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Weekly Catholic Man Moment: Jesus’ particular concern for the lost and God’s love for the repentant sinner.

Topic: Jesus’ particular concern for the lost and God’s love for the repentant sinner. The Gospel reading today is from St. Luke 15:1-3, 11-32, and it's all about the parable of the Prodigal Son - one of Jesus' most beautiful stories. It's a reminder that God is a kind and understanding Father, who loves us no matter what. The son in the story who asks for his inheritance is like someone who's cut themselves off from God because of their mistakes. But here's the thing: even though the word "mercy" isn't used, this parable really shows us what mercy is all about. It's the kind of love that Jesus talks about in the New Testament, called agape. This love is what reaches out to people who have messed up, who are struggling, and who are hurting. When we experience this kind of love, we don't feel bad about ourselves - we feel like we've been found again and given a second chance. The father in the story is overjoyed when his son comes back, and that's because he's still his son, no matter what. He's still loved and valued, and he's found his way back to the truth about himself.

Gospel - Luke 15:1-3, 11-32

Tax collectors and sinners were all drawing near to listen to Jesus, but the Pharisees and scribes began to complain, saying, “This man welcomes sinners and eats with them.” So to them Jesus addressed this parable: “A man had two sons, and the younger son said to his father, ‘Father give me the share of your estate that should come to me.’ So the father divided the property between them. After a few days, the younger son collected all his belongings and set off to a distant country where he squandered his inheritance on a life of dissipation. When he had freely spent everything, a severe famine struck that country, and he found himself in dire need. So he hired himself out to one of the local citizens who sent him to his farm to tend the swine. And he longed to eat his fill of the pods on which the swine fed, but nobody gave him any. Coming to his senses he thought, ‘How many of my father’s hired workers have more than enough food to eat, but here am I, dying from hunger. I shall get up and go to my father and I shall say to him, “Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you. I no longer deserve to be called your son; treat me as you would treat one of your hired workers.”’ So he got up and went back to his father. While he was still a long way off, his father caught sight of him, and was filled with compassion. He ran to his son, embraced him and kissed him. His son said to him, ‘Father, I have sinned against heaven and against you; I no longer deserve to be called your son.’ But his father ordered his servants, ‘Quickly bring the finest robe and put it on him; put a ring on his finger and sandals on his feet. Take the fattened calf and slaughter it. Then let us celebrate with a feast, because this son of mine was dead, and has come to life again; he was lost, and has been found.’ Then the celebration began. Now the older son had been out in the field and, on his way back, as he neared the house, he heard the sound of music and dancing. He called one of the servants and asked what this might mean. The servant said to him, ‘Your brother has returned and your father has slaughtered the fattened calf because he has him back safe and sound.’ He became angry, and when he refused to enter the house, his father came out and pleaded with him. He said to his father in reply, ‘Look, all these years I served you and not once did I disobey your orders; yet you never gave me even a young goat to feast on with my friends. But when your son returns who swallowed up your property with prostitutes, for him you slaughter the fattened calf.’ He said to him, ‘My son, you are here with me always; everything I have is yours. But now we must celebrate and rejoice, because your brother was dead and has come to life again; he was lost and has been found.'"

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Catholic Man Moment: The Wisdom of God vs. Human Wisdom

February 9 2025

Fifth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Topic: The Wisdom of God vs. Human Wisdom

YearC, Luke 5:1-11: They left everything and followed Jesus.

Gospel - Luke 5:1-11

While the crowd was pressing in on Jesus and listening to the word of God, he was standing by the Lake of Gennesaret. He saw two boats there alongside the lake; the fishermen had disembarked and were washing their nets. Getting into one of the boats, the one belonging to Simon, he asked him to put out a short distance from the shore. Then he sat down and taught the crowds from the boat. After he had finished speaking, he said to Simon, "Put out into deep water and lower your nets for a catch." Simon said in reply, "Master, we have worked hard all night and have caught nothing, but at your command I will lower the nets." When they had done this, they caught a great number of fish and their nets were tearing. They signaled to their partners in the other boat to come to help them. They came and filled both boats so that the boats were in danger of sinking. When Simon Peter saw this, he fell at the knees of Jesus and said, "Depart from me, Lord, for I am a sinful man." For astonishment at the catch of fish they had made seized him and all those with him, and likewise James and John, the sons of Zebedee, who were partners of Simon. Jesus said to Simon, "Do not be afraid; from now on you will be catching men." When they brought their boats to the shore, they left everything and followed him.

https://bible.usccb.org/bible/readings/020925.cfmIn

Summary --

Imagine the thrill of reeling in a bounty of fish, your nets straining with the weight of an incredible catch. That's exactly what happened when Jesus instructed Simon to put out into the deep water and lower his nets for a haul. Despite the long and fruitless night of fishing that had preceded it, Simon couldn't resist the Master's command. And it was a decision that would change his life forever - as the nets tore with the sheer number of fish on board, Simon knew that he had stumbled upon something much greater than a simple catch. He had discovered a new way of living, a new sense of purpose, and a new relationship with the divine.

The Wisdom of God vs. Human Wisdom --

The Gospel reading from St. Luke (Lk 5:1-11) highlights the profound difference between the wisdom of God and human wisdom. When establishing a global enterprise, a modern businessman would likely choose leaders from among the most qualified and experienced individuals. However, Christ chose humble, uneducated fishermen from Galilee to be his assistants and successors, defying conventional wisdom.

He had the freedom to select from a pool of highly educated priests, scribes, and Roman officers, or even renowned Greek philosophers who could have lent prestige to the Gospel message. Yet, Christ chose to entrust the mission of spreading the Good News to these simple fishermen, demonstrating his ability to discern the hearts and wills of men.

The society Christ was establishing was not a worldly organization, but a divine institution that would facilitate eternal salvation. The truths he entrusted to its care were not based on human wisdom, but on divine revelation that required no external validation. In selecting his Apostles, Christ revealed his divine wisdom and the divine origin of the Christian faith.

As we reflect on our Christian heritage, let us express our gratitude by living out our faith in our daily lives. We can do this without relying on eloquence or personal prestige. By living as true Christians, carrying our crosses patiently, and serving others, we demonstrate a profound understanding of Christ's teachings. This is the true essence of Christian eloquence and apostleship.

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The Power of Praise in Living Our Faith

Photo: Change Our Hearts to be Full of Life - A snowy tree is silhouetted by the dusk light of sunset on a suburban street in Midwest America. Copyright 2018 Frank J Casella.

As Catholic men, we can live out the fundamentals of our faith by lavishing goodness on others. One simple yet powerful way to do this is by **praising others** for their good deeds and actions. In a culture that often focuses on pointing out mistakes, we have the opportunity to be a positive influence by acknowledging and appreciating the good in those around us.

"Catch someone doing something right."

~ Robert Kiyosaki

Why Praising Others Matters

* It encourages kindness and good behavior * It builds up and supports others in their efforts * It creates a positive and uplifting community

By making a conscious effort to praise others, we can create a ripple effect of kindness and goodness that spreads throughout our lives and the lives of those around us.

In Summary

As Catholic men, embracing the fundamentals of our faith means striving to uplift others around us. Let's make it a practice to catch someone doing something right! In a world where negativity often dominates the conversation, it's refreshing to shine a light on the goodness we see in others. When we take the time to praise someone for their kindness or recognize their strengths, we contribute to a culture of positivity and encouragement. So, let's commit to lavishing goodness on those around us—because together, we can make a difference!

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On Being Authentic

By Frank J Casella, CMCS Director

In today's culture, being authentic is undeniably important. Authenticity, which aligns with truth and thus garners trust, reliability, and belief, is critical. Therefore, I believe it is essential for us, as Catholic men, to have a genuine voice—one that stands out and is easily recognized by others.

Case in point, for the past month as you know, I've been sharing through our email list some blog posts from the archive. To my surprise the response from emails and texts was above that from the original posts, and more then I've seen in the past year. What do I attribute this to?  An authentic voice. 

You see, over the years I've had the great fortune to have been mentored by Bishop Joseph Perry on writing my blog posts. He would not so much tell me what to say, rather how to better say it. But then once he retired I tried out the AI tool provided by the mailing list service, which seem to 'flower up' my words and which I and the team thought was a better read.

I would pull things from the Internet that might take an extra hour or two for me to find and sift through. So then, when I switched back this past month to my authentic voice many of you saw the difference and said so. 

"We hear a lot these days about “intentional discipleship” from preachers, motivational speakers and writers about what it takes to be real Christians in these times.  These speakers highlight for us the increasing secularism of American life, namely, that the modern mind-set is intent on pushing away a religious tone to life as evident in state and federal legislation that advances freedoms beyond that which the scriptures would countenance, or the lifestyles of people we know and love, matched with decreasing numbers attending church or synagogue or mosque.  We Americans believe in God to large percentage even though our actions may not always clearly represent that belief.

... Indeed, nothing is worthwhile unless we do it intentionally and with fervor as upright Christians.  This is the manner in which Jesus lived and died for us.  It is the only way his disciples can live authentically his legacy."

Bishop Joseph N. Perry - Taking Life Seriously 

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Cor Catholic Men’s Spirituality Groups

Picture: Mark Kuczera of the K of C State of Illinois Evanelization and Faith Formation talks with CMCS about Cor Catholic Men's Spirituality Groups.

About Cor

The Knights of Columbus empowers Catholic men to live their faith and serve their family, parish, community, and country. Why? Because families need strong husbands and fathers, and the world needs courageous witnesses to Jesus Christ. Through Cor, men will be formed and sharpened as disciples of Jesus.

The mission of Cor is to refocus Catholic men on Jesus Christ and to form and strengthen them in faith and virtue through a brotherhood committed to prayer, formation, and fraternity. The goal of each Cor gathering is to provide the opportunity for men to encounter Christ, to pray together, to be formed in their faith, and to strengthen their bonds of brotherhood, preparing them for courageous leadership and the mission of evangelization for their families and communities.

Cor is a simple concept. It consistently brings men together to refocus on Jesus Christ through shared time of prayer and formation. This blueprint of faith requires dedicated leadership. Your Grand Knight is encouraged to appoint a Council Evangelization and Faith Formation (EFF) Director to fully oversee the implementation and leadership of Cor. Once this position is established, it is now time for the Director to meet with their Pastor about introducing Cor to your parish community. 

Frequency is essential and should range from a minimum of monthly, to weekly, andmust always have the three key elements of prayer, formation, and fraternity. Cor does not have a formal curriculum or set schedule; it is based upon the needs of your parish Council and community. There is an abundance of Cor information and support material available to any interested Council at the Supreme website (https://www.kofc.org/en/index.html). Simply type ‘Cor’ into the search bar and begin to explore the opportunities and options for successfully hosting Cor at your parish.

Remember, Cor is open to all men of the council and parish. The time is now to begin growing your faith within your home and parish community.

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A Glass Full of Water

By Frank J Casella, CMCS Executive Director.

A spiritual director once shared a poignant analogy with me: a glass of water can be compared to the burdens we carry in life. Just as holding a glass of water for an extended period makes it increasingly heavy, forcing us to set it down, we too become weighed down by the burdens of sin, unforgiveness, stress, and grudges. To alleviate these burdens, we must choose to either consume them (in the sense of confronting and resolving the issue) or release them. However, many of us fail to take action and instead allow these burdens to linger.

As Catholics, we have a means of emptying ourselves of these burdens through the sacrament of confession. As men, we are called to be role models, setting an example for our loved ones, friends, family, and most importantly, God. By embracing this spiritual practice, we can find freedom and live a more authentic life.

Click here to read or download Bishop Perry's How to Make a Confession.

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Weekly Catholic Man Moment: Our Salvation Depends on Following Him.

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Lent: April 13, 2025 Palm Sunday of the Lord's Passion

Topic: Our Salvation Depends on Following Him.

Hey there, let's talk about Palm Sunday. So, when we're at church on Palm Sunday, we're not just remembering something that happened a long time ago. We're actually experiencing it with Christ right now. How's that possible? Well, Christ is present in three ways: in the cross that leads the procession, in the priest who's representing Him, and in all of us as a community gathered together.

The procession is also a look to the future. Christ went from this world to heaven, which is like a new Jerusalem. Our church is like the old Jerusalem, so when we enter it, we're actually thinking about the day when we'll enter heaven with Christ as our King. It's like a rehearsal for our final journey on the Last Day.

Let's take a step back and think about why Christ went to Jerusalem in the first place. He didn't go to get crowned as King - that's not what it's about. He went to suffer and die for us, and then He rose from the dead. Our salvation depends on following Him, and that means we have to die with Him if we want to rise with Him.

When we're at Mass, we ask God to help us learn from Christ's endurance so we can have fellowship in His resurrection. That's a pretty powerful prayer, and we should definitely add our Amen to it.

After the procession, we take our palms home and put them behind our crucifix. It's a good idea to have palms in all the places where we spend our time, like the living room, kitchen, and bedrooms. Why? Because the priest says a prayer that asks God to bless those places and protect us from evil. The palms aren't magic or anything - they're just a visible sign of the Church's powerful prayer.

So, if we have faith in the Church, we should have faith in her prayers and use her power to make us holy and safe.

Gospel - Luke 23:1-49 The elders of the people, chief priests and scribes, arose and brought Jesus before Pilate. They brought charges against him, saying, "We found this man misleading our people; he opposes the payment of taxes to Caesar and maintains that he is the Christ, a king." Pilate asked him, "Are you the king of the Jews?" He said to him in reply, "You say so." Pilate then addressed the chief priests and the crowds, "I find this man not guilty." But they were adamant and said, "He is inciting the people with his teaching throughout all Judea, from Galilee where he began even to here."

On hearing this Pilate asked if the man was a Galilean; and upon learning that he was under Herod's jurisdiction, he sent him to Herod who was in Jerusalem at that time. Herod was very glad to see Jesus; he had been wanting to see him for a long time, for he had heard about him and had been hoping to see him perform some sign. He questioned him at length, but he gave him no answer. The chief priests and scribes, meanwhile, stood by accusing him harshly. Herod and his soldiers treated him contemptuously and mocked him, and after clothing him in resplendent garb, he sent him back to Pilate. Herod and Pilate became friends that very day, even though they had been enemies formerly. Pilate then summoned the chief priests, the rulers, and the people and said to them, "You brought this man to me and accused him of inciting the people to revolt. I have conducted my investigation in your presence and have not found this man guilty of the charges you have brought against him, nor did Herod, for he sent him back to us. So no capital crime has been committed by him. Therefore I shall have him flogged and then release him."

But all together they shouted out, "Away with this man! Release Barabbas to us." — Now Barabbas had been imprisoned for a rebellion that had taken place in the city and for murder. — Again Pilate addressed them, still wishing to release Jesus, but they continued their shouting, "Crucify him! Crucify him!" Pilate addressed them a third time, "What evil has this man done? I found him guilty of no capital crime. Therefore I shall have him flogged and then release him." With loud shouts, however, they persisted in calling for his crucifixion, and their voices prevailed. The verdict of Pilate was that their demand should be granted. So he released the man who had been imprisoned for rebellion and murder, for whom they asked, and he handed Jesus over to them to deal with as they wished.

As they led him away they took hold of a certain Simon, a Cyrenian, who was coming in from the country; and after laying the cross on him, they made him carry it behind Jesus. A large crowd of people followed Jesus, including many women who mourned and lamented him. Jesus turned to them and said, "Daughters of Jerusalem, do not weep for me; weep instead for yourselves and for your children for indeed, the days are coming when people will say, 'Blessed are the barren, the wombs that never bore and the breasts that never nursed.' At that time people will say to the mountains, 'Fall upon us!' and to the hills, 'Cover us!' for if these things are done when the wood is green what will happen when it is dry?" Now two others, both criminals, were led away with him to be executed.

When they came to the place called the Skull, they crucified him and the criminals there, one on his right, the other on his left. Then Jesus said, "Father, forgive them, they know not what they do." They divided his garments by casting lots. The people stood by and watched; the rulers, meanwhile, sneered at him and said, "He saved others, let him save himself if he is the chosen one, the Christ of God." Even the soldiers jeered at him. As they approached to offer him wine they called out, "If you are King of the Jews, save yourself." Above him there was an inscription that read, "This is the King of the Jews."

Now one of the criminals hanging there reviled Jesus, saying, "Are you not the Christ? Save yourself and us." The other, however, rebuking him, said in reply, "Have you no fear of God, for you are subject to the same condemnation? And indeed, we have been condemned justly, for the sentence we received corresponds to our crimes, but this man has done nothing criminal." Then he said, "Jesus, remember me when you come into your kingdom." He replied to him, "Amen, I say to you, today you will be with me in Paradise."

It was now about noon and darkness came over the whole land until three in the afternoon because of an eclipse of the sun. Then the veil of the temple was torn down the middle. Jesus cried out in a loud voice, "Father, into your hands I commend my spirit"; and when he had said this he breathed his last.

Here all kneel and pause for a short time.

The centurion who witnessed what had happened glorified God and said, "This man was innocent beyond doubt." When all the people who had gathered for this spectacle saw what had happened, they returned home beating their breasts; but all his acquaintances stood at a distance, including the women who had followed him from Galilee and saw these events.

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The Needs of Men

A picture from one of the many CMCS Men's Conferences, this one at Saint Rita High School. Join us for the 2025 Bishop Perry Men's Forum at St. John Neumaan Parish at the St. Anne Church site in Hazel Crest, IL. on Saturday, April 26, 2025. More at - forum.cmcsmen.net

The American male has long been characterized as the strong, silent type. A rugged individualist who does it his way relying on no one (not even God)! John Wayne, Gary Cooper and the Marlboro man all rolled into one. That’s what society tells us is a man’s man. But if we scratch under all our bravado, we get to core of the true man who longs to understand his own masculinity. In doing so we touch the real needs of men.

Dr. Robert Lewis, Founder of Men’s Fraternity (1990), has devoted his life to helping men identify, understand and address these needs. Here‘s a summary of his findings on the common needs of most men.

First, men need a safe place where they know someone understands them and they are not alone. If men feel welcome and understood, they will let their hair down and interact with other men over issues that may have been stuffed in their souls for years.

Second, men need a compelling vision of biblical masculinity that they can grasp. Men want to know what God intends for them. This vision will lift them during moments of challenge in the workplace and community or when they are facing discouragement in their own hearts.

Third, men need time to effectively process their manhood. That is why men’s ministry should be more than a periodic rally. Effective ministry to men must allow the opportunity for men to involve themselves with other men through interaction and rubbing shoulders with one another. (Small Men’s Spirituality Groups).

Fourth, men need practical how-to’s they can use and taste success with. The information on personal design, marriage, family, career and so on of men must connect with their day-to-day experience. If the teaching does not work in real life, men will start ignoring what you tell them.

Fifth, men need male cheerleaders. These can be special peers or older mentors who come along side to listen and offer encouragement.

Sixth, men need a sacred moment where they know they have become not just a man but a biblical man. Men need a reference point where they know they have crossed over into the promised land of responsible manhood and will stay there and grow.

Finally, men need the church. If the church and its pastors don’t lead men to reclaim a biblical manhood, most men will not pursue it with consistency, camaraderie, celebration, and courage.

Men, do these needs resonant with you?

CMCS is committed to responding to your spiritual needs through our annual or men’s forums throughout Vicariate VI.

Plan now to attend the next Bishop Perry Chicago Catholic Men's Forum on Saturday, April 26. 2025.

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Weekly Catholic Man Moment: Let others' mistakes be their own business.

April 6, 2025 - Fifth Sunday of Lent

Year C Readings

In this installment: Let Others' Mistakes Be Their Own Business.

The story of the woman caught in adultery is from the Gospel of St. John, chapter 8, verses 1-11. It's about a woman who gets caught in a pretty compromising situation, and the people who caught her try to get Jesus to stone her.

But Jesus doesn't play along. Instead, he basically tells them to mind their own business and says, "Let the one who is without sin throw the first stone." The people get the hint and leave, and Jesus is left alone with the woman.

He looks at her and asks, "Has anyone condemned you?" She says no, and Jesus replies, "Neither do I condemn you." He's basically saying, "I'm not here to judge you, I'm here to help you."

The point is, Jesus doesn't condemn the woman for her sins, but he does tell her to "go and sin no more." It's a reminder that God's mercy is always available to us, even when we mess up, and that we should be compassionate towards others who are struggling with their own sins.

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It's not our place to judge anyone. Jesus showed us that he's all about giving people a second chance, whereas these self-righteous people were more concerned with throwing stones. We should all take a cue from God's infinite mercy and try to be understanding and compassionate towards others, because let's be real, we're all sinners and we all need forgiveness.

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Gospel - John 8:1-11

Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. But early in the morning he arrived again in the temple area, and all the people started coming to him, and he sat down and taught them. Then the scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery and made her stand in the middle. They said to him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery. Now in the law, Moses commanded us to stone such women. So what do you say?” They said this to test him, so that they could have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and began to write on the ground with his finger. But when they continued asking him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let the one among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” Again he bent down and wrote on the ground. And in response, they went away one by one, beginning with the elders. So he was left alone with the woman before him. Then Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” She replied, “No one, sir.” Then Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go, and from now on do not sin any more.”

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The Lasting Impact We Leave Behind

By Frank J Casella, CMCS Co-founder and Executive Director.

A majestic tree stands proudly in the foreground, its shadow stretching across a vibrant playground where children are lost in joyful play. The serene atmosphere evokes a sense of evening tranquility, bathed in the warm, soft light and a touch of the golden hour sunset.  I've titled this 'Sunset - No Filer' because preserving the natural light of the setting sun and the carefree energy of the children would be lost with post-processing. This image reminds us that there's often beauty in embracing our authentic selves, rather than relying on filters to create a perfect image.  Photo: Sunset - No Filter - Copyright 2012 Frank J Casella - frankjcasella.pixels.com

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Every time I attend a funeral, I reflect on the individual's life and the lasting impression they made on the world. I ponder whether their life had a profound effect on those around them.

As a creation of God, each person has been endowed with a unique ability to share their love, mercy, compassion, and goodness with the world in their own distinct way.

We all possess special gifts and talents that set us apart from others. The reason we are living in this era, rather than a century ago or a thousand years ago, is to make a specific impact on the world.

You were created for this moment in time, and your life has the power to reveal a unique aspect of God's character that the world needs to see.

The COVID-19 pandemic has made us realize how our lives can be affected by unexpected events. It's a reminder that each of us will likely have been touched by the virus, either personally or through someone we know. This is similar to the impact of cancer on individuals and families.

The digital age has significantly changed the way we leave our mark on the world. Even after we're gone, our online presence can continue to inspire and influence others. For example, many of my colleague artists who have passed away still have their profiles and artwork available online, often managed by their loved ones. 

Similarly, our social media profiles, emails, and other digital activities will outlive us - intentional or not. This realization should motivate us to be mindful of our online legacy and ensure that our digital footprint is a positive reflection of our values and character.

As I reflect on my own life and online presence, I'm reminded to be intentional about the decisions I make and to leave a lasting legacy for my loved ones. I encourage you to consider how you can make a meaningful impact on the world and to address any unfinished business in your life.

You never know what the future holds, and only God knows what tomorrow will bring. Let us strive to leave a lasting impression that honors God and inspires others ... both in real life and online. 

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The Short Story Behind Catholic Men Chicago Southland (CMCS)

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By Frank J Casella, CMCS Executive Director

Our mission at Catholic Men Chicago Southland is to empower local Catholic men to deepen their spiritual lives and bring Jesus Christ into their daily relationships. This vision was born in 2004 when Deacon John Rangel, David Taylor, and I met with Reverend Bishop Joseph N. Perry to seek his blessing for our initiative. Although Bishop Perry is now retired, his legacy continues to inspire our mission today.

We initially sought Bishop Perry's guidance because of his role as our local Vicar in Vicariate VI on the far south end of the Archdiocese of Chicago. We recognized the importance of having a strong foundation and platform to support our efforts. Bishop Perry not only understood the value of our initiative but also encouraged us to challenge men in the Vicariate to live up to the virtues of a Catholic man and make Christ the center of their lives.

Our decision to maintain a manageable size within the Vicariate has proven to be a wise choice. This approach allows us to provide a template for other groups seeking to establish similar initiatives in their own Vicariates. While there has been significant interest, only one commitment has been made in the Edgewater area of Chicago.

As a third-generation Knight of Columbus, I have a deep understanding of the importance of Catholic men's ministry. However, I realized that there was a need for a Catholic men's spirituality prayer breakfast that would challenge men to replace bad habits with good habits and develop a holy life. This concept is rooted in the idea of "feeding the stomach and then feeding the soul."

In the 1980s, men's conferences began to emerge, but many fell short of making a lasting impact on men's lives. I believe that we need Catholic men who model virtues and goodness, making a positive difference in the lives of others. As Matthew Kelly once said, "We are a people of possibility, the Holy Spirit is the great encourager … holiness is possible."

Jesus Christ desires a personal relationship with each of us, but he also wants us to be in covenant with him. This covenant is rooted in the New Covenant established through his sacrifice and renewed through the Holy Eucharist. When we gather at the family table for the sacred meal, we become one with Christ and with each other.

In the home, men are called to lay down their lives for their wives, serving them as Jesus served the Church. The Christian home is the domestic church, a community of grace and prayer, where children receive their first proclamation of the faith. As Saint Paul said, "Power is made perfect in weakness," reminding us that our strength lies in our vulnerability and dependence on others.

Jesus wants us to know not only the Father and the Holy Spirit but also his Blessed Mother and all his sainted brothers and sisters. He desires us to live according to the family structure he established for his Church on earth, with the Pope and all the bishops and priests united to him.

The Gospel is not about setting up a legal system but about transforming hearts, freeing people from the darkness and slavery of sin. As Cardinal Francis George once said, "We as a Catholic Church have much to learn from our Protestant brothers and sisters about marketing and promotion, and evangelization."

In response to this challenge, we began an online ministry in 2009 to reach Catholic men in any way possible and learn from those who are skilled in evangelization. However, Bishop Perry reminded us to balance our online efforts with in-person worship and community involvement in the pews. Community is the foundation of our Catholicism, and we strive to nurture Catholic men's spirituality through in-person gatherings and Mass.

Our approach is not about accountability to each other but about covenant with Jesus, which transforms us as men. When we foster a man in holiness, the positive adjustments he makes create a positive impact that can be felt for three generations. This takes transforming one man at a time from good intentions into right-action, developing a holy church, and recognizing the essential role of fathers in a healthy family.

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Weekly Catholic Man Moment: Transform Your Faith - Discover the Requirements for God’s Graces

March 23, 2025

Third Sunday of Lent - Year C

Transform Your Faith: Discover the Requirements for God’s Graces

The Gospel from Luke 13:1-9 is all about producing fruit in our lives. Think of it like a garden - God gives us the seeds (graces) and it's up to us to nurture them and make them grow. He's not looking to condemn anyone, but rather to see us turn our lives around and live the way we're meant to (Ezekiel 33:11).

As St. Peter says, God is patient and doesn't want anyone to miss out on the chance to repent (2 Peter 3:9). But here's the thing - His kindness shouldn't be an excuse for us to slack off and live life on our own terms. He's both merciful and fair, and He'll hold us accountable for how we respond to His love.

It's especially sad when we see Christians who have the potential to do so much more, but they just don't put in the effort. They're given the gift of faith, but they don't share it with others (Matthew 5:15-16). It's like they're hiding a treasure instead of using it to make a difference. And let's not forget, their happiness - both now and in the afterlife - is at stake. The Christian life is an amazing journey, full of promises of happiness and peace, but it requires us to be willing to live generously and not hold back (John 4:10).

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Gospel - Luke 13:1-9

Some people told Jesus about the Galileans whose blood Pilate had mingled with the blood of their sacrifices. Jesus said to them in reply, “Do you think that because these Galileans suffered in this way they were greater sinners than all other Galileans? By no means! But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did! Or those eighteen people who were killed when the tower at Siloam fell on them— do you think they were more guilty than everyone else who lived in Jerusalem? By no means! But I tell you, if you do not repent, you will all perish as they did!”

And he told them this parable: “There once was a person who had a fig tree planted in his orchard, and when he came in search of fruit on it but found none, he said to the gardener, ‘For three years now I have come in search of fruit on this fig tree but have found none. So cut it down. Why should it exhaust the soil?’ He said to him in reply, ‘Sir, leave it for this year also, and I shall cultivate the ground around it and fertilize it; it may bear fruit in the future. If not you can cut it down.’”

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Family Reconciliation

Crucifix - A simple Crucifix with palms. This is the Crucifix that I gaze on each day for my prayer time, to put my thoughts on Love and others, and not on self.  Religious Art Photograph by Frank J Casella - frankjcasella.pixels.com  Pope Francis: “[Today’s Gospel invites us to] turn our gaze to the crucifix, which is not an ornamental object or clothing accessory – sometimes abused! – but a religious sign to be contemplated and understood.”

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The Catechism reminds us that the family is the fundamental setting where we learn the invaluable lessons of reconciliation and forgiveness. It is within the family that we develop the essential qualities of endurance, the joy of work, and fraternal love, which are all crucial for building strong and harmonious relationships. Moreover, the family is where we learn the importance of forgiveness, not just once, but repeatedly, as we navigate the inevitable challenges and conflicts that arise. As the Catechism states, "Here one learns endurance and the joy of work, fraternal love, generous–even repeated–forgiveness" (1657).

However, as most of us can attest, the family can also be the most difficult place to learn these lessons. The close living quarters, the emotional stakes, and the complex dynamics of family relationships can make it challenging to practice forgiveness and reconciliation. But the Church encourages us to seek reconciliation within our families, urging us to be "generous and tireless in forgiving one another for offenses, quarrels, injustices, and neglect" (2227). This is not only a natural response to mutual affection, but also a demand of Christ's charity, which calls us to love one another as he has loved us.

While there are many people in our lives who we consider our brothers and sisters, and many relationships that we should mend, perhaps the most important restoration that needs to happen is within our own families. This Lent, take some time to reflect on your family relationships and ask God to bring about the reconciliation and healing that is needed. Pray for the strength to forgive those who have hurt you, and for the courage to apologize and make amends when you have wronged others. By releasing the tensions and conflicts that have been holding you back, you can approach the altar with a heart full of peace and joy, ready to offer your gift to God with a sense of gratitude and humility.

Read and download Bishop Perry's How to Go to Confession. 

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Finding Hope: Catholic Quotes for Men

Photo: Measuring Up To Jesus - Color Square Photo Crucifix by Frank J Casella - frankjcasella.pixels.com

By Frank J Casella, CMCS Co-founder and Execuitve Director

Here are 7 insightful quotes on Catholic manhood that inspire us to live our faith and fulfill God's will, especially during challenging moments.

"The theme of the entire New Testament is that the infinite God has shown Himself to us in Christ. Faith thus starts with God who through Jesus opens his heart to us and invites us to share in his own divine life. Faith does not simply provide information about who Jesus is. Rather, our faith involves a personal relationship with Christ, a surrender of our whole person with all our understanding, our will and feelings, to God’s self-revelation of Himself to us."

~ Bishop Emeritus Joseph Perry of Chicago, CMCS Founder

“Faith is not a contract. Faith is surrender. If no other relationship in our experience is one of self-surrender, if it’s all contractual, people won’t know how to believe.”

  ~ The late Francis Cardinal George of Chicago

“The human spirit will not even begin to try to surrender self-will as long as all seems to be well with it…. But pain insists upon being attended to. God whispers to us in our pleasures, speaks in our conscience, but shouts in our pain: it is His megaphone to rouse a deaf world.”

  ~ C. S. Lewis

"It’s really very simple. Am I building up the kingdom of heaven or am I building up my own kingdom? Am I putting God’s name first and proclaiming His name, or am I proclaiming my name? Am I doing everything for God’s glory, or for my glory? We have to focus on this every day. If I am going to live God’s will, it has to be because I first seek the kingdom. Then He promises everything else will fall into place."

  ~ Fr. Larry Richards, Surrender! The Life-Changing Power of Doing God’s Will

"God’s will is almost always much tougher to do than our will. It requires more effort, more discipline, and it yields much less instant gratification. Most unpleasant of all, doing God’s will requires us to surrender our position as the center of the universe (at least in our own minds). We have to put God at the center of the universe and direct our attention toward Him, rather than sit on our little imaginary thrones and expect others to direct their attention toward us."

  ~ Deacon John Rangel, CMCS Co-founder & Director of Mission.

"If we want to work for the benefit of the poor, we have to be worshipping Jesus. If we want to face the darkness, the poverty, and the violence in our society without getting tired or angry or cynical or apathetic, we have to be going to Jesus. It is from Jesus alone that we will get the courage, the strength, and the hope we need to continue our work. We all want to do good, but if we think we can take these things on without Jesus next to us then we are going to end up angry, tired, and cynical. That is part of our problem today."

 ~ Auxiliary Bishop Mark Bartosic of Chicago

"Be Pure. Hate evil. Embrace Christ with all your heart! Too many of us men need to surrender our personal agenda to God. We must strive to be transparent with God and ourselves, and then with others, and thus be more like Christ and less like our old selves."

  ~ Frank J Casella, CMCS Co-founder & Executive Director

Bonus quote: 

"Support Each Other in the Growth of Our Faith"

~ Cardinal Blase Cupich of Chicago

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Catholic Man Moment: Becoming More Like The People We're Supposed To Be.

March 2nd 2025 Eighth Sunday in Ordinary Time

Topic: Becoming More Like The People We're Supposed To Be.

Year C, Luke 6:39-45: From the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.

Gospel Luke 6:39-45 Jesus told his disciples a parable, “Can a blind person guide a blind person? Will not both fall into a pit? No disciple is superior to the teacher; but when fully trained, every disciple will be like his teacher. Why do you notice the splinter in your brother’s eye, but do not perceive the wooden beam in your own? How can you say to your brother, ‘Brother, let me remove that splinter in your eye,’ when you do not even notice the wooden beam in your own eye? You hypocrite! Remove the wooden beam from your eye first; then you will see clearly to remove the splinter in your brother’s eye.

“A good tree does not bear rotten fruit, nor does a rotten tree bear good fruit. For every tree is known by its own fruit. For people do not pick figs from thornbushes, nor do they gather grapes from brambles. A good person out of the store of goodness in his heart produces good, but an evil person out of a store of evil produces evil; for from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks.”

Summary of Gospel Luke 6:39-45

Jesus teaches his disciples a parable about the importance of self-awareness and humility. He warns against hypocrisy by pointing out that one cannot help others with their flaws when they have not addressed their own. The parable also emphasizes that a person's character is revealed by their actions, and that good or evil behavior comes from within.

**Message** The Gospel passage from St. Luke (6:39-45) remains a timely reminder of the importance of self-reflection and personal growth. These words of Christ, spoken centuries ago, continue to resonate with us today, offering guidance on how to cultivate a more authentic and compassionate Christian community.

Unfortunately, it is a common phenomenon for individuals to focus on the shortcomings of others while neglecting their own flaws. This tendency to criticize and judge others can be particularly prevalent within the Christian community, where individuals may feel compelled to correct the perceived errors of others while overlooking their own shortcomings.

However, Christ's intention in sharing these words was not to condemn, but to encourage his listeners to examine their own hearts and minds. By acknowledging our own flaws and weaknesses, we can begin to cultivate a more humble and compassionate approach to our relationships with others.

The Church has selected this passage for us today to emphasize the importance of self-reflection and personal growth. By turning our critical gaze inward, we can work towards becoming more Christian and more charitable towards our neighbors. This process will not occur overnight, but rather through a gradual and imperceptible transformation, guided by God's grace.

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We Face the Challenge Together: Mass Attendance is Back!

Faithful Fatherhood - A Father kneels in prayer with family during a Catholic Mass, serving his family with faithfulness to God. Black and White Photography by Frank J. Casella. Click here to purchase.

Catholic men, let’s tackle this challenge together: our mass attendance is making a comeback.

Sunday Mass attendance in the US has rebounded to pre-pandemic figures, with around 24% of Catholics participating in person regularly. This upward trend has been evident since May 2023 and aligns with findings from national surveys and Google Trends. Researchers suggest that the decline in attendance during pandemic lockdowns was primarily influenced by local circumstances, as some regions were able to reopen faster than others. To address this issue, understanding these localized factors can help enhance future attendance and engagement within the community

The data indicates a notable increase in Mass attendance during holidays such as Christmas, Easter, and Ash Wednesday. Among these, Ash Wednesday emerges as a particularly significant day, ranking third in historical attendance rates and attracting the highest number of young adult Catholics. Researchers emphasize that Ash Wednesday presents a vital opportunity for the church to engage with young adults, shedding light on the potential future of the Catholic Church.

Likewise, a recent poll reveals a growing pro-life stance among men. Shawn Carney, President and CEO of 40 Days for Life, recently spoke with NTD News about the reasons [video] behind this shift, noting that men are starting to align with women in acknowledging the dignity of life in the womb. He shared that many men regret encouraging their girlfriends to have abortions, feeling they failed to defend both women and their unborn children. Ignoring men's roles in the pro-life movement only exacerbates the underlying issues regarding how men interact with women and approach the topic of abortion.

As Catholic men, we must unite to address the challenge we face. With mass attendance on the rise and a growing pro-life movement among men, particularly among young adults, now is the time to take action—especially with Ash Wednesday approaching. We are called to lead the mission of the family and guide others in this important journey.