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biblicalhorror · 10 months ago

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My other sister got engaged yesterday (and told me about it immediately thankfully lol) and then today I got invited to some superbowl party by two other friends and my brain is so wrapped up in what the last week has been for me that I read it as "engagement party" and I was like you have got to be kidding me

#these two friends are not dating btw so it would have been extremely left field #but when your most staunchly anti-marriage friend announces theyve been secretly married for months anything feels possible #i also should mention that my sister called to tell me while i was actively with said friend working up the courage to confront them abt it #which def felt like a nudge from the universe #and now because his best friend is married my bf has been bringing up engagement more and more #and we're looking at houses together #and these are all good things but it feels like everything is suddenly changing super fast and idk how to handle it #and im looking up finance stuff and like every advice website says its a bad idea to buy a house as an unmarried couple #but like their reasons for it are basically that it would be expensive to break up which like. even more true if youre married???#anyway. i need to calm down #nothing bad is happening to me i am not being hunted for sport #i just very suddenly feel like i Am An Adult and everyone around me has changed overnight into one as well #personal

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