enforce that? Is there someone who will stand outside every public restroom and check people’s ID cards? Will women have a special key that allows them access to women’s restrooms? It’s not practical to go by “well, I’ll just know,” because lots of trans women “pass” and a lot of AFAB butch women don’t. In fact, AFAB butch lesbians have reported that they’re facing more harassment in public bathrooms than ever before. And ironically, this creates a situation in which trans men can’t use the bathroom that transphobes think they should be using- lest they be accused of being a man in a women’s space. Depending on the person, this may be the time at which you can point out that bathrooms bills aren’t really about protecting women in women’s bathrooms- they’re about creating a situation in which trans and gender nonconforming people are excluded from public life.

Along with the practicality concern, you can ask about practicality on the part of the trans person (or person they think is pretending to be trans in order to game the system). Sticking with the bathroom example, being a rapist who dresses up as a women and assaults people in bathrooms is a terribly impractical plan. They would have to, what, buy women’s clothes, dress up as a woman, wait outside a public restroom, wait for it to be totally empty, then wait for an unsuspecting woman to go in, follow her and sexually assault her while hoping nobody enters the bathroom during the assault or hears from the outside? Purely from a practical perspective, who would bother to do that? I’m sure it’s not zero people, but I don’t think the legality of trans people being in public restrooms is going to meaningfully change the number of sexual assailants that choose that method, right? If they’re going to do that they’re already doing it, legal or not. This type of argument also works for “men entering women’s sports to get an advantage” - practically speaking, would it be worth it to physically and socially transition and face the social repercussions of being trans all to try to get a slightly better chance at a college scholarship or to get a slightly better chance to win a professional sporting competition? Maybe those people are out there somewhere, but to me that seems like a huge, lifetime commitment for a very temporary career, and I just don’t think many people are going to do that. Plus, these kinds of arguments are red herrings- what they’re worried about isn’t actually trans people, but (mostly) cis men pretending to be trans for some sort of perceived advantage. It feels unfair that trans people should have their rights taken away because cis men might try to take advantage of those rights.

Again down the practicality route, you can try the, “what are you actually worried about?” tactic. People who are anti-trans will often claim that they’re not against trans people; they simply have concerns about a specific threat that trans people pose. They’re not against trans people; they’re worried about sexual assault in public bathrooms or they’re worried about fairness in sports or whatever. At this point, you extrapolate what they’re “actually” worried about- “oh, so you’re worried about sexual assault against women, that’s a really big concern for me, too.” Then you hit them with, “so surely you’re this concerned about [bigger problem], right?” This can look something like, “you must be really concerned about the 70% of sexual assaults that are perpetrated by someone the victim knows and the 67% of assaults that happen in the victim’s home or the home of a family member. What do you think we can do to protect women in those circumstances?” If you want to be a bit cheeky, you can say something like, “if you’re worried about sexual assault, you must be really concerned about the fact that 66% of trans people will be sexually assaulted in their lifetime.” Putting their concerns into a larger perspective forces them to either acknowledge that there’s a bigger issue they should be paying attention to or it forces them to admit their problem is just with trans people, regardless of where harm is actually being perpetrated.

In terms of resources, a lot of you will probably know that I really like Natalie Wynn’s YouTube channel, Contrapoints. It provides a lot of thoughtful and nuanced discussions of trans identity and transphobia, as well as discussing the mentality of people who are transphobic and how their minds might be changed.

I’m sure there are other trains of thought you can try and that these may or may not work for everyone, but they are tactics or arguments that I’ve found to be useful in my day to day life. Hopefully they’ll help a bit for your friend, too.

[skybristle]

wait i just posted something but i think tumblr ate it . chat did yiu see that or do i have to repsot it

[cantsaybiconwithouticon]

For a wild 5 months i didn't repost ANYTHING on my account on tiktok and i took 1 year and three months of repsots off of it, why?, i don't know, i just felt like everybody is gonna judge me, everybody is gonna laugh, they're gonna question me, they're gonna do anything i don't like or makes me uncomfortable with them, i spent these 5 months reposting two or four videos a day then un-reposting in the end of the day, i still don't know why tbh, I don't really understand, now i repost almost everything i want, and the things i think i can't are in silent reposts. Well, ig the purpose of this post is don't do things you're uncomfortable with them until you're comfortable, and if you never are, it's okay too!

[xanrukoo]

HOW DO I REPSOT 100 TMIES

I saw this dress on my Pinterest and really liked it- and what else do i like? Teruko tawaki. Two in one.

Also first post!! :3

[threeamserif]

[lynnani]

Be gay, do crime.

Please do not repost on other sites.

[metal-man1a]

I'm explaining this once, and once only. I'm not playing as the victim, never did never will because I know I'm not? And I'm pretty sure the post that I posted of the tiktok screenshot that she repsoted, yall both thought it was about her. But it wasn't, I simply posted it because I actually did find it relatable. But it wasn't directed towards Max, at all. And me going for trump shouldn't involve this, I'm fucking 14. Whoever my parents go for, I stick with them because I only know jacketshit abt president's. Also, she left me. I didn't leave her. And yes I did fall for someone else mid relationship. Hello?? I'm only human. But I didn't cheat on her or hide it from her. Matter of fact I told her abt it, stated I wouldn't leave her(never planned on it) and said I wouldn't cheat on her. I'm general I was hoping she would talk to me about it. I know max didn't do anything wrong. Now she's not completely innocent either, me and her both had wrongs in that relationship. But I don't hold any of it against her. Max was a great partner. I loved the shit out of her. And still do. And a few days before that message I gave her te opportunity to break up with me, it was for a different reason, but still. I know I was in the wrong, I was for a lot of things. But I'm not a horrible person and I really wish you wouldn't call me that. I downgrade myself enough for what I did. Also I didn't verbally abusive her, at all. I will admit I manipulated her, and what I mean by manipulate is I told her multiple times I could get better and begged her to stay. But I didn't realize that was manipulation, and when I did, is when I sent her that one message giving her the opportunity to break up with me., Idk what your real name is, so I'm going to refer to you as kirk., I didn't want to hurt her, I told her I wouldn't change. I'm 14 for fucke sake, and I still and forever will feel bad for what I did. But I did try in that relationship and will always stand by that fact. But please leave me alone. Please, I'm actually begging you at this point to leave me alone. I don't want to be reminded. Also I'm not rereading this so if any grammar mistakes I'm sorry. But also, I'm deeply sorry to max. But I'm not playing victim, that tiktok wasn't related to her. And yada. Ty for your time.

How does it feel to be a horrible person?

I'm not :D !!

[wulvercazz]

two Ko-fi requests for Viking!AU Grimmichi and Renji~<3

I should draw more for this AU again soon, — I really love how these designs came out💕