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lesbian-ed · 1 year ago
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Hi. I don't know if this blog is still active but in case it is I was hoping maybe to hear some thoughts from you, or maybe even your followers, about confidence and comfort towards one's own body. Like how to deal with anxiety. I am lesbian, obviously female, way too old, I've never had sex, or even really dated. I don't approach people romantically because I hate my body and distance myself from all chances for dating. I've been trying to lose weight but I've struggled with obesity practically all my life. I also think I'm much hairier (I mean it's everywhere and I'm not light haired either omg) than what is normal for most women, and I hate both shaving and just letting the hair grow. I have more or less given up on dating because I don't want people to see me naked or get close to me. Sometimes I feel I'm content but sometimes I feel this isn't healthy: it concerns me that my hatred for my body is keeping me from experiencing intimacy, and how long can that go on until it becomes psychologically damaging. Though who am I kidding - the damage's been done. I understand that people of all shapes and sizes etc. date, fall in love and so on, but I have this deep-rooted discomfort about my body that I've felt since I was around twelve. So I was hoping to hear some thoughts or experiences on how one might overcome this kind of persistent disgust, though I understand if this isn't the kind of ask you wanna answer. In any case thank you for reading.
Hi! I'm sorry this ask has been sitting in our inbox for a few months, unfortunately we don't always still have the time or energy to go through the asks anymore. I wanted to answer this, and I know it's so late but here's to hoping you might wander back here someday, and that this may help you, or another woman who feels similary.
I shared this view for a really long time (so much so, I identified as trans for a long time. I never felt "woman enough" because of my body). I struggled with being fat, hairy, "unwomanly".
When I was in school all of my friends got attention from boys and men, and I never peaked anyone's interest. Even though I didn't want to be with boys, I still craved that attention, I thought there was something wrong with me for being someone who no one would ever want. I punished myself with no eating, too much eating, self harm.
For me, what finally clicked was when I was first introduced to radical feminism, and through that I started thinking about the concept of inherent worth. I knew all women had inherent worth for being women, for being alive. I knew I had empathy and care for all women, regardless of thei appearance, and I thought they all deserve respect. That eventually led to the radical realization that if I think all women are worthy, then I must extend this to myself. I am woman, just as any other. And my external appearance doesn't change my self worth.
It really helped to stop seeing what is considered "ugly" as a negative thing, and rather to think of it as neutral, inconseqential, of no value. Instead of looking at all that was "wrong" with me as a bad thing, I took all power from it. I knew that I would never think badly of other women who looked like me, so why would I be the only exception?
Slowly, I was able to take away all the weight I put into my appearance, and became more neutral. Don't get me wrong, I'm not magically healed. There are still days where I'm reminded of all the ways that I don't fit into society's expectations for what a woman should be. I'm reminded of how terrified my mom was and still is that I'd end up staying fat. I'm reminded of aunts and uncles comenting on me losing and gaining weight since I was as young as 6 or 7. I know that being hairy, with dark body hair all over, is not the standard for what's attractive.
But those days have less weight in the grand scheme of things because no longer is my focus in life to be palatable. And I don't mean to come off like I have all the answers, that my way is the only way. I know this is not an easy journey.
But I think in order for you to start seeing yourself as someone who is worthy of desire, of love, of care, first you've got to see yourself as human. The more I look back at how people treated me growing up, at how people still treat me now, the truth is that society doesn't see "ugly" women as people. We are dehumanized, objectified as clutter, things in the way of what is "right".
I'm sure you're a kind and nice person. Look at yourself from the outside in, look at yourself as you'd look at someone else: what would you say to yourself then? Would you really think so badly of you then?
Be patience. I understand we have a lot telling us that we are not good enough, that aging is bad, that we have expiration dates. But as long as you are around, you are human, you are worthy of kindness.
Regarding the romantic aspect of this, I used to share your anxiety, that no one would want to look at me naked, that I would never feel comfortable undressing in front of someone. But then I met my girlfriend, and she made me feel so comfortable with myself that when we finally met and the time came to share intimacy... It just happened so organically, so naturally. It wasn't a performance, it was caring for each other. Not once did she look at me with disgust, not once was she anything but kind. I don't think it's just because she's some saint. I think when you care about someone, attraction comes naturally, and you don't separate body and mind. You just know that is your person, and you want them fully.
So maybe slowly working on allowing others to see you for who you are, not physically, but like.... Your personality. Open up. It doesn't need to be going on dating apps. It's just... surround yourself with women. Be around other women, love them, let them love you.
Things move slow, but self care can be just allowing a friend to tell you you're a good person. Accept compliments, even when your instinct is to tell others that they're wrong. Be kind to yourself. You deserve kindness, there is nothing about the way you look that is inherently wrong.
Posting this here so hopefully we'll hear from others as well, and hopefully you'll catch this one. Take care. Be well. You deserve good things, just because you're human, just because you're there.
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pixies-and-poets · 2 years ago
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I find it interesting that they gave Bwastrela five smaller version of herself. (I guess it does go along with her being an animatronic Rabbid that there would be more of her)
I’m also interested in their service. If you didn’t already know. Bwastrela dimensional drift departure doesn’t have a unique map instead it uses already existing maps to create different challenges.
You could say this is just something the devs did for an easier time and yes you might be right. But that answer is boring!
So I think her dimensional drift departure is actually her using Cursa’s Darkmess dimension for something of her own gain.
Maybe all these different drift departure has a greater purpose in mind. Perhaps something even devious.
I do wonder if Madam Bwastrela will be on our side during the Tower of Doooom. Or will she herself make our fortune true and enact our dooom?
Ether way I don’t know if you noticed or not but I love Bwastrela. She’s like the goblin of all the Mario RPG fortune tellers. And I love that of her.
It's very interesting to think about her because, was she a regular rabbid that got merged with an animatronic fortune teller? In which case she used to be able to move and run around and cause havoc and do all the normal rabbidy things but then she essentially became stuck in one place. There's a lot of horror potential there (it sounds like some kind of five nights at freddy's thing but idk I've never been into that). Maybe being consigned to such a fate is what led to her general negative outlook and obsession with doom.
So I wonder if, to make up for that, she actually really did gain a lot of supernatural powers and ability to tap into telling the future. Perhaps the ability to manipulate different dimensions, as you said (which would make her somewhat similar to Dimentio from Super Paper Mario- since I just love making these comparisons between my favorite Mario games haha).
I imagine she was able to convince or manipulate people to build other versions of herself so that she could exist in more places and that her spirit can occupy any of them as needed, maybe even be in multiple places at once. I like to think she can easily take advantage of a lot of other people by telling them they will meet with misfortune if they don't do this or that.
I hope we end up learning more about her in the DLC, and there is definitely a lot of darker menacing things about her and potential villain origin stuff, so I wouldn't be surprised at all if she turns out to be a threat, but also I'm not sure about it so we'll just have to wait and find out! Since she didn't actually have very much to do in the first game she really feels like a character they've been setting up for a long time to finally have a more interesting payoff, and that's awesome.
Because I am a fan of all Mario RPGs, I do love, like you said, that she fits into the "fortune teller" trope we've had with Merlon and his relatives, but is the weird rabbid version of that. We have the hapless archaeologist/explorer trope now too, my absolute favorite. I am really glad M+R has brought in some of the character parallels that were intentional repeated themes in the Paper Mario games (especially the earlier ones); I wonder if it's just coincidence or on purpose, but regardless it makes me happy!
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trashytoastboi · 3 years ago
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Hi! How are you? I absolutely love the whole system! It is so pretty and light!
Could I request something?
After time skip Zoro x overweight/chubby female reader nsfw where like.. Zoro tugs her on his lap and she freaks out, because she think she will hurt him and that she is way too heavy to sit on someone? And it goes from there.. nsfw.. and like fluffy nsfw?
(I dunno, hope it makes sense.. I just got told that I cant sit on anyone's lap, because I am on the bigger side and I am not sure if I wanna punch or cry, lol).
Please take care of yourself! Have some yummy food and plenty of water!
Heyya!🍀 thank you so much and of course! Sorry it took so long to get around to the request. Things have a been a little mad, I hope you're keeping well! And I'm sorry that someone said that, but its their loss 🌻 no matter the body shape/type/weight - regardless of any of that, you are beautiful/handsome/pretty as long as you remember that 😊 (That goes for anyone else reading this as well, TrashyToast is watching y'all. We shan't have negative self speak here 👀 or else I will bonk you with my love and praise bonker bat)
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NSFW Scenario: Zoro x Chubby! F! Reader – Beauteous Endeavour
Warning: NSFW (Riding, Missionary, Body Worship, Teasing, Oral)
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⚔Roronoa Zoro⚔
The moment the announcement for lunch was made, the entire ship seemed to fall silent as the bustle moved indoors and around the table for the hungry crew. Thankfully it was a relatively quiet day where they could afford to do it, hopefully after their meal, a post-lunch nap might even be on the agenda. {Name} was the last to enter, and the moment she opened the door she spared a small smile, seeing her crew so talkative around the table. On the other hand she felt a little anxious, looking around for somewhere to sit and noticing there wasn't a lot of space, although that was not entirely true. There was some space, however {Name} didn't want to make someone uncomfortable by sitting so close and the secondary worry arose about whether or not she would be small enough to fit. Usually she wasn't so aware or indulgent to those negative thoughts but ever since a certain incident, {Name} became hyper aware of herself in a bad way. The thoughts came more than once a day and were one of those normal daily occurrences at this point.
Zoro noticed {Name} looking a little lost amongst the bustling kitchen, and seeing how full it was. As soon as she was within reach, Zoro smiled and gently grabbed her arm and in a playful manner pulled her into his lap, {Name} felt her balance topple as she landed in Zoro's lap, feeling him quickly wrapping a comfortable arm around her waist. {Name's} eyes widened as soon as she realized what happened, shifting his arm off of her as she scrambled to her feet and stood up, hitting against the table in process and wincing slightly. {Name} apologized profusely; sporting a look of embarrassment and showing obvious signs of being flustered. {Name} bit her lip, silently worrying about hurting Zoro due to her weight. She awkwardly stood up and momentarily froze, uncertain of what to do, the entire exchange happened so quickly that no one else seemed to notice thankfully, considering how rowdy everything was already. {Name} receded a little, feeling upset about the incident and recalling the comment that someone had made about her weight. Something about being too big and too heavy, saying that she shouldn't sit in anyone's lap. It was the word of a complete stranger that happened to encroach on one of her deepest insecurities, driving the nail deeper and somehow making her more conscious of it. Even Zoro had noticed the reaction, believing it was something on the surface and not knowing what kinds of thoughts were in her head at that moment, he thought the reason she had acted that way was perhaps his grip was unintentionally too hard, or maybe he pulled a little too roughly? Or even gave her a fright. He kept running through things trying to make sense of why she had reacted the way she did. Zoro stood up, offering his seat to {Name}, guiding her against her protests to sit down as he squeezed in the space left between Nami and Sanji, much to Sanji's displeasure. {Name} thanked him , trying to play down the incident with a sincere apology and a sweet smile, all the while Zoro still felt that hint of worry.
{Name} was undressing, and changing into something a little more comfortable to sleep in. Looking up and catching a glimpse in the mirror, taking a moment to look at herself. A scowl settled on her features, softening into something a little sadder and her look only seemed to be filled with criticisms, falling victim to the spiralling thoughts of insecurity, so much so she had failed to notice Zoro's knocking and entering. The moment she heard him, {Name} instinctively covered up, and almost shrunk away from his gaze.
Zoro noticed that expression again, and the way she tried to cover herself up and hide herself away from him. Zoro took a step towards her, “Baby, what's the matter?” he inquired cautiously trying to understand what's been sitting in her mind. And the amount of times she had been pulling away from him today, from every touch she would shy away, uncharacteristically so. Zoro didn't like to dwell or overthink on matters, especially when he didn't know the cause. He was not one for assumptions as it could lead to more complications. For the sake of clarity it was always better to ask for her thoughts by asking {Name} directly. And that small smile came up again, denying that anything was amiss. Zoro reached out to cradle her face and {Name} flinched away from his touch “You're doing it again...” Zoro murmured, as {Name} clicked at her own actions, finally coming to the realization of what Zoro was referring to. “I'm sorry.” her voice softly apologised, {Name} felt conflicted as to whether or not she should tell him what was bothering her. Zoro grabbed her hand softly, testing to see if it was alright. Zoro brings her hand to his mouth, placing a few soft kisses on her knuckles. “{Name}, please talk to me” Zoro pleaded, his worry starting to weigh him down. It always tugged at his heart seeing {Name} in any form of discontent or sadness. {Name} mumbled out an answer that he couldn't quite make out, looking at her for the answer that was previously inaudible. “I was worried about hurting you earlier.” {Name} mumbled earning a look of complete confusion from Zoro in response. “Hurt me?” The statement genuinely left him at odds, and for the life of him he could not recall a single moment when {Name} had ever tried to harm him in any way nor when he had been hurt by her. {Name} could see he seemed confused by the statement. “You know when you pulled me into your lap earlier...” {Name} spoke, to offer some clarification and yet it only served to leave him even more lost than before. “Why would that hurt me?” Zoro asked with genuine curiosity. “Because...I'm too heavy...” Her voice trailed off, seeing the spark of recognition in Zoro's eyes. Finally he understood the meaning behind her actions. “Who said that?” his voice took on a slightly rougher edge, indicating a slight hint of annoyance, not at all directed at {Name} but at whoever said something so idiotic “It's not-”
“{Name}. Who said that?” Zoro insisted, inching a little closer. “It was just some stranger...it doesn't matter” {Name} sighed and muttered, trying to calm him down; not wanting to talk about the matter too much, because even if asked she could not give a complete answer as to why it aggravated her insecurity as much as it did.
“Have I ever said that?” Zoro asked, already knowing the answer as {Name} shakes her head. Zoro pulls her a little closer, placing a kiss on her cheek, another on her lips. His thumb lovingly strokes the back of her hand, as his lips continue to pepper her in butterfly kisses. {Name} felt a little better from all the sweet little affections from the swordsman and truth be told Zoro never wanted her to ever feel bad about her weight, he loves every part of her and something like being too heavy has never once crossed his mind. “I want you to sit in my lap, and hug me, let me pick you up if I want to {Name}, I don't care what some stranger says. They're not your boyfriend, I am. You don't sit in their lap either, you sit in mine.” Zoro reassured her, making sure she knew exactly how much she meant to him and just how beautiful she really was in his eyes. “If anything he needs to check his eyesight” Zoro huffed out more for himself than her. But having her overhear wasn't so bad. It helped her to feel a little better than she was earlier. Though insecurity was still rooted in her, it was something difficult to override. {Name} felt secure knowing Zoro thought she was beautiful despite the way she felt. If anything he had an over abundance of love for the moments where she felt she couldn't give the same love to herself.
Zoro's hand cradled her face, guiding her to look at him and with a reassuring smile captured her lips in a longer kiss, slow and sensual that took a gradual build to passion and desire. Thumb stroking her cheek as he pulled away, looking at her with adoration that made {Name} blush. “You're so pretty baby...I wish you could see that.” Zoro stated, pulling her in for another kiss before she could disagree. {Name} still defensively clutched her shirt to her body, feeling a little embarrassed that she only had the partial covering as everything happened before she could put her shirt on. Zoro rested his hand on her arm, trailing down to give a slight tug to the fabric in her hand, teasingly and playful yet all the while indicating his underlying intention. However Zoro could understand her state of mind and made no further actions until he made sure {Name} was comfortable. {Name} could not deny that she felt a little hesitant, and being caught off guard by the feeling of her back hitting the wall, she had not realized that Zoro had slowly been moving them closer to the wall, his hand coming up to rest on the wall, caging her in between the cold surface of the wall and the inviting warmth of his body. His fingers lifted her chin, keeping them locked in a gaze before directing his kisses to the sensitive skin along her jaw, down {Name's} neck and to her chest. The shirt {Name} clutched to her chest was proving to be in the way of what Zoro wanted to do, for a moment the predatory look in his eyes broke for a more pleading one and alongside the pleading was insurmountable love. {Name} still felt uneasy, and yet a genuine smile rested on her lips. The way her nerves felt, it was almost reminiscent of their first time together, {Name} lowered her arm, feeling Zoro's hand resting on her side, as the shirt fell to the floor. His attention never once diverted from her, the constant attention had {Name} feeling a little flustered as another wave of self consciousness washed over her; {Name} lifted her hands in an attempt to cover herself a little, as Zoro seized her wrists, pulling them away from her body, kissing her chest and looking up at her with a less than innocent smile. “So mean baby, trying to hide yourself from me” Zoro states, travelling downwards with his kisses, lower and lower until finally kneeling in front of her.
Zoro kisses her tummy, running his hands down her hips and tracing every inch of her, loving every curve and crevice with appreciation. No matter how she tries to deny it, every part of her is gorgeous to Zoro. He wishes to refute all of her criticisms, all the negative words and thoughts she bestows upon herself so freely, Zoro wants to replace those harsh words with the truth. Time and time again, he was determined to love {Name}, praise her, and worship her until she could finally learn to see herself for the amazing person she is, inside and out. Zoro rakes his fingers down, slipping into the waistband of her pants as he begins to pull them down, lightly sinking his teeth into her thigh possessively. As he slowly drags her pants down, his hand grips and runs down her thigh, lifting each leg as he pulls her pants off and tosses them away somewhere.
Kissing each thigh, Zoro inches closer as his teeth tug at her underwear, causing {Name} to squeak in embarrassment. Peppering her with kisses, looking up at her as he stands up, pressing closely to her body, {Name} can feel his hands grabbing her ass roughly, lifting her and encouraging {Name} to wrap her legs around his waist. Even without the nudging from Zoro it seemed to be the natural reaction. Zoro chuckles, seeing how flustered yet needy {Name} was, averting her gaze and chewing her lip with anticipation.
Zoro gently lays her down on the bed, chuckling when he sees that she is still clinging to him like a koala bear, finally letting go with the reassurance of the bed behind her. {Name} lets go, feeling her back hit the mattress. Zoro plants a light kiss on her forehead as he lowers himself, trailing kisses again, despite the repetitive actions it still had the same effect. Using his hands to map out {Name's} body beneath him as he digs his fingers into her thighs, spreading her legs as he settles between them. With a smile at seeing her reaction, he lazily drags his tongue across her inner thigh, hearing a sweet sigh leave {Name's} lips. Zoro holds onto her thighs, and slips her underwear off, all the while intentionally drawing out his actions. The second he frees her of the infernal piece of fabric he resumes the previous position. Seeing {Name} with her head laid back and her eyes closed, Zoro purrs seeing her all splayed out for him. “Baby...” he hums against her thigh, seeing her attention turn to him with heavy lidded and lustful eyes. She blushes the moment she realizes Zoro's intention as his tongue flicks against her clit, making her whimper at the sudden contact. His ministrations are teasing at best, watching intently at how he lightly strokes her with his tongue, “Z-Zoro...” {Name} mewls as his tongue suddenly enters her. His hands opt to grab her hips, keeping her in place while his tongue continues to please her, the feeling leaves her panting and the tension builds far more quickly than she could have imagined from a slight amount of touching and teasing. Subtly {Name} attempts to shift herself a little more away just to escape the overwhelming pleasure and catches sight of Zoro's gaze. A low growl rumbling in his chest and vibrating against her. Without thinking, {Name's} fingers run through his hair, encouraging him to continue and allowing her mind to slip elsewhere and away from her insecure thoughts. Her voice gradually raises in volume as Zoro continues, proving to be incredibly skillful with his tongue. Soon he had {Name} bucking her hips into him as she whined, feeling Zoro slipping a thick finger into her. Building her up, {Name} feels her voice hitch as her other hand goes to grasp at the sheets beneath her. {Name} throws her head back, anticipating that overwhelming release...as everything disappears. Her heavy breaths starting to even out as the sensation fades, she looks at Zoro with an unintentional pout “Why...?”
Zoro smiles at her mischievously, licking his lips as he sits up and begins to shed his clothing, catching {Name} staring at his body, especially a particular part of him that has been greatly affected by her. He almost wants to chuckle at her expression and seeing her so flustered, especially when she averted her gaze quickly the moment she realized Zoro caught her staring. Zoro situates himself on the bed gesturing for {Name} “Come give me a kiss baby” he appealed, watching {Name} moving towards him before shyly pressing her lips to his, of course the shyness was cute...but it wouldn't do. The moment she was within reach, his arms snaked around her waist, drawing her closer and planting more fervent kisses on her lips and pressing {Name's} body against his. The passionate kisses make her head spin, and before she realizes it, Zoro has guided her to straddle him. “W-Wait!” {Name} protests, finally realizing the position “Zor-” her protests are swiftly shut down by another kiss from Zoro as he cradles her face “What's the matter?” he inquires, a hint of concern and sincerity in his tone. “This position, i-it's uncomfortable” {Name} stutters out, Zoro raises an eyebrow “Are you uncomfortable?” he inquires, watching {Name} shake her head “For you...” she confesses, hearing Zoro sigh. His hand coming up to flick her forehead lightly “How else am I supposed to see my beautiful girl?” Zoro drawled seeing {Name} squirming slightly, and accidentally grinding against Zoro, earning a stifled grunt from him. His hand lightly runs down her back, gripping her hip as he keeps her planted in position, while bringing his lips down to her chest and lavishing her with kisses, caressing her body as her insecurity slips away, replaced by desire and impatience. Zoro suckles on the sensitive skin near her collar bone, moving up to her neck, nipping lightly. “Z-Zoro...If you're leaving marks I can't cover those all up...” {Name} states bashfully “I know” Zoro retorts. {Name} looks at him, feeling a little payback was in order for all the teasing, suddenly wrapping her hand around his cock and hearing Zoro's breath catch. Tentatively stroking and giving him some well deserved attention; Zoro covers her hand with his own, halting her movement “It's alright, I can wait” Zoro hums, {Name} ignores his words and continues her gentle strokes, enjoying the sound of him groaning with every movement. “I want you to feel good too” she muses, pressing a soft kiss to his cheek. Zoro sighs and grabs her hips, grinding against her and making {Name} moan at the sudden contact, {Name} peeks at him and bites her lip, finally getting the message and lifting her hips while hiding her face in the crook of his neck. Zoro patiently waits, rising to the occasion of her teasing as she seemingly refuses to give in and holds them on the edge of what they both want. Finally {Name} gives in, slowly sliding down onto his cock, listening to that low, elongated groan as he holds her tenderly, just appreciating the moment of sheer pleasure.
{Name} moves her hips at an unhurried pace, sighing with every slow thrust Zoro meets her with. He smiles as he kisses her ear “You're so beautiful {Name}” he purrs in a whisper, feeling her bury her face away from his sight again. Zoro smirks as his pace picks up, holding her hips to accommodate her movements as he lifts her and brings her down, keeping the pace steady as her breathing grows increasingly more ragged. {Name's} arms wrap around his shoulders for support, unable to hold back her moans anymore, Zoro can feel the desperate way she clenches around him as her release comes closer with every thrust. Pressing a series of gentle kisses to her shoulder, his hands hold her close “I've got you baby” Zoro states, feeling as her fingers lightly dig into the flesh of his back, seemingly breathless for a moment as the tidal wave of pleasure hits her. Zoro ceases for a moment, giving {Name} an opportunity to ride out the aftershocks and still feeling her faintly trembling in his arms. Zoro lays her down on the bed and without wasting a moment before driving himself into her again, setting a series of harsh thrusts, his lips kiss her roughly, swallowing every moan and gasp that escapes her. Setting a relentless pace to chase his own release, the coiling and taut feeling in his abdomen growing more evident. His fingers interlace with {Name's}, a gentle gesture that keeps her hand pinned to the bed, his thrusts grow slightly harder as he bites back a moan of his own, pulling out as he spills over her. Catching his breath from the feeling, kissing her with a gentle endearment and needing the reprieve of resting for a moment.
{Name} nestles closer to Zoro, the two settling down from everything. Zoro smiles at her seeing her snuggling closer to him instead of pulling away. “I think we need a bath” {Name} suggests, hearing Zoro approve of the idea. Watching {Name} standing up on shaky legs, he earns a smug smirk knowing it was his handiwork, though quickly waving away some less than innocent thoughts, Zoro stands up and wrap his arms around her in a quick hug “I'll carry you there~” he muses, nipping at her ear “Unless you intend to walk there on your jelly legs?” he laughs seeing {Name} grow bashful murmuring something he couldn't quite catch.
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groovyzombiellama · 5 years ago
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You Are My World
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Title: You Are My World
Requested? Yes.
Plot: You are a plus size girl and you are dating Dacre Montgomery, and when you start feeling insecure, he assures you that you’re the one he loves more than anything.
Word count: 1022
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You were always conscious of your looks and you have never tried to impose your feelings on anyone, nor make them feel bad for you. You never wanted that, but however, that only prompted you to close your heart even more and build a wall around yourself. Nobody could break it, and nobody really tried, that was until you started working behind the scenes as the set directors assistant on Stranger Things. There you met Dacre Montgomery, the man who was soon going to break down all your walls and make you realize how beautiful you really are. When you met him, it didn't really take long for you to fall for his dashing smile, and his gorgeous eyes. But following your introvert mentality, you would start thinking that there was no possible chance of Dacre ever noticing you. You figured that even if you were working closer to him, the highest he'd think of you is a friend bar, and nothing more than that. So you tried to put your feelings to the side, and focus on your work. You and a few other employees were getting a scene ready, following the directors orders when Dacre first noticed you.
Up until now, you were always hidden in some remote corner of the set, eyeing everything to make sure it was in the right place and nothing was missing or wrong. And of course you were eyeing Dacre a bit. But that day was the first time he had the opportunity to spend quite some time looking at you. The determination in your eyes and the ocasional smile you'd send your co-worker's way, it had him staring at you in complete admiration. And he couldn't help but smile at the dark red blush that overpowered your cheeks when you finally noticed him. There was something about you, something he couldn't really put into words, but he knew that he would be missing out big time if he didn't meet you. And when he finally approached you during a lunch break on set, while you sat on one of the crates containing items for the next scene, slowly munching on a protein bar, a bit embarrassed to be chowing down on something more significant, regardless of how much your stomach growled, the first thing you heard him do was click his tongue. You furrowed your brows at first, turning towards him, when you realised he was gesturing to your protein bar.
"There's no reason for you to still be hungry after lunch and have to work again after that, if not more than before. Don't look at the other people around you, in the end its gonna be you who will be doing the heavy lifting to make sure your job is done properly. Stop doing yourself harm and eat."
He finished handing you one of the sandwiches he picked up from the catering table, taking another bite of his own. After that first meeting, the two of you started hanging out more and more, and Dacre finally realize it was that big, amazing heart of yours that was filled with love that drew him to you. You felt really good in his company, not having to worry about judgement or him looking down in you, and every single day you spent together, the two of you grew closer and closer, and you didn't even think before accepting when he asked you to be his girlfriend. You didn't have to think about it. The guy you were in love with just told you he loved you back, there was no doubt in your mind that you wanted to be with him.
At first, the two of you dated in secret, not wanting to attract any unnecessary attention towards yourselves. You just wanted to enjoy your relationship. And unbeknownst to you, it was also Dacre's attempt to make sure you didn't start being down on yourself again and ask him all the questions he knows all too well that you'd ask. Some of Dacre's fans speculated that the two of you were together, but nobody really had any concrete evidence to support their claims. And then a group of fans spotted you as you were sitting in a restaurant, across from each other, smiling and laughing as you chatted, with a bright glimmer in your eyes. People would probably even think it was just a friendly dinner between two friends, following your cameo in the show, but as soon as Dacre placed one of his hands on top of yours, taking it, to place a delicate kiss on your knuckles, the cat was out of the bag as the group of fans started snapping photos.
The moment that removed all doubt about the relationship was when you were getting up from the table, after paying, and Dacre placed one lock of your hair behind your ear, cupping your cheek, before leaning in to give you a peck on the lips. That's when people started looking for all your social media, and the moment to be overwhelmed has arrived. Upon arriving back to your home, convincing Dacre to go his way and you would take a cab, you were bombarded with messages from his fans, some good and some not so much. As you started reading through them, all your old insecurities came rushing to the surface, and your heart started beating fast, as tears blurred your vision. Was your appearance such a deciding factor on weather you should date Dacre for so many people. The response to your relationship were actually positive in majority, but this negative comments stood out to you so much, that you barely even saw people who were happy for you. Walking over to your mirror, you scrolled through the comments as you checked yourself out. That little voice in your head was back. It was once again telling you that you were worth nothing, that Dacre doesn't really love you, and is with you out of pity instead, that nobody can ever love you, because you don't deserve it.
Suddenly, a knock on your door took you out of the trance you were in. Who would be knocking at this hour?
"Come on, Y/N, let me in, please. Don't listen to the haters, just talk to me."
You started to walk towards the door and with a shaky hand pondered weather to open the door to your loving boyfriend or not. He wasn't giving up, so you decided to take a deep breath and open. As soon as you did, Dacre engulfed you in his arms, not even bothering to close the door behind him at first. But after you spent several minuted sobbing into his shirt, he cupped your face, after slamming the door closed with his foot, and placed a loving kiss on the tip of your nose. Every time he did that, you would smile, and even though you were fighting it now, you still couldn't hide your lips curving upwards.
"Look at me gorgeous. You are my world, no matter what anyone says. Do you really think I'm the type of person to be with you out of pity? You can't let our relationship change just because some people don't see us fit to be together. I asked you to be my girlfriend, not "any other girl that I could have". I asked you, and you know why? Because I love you, so freaking much, from head to toe. Please believe me when I tell you that you're my kind of perfect, and that I want to spend forever with you, just the way you are."
He followed it up with informing you that you should change yourself only if you truly wanted to, not because of him, or anyone else. His words brought tears to your eyes, but this time, they were happy tears, and you were so glad to have his in your life, because you wanted to spend forever with him too. And it hit you that after almost a year of dating, he told you that he lived you for the first time. You both agreed to say it when you feel it the most in a certain moment, and he said it now, when you needed to hear it more than ever.
"Im so lucky to have you, thank you. I love you too baby, so much."
"Im the lucky one darling. Now how about we cuddle a bit on the sofa before going to bed, from now on, I can proudly tell the world you're mine."
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I hope you liked it anon <3 let me know <3 thanks for requesting a plus size imagine, it got my own feels out during writing <3
Also, guys, I found a new obsession for myself, in the form of Diego Tinoco / César Diaz 😍😍 so expect some of him in the future too 🤟❤️
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stormbornbastard · 6 years ago
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Daenerys Targaryen Rant
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Look, I'm new to the GOT fandom and being on Tumblr overloads with you a lot of information at once. This fandom, is like the definition of toxic and for what? Ships? I have to laugh.
I'm only gonna address one thing but believe me, I've got a list so let's do this shit.
One thing I've noticed is the overwhelming hate against Daenerys Targaryen, for her cruelty and impulsiveness in some of her actions. In no way do I agree with all of them but I refuse to reduce her complex character and story buildup to that of a villain or a mad queen.
Daenerys has simultaneously figured out to be loved and feared all at once by her people which is fucking amazing. She was not born with the same training to rule as other highborns. She was not given some handbook on how to be the perfect fucking queen for the people and herself. She makes mistakes and acts impulsively but not at all times and the times she has, she's paid for them greatly and if she hasn't learned from them now, she will. Its trial and error with her, it's the only path of ruling and conqueror she has.
By no means do her mistakes outweigh her good deeds. Daenerys has done questionable things for her claim to the throne but honestly at this point, who hasn't? (Jon isn't aware of his claim so just don't)
She's not just some benevolent and perfect ruler who shows mercy to all and does nothing wrong. You wanna know why? Because that ruler doesn't exist. No real person is capable enough to do that because real people are flawed and since GOT tries to reflect real people in their characters, Daenerys is flawed too.
Those flaws do not make her incompetent enough to rule nor do they take away all that she fought to overcome and gain (screw anyone who thinks that shit was just handed to her, her name didn't mean shit. The Targaryens had been discarded before her and the name and entitlement can only get one so far, look at Viserys for example if you need to)
A lot of people want her to be more compassionate and empathetic with her enemies and people who pose a threat but why should she? Her enemies have never been compassionate and empathetic with her. Daenerys was raised with cruelty, she was only shown cruelty by all those who were supposed to love her which is why I believe she has no problem being cruel to those who pose a threat. It's all she's knew, the cruelty others for a very long time. As much as you wanna discard her backstory, its integral to shaping the person she is.
We have seen her ability to grow as a character and show more than the death and destruction that Targaryens have left behind. She cannot learn all the capabilities of a kind and good queen when she has rarely known kindness and goodness herself. But she is growing, her sacrificing a dragon who she considered a child of her own in an effort to help defend the north against the white walkers (without Jon bending the knee first) shows her ability to put people before her own political even fucking personal interest. (Another impulsive action that she paid/ will pay for and fucking learned/will learn from. Also can we acknowledge the fact that instead of holding animosity towards Jon for the death of her dragon like she could've, she empathizes with him and instead wants to help him destroy the night king BEFORE he bends the knee all while grieving her fucking child! Dany had no indication that he would bend the knee if she helped him, none. Yet she still wanted to help him destroy the night king and protect the north and it's people regardless!)
A lot of people have ridiculously high expectations of her even though when she started the show, she had no political experience, no good social experience, no military experience, no experiences one needs to rule. Yet she gained them (she wasn't given some wise person along her entire path to help her do it either) and she gained a council of people to advise her and that she trusts with her life to become a better fucking queen and to give her knowledge when she lacks it because she knows she doesn't know everything about ruling. She's aware of almost all of her flaws and she's worked to improve on them. She's not the second coming of Robb Stark (we all wish he was still here) but she is Daenerys motherfucking Targaryen and that means something and not because of her ancestry.
Do I want her to receive the iron throne? Fuck no. I hope its destroyed along with the wheel.
Do I think she doesn't deserve to be a queen? Fuck no, she's earned it.
So stop discrediting her and fixating on her bad qualities when there is so much more of her to see.
And for fucks sakes, stop pitting her and Sansa Stark against one another. They both are remarkable fucking women who have coped with terrible shit to become who they are and they're situations as rulers are rarely the same. Most of y'all are hating on one of them because she gets in the way of a ship and its pathetic.
Sansa helps protect and maintain the north as ruler and was born a Stark which means something there and gives her some kind of respect. Dany is a fucking ruler and conqueror and the Targaryen name held nothing but negative connotations of destruction, failure and death in GOT society before her, she is consistently judged by the sins of her family. She's not familiar with every land she plans to control but she wants to be, wants to be a voice for the people and those who are oppressed just as she was. Conquering and ruling a new kingdom and ruling a well established one that you grew up in (therefore she's familiar with customs, the people and ways of life in the north) is nowhere near the same thing.
I'm not discrediting Sansa, I love her and she's an amazing ruler but she had some aspects afforded to her that Daenerys doesn't.
I know she's got an ego but shit, if I had done the things she did and overcome the things she has, my head would either be too fucking big to fit through my front door or I would've offed myself before Dany gained her first dragons (I honestly don't know if I would've had the strength to get past that point).There is no question about her strength and resilience because she's got a fuck ton of it.
One more thing, after Jon bends the knee and she says "I hope I deserve it!" THAT SHIT! THAT NEEDS TO BE FUCKING TALKED ABOUT! Dany isn't as collected as she paints herself to be, she doubts her actions just as everyone does theirs but she does it in secret. She's just not in a position to be open about her insecurities and doubts which is why she doesn't show them to anyone. She's never really been. Dany has never had family who genuinely and unconditionally loved her like the Starks have their entire lives. She has never had the comfort of confiding in someone like they have or trusting someone the way they do. Even now, the people who love her mostly love her for what she can offer them and what she represents, not who she is. She's always relied on herself for that which is probably why she's not as open and vulnerable as people would like her to be. It could even be said without all she represents or her dragons or her power, no one would love her.
She's grown up without it. Abuse taking its place, she would have no one without her claim. The starks would have each others which is why I think she holds onto it and enforces so much. Her claim has given her people who love her, the things she can offer have given her the people that love her. That sucks but it what it is.
Her questioning her ability to rule, her insecurity shows that she will not let her pride and ego get in the way of being a good queen if she gains the seven kingdom. Just because she exerts confidence does not mean she is overconfident or stuck in the belief of her entitlement to the throne. She worries she will not be the queen the seven kingdoms need which is exactly why she could be. Because those thoughts will keep her vigilant and attentive to all the shit she's needs to get done once she's no longer prioritized with conquering.
And to address her motives, or what I believe are her motives, Dany likes power. Why is that a bad thing? For a long period in life, she was considered weak and powerless, a pawn for those with power. She knows what it means to suffer (the death of her family, her husband [Stockholm syndrome but let me not start because she did love him], her only child Rhaego, and her dragon who she loves like a child, being raped, etc.) She knows it and she will never allow herself to be powerless again, she will never allow herself to be weak (I'm pretty sure she associates vulnerability with weakness at this point) in the face of threats, potential allies and the suffering of her, her people or both.
Why is that a bad thing? For her to be powerful, because that's what she equates it with strength. Power keeps her from weakness and I think it's why she strives for as much as possible so that she will never know that feeling of powerlessness again and so that her people who depend on her will never know suffering at the hands of the powerful again. It's not because of her "selfish belief that she deserves it." She wants it and forced herself to belief she's entitled and deserves it because while on the throne, she can secure protection from those who would do the horrific things she's endured and seen with that power to those without it.
She may result to cruelty when needed but that does not make her an evil person/ruler (yes I know about the Tarlys who refused to bend the knee for her. She made a power move, seeing as there were witnesses and the men who witnessed could see her not delivering on her threat of death as a weakness and eventually try and move against her, and she killed them. Now they all know she means fucking business. Also the Tarlys betrayed House Targaryen and Tyrell and were responsible for the death of thousands of Tyrell men. This is all Daenerys know of them, why do ya'll just ignore that. You act like Dany killed an innocent or someone she had a strong emotional attachment to but that's not the case. Her action was a strategic, political move and they chose to defy her when she gave them a choice) It wasn't right but it instilled fear, she cannot rule with just love. You can love someone and still plot against them, if people fear the consequences of what could happen if they fail, it'll hold them back. She needs both fear and love to rule. Loved enough to fight for her, feared enough to not move against her.
It's one a.m. but I had to get this off my chest, so yeah, I'm done.
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1st I have to say this b4 I repeat the post from fb. This is a place where I can speak my mind freely without judgement, speak my peace even. Which is exactly what im gonna do so prepare for a read. So think what u want idc, but the last thing I wanna do is tick some1 I know off cause on some level there's a mutual appreciation & respect regardless of my impression. And anyone that reads this isn't obligated to understand my opinion & I dont expect u to. With my brain its my thought process to let information out of my head so I can put things aside, observe & absorb more lol. Writing is another tool or coping mechanism for my anxieties & other psych ailments, treatment for my mental health depends on it & other hobbies in other words, especially during shutdown, something to focus on. Heck even youtube is recommended by my doctor if it keeps me happy lol. But because ill be working again, I may not have time to do alot of things I like sadly..idk i just wouldnt want to be burnt out & focus on more important things. I have a high respect for anyone working around people during this time & it must worrisome for u too, means I have to keep on my toes as well soon..its a scary world out there for an introvert but I was killin it in NY too. It was just a slow steady process with all the limitations & moving my life up there wasn't easy to begin with but I pulled through & did it all...only for it to be taken away.
So, I'm an Irish, German, Canadian,British Mut from tucson. Maternal & paternal immidiate families lineage mixed made me, including my NY blood from my bio dad. The rest is all over Europe but u get the idea. Tucson may be where i was born & my 1st home without a father & raised not knowing (were mardi gras babies btw 😒)
But NY is & will forever be my 2nd home i dont care what any1 says, I felt I belonged there. Its the other half of me quite literally.Theres a memory that's really been bugging me. Last day b4 i left it, a bald eagle flew across my path in the sky no joke going NE & I was departing back to the SW. I chose the eagle years ago cause I identify with it. including the background symbolism in different phases of my life that included them lol, but to actually see one was just amazing.
They symbolize strength+freedom in general despite it standing for the country from sea to shining sea lol. Also Braviary was always in my pokemon team besides pikachu since its gen came out lol. I've always been strong, whether some believe it to be true or not is their problem, only I know the things I've gone through. Point is different ends of the spectrum its always been with me throughout in some way & im glad i got to share it with someone that gave me the freedom I needed.
But yea I experienced what its like to be there & got to know that part of me even if I didn't find him & maybe didnt care...I feel I was meant to be there. I was in touch with my roots, lower Temps & above sea level rather than high temps & below sea level 🤣 I loved everything about my time up there. It'll always be a part of me, & I hope to see it again. But I digress.
But in regards to the relationship itself, emphasizing on what i said b4. Just as it i got "settled" in it was gone & I had no clue what was happening without my knowledge, the whole plan to bring me back, all of it, the whole chain of events that unfolded the way it did starting with leaving a marriage in the 1st place to be with him i mean come on lol. Chasing a dream that didn't play out the way we had hoped. I took leap of faith & I ended up starting over twice in 1 year with no benefit of the doubt. I still have my ny health insurance for the rest of the yr, I have to add it to my list to apply again in az. Ive been wearing the wrong prescription glasses for 6 months under quarantine & they're just now getting to stage 4 of opening lol. Just understand how frustrating that actually is for someone like me & u totally get it 😅 U want to take care of business but sometimes you're limited & gotta work around it. had all that covered there & then was told I settled, wrong thing to say & its no wonder I didn't blow up in his face right there & then 😒. But I have retraint & can control myself. Though it was out of my hands the new relationship didn't have to go sour, been just as long if not more, could've actually thrived given the proper balance with room to grow. Idk, Sometimes I honestly don't think anyone believed in me. I mean I have no debt, no record, no kids, im a clean slate type of girl lol. Yes I did end up feeling unappreciated, underestimated, a bit neglected, insecure about my body, ashamed for being myself, & I shouldn't have to feel that way at all & if that happens there obviously something off. I just didnt know what it is he wanted & needed, i wanted to help & be a good partner to this dude but why is it bad to ask the same in return? I shouldn't have to drastically change myself to fit someones standard i know, but...i needed the old him back, I missed the old us & wanted to get back to that.. Was always so closed off & probably ended up in his own head who knows, maybe there was guilt for some of the things he did & didnt want to hurt me anymore, spare my feelings any more than it did b4 it was too late.idk whatever the excuse i still don't know what triggered it all to fail so easily & i don't think i ever will. But ending up with the conclusion that I was the problem, its narcissistic to even believe that & i won't accept it. Not when he can't confront his own issuse & put blame onto himself too.. it was a low blow & literally felt like my heart was pierced at the sound of it. If im to blame its the other way around as well. My point of view wasn't acknowledged so this is my take & experiences of happened so plz dont hate me for speaking my truth.
But yea I can tell when somethings not right & feel strong empathy for others emotions. I knew something was different, there were signs everywhere since the mistrust started & during the last half of that time with him I questioned everything but sat in my own headspace as well as he did just thinking about it. If anything we failed eachother, the blame is on us both but idk what else i could've done to get through to him. That's the stubbornness, he wouldn't budge. Despite how things went down..Leaves me to think, what was the point of having me there in the 1st place, to not follow through with our shared hopes & dreams but instead spiral into such resentment for me that the interest faded. But at the at the same time...even if it ended early for him, I didn't give up & I fought to keep us okay which it was for the most part. Hindsight is 20/20, it definitely wasn't negative all the time. In fact things were great between us & acted like goofballs together, that right there is a friend despite if the stronger feelings weren't mutual. Nobody with hate in their heart acts like that, he was good, the best, cheered me up when I was down, shared interests & did things for eachother. But that alone makes me question what was truth & what was fiction sometimes ever since the trust between us started to fade. Am I in the right to feel what im feeling right now? Im angry & upset yes very, but the kindness he had throughout..he did care in his own way...which makes things so much harder.
Tripadoodle if some way you're listening, I hope u know now where im coming from. For your own benefit & quest to be a better man like you always wanted...actually try. Head my advice. Making yourself better shouldn't be put on a womans shoulders to do for u without her getting lifted in return...its alot of weight to handle for 1 person to carry lol. Get off your ass & build on yourself, learn from everything that happened & become better for yourself & the sake of others, Because it starts with u. Go to church if possible or watch them, it really does help. Even from across the country I still want u to do just as good & help u as a friend. You promised we could remain friends & im holding my end of the bargain whether u like it or not lol it was your idea during the ride here. All I wanted in the end was to not lose u in my life completely...but i should be patient i know.. Theres more space, im not contacting u directly & respecting that, eventually ill stfu lol but I feel I need this rn. I should hate u,but I cant hate u, I do still care, u had that affect on me so much that I can't really listen to others when they say ur a douchbag lol, u were still my rock the whole time even if u didn't feel the same after a while & u did help me alot as well. I see the good in people & u are good, with well balanced snarkiness & humorous sass to boot. light a fire under ur own ass & ull be okay lol. Never stopped believing in u. Ive seen what you can do, you're very smart & know your sh*t, u will go far lol. And as a friend I'd lend u my strength if I could but the most I can do is pray for things like safety/protection, healing, forgiveness, guidance, etc. Leave it to God if u feel compelled to. Give zanabell a hug for me.
God i talk way too much 😅 No im not doing any of this for attention, I want my voice to be heard as well as a possible learning experience if it had that effect on anyone. The things we learn build character & help us understand a little more about ourselves. Probably shouldn't share cuz its nobody's business, yea ive thought of that too.. But its a blog lol, Tumblr allowed it to be that space, opinions and rants are allowed & encouraged. Nothing wrong with that 🤷‍♀️ so who gives a crap.
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These are pictures of the NY sunrise & AZ sunset. Clouds always get me cuz of the shapes, used to to take pics of them all the time. once saw mario holding a hammer when I was a kid 😂 3rd & 4th pic is a split rainbow, never seen that b4...either someone found the gold or its deciding whether or not to connect. Probably was connected but I missed it lol. But then I looked behind me after the split 1 disappeared & a double rainbow was forming. Nature can be scary but also beautiful
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My Top 5 All-Natural Anti-Aging Secrets
My Top 5 All-Natural Anti-Aging Secrets
Like most people, you have probably heard hundreds of well-intentioned adages about growing older. Read this article to find out how you can feel and look younger than you are.
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Enjoy yourself! This is a great time for you to do the things you want and to make wonderful things happen. Look at every day as if it was your last.
Get a lot of water. If you are older, you are more prone to dehydration. Everyone should drink at least eight glasses of water per day.
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Today it is considered wise, healthy eating to include a diet that is high in anti-oxidant foods for individuals in all age groups. They help fight against free radicals. You can find antioxidants in fruits and veggies that are richly colored, including spinach, carrots, tomatoes and blueberries.
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Getting fit and eating a good diet are great ways to avoid common growing older problems like loss of energy, loss of memory, and putting on weight. Eat a healthy diet, get plenty of exercise, and stay active to stave off the negative effects of getting older.
Use primer for applying makeup to wrinkled skin. This product is somewhat new and it uses silicone as its main ingredient. Primers will reduce the look of wrinkles making your skin look more smooth.
Keep your youthfulness longer by exercising regularly. Studies show that people who get regular exercise and follow a balanced diet show fewer signs of age than those who don't. Exercise is vitally important to a quality life, especially as a person ages. Exercise keeps skin looking supple and young, but it also improves muscle tone, encourages circulation and improves stamina.
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Shawn Fitzgerald from the director burn offices strength news yesterday I was searching for news items new interesting unique items for my show trend news and I happened to come across this article as advertisement it just came I just came across it of a skincare it's called better various skin care solution that makes you look 20 years younger takes away all your wrinkles and I couldn't believe it you know I know there's a lot of things on the internet and so they can do this but this was there with two things that caught me with us and first of all was the price it's for 49 I mean studying the price over of a meal you could take the skin the skin care solution and if it didn't work you to lose much money and secondly the before and after pictures which are fantastic and all the comments from the ladies and the men detractors also it's also for men now I'm in no way an advocate I don't work for this company I don't even know who they are they got a famous doctor on there as well so I was very intrigued about it I thought I'd share this this article with you guys so that you could you know you you and this is something that maybe you could try I don't know here's the article from the foot mom daily I'm not going to go through an extensively in the article I'll leave a link on my online in the video and you can go and check it out yourself but I'll just go through some of the pictures and what they say about this it starts off with the usual wording you know there won't need to buy something where would you spend 449 to look 20 years younger this is the question this miracle miraculous wrinkle remover does exactly that doctors call it better than Botox okay let's take 49 right there better better quarter better than Botox right okay when someone thought my husband was actually was actually my son that was the last straw she said we got the chance to sit down with a 71 year old woman who found an amazing new youth serum I used to just ignore those little wrinkles that started when I was about 40 but one wrinkle turns into a big one and it just leveled now interesting according to experts wrinkles and sagging skin get hot and hot Street as the months go by what women don't realize is that you don't just get a few more wrinkles every year your skin becomes increasingly weak and wrinkles multiply that old looking skin can be caused by poor diet sun exposure or lack of exercise things that most of us do without do without even thinking about as time goes by it gets harder and harder to treat your wrinkles okay so let's just go through some of this I mean this this is like a famous doctor and I've seen him on DSTV he's probably seen him on that on TV as well and he's showing this before and after and look at that further but the most interesting part is about this woman this woman there were 70 else there before she's seven years and look at her now I mean where is all over wrinkled squat I mean this is before and after so this is what intrigued me with us with a scream I was even very intrigued because I mean it's real no there's no real cure for aging I mean it nobody's everybody's looking for it but you know I'm intrigued by this now we're just gonna have a look at what Lauren she's a seven year old grandmother for the the deadness and you know how she perfected this Lauren a 70 old 71 year old grandma from jazz box African is a perfect example how little smart thinking and ingenuity can help you avoid unnecessary office and save you thousands of doctor's bills like most women wrote Lauren Lauren didn't have the extra cash to try every celebrity-endorsed anti-aging cream miracle cream let alone splurge on expensive selective medicines like plastic surgery or faceless before trying this simple trick she admits she used to spend almost every hour a day on an extensive skin care regime consisting of six different products with seriously disappointing results look sounds like my mother she was puts tons of cream on before she and my grandmother used to be the same she did eggs to go to bed cloaked in cream coltan and it doesn't help her okay so let's go through what a solution is after year of doing thorough research and speaking to other women about the own skincare but she learned of a product that was yielding real results and helping women take years of their skin beleve after after only a few days of adding beleve to his daily skin she saw noticeable results in the in the mirror okay I'm not gonna go through how it was this a long article but basically you need attribute vitamin C tightening you can look at it I'll leave the link in in in my pal and you can go directly onto this this this the site and have a look at this but this is how it works I'm just showing you the before and after look at the results of this lady yeah this lady - I mean can you believe it look at this lady okay okay finally yeah there's plenty of skip nurses where they sell a product and they give you a hundred percent I think it's a hundred percent guarantee back off I'm not as I'm percent satisfaction guarantee Oh or your full money-back yes interesting article not really a regular sort of a news article but I had to share it because I came across it and I was intrigued by I mean isn't it cure for aging I mean people since Egypt have been looking for ways to ladies since then I've been trying to cure themselves of all kinds of cream so I know for a fact you can't cure your inner organs I mean they still battling to find the cure aging skin nobody's really come up with a cure for that but when you see results like this I mean for the price first of all I thought geez the process is amazing and secondly I was intrigued by that but I've before and after pictures so yeah um you know this this could be something worth having a look at I don't work for this company I don't know anything about them I just came across this articles are not selling this item I just a lot share this with our viewers and see what they think about this and I think it's a great topic to talk about cuz you all want to look younger twenty years come on alright this is training news short is here from training using the dagger due north till tomorrow night with our next
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