#calling out these people's weird and creepy behavior is the nicest we can be about them
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master-gatherer · 17 days ago
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"hey guys this fucked up guy is getting put in charge of something and has detailed plans to fuck it up in the worst possible way"
"ummmmmm actually he's not completely fucked up and also that's offensive to people who are kinda fucked up :/"
"ok well he's still planning to fuck it up in the worst possible way"
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friendofthecrows · 3 years ago
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Posting a way more in-depth description of my alters than any of you want or need because why not
Keiko: friendliest, nicest, cutest, acts the youngest. Used to front a lot when we were hanging out with friends. Still essentially like the rest of us in that she has the same personality disorders (pointing this out because you wouldn’t guess she has ASPD but we all do. No, none of us are “more of a psychopath” or evil vs good or whatever compared to one another). She just seems more able to feel/express the positive spectrum of emotions, she hasn’t repressed it or detached herself from it as much. She/her pronouns. Aroace. Current fave thing: either MLP or stimboards
Miyuki: calm, collected, responsible, acts like a gatekeeper of the system a lot as in she’s the only one we can actually trust to moderate the rules objectively. Also has pulled people out or put people in control before. Less “control panel” access than say Jokul or I though, but probably only due to lack of practice. THE most sane one (idk how that works either) and the one with the least emotional turmoil. Used to wonder if 1. She was capable of caring about people and 2. If she actually felt any emotions at all. The answer is yes she does, she just Bottles Them Up Completely. We are taking it in faith that she feels stuff because the body cried once while she was in control. Pronouns: she/her. Sexuality: ???? when it comes to romance, but definitely ace. Current fave thing: tea, specifically a nice warming oolong like Da Hong Pao.
Yahto: (me!) people are suggesting ways to describe me and it is mean. For most of my knowledge of my own existence as a separate alter, I’ve kind of assigned myself the role of protector. I was very functional as well! Confident (bordering on insufferably arrogant), and with the level of detachment from my emotions I had at the time as well as my complete lack of fear, perfectly suited to deal with a wide variety of situations. Only if we were okay with other people thinking we’re weird because I used to have a worse filter than I have now. I experienced fear for the first time 3.5 years ago right alongside the strongest emotions I’ve ever felt and my mental health has been spiraling downwards ever since :) Also I am literally the most stubborn person you will ever meet. He/him pronouns. Anything having to do with orientation is a big question mark right now, I just know I’m probably not interested in men. I HAVE dated women but tbh I’m no longer sure if I’m even interested in them. Current fave thing: yahto.exe stopped working 38 hours of being awake ago. Uh,,,,idk sorry How about reading fzanfic to pass the time fnafic fanfic
Jezebeth (Jez): (headspace bestie! Great at writing horror poems!) Does Not Care About People but also surprisingly extremely chill. When she’s enthusiastic about something, she’s REALLY ENTHUSIASTIC ABOUT IT but otherwise mostly just stays quiet and has a nice time Observing. People either find her really fun to be around or creepy. No in between. She went through a phase where she thought it was funny to creep people out by saying really messed up things so that probably didn’t help. Actually, DURING said phase, she single-handedly made and maintained the best in-school friendship we ever had for 4 years. Literally none of us talked to her except for Jez. She just had endless “creepy” conversation topics and Robin thought it was *amazing. * She/her pronouns, I have no idea sexuality wise simply because she does not talk about that kind of thing. Current fave thing: inking pens :)
Jokul: (sworn enemy, tried to kill myself once to take him down with us) Perfectly reasonable person realistically. Nothing particularly wrong with him. I just Do Not Like Him. Especially since for as long as I can remember, we’ve made it a game to torment each other. You see, we both hate boredom more than anything else, or at least we did when we were even younger and more naive and we’re not actually malicious, and yet foolishly prided ourselves on not being nice and also our ability to manipulate people. No, little kid me was probably not actually an expert on manipulation, we just thought we were at the time. This all resulted in us taking our boredom, pent up malice, and desire to prove we were better than one another on each other. Such a great idea (sarcastic). We did in fact get better at emotionally wounding people after years of practice, and predictably (if we had any foresight on this matter at all) it backfired! I did in fact turn this skill against the one person I cared about in an effort to push them away during one of my breakdowns and it resulted in 6 suicide attempts, not including my own. Jokul has been trying to manipulate me positively since (both of us have been ordered to be nice to each other by Miyuki because we were causing too many problems) and it has Not Worked. If he was a separate person, I would skin him. The only person I’ve hated so much. We’ve been on relatively good terms lately. Been capable of having casual conversations. Things are okay, I guess. His personality is entirely fake, so I don’t know how to describe it except for how he acts when we’re trying to hurt each other, which might be him dropping his mask or it might be a whole different act just for that. Pronouns: He/him. Sexuality: He can change it at will? I think default is aroace though? Current fave thing: *Jokul imitation* “My purple silk dress I wear when I’m meeting people and am desperate for them to worship my beauty. I look so irresistibly elegant in it, it makes everyone like me automatically.” His actual answer is Death Note (cringe) (I’ve been yelled at for calling Death Note cringe)
Gracelynn: (headspace ex-bestie) Everyone thinks she’s the nicest person ever and super loyal and so on. She is to other people but apparently not to me anymore. Still finds it difficult to empathize with people and care about them, but apparently decided to be nice anyways. Like she doesn’t get the fuss about friends but she’s here for them anyways. Spends as much time daydreaming as possible these days, used to front A TON a few years ago. Extremely shy and full of social anxiety and anxiety in general. Goes nonverbal in a plethora of social situations. Freakishly good memory. Has way less memory gaps than I do and I have no idea why. She/her pronouns, probably aroace Current fave thing: brace yourself for no surprises, a tie between horseback riding and the Chronicles of Amber.
Ryo: (the alter of many names: Ryo, Rachel, Ry, Rei, R) The newest. Noticed a new voice and behavior that did not match any of ours a while after the events of 3.5 years ago. Might be coincidence, might not be, I don’t care. Kind of down to earth and practical and normal compared to the rest of us. Despite him being here for years now I don’t know that much about him partially because I don’t care and haven’t been paying attention, and partially because system communication hasn’t been that great (I’ve also been getting way more memory gaps! Whole days lost! Isn’t that great? (sarcastic)). Pronouns: varies, any are fine. (Despite us, in general, identifying as gender fluid so we don’t have to explain, Ryo is the only ACTUALLY gender fluid alter in our system) Aroace. Current fave thing: He said sleep, he wants us to go to sleep. (refuses to answer the fun question genuinely) Well Ryo, you have just failed my vibe check. Your reward is uh,,,AT LEAST 13 more hours of being awake. Yayyy
(I did colors here but the all green theme will stay in other posts <3 Really if I had to describe our auras it would be different shades of blue anyways.)
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the-dc-killjoy · 4 years ago
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4x10 - Life Turned Her That Way
I’m probably not gonna make this an official thing that I do every week, but this episode came for my head, and I need to talk about it!
Obviously, spoilers for the most recent episode and earlier seasons of Wynonna Earp. I went full character/episode meta- this is long.
After the silly, not-very-plot heavy vibes of the last few episodes, I knew that the writers would have to ramp it up especially considering that we only have two more episodes until the end, but this was a lot. 
Starting off on a lighter note: Cleo!
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She is delightful, and when (if, that terrifying, factual voice in my head says) we get a fifth season, I want to see her as the sexy, slighty evil anti-hero we deserve! Glad she’s back, red’s still her colour, my soul belongs to Savannah Basely.
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Martina was spectacular. I’m gonna sing her praises no matter what she does. It comes with the territory of watching her sing the national anthem at Leaf’s games since I was a kid, but we can just ignore my bias for now. 
Rachel is the classic moody teen, but this episode really showed that she was just a kid. She spent a long time in situations where her life was constantly at risk and people were dying, and Rachel wanted to prove that she was just as tough as the adults. In some ways, she is. Rachel is quick on her feet and marches unflinchingly into challenges, and she remains composed when the people she cares about are in danger. Being surrounded by death and pain (even though she’s far too used to that condition) still rattled her, though. She is far too adult for her age, but she still isn’t the lone warrior that she wants to be seen as. 
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The intro/intervention felt a little hamfisted and didn’t really fit with the tone of the show, but it was necessary and they couldn’t keep sweeping Wynonna’s alcoholism under the rug. I just felt like it was an excuse to get Peacemaker out of her hands for the episode. Maybe it’s because the last few episodes were really goofy that a serious plot felt like a massive tonal change. On a rewatch, I appreciate the scene a whole lot more. Wynonna, Whisky-soaked and Reckless, Earp has had a drink in her hand since episode one, and it was almost always played for laughs. She had fun, but it never seemed to affect her seriously (until it did). After her kidnapping/Jack, she got so drunk that she attacked some random dude thinking he was a demon and got kicked out of Shorty’s. That bar has had weird/slighty illegal/very illegal shit happen in there and no one bats an eye. But, she came into work the next morning sober and snapped out of her week long funk. Her trauma-fueled alcohol binges were always fundamentally different from her usual behavior and resulted in paranoia and (more than typical) recklessness.
Now, however, she’s been spiraling since Holt’s shooting, and it’s only gotten worse. Wynonna wakes up, drunkely hunts demons in the forest, gets even more drunk, and passes out just to repeat that cycle for days on end. It makes sense that the people who care about her are worried, and the intervention set up the it’s time to deal with serious shit plot that permeated the episode. Waverly’s mean drunk comment really cut Wynonna to her core. Yes, she’s spiralling and needs help, but to be compared to a man who caused so much pain was harsh. If they had a few hours to cool off, maybe there would have been a productive conversaion, but nooo, demons and creepy fog cant take one day off. 
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I’ve always felt slightly off about the Angel!Waverly plotline. It just felt a little lackluster. Yay the nicest person in town is a literal angel. no one could have possibly seen this coming! The season 3 wardrobe department had her in that fluffy white coat for the entire year. Waverly was looking hella angelic long before the big reaveal.
The anxiety that she felt about possibly being half-Revenant was so important to her development in season 2, and played into the much older, much deeper anxieties she has about being unwanted or unloved. It felt a little awkward (to me) that they skirted over all of that and just went: she’s perfect because her genes are perfect!
Jolene (the episode not the character) was so powerful because it tore her down. That episode showed Waverly when she felt the worst about herself and it was heartbreaking. She saved herself from Jolene mentally. Demons threating to kill characters is just a day to day thing. Really hammering into her insecurities to the point of suicidal ideation- that was a whole different ballpark. Waverly talking herself away from the metaphorical ledge and saying that she does have people who love her and people who will fight for her (compounded by Dom’s phenomenal acting); it was one of the best scenes I’ve ever watched in pretty much anything really.
Having Jolene (talking about the character now) come back, and really sink into Waverly in a way that paralleled the original episode, in dialogue and in aesthetic, seemed a bit like a copy at first. I thought that the writers were trying to call back to the season 3 episode really obviously, but I couldn’t figure out how they were going to subvert it. It’s not like they could write the same exact scenario, twice?
Boy, they didn’t fail me! This show has gore (I know this feels like tangent, but trust me!). It has a lot of gore, but that’s fine. There is not a body part nor animal that hasn’t been chopped off, torn out, or put in a blender. We signed up for the gratuitious violence. The Waverly and Jolene fight/dark angel conversion and the aftermath was something different. This was pain. It wasn’t violence just for the sake of it. It was just watching a character that’s wormed her way into our hearts in pain, and it fucked me up. I can’t watch that again! The dynamic that Dom and Zoie bring to these characters is magnetic and horrifying and a complete masterpiece!
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Waverly’s far from the only supernatural being on the show, but now she’s the most important. Dolls, Doc, Rosita, Casey, and even Kate were demons that Wynonna cared about (or was vaguely friendly to), but they didn’t hold the power that Fallen Angel!Waverly does. Wynonna has made it incredibly clear that Waverly is her person, the one person that she’d damn the whole world to save, and now Waverly’s potentially the threat to the world. Wynonna had to kill one sister in the season 1 finale, and that nearly broke her. What happens now, all these years later, when she’s a lot more trigger happy but the person on the other end of the barrel matters to her more than anything in the world? Emily tweeted that the next episode was gonna hit even harder, and I’m still so perplexed that this shitshow/masterpiece is ending.
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R.I.P Casey. You were the best stoner demon buddy.
Mercedes Gardner has been through too much shit to die at the hands of random BBD agent #4. I’ll believe it when I see it.
Is Billy perma-dead now? There was a thing in the promo with Rachel and the Clanton stone. Is she gonna try to re-resurect him?
Poor Doc, Jeremy, and Nicole. Hopefully they’re a bit less sidelined next week. Although, as I type that I realize that being sidelined means that they’re safe, and more screentime means more risk...
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henrik-von-schneeplestein · 5 years ago
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sorry we keep coming to bother you with stuff like this, but did you happen to see the nasty 'creepy comment' about ego shipping huffle-dork made before retagging it? that horrid septic-dr-schneep came in with their own stupid post. are shippers in the wrong for being upset? should there be an anti ego shipping tag for those that don't like it you think? (sorry if including their names doesn't sit well with you) ~🥀
Yiiiiikes omg I was at work and didn’t see at all but I did some ~research~ and jesus fucking christ lol
Shippers are definitely allowed to be upset at being called creepy (can’t believe that needs saying but this is the JSE fandom so) but honestly this is one of those things that I don’t even have the capacity to be angry about anymore. Anyone who ships the egos has heard this, and we’ve heard it eight million times. We know exactly what these people say about us, and we also know that no one else in the community cares. I’ve said it before and I’ll say it every day if I have to: the reason things like this are so asinine and hurtful are because ego shippers are without contest the nicest part of this fandom (they’re also the most talented, which is I think a bigger part of the issue than people realize lol - for some of those people, it truly is jealousy). I don’t give a single fuck if people in this fandom like me; it’s when I see people, especially LGBTQ+ people, talk about how ashamed they feel of shipping and making secret blogs to avoid backlash for it, that I get angry. Because to see the kindest, most welcoming people in the fandom feeling like they don’t belong - being told that they don’t belong - is heartbreaking.
I didn’t see the ‘should people who hate ego ships have their own tag’ part of the discourse, but all I can say is that if the concept of gay people writing stories that represent their own identities makes you so angry that you feel the need to comment on it in literally any way that isn’t ‘hey I personally don’t like ego shipping so don’t tag me in it or send it to me,’ I don’t think what you need is a tag, I think what you need is probably therapy. 
Unless what you meant is should there be a specific tag they can block, in which case the answer is absolutely: the name of whatever ship they’re uncomfortable with. It’s absolutely valid to be uncomfortable with/hate a certain ship - I’m sure plenty of shippers have a few - and if there’s more than one, you can easily block more than one ship name. If you hate the concept of any of these male characters being shipped together, it’s your responsibility to block all those tags. Some people may tag ‘ego shipping’ on fanworks they post (sometimes it’s nice to do - I track ‘ego shipping!’ Get that exposure, y’all!) but that’s in no way required. It’s not something that necessitates warning, like violence or sexual content; there’s nothing inherently objectionable or controversial about ego shipping (or any other queer content) so it doesn’t need to be tagged and it most certainly doesn’t need to be warned for. 
By the wayside, using names is fine on my blog. I’m definitely a big believer in ‘if what you’re saying is justified, you sign your name to it and don’t subpost or be passive aggressive; own it entirely, otherwise it’s just gossip and shit talk.’ I’ll always risk ‘drama’ to make my stance clear.  Every time I see a blog that has one of those weird insult things isa-ghost gives out in their description - idk if it’s an AU or like a joke but they’re like “’ugly carrot’ according to isa-ghost” or “’unwanted suitcase’ according to isa-ghost” - I desperately want to add “’petty shipper’ according to isa-ghost” to my description but I mean I think that might validate the ‘petty’ part a little too much jghjfgh. ‘Horrid’ is maybe a stronger word than I would use for s-d-s but I mean if they’ve made you feel uncomfortable you have a right to say so. I’ve never had an issue with people just saying on their own blog that they personally don’t like shipping which to the best of my knowledge is what that person mainly sticks to, even if I agree it’s pretty clear that her stance is the same as the people who are actively horrible to us, and I did take issue with something (unrelated to shipping) she said once so I don’t really interact with her. The blogs I’m always talking about that I really find disgusting are the ones that call us gross, the ones that claim we shouldn’t like it or should ‘trigger warn’ it, the ones who say we don’t belong in the community, the ones who say we should ‘have our lgbt cards taken away’ lol. That’s the thing - we literally are asking for the most basic of respect. The bar is literally underground, and these people just keep picking up shovels.
Honestly, my reaction to this happening is ‘well, what are we gonna do about it?’ Not in a defeatist way - I’m genuinely asking. What can we do to make sure all the wonderful, creative, talented, sweet ego shippers know that they’re valued members of this community, and deserve better than this kind of treatment? To anyone who may still be reading who isn’t actively a shipper but likes to consider themselves a kind & welcoming community, I’m sorry, but I need to ask you to do better. If you see someone saying something actively mean or disrespectful about ego shippers, at the very least, unfollow & stop interacting. I know that’s a big ask, even if it shouldn’t be, because these are big blogs and you want to feel included and have friends. But continuing to support them is by nature saying that it’s acceptable behavior, that it’s just a difference of opinion, and again, once it crosses that line, it’s not anymore. By all means, interact with people who don’t ship and don’t like shipping - interact with ONLY those people if you want. And of course I can’t tell you what to do when it comes to the downright mean people, I’m just asking you to consider what you’re saying when you tolerate people who insult and demean certain community members for no reason, and I’m also asking you not to further insult us by telling us you support us while making it very clear that you don’t care if we’re treated with basic respect or not.
And to the shippers, my ‘what can we do?’ is a genuine, open-ended question. If there’s anything that I personally can do to make you feel welcome in this community, please tell me what it is. I’m not a very popular blog at all, but you should always feel free to tag me in/send me any ego ship content and I’ll happily reblog it, and god knows I’m always around to talk about ships, AUs, headcanons, and that kind of thing! I’m also around to talk just in general - if you’re feeling ashamed, angry, or sad about your place in the fandom, I’ve always got open ears and heart emojis for you. I love you very much and I’m glad you’re here.
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ohhoneato · 4 years ago
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Can we share crazy school stories? Cause one of my friends said something about their teacher still being allowed to teacher after being arrested for coke possession and it made me want me stories that are just as crazy.
My forensics teacher in high school was fired for sleeping with multiple students the year I was taking his class, so I got switched to a new teacher.
This teacher was a beautiful woman in a biker gang that protected children from abusive households and she had a pet reptile (I don't remember what kind but they looked like a big lizard) that she would share pictures of him sunbathing by her pool or swimming. She was my favorite teacher that year.
The same year weirdly enough, one of the guys in my year threatened to shoot up the cafeteria and came to school with a gun. He got arrested and also became a meme around my school, for some reason. I only learned that he was a meme because one of my friends I still hang out with from high school referenced him recently in the form of a meme, which I didn't get because I didn't care about the guy, as long as no one ended up dead.
There was a tall, super skinny guy at my high school (different guy) who was always walking around in full cowboy get up. I live in Texas, you'd think that wouldn't be out of the ordinary, but everyone thought that was super weird. He turned out to be very gay, I am happy to report.
One time I was in a horrible mood at school because my anxiety was peaking. I ended up snapping at my theater teacher and started crying, so he sent me into the hall. This was a class with a large majority of my friends in it. After a while of me thinking I was in some deep shit, he came out into the hall and asked me to come back inside. He'd asked everyone to act like we were at Disney World to try and cheer me up. That is one of the single most nicest things anyone has ever done for me.
When I was in Junior high (7th-8th grade), I'd give my gym teacher massages during class to get out of playing volleyball. I hate playing volleyball. Sure am glad I like giving massages though.
In 5th grade I failed math so I had to take summer school. My math teacher was really nice, we'd never really had a problem with her or anything. During summer school, I felt she got even better, because not only did we get snacks, but when we were working she'd come over and massage random student's shoulders and it felt really nice. I still don't find any issue with that, but my parents still don't like her because of that. They thought it was creepy and predatory behavior.
One of the lower grades I had a bus driver named Mr. John (only saying the name because it's super common and slightly relevant). I had no friends on the bus, so I would always sit behind him and talk to him while he drove. He was a super sweet guy, despite not being religious myself, he would always talk about the bible. And it wasn't the normal type of "don't sin or hell for you" speeches. Each day he brought something new to talk about and you could feel that he was passionate, but not forceful. At the end of the year he pulled me aside and handed me a small blue bible. It had bible verses highlighted, notes taken, it was used. His favorite bible verse was written in the front and it was part of the book of John. I am not and never have been religious, but he was my favorite bus driver. You could tell he cared about the kids and he was really nice and sweet. He never got upset with me for talking and would always try to cheer me up if I was in a bad mood. I still have and treasure that bible.
When I was in 1st grade, I had no friends. I was a loner. I met my best friend (who passed away 2 years ago) that year, but she wasn't in the same class as me. This story isn't about that, this story is about my teacher. Mrs. Vaughn (derogatory). This lady, for some reason, had something against me. I don't know why, I didn't talk in class pretty much at all, I was a good noodle. But somehow I always got in trouble for talking and she'd take my recess away. It got bad enough that this was the first grade i remember feeling depressed, though I didn't know it was called that, I was like 6. I won't say I was flawless, but I didn't do much to actually get in trouble, this lady just had it out for me! She'd punish me for things people across the room did! I don't know what her beef was with me, but I hope she's fired, because that had a lasting impact on me.
And that's all that's come to mind at the moment! Do y'all have any crazy, weird, or random stories?
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thisdiscontentedwinter · 7 years ago
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*1/7* Nyxelestia's (& princeescaluswords) latest self insert victim blaming/abuse apologism - pro TP/Scott Mccall delirium "The fact that people claim Posey insulted or slammed on Sterek fans is one of the ways people twist him into something he’s not in order to justify hating him. Posey never called Sterek fans 'bizarre, weird or twisted'. Crystal Reed got asked 'Is Allison going to dress like a slut this season?'
*2/7* So it’s not just Posey watching himself get marginalized - it’s watching a friend of his get mistreated, too, and that’s on top of the overall show getting drowned in a fanon/crackship. And given how often Sterek fandom has overtaken everything else about the show, I don’t blame him for overtaking a single question that was directed at Tyler Hoechlin.
*3/7* All of this is accompanied by a long history of hatred of Scott - the main character of the show, and Posey’s character that was largely perpetuated by Sterek fandom. Things like not knowing TP’s the main character of his own show, claiming that the show is all about Stiles, people trying to remove Scott from his own story by claiming it’s really about Derek and that everything is from Stiles’ POV, erasing all of Scott’s character development…*4/7* All on top of a long history of erasing Derek’s abusive behavior while calling Scott a rapist and victim-blaming him. Calling Scott selfish for making tough decisions to save as many lives as possible, blaming Scott for Gerard’s villainy and making a choice to save as many people as possible while ignoring some of the Hale mens’ own actions, and erasing Scott scenes to paint him as putting Stiles and Derek in danger so he can spend time with his girlfriend
*5/7* For all that people claim Scott-stans and non-Sterek fans go into Sterek tags to bully them, most Sterek fans seem to have no idea just how much Sterek infects other fandoms/the rest of fandom. Yes, there were crazy fans from all ships sending hate to all the actors, for a variety of reasons. But a lot of people fail to realize the sheer scale of the Sterek fandom compared to all the rest of Teen Wolf fandom combined.
*6/7* …In conclusion, If my understanding of a ship was predominantly made up of people erasing me from my own TV show, saying I deserved to be raped and murdered, and making the rest of my friends uncomfortable or harassing them in the process? ‘Bizarre, twisted and weird’ would be the nicest way to say what I think of them. (In my case, it really is.)“
*7/7* Oh, she also called Hobrien “RPF Sterek”? Because of course Nyxie lives in her own little delusional AU in which TP’s unhealthy and creepy af unrequited obsession/affection/industry friendship/infatuation for Dylan O'Brien is ‘true love’ and Hobrien never EVER existed. Of course… Their “undeniable chemistry” is just not real, okay?! #SureJan
As always with Nyx, her little rants are fairly easy to unpack. 
Calling Sterek “bizarre, weird and twisted” is what now? A compliment to the people who like it? Fans were hurt. And the thing with other people being hurt, you don’t get to say “Oh, that never happened!” Their hurt did happen. Was it an overreaction? That’s not my place to judge, and it’s not Nyx’s either. 
Nyx fails to understand the history of Sterek. She fails to understand that the show was pro-Sterek, that the show runner was pro-Sterek, and that the PR was pro-Sterek. They encouraged the ship. They teased it becoming canon. 
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Sterek isn’t just something that fandom created and exists in a vacuum. From the Daily Dot: 
But this isn’t just any slash pairing.
Ironically, fans had seen Sterek as a welcome change from the usual dismissal that slash fans usually get from their creative teams. Sterek is something of a historical first in a lot of ways, purely because Teen Wolfcreator Jeff Davis was so welcoming and supportive of the idea. Creators have a long history of viewing slash fans as weird, obsessive, creepy, or crazy. Davis saw them as passionate, creative, and loyal. With his blessing, the show embraced Sterek in numerous ways. O’Brien and Hoechlin filmed promos for the Teen Choice Awards together; MTV’s unprecedented Teen Wolf fanfic contest welcomed Sterek and other slash pairings. And in turn, the Sterek fandom rallied around Davis, creating a “campaign” to show love for the pairing and the show.
Re Crystal being asked if Allison is going to be dressed like a slut. What’s the point of this? That sometimes people ask stupid and offensive questions? That a question from some random fan in any way equals someone with authority (the star of the show) telling a vast number of fans that something is weird, twisted, bizarre and they’re watching the show for the wrong reason? There’s no equivalence there. 
Nyx is so proud of herself for pointing out that some people, people who casually scroll past Teen Wolf stuff, just don’t know that Stiles isn’t the main character, isn’t she? Just like how many of them don’t know Tyler Posey is a POC, probably. It proves popularity, which does not equate to erasure. Fuck, going by my dashboard there are only two characters in Shadowhunters. And funnily enough, neither of them is the main either. And if we go by Star Wars content, BB8 is the main character. (I will fight anyone who says BB8 isn’t, actually.) Sometimes he’s accompanied by his gay space dads though. 
Once again, @nyxelestia and @princeescaluswords are relying on purely anecdotal evidence. I think they’d find that by following few Sterek blogs and more pro-Scott blogs, their world view, or int his case their Tumblr view, would change. 
Because they can claim all they like that Sterek fics ignore Derek’s history of violence. I say, no. No they don’t. If they do, you’re reading the wrong ones. (I would also say, if they do, so what? You have no right to tell a writer what to include, but that’s a discussion for another day.) If you don’t like the fics you read, read different fics. There are tens of thousands of them. 
In conclusion, If my understanding of a ship was predominantly made up of people erasing me from my own TV show, saying I deserved to be raped and murdered, and making the rest of my friends uncomfortable or harassing them in the process? 'Bizarre, twisted and weird’ would be the nicest way to say what I think of them. (In my case, it really is.)“
Sterek is predominantly made up of people who say Tyler Posey believed to be murdered and raped? That’s ludicrous. Did Posey cop hate after his comments? Yes, he did. Threats of rape and death? I don’t know, but I very much doubt the majority of Sterek fans were saying those things. (If you’re reading this, Nyx, that’s what “predominantly” means. Words and their meanings matter.) You think he was justified in saying what he said because his friends were “getting harassed?” By “harassed” do you mean “getting paid to be asked questions at conventions by fans that shipped a pairing the show and the PR pushed publicly and loudly”? 
That’s weird. Because I think he said what he did because he didn’t like the fact that Sterek was more popular that his character.
Any Nyx needs to work on her timeline. The pushback against Posey happened after those comments, not before. It’s almost like it was cause and effect, in fact. 
But hey, he’s has a few years now where Sterek isn’t an issue at all on the show.  I wonder how that’s worked out for the ratings and stuff. 
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It’s Morphin’ Time!  Eventually... Power Rangers Review
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Saban’s Power Rangers opens darkly.  You see a blasted torn up landscape of prehistoric Earth with the Red Ranger dragging himself across it, obviously injured.  He crawls to the Yellow Ranger, also lying prone who morphs into an alien and hands her coin to him, telling him to hide it before dying in his arms.  Yikes.  He morphs into Zordon (Bryan Cranston) and puts his coin with the others he’s carrying, instructing Alpha via communicator to fire a meteorite at his current location.  He turns to find himself face to face with a female Green Ranger named Rita (Elizabeth Banks) who he accuses of being a traitor and killing his team.  She boasts that she’s won when Zordon informs her it’s too late and a meteor comes crashing down on them sending her to the bottom of the sea.  Also wiping out the dinosaurs, I presume.  I guess nuking from orbit was the only way to be sure. Smash cut to a bunch of jocks leading a bull into a locker room as a prank and we meet Jason Scott (Dacre Montgomery) who informs us that he calmed the cow down by milking it.  Womp womp.  Your protagonist can’t tell an udder from a dong, not a great start.  The cops show up and after the most nausea inducing go-pro car chase I’ve ever encountered (Seriously, I saw Gravity on the UltraScreen in 3D and this almost made me vomit) he gets in a horrific wreck and we have a title screen. Go go Power Rangers?  If you never watched the show this may seem exciting.  If you did, well here’s why it might not be what you were expecting.
 Mighty Morphin’ Power Rangers hit children in 1993 with a blast of popularity that overpowered the Ninja Turtles and kept kids riveted until Pokemon came along at the end of the decade!  A Japanese import, it was cheesy, silly, campy and formulaic and pre-teens ate it up!  As well as some teens.  I was just hitting the age where I felt like I was outgrowing Saturday morning/after school shows (Thank God that phase didn’t last) so I was never a die hard fan, but I knew enough people that were that I kept abreast of the original shows run.  I watched a fair number of episodes with my friends more due to our love of riffing it a la Mystery Science Theater 3000 than anything else…  Although I will admit that Kimberly (Amy Jo Johnson)  kept me on board a bit as well.  The premise was simple.  Five teenagers from Angel Grove are given magic coins that allow them to morph into Power Rangers.  Spandex clad ninjas with full coverage helmets who can summon robot dinosaurs called Zords and merge them Voltron style into a giant Mega Zord to win the day.  They answer to Zordon, a giant holographic head, and fight the monsters that Rita Repulsa repeatedly sends down from the moon.  Ninjas, dinosaurs and giant robots.  It was famous for the obvious cut between the American actors doing their day to day thing and the original Japanese footage being used once they were in costume.  Ever wonder why Kimberly was the only Ranger wearing a skirt?  Because the Yellow Ranger in that Japanese footage is a dude.  (The more you know!)  That’s all you needed and it’s still on the air in some iteration to this day!  Why mess with a good thing?  If it’s not broke, right?
 Unfortunately Hollywood is following a current and overused trend of trying to make things dark and gritty when they reboot them right now.  That’s not to say it can’t work, but it really feels like a forced excutive decision by the movie companies some times.  This new Power Rangers update has a lot of things that work really well for it as they try to make a serious and less campy approach to one of the most popular cheese fests ever.  They also make some big missteps.  I know that Zordon famously asked for “teenagers with attitude” in the original and wound up with the nicest kids in town, but this version makes an over correction by having three of them meet in detention and one of them just not go to school at all.  Turns out Jason has to wear an ankle bracelet now and report to detention for the rest of the year and lost all sorts of football scholarships.  As soon as he walks in he sees Billy (RJ Cyler) being bullied for OCD behavior arranging things on his desk.  Jason puts a stop to it and Billy immediately declares him his new best friend for sticking up for him!  I really liked Billy in this movie, but they make a very clear point early on to have him state that he’s on the autism spectrum and they play it pretty well until he becomes a Ranger.  Then it just seems to disappear and he’s merely giddy all the time.  He’s adorkable, sure, and probably the most likeable character but it would have been nice to see them stick to his spectrum tendencies.  Jason is fairly dismissive until he offers to use his skills to hack Jason’s ankle bracelet in order for them to hang out.  How all true friendships begin!
 Next we meet Kimberly Heart (Naomi Scott) who was set up by her cheerleader ‘friends’ for an incriminating picture that’s been circulating around school and they show up to inform her that she no longer gets to be a plastic.  It makes her so angry that she gives herself a kicky new haircut in the bathroom that Jason is immediately smitten by when she returns from the restroom!  After Billy hacks the ankle device, he and Jason go into a restricted area of the gold mine outside Angel Grove because apparently Billy likes to blast there.  Even though it’s an active mine with security.  Shrug  While Billy is setting his charges, Jason goes off to hike around and spies Kimberly cliff diving while We get Zack (Ludi Lin) and Trini (Becky G.) dropped in as just random kids who are also hanging out in an active work zone after dark.  Her to practice her Karate Kid poses and him to watch her through binoculars.  Like you do.  Anyway, Billy’s blast draws them all and they discover 5 glowing coins embedded in the rock.  After cutting them out, they each grab one and then alarms go off, summoning security and another slightly less vomit inducing chase that AGAIN ends in a horrific crash, this time with a train.  The next morning they all wake up at home with no injuries and no knowledge of how they survived the wreck, plus sick abs and super strength!  Wanna know how they managed that without being seen?  Or what Billy’s mom’s reaction is to the destruction of HER van?  (You see the wreck later on being pulled off the tracks)  You’re out of luck!  Anyway, they get together and decide to go back to try to find answers about the coins and discover a buried spaceship manned by Alpha 5 (Bill Hader) and Zordon’s memory in the ship’s computer.  He informs them that they’re the Power Rangers and they need to learn to defend the universe once they can learn to morph!  Eventually…
 I don’t know if it came with the casting of Bryan Cranston but the biggest drawback of this film is that at 2 hours almost every minute of the Rangers suited up has been shown in the trailers because it only happens in the films final action scene, similar to my beef with Godzilla not having enough Godzilla.  There are training montages aplenty and I really did appreciate the effort it made to give the core cast some substance behind there characters that wasn’t there before, but it’s pace could best be described as deliberate.  The film seems to work the best when it’s trying to have some fun and not brooding so much, which is all too often.  The scene of all the nerd kids idolizing Billy after he knocks out a bully without trying and then being in awe when he gets pulled from the table by Kimberly?  Great!  Fun little scene, use more moments like that as opposed to repeated instances of people mispronouncing Trini as DeeDee.  ???  I assume it’s a joke but I just don’t get it and boy do they keep pushing it.  I wish they had done more with Zack as he had a lot of potential in his backstory.  He doesn’t attend school any more because you find out he’s caring for his terminally ill mother but aside from that reveal he just gets all the “I’m gonna shout quips!” style lines.  Don’t try taking a drink every time he calls Trini “Crazy Girl”, it won’t end well.  Jason is fine in his role as the leader, but as is the curse of the leader role (Cyclops, Leonardo), is pretty bland.  Kimberly and Trini are both solid female role models although I wish they would have come right out with Trini’s sexuality/crush on Kimberly rather than just heavily alluding to it.  Although I was disappointed by him dropping the autism traits halfway through, I thought Billy in the second half was the most relatable character.  He’s just so giddy every time they bring up the fact they get to be Rangers!
 I was not a fan of the design choices for Alpha and the Zords.  Alpha was thankfully less obnoxious than the original, but his super long arms on the tiny body just looked weird and creepy.  Props to Hader for making me not hate him!  The Zords…  I couldn’t tell what I was looking at.  I’ll be honest, aside from the T-Rex and the Pterodactyl they could have been anything.  I had to go online after the movie because I couldn’t remember if the Triceratops was Blue or Black because I couldn’t tell them apart.  Turns out it’s Blue.  For as many montages as we were dealt and given the movies run time, I’d have preferred to see them learning their suits and Zords right off the bat as opposed to trying and failing to Morph a half dozen times and then finally getting it right just in time for the final battle where they go in operating things they’ve never used before.  I know I’m overthinking it, but I hate when people just innately know how to use things like that.
 Lastly we come to the villains.  I’ve got really mixed feelings on this part.  I appreciate they wanted to take it more seriously, and I like what they did with Rita but DAMN.  They may have made her a bit too intense for the audience that’s generally associated with Power Rangers!  Banks is great and and she is wonderfully creepy and terrifying but there is a scene where she’s killed some police officers and you see that she’s ripped the teeth out of one and has dismembered/is CANNIBALIZING the other.  This is while she’s still in her slightly mummified state after a fishing boat pulls up her body and it’s horror movie levels of creepy as she gets her power back to create Goldar.  Because he’s made of gold, see?  I don’t quite get her power set because at first she’s brutally murdering people for their gold, then eating it (WTF?) then just pointing at it and drawing it to her in liquid form.  At least she gets to say “Make my monster grow.”
 Overall, it’s not bad.  It’s not as action packed as you’d expect, but what references do show up are all well placed and fun.  You get some cameos and throwback lines.  Ay-yi-yi and what not.  My favorite reference was when two boys were arguing who got to be the Red Ranger while they’re playing and Trini tells them, “Why not Yellow?”  “That’s a girl!”  “How do you know?”  lol  Love the message and the nod to the original Yellow I mentioned earlier, but unfortunately undercut by the obvious sculpted boob armor on Pink and Yellow…  Best moment, bar none, was when they played the original theme.  Unfortunately it’s just one refrain then back to generic orchestration, but the theater I was in was electrified when it came on!  I’m not made of stone, that riff is freaking amazing.  You could tell everyone was a bit bummed when it didn’t continue throughout the fight.  As usual anymore, stay through the credits.  There’s a mid credit scene that I’m pretty sure you’ll be able to call before it happens but it’s there.  LOL at the guys behind me talking loudly throughout the film complaining about the very thing the scene was about and leaving before it happened.  That’s what you get for being terrible movie attendants!  If you were a fan of the show as a kid, I think you’ll have a great time!  If you’re bringing your kids because of how much YOU loved it…  Just be aware it gets really dark and creepy in places and might move a bit slow if they have to wait over 90 minutes to see any Morphin’ Time.
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Arplis - News: He’s Tired of One Night Stands. How Does He Start Finding Relationships?
— Dear Dr. NerdLove:
3 and a half years ago, I used to suck at relationships. I was not the nicest person to be around, being selfish, entitled, needy… the whole package. My relationships, if any, never lasted more than 3 months and almost always ended up in the other person ghosting me, and since I apparently never got the message, breaking up in the worst terms possible. So I got coaching. Yes, this did terrible things to my life, but that’s another topic.
Anyway. after this coaching thing was over I met who I then thought was the perfect woman. She made me want to feel better, she was always fun to hang with, I never was tired when she was around, she had a crazy sex drive (which meant we almost never slept), she got me into art and movies, she wasn’t afraid of calling me sexy and hot, something that had never happened to me before… it was a wonderful year.
But then things changed for both of us. She started her own business and I was jobless, so seeing each other was hard. I had no reliable source of income, so I couldn’t afford the 2-and-a-half hours ride to her place that often, and she suddenly had way less time for me since she had to devote everything to other things. She ended things up, seeing how it was complicated to make it work.
And I fell hard.
I had to go to therapy. I cried many nights. I gained a lot of weight. I sabotaged a couple of relationships after her, just because they weren’t her.
Eventually, things got a bit better. I now know that what I longed for (still do, sometimes) was the “her” of that time, that was so compatible with the “me” back then. And we’re not the same persons we were.
But since being lonely after getting used to having sex almost everywhere, every day, is not a nice feeling, I somehow got good at the “one night stands” game. It’s not hard for me to get someone to spend the night with, but it always ends there. No second dates, no “stay for breakfast”… nothing. And I’m beginning to fear that I’m too afraid to open up again, just because nobody can measure up to the one relationship I had that did not suck. So, is there anything I can do? Am I past the point of no return? In other words, how do I get a relationship?
Thanks in advance.
Stray Cat Strut
There are a couple things to think about here, SCS.
The first is that you’re creating an artificial divide between one-night stands and potential relationships. I can’t count the number of people I know — both in my personal life and clients that I’ve worked with — who’s long-term relationships started off as one-night stands that just… didn’t end, really. The skills that help you find someone who is interested in a casual hook-up are the same skills that help you find someone who wants things that are more committed and more long-term. The only real difference is in how you apply them.
In fact, as odd as it may sound, the bigger issue people have is keeping things casual; more people try to create and maintain a casual, no-strings attached relationship and find themselves catching feelings by mistake.
So it’s not as though you can’t make the leap, if that’s what you want.
On a purely skill-based, mechanical level, making the transition from “casual” to “committed” depends on the expectations you set and the way you behave with your partners. One of the reasons why one-night stands tend to stay one-night stands is because the people involved aren’t that invested in the person they’re sleeping with. It’s less about connecting with a person and more about getting their rocks off, which means that they come to it treating the other person like a human-shaped masturbation toy. Focusing on connecting, treating your partner like a person with needs and desires from the get-go and getting to know them on more than a “let’s make squishy-noises” level all help make the leap from “Ok this was nice now get out” to “You know, I might like to see you again.”
Problem is, more people tend to just get off, wipe their metaphorical dick on the curtains and head out the door before the sweat’s started to dry. Small wonder a lot of folks either don’t like one-night stands or aren’t interested in seeing the other person again.
But I think the bigger issue for you is who you’re pursuing. I’m wondering if you’re actually interested in the people you’re sleeping with for more than just sex. It sounds to me like you’re not actively looking for someone who might be as awesome as your ex; you may have decided there’s no point, so why bother trying. And that could be equal parts Oneitis and feeling like you don’t deserve someone as good.
And if I’m being perfectly honest, I’m wondering if all those one-night stands are part of why you feel like you couldn’t find someone like her again. That you’re “not good enough” to date, so you only let yourself look for quickies instead… and since you’re the sort of person who only gets one-night stands, you’re not “worthy” of getting a “real” relationship.
Here’s the thing: I’ve been where you are. There was a point where I thought I had the perfect girlfriend, the perfect job and the perfect life. And then in short order, I got fired from the perfect job and dumped by my perfect girlfriend. And while it sucked worse than anything had sucked before… when I gave myself time to heal and recover and get some perspective, I realized just how wrong I was. The job wasn’t actually right for me — it was what I thought I wanted, but not something I actually enjoyed or found fulfilling. My “perfect” girlfriend was a great person — and we’re still friends today — but the relationship wasn’t one that actually met my needs; in fact, I was always terrified about it all falling apart. I wasn’t in the right place to be dating at all, never mind her.
With time, experience and distance, not only was I able to come to terms with all of this, but I started getting to know myself better. And despite losing all those “perfect” parts of my life… I was able to find a new career and new relationships that were actually right for me.
But a lot of it involved my being willing to forgive myself for “losing” all of that.
I think that’s what you need more than anything else. You need to forgive yourself for not being able to hold onto that “perfect” relationship, for the mess you found yourself in afterwards and the strings of hook-ups you’ve had since. Your relationship with your ex didn’t fail; it simply reached it’s natural end-point and you had to move on to the next stage of your story. And while she was amazing and you had some great times… there are many, many women out there who are just as amazing, and who are right for who you are now.
The key is that you have to be willing to give yourself permission to find them.
You don’t need to change up your game, as it were; you just need to start changing how you play it. You have the skills to find your next adventure; you just have to apply them differently. Instead of looking for folks who are just up for sex that night, prioritize meeting people who are just awesome. People who yeah, may be down to bang… but people you’d want to see again. And when you do find them… focus on connecting and commonalities more than the sex. The more you can build that sense of connection, the more likely it’ll be that hooking up that night will lead to breakfast the next day… and then dinner the following night.
You’ll find someone just as great as your ex. You just have to let yourself be open to it.
Good luck.
Hey Doc, I just wanted to reach out to you for some advice, I have never had any luck with women and at 25 I’m still a virgin not that it matters because it just means I haven’t had that experience. I have zero self confidence around women whatsoever, I have never fit in and have been bullied most of my life. I have always been the socially awkward, quiet, shy and weird guy, I have just recent been able to start making friends in college. I am really worried that I will say the wrong thing and appear creepy to women or I get consent and they regret being with me later and my ability to practice in my potential career will be ruined. There is a girl that I work with that is five years younger than me that I have feelings for but I won’t act on because I don’t want to make things awkward or uncomfortable. I also think she is way out of my league as she is funny, intelligent and really cute where as I’m weird, awkward, goofy, slightly below average looking and not the sharpest tool in the shed. This girl teases me all the time and work and makes me laugh but, I think just does it to make fun of me, I asked her why she did it over text and if it was because I’m and easy target and her response was “Could be 😉” “but I dont make fun of you!!”. This coworker has also randomly messaged me Love Yoouuuu out of the blue and randomly referred to me as “babe” at work when I asked her if it was a slip of the tongue and she said no. This behavior confuses me maybe I should just avoid her entirely if possible. The other thing that I fear is affecting me is being ginger, I don’t think most women like or even prefer ginger guys, gingers are popular with men not women. I also feel like I have to have a rhinoplasty to correct my crooked nose and braces in order to be even average looking to women. How would you gain confidence and get over someone who you shouldn’t have feelings for? Weird Awkward Nerd
Ok so this is one giant tangled knot of misconceptions, WAN. But I think rather than trying to pick things apart, we’re just gonna take the Alexander approach and cut straight through it. First things first WAN, let me help you put this fear to bed: nobody is out there consenting to sex, then deciding they didn’t like it and using that as a vehicle for destroying somebody’s life. The myth of “regret=rape” is bullshit being spread by folks who think concepts like “enthusiastic consent” give too much power to women to say “no”. Similarly, saying the wrong thing isn’t going to be the end of the world. Creepiness isn’t a one-off event, nor is it about looks; it’s a series of behaviors and attitudes that make people feel unsafe. Basic consideration and social calibration goes a long, long way towards avoiding being a creeper. Most of what you need to do is simply relax and be mindful of other people’s comfort. By the same token: there are no such things as leagues; there are people who are into you, and people who aren’t. If someone’s attracted to you and wants to date you, then by definition, you’re in their league… even if they’re a princess and you’re a cave troll. But at the same time: dude, where in pluperfect fuckery did you get the idea that women don’t like gingers? I mean, this is easy to dismiss by looking at the number of girls who went apeshit for Ron and George Weasely in the Harry Potter movies, or the women who get the screaming thigh-sweats for Eddy Sheeran. Or, for that matter, the fans of Michael Fassbender, Paul Bettany, Domnhall Gleeson, Robert Redford… I mean, I could go on.
(Also, dude. *I’m* a ginger and I can tell you from experience: that’s never been a problem for me.)
Your biggest issue is that you’ve convinced yourself that you’re unattractive and you’ve worked backwards from there. And look, if I had a nickel for everyone who’s written in convinced that they’re Phantom of the Opera level deformed and was actually perfectly average AT WORST, then Elon Musk and I would be having giant mecha fights off the coast of San Jose. Here’s the thing: 90% of being attractive is about presentation, not bone structure or physical features. All you have to do to see this is to do a search for “celebrities without makeup” or “instagram vs. reality” to see just how much conventional attractiveness is about how you present yourself. Shit, watch some episodes of Queer Eye and see just how transformative a change of clothes and a hair cut can be. You don’t need a nosejob to be attractive; you need to make changes to how you present yourself. People spend luxury-car amounts of money on plastic surgery and are still miserable. Getting a good hair cut and wearing clothes that fit and look good on you will do far more for making you feel like a sexy bad-ass.
All of these doubts and self-limiting beliefs are just retroactively justifying what you already believe. It’s confirmation bias in action; you ignore any signs that people might think you’re cute as “that doesn’t count”, while you double and triple down on anything that goes along with your belief that you’re an unfuckable troll. Which actually brings us to your friend at work. I think you’re radically misinterpreting what she’s doing and why. Yes, she’s teasing you… but teasing isn’t inherently malicious. In fact, a lot of people will use teasing as a form of flirting; they’re showing interest in a gently playful way. I strongly suspect that this is coming from a place of affection. Part of the fun is how flustered or worked up you get; I’m willing to bet that if someone asked her why she likes to nudge at you like this, she’d tell them that it’s because your reactions are cute. Because, straight talk: women don’t call folks “babe” or tease folks the way your coworker is teasing you if they don’t like them. This isn’t necessarily a sign that she’d like to date you… but it’s a damn sight closer to that than the idea that she’s taunting you or being cruel. The problem is that you don’t want to believe that someone you think of as attractive could like you.
If you were to start teasing her back, the way she teases you? Not only do I think she’d love it, I think you’d find the two of you would really connect. I can’t say that you’d start dating… but you sure as hell would have a much better time at work and make a very good friend. And that might lead to something new and amazing. But to do that, you have to start by accepting that hey, people think you’re cute, fun and like you. Because hey: they clearly do. You’ve got far more going for you than you realize, WAN; you just won’t let yourself believe it. Take some time to make some changes to how you dress and style yourself, let those changes sink in and make you feel awesome and open yourself up to your own potential. I think you’ll surprise yourself in just how much you’re capable of if you give yourself a chance. Good luck.
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