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Sex ed you (maybe) didn't get

if you have a vulva, it's normal that it secretes sticky stuff, outside of your period. that's self-cleansing. it's also normal that it can sort-of bleach your black panties. That doesn't mean that you are dirty.

the clit is not just a tiny nob, it's actually pretty big and the tiny nob on the outside is just the tip of it.

Penis and vulva have the same components, they are just arranged differently

Amab people can get breast cancer too

If you have boobies, it's normal to be able to feel some tissue, bumps and stuff, that's not automatically breast cancer. Breast cancer feels like tiny hard grains of rice or peas under the skin

bodily errection is not the same thing as consent. A dick can get hard on autopilot, and a vulva can get wet just in the same manner. Just because the body reacts (sometimes even in a sort of self protection) that does not mean consent. Those reactions are not a conscious decision.

Nipples can get hard from just about anything. Cold, wind, fabric rubbing over them, or just for fun. That, too, is not a conscious decision, and is kinda like goosebumps. Just happens.

For the love of god boobs do not give milk unless the person is pregnant/has given birth shortly before. I won't tell you to stop watching hentai, whatever floats your boat, but please don't take them seriously.

Also female body hair is normal. In average, testosterone causes more and thicker body hair, but even without, body hair is pretty normal.

There. Is. No. ✨Alpha.✨ (not even in wolves. Shut the fuck up. PWP gay fanfiction, Greek lessons and math classes are the only places I want to hear about Alphas.)

While men on average are indeed taller and stronger than women, most women could still overcome an average man by training. (Stop acting like there is no overlap. My sister could bench press you)

You can have sex during your period, it is just not overly comfortable for some people. It's a matter of personal preference. It's just as safe as sex outside of the period, so pls still use a condom.

Condoms can expire. Please never use expired condoms, they can easily tear and are therefore not usable. Also using two condoms is not safer than one condom, it's actually more likely to tear or slip, that way.

condoms are not only good for preventing pregnancies, but also STIs. So if you have other birth control methods, please still use a condom, especially on one-night-stands. If you and your partners are tested, go for it. Knock yourself out.

Consent does only count if all participants give it in a sane state of mind (no alcohol or drugs), and risk aware.

all dicks and vulvas look different from one another. Just as everyone's hands and eyes are unique, the same goes for private parts. And boobs.

Vagina is in theory not a wrong term, but reduces it all to the reproductive function, while vulva means the whole thing

Sex, Gender, Sexual- and Romantic-attraction are all separate from each other. Your Gender is not bound to your sex. Your sexuality is not bound to either your gender or your sex. You can be trans and gay. You can be trans and gay and asexual. You can be nonbinary and lesbian. You can be a straight man and aromantic. Sex, gender, sexual attraction and romantic attraction are not bound to one another. Each is a separate label, another part of you.

Labels are not stickers. You don't have to keep them, once you tried them out. I called myself bi for some time, but I enjoy the label pan more, so that's what I like to identify myself with. Labels are trying to put your individual feelings into accessable categories. They are neither mandatory nor everlasting. They might not even fit you. And that's alright.

You. Are. Not. Ugly. You. Are. Just. Not. Your. Type.

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Me (a pansexual): I won't do any more impulse purchases. I have too many hobbies already.

Literally any Video game about Greek mythology: R u sure fren?

Me: *windows shutdown noise*