#currently most comfortable for me! altho no pronouns are necessarily 'wrong' its nicer to feel like I'm not making it other ppls choice | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

phagodyke · 10 days ago

Note

I have a quick question what do mirrored pronouns mean?

it means referring to someone with the same pronouns you'd use for yourself! imagine it like a mirror reflecting your pronouns back at you... thanks for asking :-)

#im agender & dont rly feel attached to any one set of pronouns. but when i used any pronouns it made me feel weird to be subject to other #ppls perceptions of my gender every time they decided how to refer to me...#I like mirrored pronouns atm bc it feels like inviting someone to perceive you in the same way they perceive themselves 🫴#so it makes me feel less 'other-ed' as I'm not being made explicitly aware of what internal biases ppl are projecting onto me 😵‍💫#I mean of course ppl will always have their own perceptions n thats cool I dont expect to be understood #and idrc how total strangers decide to gender me in random encounters. but if ppl do want smth to refer to me with then this is whats #currently most comfortable for me! altho no pronouns are necessarily 'wrong' its nicer to feel like I'm not making it other ppls choice #hope that makes sense... im very tired haha #.asks

5 notes · View notes