#dating app adventures

[gifti3]

im realizing some people on dating apps will ask questions and then after i respond will not engage with anything i said and will jump to the next topic or question or whatever

like...did this person care about anything i said or what?

[positively--speculative]

She's a 10, but I'm too full of anxiety to say hi back.😢

[teekaa-two]

I've been talking with this girl on the app for a few days. I think I'm getting better at holding conversation! I'm proud of me.

[ravenzer]

[iii-days-grace]

Forgot bumble isn’t like Grindr and you have to actually “””swipe”””” people’s profiles or something before they can message you, even on the BFFs mode

I’ve been assured that people actually do behave in that part of the app and generally don’t try to hit on you though

[textpostmemespksp]

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[hwasfeatherduster]

Adventures of an Ateez girl on dating apps.

Hello,

I have decided that in 2025 I am going to get a man....or at least try. So I got my hair done and joined Hinge and OkCupid. After turning down at least five 50 year olds propositions for sex, helping one guy make a tinder profile, and having a 3 day convo with a man that I have no doubt wants to wear my skin............Here is my update.

I am currently talking to 4 guys.

CH- Who is super sweet. We net on NYE and he talked to me all day until 1 am on NYE. He's cute and looks like a big teddy bear. My red flag for him is that he lives in a ....questionable neighborhood. Like I'm low-key scared. I gave him my number ( Not CH trying to FT me as I am typing this).

C- I gave him my number cause when I saw his picture the song It's Cuffing Season by SZA came to my mind. He's nice and says I have a sexy voice. We talked on the phone for 2 hours flirting and talking about spicy things we want to do to each other ( I am a cock tease and I don't care). He lives like 2 hours away and wants to meet in the middle and book an airbnb and straight up bang it out all over the house and then go to the renaissance festival. My red flags for him are BLOOD RED.

-- He made some questionable racist comments towards middle eastern people

-- He made a questionable transphobic comment

-- He said the R word 3 times

-- He told me that he has never been with a black girl and I would be his first.

So honestly, your girl is a little scared cause clearly this man voted for Trump so idk why the hell he is even talking to me. He liked me on the app first and reached out first. It's giving racist with a fetish. So C is SOOOOOOOOOO out.

T- This man MATCHES my energy. The banter. The sarcasm. It is 1000000/10. There really is no flirting though and that might be because I am not attracted to him in any sort of way, which is his red flag. He is more of the friend type than anything. He wants to take me on an ice skating date to teach me how to Ice skate. I truly wish I was attracted to him but I'm not. The banter is too good to unmatch.

CO- I just started talking to him ( why do I attract so many C named guys?) He seems nice so far. Red flag is that he looks VERY similar to C so.....it's not looking good. Will he be ignorant? Stay tuned.

[whosname]

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[hepaidattention]

weird things guys do on dating apps:

1) all say "looking for someone who doesn't take themselves/life too seriously" what does that even mean at this point

2) post pictures of food on their profile??? I'm looking to date a HUMAN not a food sir

3) wear sunglasses in every picture. sir if I can't see your face why would I swipe

4) ghost you if you just say "hi" first. I'm sorry I guess in a real conversation I normally would start with a really cringy pick up line you're right.

5) ghost you for being nice

6) ghost you for having a lot of hobbies

7) ghost you for having a personality

8) bragging about how they hunt for sport. I live in Texas so maybe that's why but??? killing innocent lives for funsies screams psychotic not husband material

9) expect to find a woman who has the same interests as them (cars, gym, sports, bro).

10) describe the physical attributes they find attractive in a woman on their profile but have a hissy fit and lie about their height when women ask about it

11) lie about their height. dude I don't care if you're my height I just need to know for wardrobe purposes okay

12) getting upset when women judge them for their height but then don't swipe right on girls who are tall

13) spam you if you don't respond, then ghosts you the minute you respond with a longer then 1 sentence response

[positively--speculative]

This dude is kind of cute, but I hate that he's practically begging for a girlfriend in different parts of his profile. Like, he seems harmless, but he's sending me multiple messages. I don't like the needy vibes.

[highvibesandheartthrobs]

Friends with Benefits

How many of y'all have a FWB? I mean in reality it seems like a great idea if you're only sleeping with each other. But dating really is hard these days and honestly who doesn't need human contact from time to time. I don't want to go thru the whole lemme text you daily good morning and have pointless convo. Let's just hang out every week and have sex and we can also text each other about some random shit. It makes it easier. Maybe at some point it could become something. But I'm thinking if I am distracted from thinking about dating maybe someone random will come into my life. What if tho I fall for my FWB?

That's the only issue I may have. The sex is great. You have good conversation. Maybe you hang out here and there or you have some moments. At what point do you say something or do you not because you don't want to ruin the vibe.

Do guys ever fall for their FWB? Do they ever speak up? Or do they stayed scared of commitment?

[koushuwu]

why do people think being rude is the way to win someone over? no thank you.

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[hwasfeatherduster]

Adventures of an Ateez fangirl on dating apps update ...again

I did it guys, I blocked CH. After crying all day like a psycho, I texted him and said this isn't going to work and that I am blocking him and I blocked him before he could respond.

Little fact for apple users, just cause you block someone on your phone does not mean they are blocked on all your devices . So yes, I received his reply on my computer.......he was very kind.

BUT WE ARE MOVING ON PEOPLE!!!!!!

[astromechs]

bi dating in your 30s woes: i only match with one woman for maybe about every seven men i match with on a dating app