#d/o/nt r/eblog

[echothelover]

Not gonna lie I HATE the discourse of people saying "oh you can't say you're mostly attracted to nonbinary people or else your fetishizing them because not every nonbinary person looks the same"

NOT EVERY MAN OR WOMAN LOOKS THE SAME EITHER BUT I DON'T SEE Y'ALL CLAIMING PEOPLE CAN'T BE EXCLUSIVELY ATTRACTED TO ONE BINARY GENDER. Like. Yall realize how stupid your logic sounds if you apply it to men or women, right?

People! Can! Find! Nonbinary! People! Hot! Without! Fetishizing! Them!

Like as a nonbinary person it makes me dysphoric as hell to see yall lumping nonbinary people in with binary genders based on our body types or presentation and using that to say that people aren't actually attracted to nonbinary people at all.

Dont get me wrong, chasers are absolutely disgusting. But theres a big difference between someone fetishizing a person based solely on their transition and someone who genuinely loves nonbinary people.

[dearbisexual]

im pissed off now b/c i found out tht my brother talked to my mom about “the incident” (wherein he yelled and swore at me for me calmly saying he was being unreasonable)

and apparently he tried to spin it in his favor and said shit like “well, what i said to her wasn’t actually that bad” and “at least i didn’t escalate the situation further” 

(which is a statement i wanna unpack further b/c it’s what’s pissing me off the most. first of all, he was the one who did all the fucking escalating, but phrasing it like that implies that the blame lies elsewhere. second of all, what he basically said seems to be “at least i didn’t escalate to physical violence” which is fuckin,,, unbelievable)

luckily my mom had my back and chewed him out though

[gayscifi]

D O NT R EBLOG but hey look at my nephew

[wallnoises]

personal life stuff, d,o,nt r,,eblog; sex stuff

so tomorrow i’ve got a “netflix and chill” type date with that guy from tinder i previously went out with, and we’ve been trying to set it up since we went out last time. he’s very polite and considerate and we’ve been texting back and forth setting up physical boundaries and all that stuff but hhgggg i’m still really nervous. i know he’s not a chaser or anything like that and he’s been a perfect gentleman so far but there’s just something about being intimate with a cis person that freaks me out to think about, like i have to live up to a certain image because for all i know i could be the only trans woman he’s ever done this with, and we’re not exactly represented very concisely in the media so i mainly just worry about disappointing him or grossing him out cuz i didn’t live up to whatever preconception he could possibly have. wah.

ofc these are all just “what if”s on my part and it’s prolly just me getting pre-show jitters like usual but hhhgggg i just really need this. i need to be physical with another human being for so long and i’m grateful to finally be getting it soon but i’m just worrying about whatever could go wrong. 

[wooflesthatwoof]

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