#disclaimer i am PMSing currently. so if i seem more upset than warranted that might be it. but i also i would be upset about this anyway | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

nowendil · 10 months ago

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nothing as stressful on this earth as being a guy who has a System for doing a thing that other people do all willy-nilly and then people try to be thoughtful and helpful by doing that thing for you but they just end up fucking up your System. and then you can't be upset about it because they meant well and you know that you're the weird one here anyway

#in other words my dad tried to help me by putting some of my clothes into the washing machine #but he put them on a wrong setting and it will be fine the clothes wont be ruined or anything but it judt Feels so wrong #Because I Have A System #but I cant even be like hey just so you know for future reference could you please use setting xyz when washing my laundry #because i have tried and he has just got upset with me because it's rude to nitpick things people do for you as a favor #and this is a bit my fault too for leaving my laundry next to the washing machine #i dont usually leave my laundry anywhere out in the open (i keep it in my room) to avoid these kind of situations #but idk. i just feel so stupid for feeling upset because i know that for most people this would be helpful why do i've to be so Particular #but also. it does hurt my feelings unfortunately. why cant people either respect the fact that i have a system and let me do it myself #or even be extra nice and try to ask what i want. that would be nice #idkkk i know i'm ridiculous with laundry but also i'm tired of people telling me how unnecessarily complicated and stupid my system is #it's important to me!!!!! why isnt that enough #disclaimer i am PMSing currently. so if i seem more upset than warranted that might be it. but i also i would be upset about this anyway

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