#but we are so close that no oversharing is tmi which leaves me forgetting how to make normal conversation i think
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It's really important that I can say stupid stuff here because before I used to do this, I'd just end up telling random people that didn't ask irl
#the words build up in me like steam#and then i say something fucking mental to someone I've just met#oversharing here prevents me oversharing to like a woman at the bus stop or a dude in the garden centre or someone at the pub#the problem is i make short term friends really easily and then i forget they aren't my friends#my friends are one of two. 'friendly acquaintance' to 'ride or die' i have never known how to do the middle bit#i reach friendly acquaintance levels of friendship with people whenever I share a public space for more than a few minutes but from there?#the friendmaking is entirely up to the other person. which which works well i guess#as the ppl i consider to be true friends are incredibly strong friendships! we are very close!#but we are so close that no oversharing is tmi which leaves me forgetting how to make normal conversation i think#theres a chasm between small talk and 'we share all' that i can not seem to navigate. i do not know how to do it#i am so great at small talk! and I'm so great at overly honest conversation between close friends.so why does whatever lies between seem so#unknowable?#i don't know. but i do know that anonymously oversharing online leaves me with less to tell ppl who are just leaving small talk town#once I've said it i don't want to tell someone else. I'm bored of it by then
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