#chaalta

[aayushiagrawal]

Kai baar jab sochte h ki life mai isa kyu hua toh lagta h ki yeh saare lessons h agar inse abhi Sikh liya toh baad mai dikkat nahi jaygi. Muhje apne USP par kaam karna h durse jo kar rahe h vo nahi karana h. Dosto ke liye aur sabhi cheezon ke liye hamesha grateful rahugi yrr. Jitna mil utna kisko mil raha hoga yrr. Sab chheeze best h.. Logo ke taane kabhi band nahi honge kuch bhi kar lo yeh tabhi band honge jab aap unko sunna band kar denge.

Lose but don't lose the lessons. If you have talent money will follow.

Maine galat relations mai apna bahut time waste Kiya h but ab nahi Vakai sirf sirf aur ek acha insan aapki दुनिया बदल देता h aur saare nukshaan ki baroai bhi kar deta h aur baki ki jarurat bhi nahi hai apko. Mai iss samay ke liye bahut grateful hu jisne mujhe paise ki value karna sikhaya aur baki cheez bhi manage karna sikhaya. Mai galat relations mai apni self respect ko bahut nukshaan pahuchaya h. You can't say that you can't move on life ke har ek mod par aapko ek na ek aisa insaan mil hi jata h jo aapko samjhta h ki life itni bhi buri ni h yr aur usse Milne ke baad aapko lagta h ki abhi aur jina h..

We forget things if we had no one to tell. Grateful ki apne sapno ko jee rahi hu and logo ko pechane ki samhj sikh rahi hu.

Relations ko lekar had se jyada sochna and expectations out of bounds karna band karna h kaam ko priority dena h and focus rehna h with happiness. Jyada kaam karne wala hamesha hasta rehta h Kam kaam karne wala hamesha gusse mai rehta h. Abhi bhaut bor ho rahe h kuch dino se bas Khushi iss baat ki h ki yeh waqt bhi gujar jayga. Dukhi nai hote toh sukh ka pata nahi chalta

Log saath chodte nahi toh saath dena kya hota h pata nhai chaalta Gande, galat aur ghatiya log nahi milte toh sahi cheez kya hoti h pata nahi chalta. Ab agar kio muhje nahi accept karega toh mai kuch bhi nahi kar sakti. Ab mai iss sab se bahar aa gayi hu ab toh mai chahati hu ki kio kare accept toh thik nahi kare toh aur bhi achi baat h.

Mujhe ab kisi ke acceptance ki jarurat nahi h yrr. Maine khud apne aap ko bahut late accept Kiya h.

Power of money I understand very late in life. This also teaches me the importance of self respect. This is golden period of my life. I am started new journey new beginning new life. Mere liye meri padhai n career ke alawa aur kuch bhi nhi h. 'Ek vyakti ki utni hi aukat h jitna uska apna paisa uske Bank account mai h'. I will never compromise with my ambitions for anything.

And I am very grateful and thankful to God. For blessing me with such a beautiful life and amazing people. Mere saath sab kuch acha hi hota h mere saare kaam vo kar hi dete h jisko meri life me bejna h vo bej dete h. Mai signs and connection mai bahut beleive karti hu. Har baat ka kahi na kahi se kuch na kuch connection hota h. Bas muhje ab bhut jyada mehnat karne ki jarurat hai had se jyada.

I am grateful for my body type and personality kabhi socha nahi tha but ab samhj aaya h. Aaj sikha ki Har relation ki boundary hoti h aur sabko sahi language mai samjhna padta. Aaj mai iss cheez ke liye grateful hu ki mere pass sahi education h Paise kamane ka sahi tarika muhje pata h aur Muhje apna jivansathi chunne ki puri freedom h. Chote chote modho par hil jaoge Zindagi aur bhi bade tamashe lane wali h tab kya karoge.'

'Dukh me sumiran sab kare, Sukh me kare na koi Jo sukh sumiran kare, Dukh kahe ko hoye.'

Daily likhna h mere saath kya acha hua and kis cheez ke liye grateful ho.

I like English Vinglish Movie last dialogue- "Family should not be judgemental."

They see you wounds. They have seen you are without your armour and shield. Duniya and log alag h yr vo kya sochte h kio farq nahi padta. This is my perspective. Ek baat toh h ki 'ab yeh 2022 ki Aayushi h yaha se sirf aage hi jaygi'. Iss saal ne bahut kuch sikhya ya sabse jaruri move on karna sikhya. Ek new chapter start hone wala h life ka and now I want to design my life in my own terms.

Muhje toh ab aisa lagta h ki muhje duniya ki kio taqat nahi haara sakti ab. Mind mai clarity ke vajah se. Hum dhyan nahi dete h lekin bahut chote chote si chheze bahut matter karti h. Maine khud ko accept kar liya h. Yeh bahut badi cheez h kaash iss cheez ko phele accept kiya hota.

Sabse bade 2 point- Apne jindagi jee rahi hu jo ki bahut late jeena start kiya h thik h na. Apne kismat khud apne hatho se likhugi yeh baat pakki pata h muhje. Bas yeh 2 cheeze dimag mai rakhna h. Toh phir kuch bhi ho jaye kya faraq padta h.

Hamare pass do jeevan hote dursa tab start hota h jab hame pata hota ki hamre pass ek hi jindagi h. Kyuki kahi bhi raho kisi bhi shadhi mai ek time ke baad sab thanda pad jayga lekin passion dhudh liya toh vo kabhi kaam nahi padega. Jab kisi ke pass apna kio passion ya dream hota h toh vo kabhi bor nahi hota apni life se aur kisi bhi cheez se Time hi nahi milta.

I only want to say. “ JO BHI SOCHO USE KARKE KHATM KRO, SOCHKE NAHI".

Galat log aate rahenge aur galat cheeze hoti rahegi zindagi mai ignore karna h bas aur aage badhna h. Hamare pass do jeevan hote dursa tab start hota h jab hame pata hota ki hamre pass ek hi jindagi h.

Kyuki kahi bhi raho kisi bhi shadhi mai ek time ke baad sab thanda pad jayga lekin passion dhudh liya toh vo kabhi kaam nahi padega.

Ek Aur Chhez Sikhi Iss Saal aur vo yeh ki- Agar kio aapko insult kar raha h abuse kar raha h galti uski nahi aapki h apne usko haq diya indirectly bola h aapko insult karne ko. Iseliye Jawab dena sikh jao Kahi bhi bikari ki tarah jakr nhi bathna h. Jyada izzat nahi dena h kisiko bhi attitude rakhna Sikh jao.

Ek samay ke baad jab aapko kisi ke bhi hone ya na hone se farq padhna band ho jata h. Aapko samajh aa jata h ki apka aapse acha dost jeevan sathi aur humdard aur kio nahi h. Tab aap sirf apne aap ko banane par focus karte ho aapko kisi ki jarurat nahi hoti acha feel karne ke liye. Life mai bahut kuch dekhna bhi ek age tak bahut achi cheez h maturity aati h. Durso ke galti se sikhna matlab samhj lo apna bahut sara time Bacha lena. Kio 40 saal ka bta Raha h apni galti aur aapne usse Sikh liya toh ab aapke paas apni age mai uske jitna experience ho jata h. Agar kismat Mai likha hoga saath chalna toh raste khud hi milegae.

Thank you so much god apne bahut pyari life di h muhje mai har ek cheez ke liye grateful hu. Aapne muhje sab kuch diya h jo chahiye tha usse jyada hi diya h bas jab bhi himaat hare ya mai kuch bhi galat socho apne aur apni life ke baare mai toh muhje yeh yaad rakhna h ki mai kitni lucky hu. Apne hamesha muhje sahi time par sahi lesson sikhaya h.

Roj itni ladkiyo ki stories sunti hu toh bahut inspire ho jati hu. Yeh struggle time jab aapke pass apne daily expense ke bhi paise nhi h aapko sikhata h paise ki asli value.

Believe. Believe in the universe and it’s energy. Nothing will ever go wrong :) Hamesha apne career ko priority di h kyuki muhje pata h 90% life ispar depend karti h. Financially independent rahogi apne decision khud le paogi and most importantly khush reh paogi.

Jitna bhi explore kiya h abhi tak yahi jana h apne baare mai ki emotional connection ki need h muhje and ek baar mai kisi se emotionally connect ho jao then there is no going back. Uske liye quality time lagta h aur samay se jyada samjh ki jarurat hoti h.

Ek aur cheez jo full on decide kar li h Aur vo yeh h ki abhi tak jo bhi maine likha h partner ke baare mai vo sab khud hi pura karna h sabkuch khud decide karna h. Apne life ki 100% responsibility lena h. Toh matlab bahut sara designing ka kaam karna h aur define karna h.

Life mai designing karna matlab yeh nahi ki tumne jo decide kar liya vahi hoga balki yeh balehi sab tumhare according na ho par tume pata ki sab kaise sambhalna h. Mai ek akeli nahi hu meri jaisi hazaro ladkiya h yr jo yahi fas jati h par kam se kam mere pass hope toh h yr aur jab tak mere pass yeh h tab tak sab kuch h meri life mai. Itna pyaar karne wale log mile h na ki aisa kuch sochna bhi paap hoga. Yahi cheez h jo muhje kahi na kahi motivate karta h financially independent banane ke liye. Yeh baat toh h ki lucky in love hu aur bahut fortune hu ache logo se milne ke mamle mai.Galat logo se ni milogi toh himmat kaise milegi aur sahi kya h yeh kaise pata chalega.

"Kisi ke bhi aane ya jane ka dukh hona bewakoofi h. Na yaha kisi ka janam hua h na mutru hi sambhav h." God is with me and the decision that are not in my control he will handle that for me and whatever he do I fully accept that as it is by my heart because that is the only best choice for me.

I don't care about anything in this world except myself and my happiness. Bhagwan ne muhje yeh oppurtunity di h ki mai khud apni life ko mehnat karke upgrade kar sakti hu toh bas phir uspar hi dhyan dena h.

[bengalifoods]

Reposted from @pickletopilaf Chaaltar Tok I don't know if Chaalta or Elephant Apple is had this way in any other community. For Bengalis, it is a sheer mouthwatering delicacy, a khatta-meetha or sweet-n-sour runny, syrupy dish in which sliced Chaalta pieces are cooked in a sugar syrup with while jeera and kalonji in a little mustard oil used for tempering. A pinch of salt and a dash of lime juice is added to make it heavenly! The best way to finish a lunch on a sultry, sweaty, icky summer afternoon. Especially in this month of Bhadra, when the heat is of a different kind (Bongs call this month Pocha Bhadro because of the gloomy heat that almost resembles a sauna!). Just sucking out the juicy Chaalta while the sweet-n-sour (the sourness is more than its sweet) syrup drips off the pieces... Bliss ❤️! . . Do you eat Chaalta? . . . #chaalta #chalta #tok #ombol #chutney #instalike #bestoftheday #moodygrams #igrefined #instagood #indiafoodbloggers #nomnom #bengalicuisine #recipeshare #cooklife #homemadedishes #homemadefood #foodpicture #foodfeed #pickletopilaf #bengalifoods - #regrann https://www.instagram.com/p/CE3kubvF_az/?igshid=cma78mbhb80t

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Main zara haat chaalta hun

Zamane ky riwayaton sy

Jinpey bojh mai dalu

Un kan'doh mai yaad rakta hoon

[aayushiagrawal]

30 Sept, 2022.                                                        Day 16

Sabke sapne pure ho rahe h muhje bhi ab iss basad se bahar nikalna h aur apna banana h yr kuch. Ab muhje kio bhi faltu reason nahi dena h Ab thoda alag experience chalega. Bas extra income generate karni h apne saare sapne pure karana h Bhut focus rehna h ab faltu cheeze bahut kam ho gayi h life se.

Kai baar jab sochte h ki life mai isa kyu hua toh lagta h ki yeh saare lessons h agar inse abhi Sikh liya toh baad mai dikkat nahi jaygi. Muhje apne USP par kaam karna h durse jo kar rahe h vo nahi karana h. Dosto ke liye aur sabhi cheezon ke liye hamesha grateful rahugi yrr. Jitna mil utna kisko mil raha hoga yrr. Sab chheeze best h..

Logo ke taane kabhi band nahi honge kuch bhi kar lo yeh tabhi band honge jab aap unko sunna band kar denge.

Lose but don't lose the lessons. If you have talent money will follow.

Maine galat relations mai apna bahut time waste Kiya h but ab nahi Vakai sirf sirf aur ek acha insan aapki दुनिया बदल देता h aur saare nukshaan ki baroai bhi kar deta h aur baki ki jarurat bhi nahi hai apko. Mai iss samay ke liye bahut grateful hu jisne mujhe paise ki value karna sikhaya aur baki cheez bhi manage karna sikhaya. Mai galat relations mai apni self respect ko bahut nukshaan pahuchaya h. You can't say that you can't move on life ke har ek mod par aapko ek na ek aisa insaan mil hi jata h jo aapko samjhta h ki life itni bhi buri ni h yr aur usse Milne ke baad aapko lagta h ki abhi aur jina h..

We forget things if we had no one to tell. Grateful ki apne sapno ko jee rahi hu and logo ko pechane ki samhj sikh rahi hu.

Relations ko lekar had se jyada sochna and expectations out of bounds karna band karna h kaam ko priority dena h and focus rehna h with happiness. Jyada kaam karne wala hamesha hasta rehta h Kam kaam karne wala hamesha gusse mai rehta h. Abhi bhaut bor ho rahe h kuch dino se bas Khushi iss baat ki h ki yeh waqt bhi gujar jayga. Dukhi nai hote toh sukh ka pata nahi chalta

Log saath chodte nahi toh saath dena kya hota h pata nhai chaalta

Gande,galat aur ghatiya log nahi milte toh sahi cheez kya hoti h pata nahi chalta.

Ab agar kio muhje nahi accept karega toh mai kuch bhi nahi kar sakti

Ab mai iss sab se bahar aa gayi hu ab toh mai chahati hu ki kio kare accept toh thik nahi kare toh aur bhi achi baat h.

Mujhe ab kisi ke acceptance ki jarurat nahi h yrr Maine khud apne aap ko bahut late accept Kiya h.