#but there is a limit to that of course and if it causes miscommunications etc that's just not fun for anyone involved.
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I sometimes feel really alone. My interests are on the more obscure side (to the point that I don't think I've seen anyone online talk about a some of them in years...), and although a couple of my friends have adjacent interests, it's just not the same. It's akin to us liking movies in the same genre but not the same movies besides a couple, I'd say, except I've watched most of the movies they've watched but they haven't done the same with what I have, and that's why. They tend to focus on a couple at a time while I go for everything at once. And because of that, it's just...I feel like the most annoying person ever when I bring things from other "movies" up because I know they're not interested in them. Anything they share is from a movie that I've also watched and had interest in, but a lot of what I think about isn't something they have, so I know they won't feel any connection to it, hence feeling annoying. I know I probably should just talk about it and hope that they'll end up being interested, but at the same time, I also don't want to. Part of it is that the things they aren't interested in feel like a bit of a safe haven to me. It's not that they annoy me, nothing like that. I love them; they're my friends. But they tend to have a lot more to say than me, and even though I often know things about the content that they don't, almost every time I've told them of something I found interested turned out to be a mistake. They sometimes gain misconceptions, and when I say something that contradicts them, a lot of em take it harder than they should since they write fanfics and it means details were wrong. I feel awful every time. So even mutual interests leave me a bit unable to properly talk about them, although I guess it's better than nothing.
I miss when I was at least interested in things that had fanfiction written about them. At least that was some comfort that others cared just as me.
I do have this pal who is a genuine lifesaver though. They don't even have an interest in anything adjacent, but they've asked me questions and encouraged me to talk about them. I don't think anyone else ever has. (It just sucks that I'm hesitant to talk unless they prompt me with a question about what I've been thinking of. I don't want to overwhelm them and make them stop. We also don't talk as much as I do with some others, so...)
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#sounds like a difficult situation to navigate!#like. you are allowed to talk about your interests! and friends will want to listen to friends talk about something they love even if#they dont ~get it!#but there is a limit to that of course and if it causes miscommunications etc that's just not fun for anyone involved.#i have to say though i am super curious to know what your obscure interests must be that there#isn't even much about them on the internet!#maybe it's just not where you are looking?#i am in a fairly obscure fandom and new people are regularly like#wow i didn't know there were people still talking about this bc xyz place i visited was abandoned!#i hope you can find people to chat about your interests with!#you could even try idk reddits/discords/other spaces for adjacent interests to gauge who's heard of your other#interest(s) to begin with? see who bites!#secret#anonymous#confession
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Um one thing i wanna ask is why do you want penny to stay a robot? She would have been hacked again as it wouldn’t make sense for someone not to try it again... ignoring the pinnochio allusion thing cause of course RWBY shouldn’t follow fairytales like a script, but just thinking about practicality as the problem would just occur again.
Also, people complaining about how its a problem they cured her illness (having the virus)... why would you want her too keep the virus when its literally about to kill her and the cure is right there???? I dunno some of the complaints have me a bit confused and i need clarity on them.
Like, If they didn’t grab the relic for themselves, they would have been hunted by ironwood for penny, she would have been killed for the powers to open the vault etc... if they went to the vault with penny without their plan, she would have died... its all a lose lose for penny to me at least
Questions are genuine and I’m not trying to be rude or anything :)
Happy to explain, anon! :D
I’m going to break this up into three parts: The claim that people are upset about Penny’s virus going away, the idea that she’s in more danger as a robot, and the assumption that she had to be made human to fix this problem.
The first is the easiest to tackle simply because I haven’t seen any of this myself. I don’t know why someone would “want her to keep the virus when it’s literally about to kill her.” My guess would be that there’s been some miscommunication at play. I’m not saying just because I haven’t seen these takes doesn’t mean they don’t exist, but rather that I have seen a lot of critical takes since Saturday and they all boil down to the fans being upset that Penny’s android identity was removed, not that the virus was removed along with it. Of course we’re happy about that additional outcome, we just believe it would have been possible — even easy — to achieve that same outcome without taking a core part of Penny’s identity along with it (more on that below).
Secondly, if one of the main arguments for Penny getting a human body is “It’s less dangerous” then I personally don’t find that persuasive. Yes, it means no one can try to hack her again... but it also means Penny can die all the horrible, messy human deaths that she was previously immune from (within the boundary of how long Pietro can give her aura, anyway). We saw it happen on screen. Penny was able to go from this
to this
purely because she was an android. Penny, due to her synthetic body, was able to be torn apart and then — pretty casually it seems, based on Pietro’s comments — be put back together, given more aura, and booted up with absolutely no downsides. Penny shrugged off death with a smile! No human body can do that. So yes, she’s vulnerable to hacking as an android, but she’s vulnerable to everything else as a human, things like Nora’s scars and Yang’s lost arm, things that android!Penny would have shrugged off. Each body has its benefits and its downsides, with my personal belief being that, from a combat standpoint, a synthetic body has far fewer downsides and far greater benefits. But that opinion aside, objectively I don’t think a human body is intrinsically safer for Penny in the long run, especially not after her biggest moment in the series was coming back from the dead. She can’t do that anymore.
Which then touches on our third topic with the question: Why couldn’t the show have fixed android!Penny in a way that ensures she can never be hacked again? See, we have to remember that RWBY is a constructed, fictional story. Nothing “has” to happen. Or rather, nothing has to happen until the writers impose limitations on the text that the viewer expects them to adhere to. For example, if you impose the implied rules of 1. “Our four main characters will make it to the end of the series” and 2. “A character, without aura, will die from a spear through the gut,” then RWBY has to find a way for Weiss to survive Cinder’s attack (rule #1), but that solution can’t be, “Weiss is just randomly okay after a deadly injury, I guess” (rule #2). Hence, we get the solution of “Jaune unlocks his semblance and heals Weiss for her” and it works! It’s a solution that viewers like because it obeys all the rules, both overt and implied. Meanwhile, the problem with Penny’s solution is two-fold. The first is that it contradicts the entire journey she’s been on of “Android girl learns that she’s real and human just the way she is,” which I’ve already spoken about extensively (there are other posts on that), but the second problem is that the show ignores other possibilities and makes up new rules solely to reach this ending.
Why is Penny made human? Because of Ambrosius’ rules. Why do those rules exist? Because the writers said they do in this episode. It’s not that they introduced these rules episodes or even whole volumes ago, thereby requiring that they adhere to them once Penny’s life is suddenly caught up in them (like with the Jaune example). Rather, the viewer only learned these were limitations while Penny was being fixed. So the writers could have just... not included those. There’s no reason why, in developing Ambrosius’ abilities right then and there, the show couldn’t have made them into something a little different. Have Ruby go, “We want you to magic up an anti-virus program that will heal Penny completely, with no chance of the virus returning. Thus, when you create something new, it doesn’t matter if that program disappears. The virus is already gone!” If the response to that is, “But Clyde, Ambrosius can’t create something he doesn’t understand” that’s a rule that the writers just made up. No one forced them to suddenly impose that limitation. It was a choice. Or even if we have to have it for some reason, you’re telling that the group gets to have the schematics for their escape route — essentially inventing a teleportation system because Whitley looked at airship flight paths for a few minutes — but they can’t have Penny or Pietro draw up an anti-virus program? There’s no reason why these rules couldn’t have been tweaked to cure android!Penny.
There’s also no reason why Ambrosius needed to be involved at all. As just mentioned, Pietro exists and many fans (myself included) thought he would be the solution. Imagine for a moment we had a slightly different version of these events. Penny’s virus is briefly halted by Jaune and, finally given a moment to breathe, she asks where her father is. Last she saw, he was floating in a dead Amity after Cinder’s attack. This reminds Ruby that hey, Pietro made Penny! He’s just as smart as Watts and is far more knowledgeable of her systems. Maybe he can help? So the group heads to Amity and, due to the same techno mumbo jumbo that launched Amity in the first place, or had Klein heal Penny after her crash, Pietro says yes, he can get rid of the virus. Better yet, he can slightly redesign Penny so that she’s made un-hackable in the future, using (again, mumbo jumbo) parts from the now useless Amity. But it will take time. It’s then that the group receives Ironwood’s message and learns that they don’t have time. The reality that Penny will not be cured before the hour time limit necessitates that they come up with a creative way of dealing with Ironwood. Enter Emerald. Her semblance can make it seem like Penny is there, despite her being fixed by her dad miles away. We get an extended fight with Ironwood and, at episode’s end, the new and improved Penny catches up, ready to open the vault for them, this time of her own free will.
Now, obviously I just made this up off the top of my head — far from perfect — but a scenario like this:
Remembers that Pietro exists and lets him/Maria as an assistant do something for the plot
Re-uses Amity now that it’s just a floating pile of junk metal
Creates a scenario where we get to see Penny and Pietro confront the fact that she was created to be a tool (sorry I originally made you so easily hackable/put a self-destruct in your brain)
Maintains all the main story beats like Penny’s near escape, Ironwood’s message, and using Emerald’s semblance
Makes space to tackle other issues like the complaint that Ironwood was taken down too quickly
Achieves the desired result of healing Penny without taking away her android identity
Proves that, because we can easily come up with another solution, the idea that she “had” to become human is inaccurate. There were always other options
Hell, we can even ask why the story bothered with a self-destruct threat in the first place. Seriously, why did Watts do that? I have my own headcanons, but the show never says. This act is the entire BASIS for Penny’s conflict and the show didn’t bother to a) say why he’d do this or b) explain why he’d do this when Salem would presumably like having a Maiden to control. It’s counterintuitive and the show never grapples with that. We have no canonical answer here. More importantly, what else changes if Penny’s self-destruct order is taken out of the narrative? Absolutely nothing. She’s still hacked and struggles to keep Amity afloat, still flies to Ruby, still wakes up and needs to be calmed down by Nora, still tells Whitley her order, still fights the Hound, still tries to escape, still tells Ruby to kill her so she doesn’t open the vault, and Ruby still realizes that opening the vault might be the answer. They could have taken Penny to the door and nullified the virus by letting her do what the virus ordered. Penny is fine now, they snag the Relic, and the group proceeds to save all of Mantle and Atlas. The only thing this self-destruct sequence brings to the narrative is a reason to give Penny a human body. That plot-point was introduced solely as an excuse to give Penny a human body. That never had to happen. It’s not that the writers had a story where, by the rules already in place, they truly had to change Penny to ensure they didn’t lose her, it’s that the writers carefully crafted a story that existed to justify their desire to change Penny. That was always the end goal. They decided they wanted this to happen and that’s the problem here. That they took a character who has spent her entire, fictional existence learning to love herself as she is and crafted a bunch of unpersuasive, needless, and contradictory scenarios specifically to get Penny to a place where they could erase all that.
There’s no version of Penny that exists who truly had to get a human body to survive because Penny is a fictional character. Everything she does and experiences is thought up by our writers. Thus, at some point they thought up the idea to erase her android identity for a completely human one instead — the part a lot of people are upset by — and then made some messy attempts to write a story to justify getting that ending.
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new 52 riddlebat ship meme
(@heroes-etc picked me out a lot of questions and we’re still going. This set is from this ship meme.)
1. Who makes the first move and how?
Ostensibly it would be Edward, if putting together a subtext-laden citywide scavenger hunt that threatens the lives of hundreds counts as “making the first move.” But there’s a limit to how much deliberately obfuscating any expression of your feelings can be considered making any move at all. He also doesn’t seem to really know what he wants from Bruce — in “Alone,” he’s quick to say that he designed the puzzles to lead Batman to him on purpose, but doesn’t have an answer when questioned on what he wanted Batman to do other than catch him.
So even though Edward is technically the instigator here, he places the burden of actually doing something entirely on Batman. Which is difficult, because Riddler’s increased brutality in the New 52 makes him like the last possible version of the character Bruce would choose to pursue. BUT Scott Snyder made Batjokes practically text in this continuity, so obviously New 52 Bruce does not have a problem getting overly emotionally involved with supervillains who have unrealistically large body counts. In fact, the brutality may work to Edward’s advantage here; if he caused enough damage, maybe Bruce would kidnap him and keep him in the Batcave the way it was revealed he was keeping the Joker in Dark Days: The Casting #1.
What could be more romantic than being imprisoned in the batcave? Well, probably a lot of things, really. But in this case, having a lot of quality time together in which Riddler is not actively murdering anyone is probably the only way that these two could work out what they have going on between them.
Edward could also earn his way down there by figuring out Batman’s identity, which he’s clearly pretty close to in Batman Annual #4. There’s only so much mental distance between “Bruce Wayne is obsessed with the death of his parents and his drive for justice and revenge has led him to bring Batman into existence, making him responsible for everything Batman has ever done” and “Bruce Wayne IS Batman,” especially when Bruce Wayne does things like climb museum exhibits to leave through the skylight or pull off a trickshot that ruins Riddler’s whole evil plan directly in front of Edward’s face.
And if he DID figure it out, New 52 Riddler would probably be less courteous about its secrecy than Joker is. (Not that Joker is THAT polite about it, given that he keeps trying to use the information to either kill Bruce’s whole family, or... I don’t know... whatever he did with Wayne Enterprises in Joker War. Wait, is THAT why Bruce was keeping Joker in the Batcave in Rebirth?)
So just to review, I am *checks notes* arguing that Bruce would instigate a romantic relationship by kidnapping Edward and imprisoning him against his will. Yes, that sounds about right for DC’s current continuity.
6. Who would they ask if they ever had a threesome?
If Riddler DOESN’T know Batman’s secret identity, then he would want to have a threesome with Bruce Wayne. Batman Annual #4 suggests that he might have already been a bit obsessed with Bruce even before suspecting his involvement with Batman, given that he talks about how watching Bruce in the tabloids growing up was everyone’s “favorite tv show” and reminisces about learning a lot of information about Bruce’s life that way, including stuff that wouldn’t have made it to the news, like Bruce anonymously setting his teacher’s yard on fire as a teenager.
It’s actually almost a Batman Forever vibe, or it would be if New 52 Edward wasn’t so much less endearing. Is his childhood fascination with Bruce part of why he got a job working for Bruce’s uncle at Wayne Enterprises as an adult, or was that just a happy accident in his preparations for Zero Year? Either way, he’s clearly obsessed with Bruce now, and he’s definitely under the impression that Batman knows him well. So as long as he didn’t know they were the same person, he would probably try to arrange a ménage à trois (wouldn’t that be awkward).
If he DID know they were the same person, then unfortunately Edward would definitely try and instigate a threesome with Joker. I’m not saying it would work, I’m just saying that all of the War of Jokes and Riddles reads like Edward trying to insert himself in the middle of Batjokes and getting rejected by both of them repeatedly.
Joker wasn’t interested the first time Riddler came on to him (or the second time, literally in the same office, Edward please learn how to read a room), so he probably wouldn’t go for it if Edward tried again. But if The War and Jokes and Riddles demonstrated anything, it’s that Edward doesn’t know how to take a hint, so he’d probably try again regardless. And then blame Bruce when it doesn’t work, probably. I always thought it was dumb when Riddler hyped up the oh-so-horrible thing that Batman did to him in the War of Jokes and Riddles in Batman #19, only for it to turn out that Bruce just, like... almost stabbed him.... but didn’t. After Riddler had ALREADY betrayed him.
But it makes more sense that Edward is being such a dramatic bitch if you’re instead interpreting “I still remember what he did” as just a summary of the conga line of rejection that Riddler received over the course of that arc from both sides of Batjokes.
(TWOJAR as helpfully summarized by @heroes-etc)
11. What do they hide from one another?
I don’t think they can really hide anything from each other, actually. I mean there’s the obvious “Batman is hiding his secret identity” and “Riddler is hiding evil scheme of the week #39.” But Bruce is the “World’s Greatest Detective” as per usual, and Edward is actually not that far behind him in this continuity (even if his delusions can cause him to project and misinterpret his findings, i.e. assuming that Bruce purposefully went bankrupt so that Riddler and the other Arkhamites would have to live in Wayne Manor and be reminded of him every second of every day). Batman Annual #4 has a great example of this where Edward reveals that he knows about how Bruce tried to treat his paranoid vigilante compulsions with shock therapy when he was a teenager. No one but Alfred and the doctors know about that — and I’m just assuming that Alfred knew, it’s not something that was stated in Zero Year.
Bruce obviously solves pretty much every riddle that Edward puts in front of him, but he picks up on the stuff that Riddler is purposefully trying to obscure too. Whether he was researching Edward ahead of time (likely) or just so good at snap psychoanalysis he should have a job at Arkham (possible, Zero Year was written by Scott Snyder), his summary of Edward’s life during their first interaction as Batman and Riddler in Batman #31 is clearly too accurate for Edward’s comfort, as it ruins what had previously been excitement on Riddler’s part that Batman was still alive.
So good luck to both of them at hiding absolutely anything from each other. The best they can hope for is if WHEN the other person finds what they’ve been hiding, they misinterpret either the information or the reason why it was hidden from them in the first place. Both of them are always willing to jump to the worst case scenario (which, given who they’re dealing with, fair enough), so I’m sure the resulting miscommunication would be both extremely entertaining and highly likely to lead to city-wide destruction.
27. Why do their friends get annoyed with them?
Does New 52 Riddler even have friends? He and Scarecrow claim to have respect for each other in Detective Comics ft. Scarecrow #23.3, but it’s in the context of Scarecrow lying and manipulating all the rogues in the lead up to Forever Evil, and it comes about three panels after Riddler passive aggressively mocks Jonathan’s childhood trauma at the hands of his “daddy.” (Rude, Edward. Rude and gross.)
If they are friends, then the reasons why Riddler dating Scarecrow’s arch nemesis would annoy Jonathan are pretty self-explanatory. Also Edward is clearly the kind of person who would taunt the rest of the Arkhamites with any privileges earned/information gleaned from getting closer to the Bat. When I was younger my mother would always warn me not to waste emotional energy on girls who ditch their friends to prioritize their relationship as soon as they get a new boyfriend. Well, Riddler is that girl.
Bruce’s friends and family obviously also have nearly infinite reasons to be annoyed with Bruce for dating a supervillain (shoutout to Duke Thomas, who was unfortunate enough to have Riddler’s Zero Year during the most formative time of his childhood), but Barbara Gordon would doubtlessly be more pissed than most. Riddler deciding that he’s in love with Batgirl out of the blue (despite them never having met before?) when he finds out that Batman’s marrying Catwoman was already irritating, but I can only imagine how much MORE annoying it would be in the context of Riddler later hooking up with Batman.
If Barbara ever found out about them hooking up, she would immediately have war flashbacks to Batman: Prelude to the Wedding pt. 3. She has a great memory so unfortunately she probably has perfect recall of having to spend an entire evening listening to a pre-recorded monologue of Riddler philosophizing about why he’s not bitter that Batman and Catwoman are getting married and how he’s still straight even though he’s never felt lasting attraction to a woman. And then she would rightfully go apeshit.
29. Why do they fall a little bit more in love?
Thinking of how this question could possibly be answered from Bruce’s perspective made me laugh out loud, which is probably not a good sign given that I’m 4/5 of the way through writing a ship meme for him and Edward. But Riddler is just. So much in the New 52. Okay, I’m taking it seriously now. WHY DOES HE FALL MORE IN LOVE. Well, the fastest way to Bruce’s heart (other than being an attractive woman with dark hair, green eyes, and ambiguous morals) is to assist him in his crusade against crime. While that doesn’t initially seem like something Edward would do (as we see in Batgirl vs. Riddler, he seems to think the key to romance is “mixtapes”), he does go out of his way to give Bruce information about a Gotham-wide criminal conspiracy in Batman Eternal #39. He doesn’t appreciate that Batman’s current opponent is actively trying to wear him down — he wants to fight the Bat at his best, when he can think clearly. So he gives Bruce information he needs to solve the mystery.
Edward seems to also be under the impression that this would endear him to Batman, because he gives Batman a series of riddles that lead Bruce right to him so that they can talk in person. And then gets very surprised when Bruce subsequently arrests him. You’re still a criminal, Edward. This is like the first favor you’ve ever done him. Do it a dozen more times and then MAYBE you’ll start getting the free passes he’s been handing out to Harley and Ivy. But Bruce DOES save him from an avalanche after this, even though in the past Bruce has left him to die out of apathy (The War of Jokes and Riddles) or actively tried to kill him (also The War of Jokes and Riddles). So Edward IS winning him over, just very, very slowly.
Riddler pretty obviously just enjoys having someone to talk to that he feels is “on his level.” Even though he’s already arranged for Bruce Wayne’s assassination by the first time they meet in Batman #39, he obviously enjoys conversing with someone who can and will unravel his riddles and double meanings, to the point that afterwards he musingly wishes that they’d have an opportunity to talk again. Obviously they do, but it’s no thanks to Riddler. You can just NOT assassinate someone if you think they’re hot, Edward.
It’s what seemingly endears him to Batman too (at least, until Bruce ruins the mood by calling him an attention whore in front of all of Gotham). Though it’s basically always bad news for him, Edward clearly enjoys any time that Bruce or Batman exhibits his intelligence.
#riddlebat#riddler#edward nygma#batman#zero year riddler#this was hilarious because this version of edward is. so awful#like entertainingly so#also i sent this to my partner to beta read and they argued that actually being imprisoned in the batcave is peak romance#so i rescind my implications to the contrary#ship meme
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Hi so I just saw your ask to rua and
a) thank you so much for sharing this, because I feel that way about james and Cordelia’s arc too? Like, there’s so much miscommunication and just general chaos when in other scenes they are level-headed, rational teenagers capable of using their brains? Honestly, all the drama is just getting to me (just like with clary and jace with everything that’s going on). At one point i know it‘s necessary but it’s just… tiring, you know? I used to like writing about James and Cordelia when chog was the only drama that occurred but now... I just feel like Cordelia ‘escaping’ with Matthew is so uncalled for and very out of character. We see Cordelia be a badass warrior woman that loves her parabatai and her family (specifically Alastair and Sona) very dearly and she runs off to Paris with a man she‘s only known for like four months? Five? That doesn’t make any sense! (And I’m sorry for making this about myself but I just needed to say that people are just waiting for updates on my jordelia fic and I don’t like them as much now but at the same time I don’t want to disappoint people because of that? Does that make sense?)
b) yes. The thing about cc neglecting platonic (or even familial relationships, any type of relationship that’s not romantic to be honest) relationships? Yes. I just have difficulty seeing the main cast as a tight-knit group when most of the time there’s only developments with romantic interests shown… at this point everyone is just ‘hanging out because you are my friend’s partner’ and not ‘I genuinely want to talk to you and do things with you because you are a very good person that I’d like to know more about’. (And the fact that blackstairs happened was just urggggggggggh she ruined the good and healthy friendship shown in tmi and is, supposedly, develop in tda by romanticising it! It’s like you can’t have a best friend that you’ve known all your life without falling in love with them! This makes ace and/or aro people very discouraged because it seems like the only relationship worth pursuing is romantic relationships!)
hey you! yes to all of this, thank you!!! i'm gonna try and answer this in a sort of organised way
a) exactly. i get the use of the miscommunication trope, specially in YA content, to create conflict and drama and make sure the plot doesn't get flat. but that only works if it's used to a certain extent. the way cc is writing jordelia is just annoying to read because not only is it becoming out of character for them (as you said, they're both supposed to be smart and level-headed people), it is also nearly agonising to read, at least for me as someone who cannot stand feeling second hand embarrassment. miscommunication to create drama is a good trope if the author knows when it's time to stop. which cc clearly doesn't. reading choi i was just waiting for the moment when james and cordelia would finally solve that and when i started breathing easier after the bracelet broke, there comes the miscommunication again. just. no. it's been going for too long and at this point it's annoying. as for your fic, don't apologise for talking about yourself! the best advice i can give about that is: don't worry about disappointing your readers, because you won't. in my (frankly limited) experience as a fic writer of rare pairs with close to no fanbase, recognition and feedback is nice but it's not everything. at the end of day, your fic should be something you enjoy writing about a shipp you enjoy thinking about. if you've lost interest in writing about jordelia than find another pairing that inspires you! it's okay to lose interest in a shipp and abandoning a fic, every writer does it and no one has been burned at the stake for it yet, don't worry.
b) exactly². like, putting romance above friendship or family is a common enough thing in media and cc does not need to contribute to it. it's something that always bothers me and the fact that it's SO present in a saga that is so important to me is terrible. the thing you said about how the characters seem to be only "hanging out because you are my friend's partner" yes!!!! that's exactly the idea i was trying to pass when i used that quote from magnus!!! how am i supposed to believe this people are a close ride-or-die group of friends who save the world together when on page it always seems like they're just hanging out with each other out of "you're friends with my partner so i guess we're vaguely in the same social circle"? as for the blackstairs thing you said? yes. definitely. as much as i rooted for them while reading tda, i feel like cc usually seems to step into that stereotype that a boy and a girl can't be friends without one or both having a thing for the other? and that's in all of her series? like, clary immediately assumes jace and isabelle have a thing before she finds out they're siblings, simon spent years in love with clary and they dated even if they broke up later, simon and maia dated even if they broke up later, luke spent years in love with jocelyn, emma and julian with their whole drama, kit kissing livvy out of nowhere, dru having kind of a little crush on jaime, matthew being in love with lucie and then all of a sudden falling in love with cordelia, etc. i mean???? emma and julian are the best example of this, of course, but there are so many other romantic innuendos that had no need to be there and it would change nothing in the main plot. cc could have much more page time to develop platonic and familial relationships properly if she didn't disregard those in favour of giving more unnecessary scenes and credit to the straight and unrealistically sexualized romance between the protagonists (and i say "unrealistically sexualized" cause, honestly, who takes a condom to a rescue mission in an infernal dimension and has their first time on the floor of a demonic cave, like clary and jace? who has sex, weirdly also on a cave, while being held captive and immediately after finding out your parabatai, who also happens to be the fiancé of the woman you're about to sleep with, is dead, like will and tessa? and how come a 17 year old who had never even kissed someone before, much less gone further than that, is suddenly a "sex god", in cc's own words, like julian with emma?). anyways, cc needs to learn how to develop actual human relationships that don't involve people suffering for a "forbidden" love that isn't actually as complicated as they're making it to be or thirsting over each other in unusual places in her books, because i need close platonic relationships to feed my soul and, as an author with that many characters and such a big universe, she has millions of available opportunities to stop making stories centered around progressively weaker plots that by now mostly just make everything and everyone else the background for the overly dramatic main paring.
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Hi! The Lucien anon again one last time sorry 😊😊 I just wanted to clarify that I didn’t mean I thought the Lucien-elain miscommunication situation was elains fault. I just sometimes see Lucien get thrown under the bus for it cause he can’t recognize her disinterest but I think it’s a bit more complicated on his part. I don’t think either one should get blamed cause there’s nothing to blame really. Their stories haven’t been told. They’ll both work it out and get their happy endings eventually.
Hey! That’s alright, you are welcome to come chat whenever, there is no limit of course :D
Ahhhh okay, sorry, perhaps I read it wrong! I definitely think we agree it is a super complicated situation for them both, logic vs instincts etc... I wouldn’t want to throw him under the bus either, and agree there is no one person to blame, it is just a series of shitty situations that have led to this. It feels like we pretty much agree and see eye to eye on this tbf hahaah
I hope so! They both deserve to sort their stuff out and get their happy ending. I am hopeful Sarah will do the situation justice ♡
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KARMASTARS: FEBRUARY 16TH - 22ND
ARIES
MONEY: As Mercury retrograde begins on the 16th - March 9th, pay attention to detail and avoid important decision making initiated because of clouded judgement. This is a transit to lay low and re-evaluate everything for the next three weeks. Success depends on it.
SEX: Try to be as honest as you can with your partner, even though you think/feel this could have adverse affects. In the end you’ll be glad you did.
POWER: During the next three weeks slow down and don’t be in such a rush to get things done, because with Mercury retrograde mistakes will be made. This is a time to reassess your accomplishments so far.
TAURUS
MONEY: This Mercury retrograde could be an excellent time to create new ideas for making money, if you can put time aside to “tune into” upcoming trends that are on the horizon and lay-out a plan of action once Mercury as novel forward. Doin’t second-guess yourself, if you feel your ideas are too bizarre. Chances are you’ll be way ahead of your peers.
SEX: Have more optimism when it comes to love. If you’re willing and able to meet your partner/lover half-way they’ll respond accordingly and the relationship will become stronger.
POWER: Use the energy of your opposite sign Scorpio to transform ideas into something big, that the public will grasp with open arms. Your sign is that of money, material possessions and personal resources, so have the the self-worth (also Taurus), to expand your mind to see the “bigger picture”.
GEMINI
MONEY: With Mercury retrograde in Pisces February 16th - March 9th, you’ll probably have to deal with certain individuals in authority/power and.or connected to goals and ambitions.. These will be individuals from the past who have let you down, not followed through with promises or commitments. Be careful how you interact with them, it would be wise not to pursue any type of business/financial transactions or negotiations with them at all. This will spare you further disappointment or delay in plans.
SEX: As long as you and your partner can agree to some kind of commitment that makes you both happy, everything in love will run smoothly.
POWER: During Mercury retrograde it would be best to trust your own counsel rather than that of others. The possibility of miscommunication is very high, but need not occur.
CANCER
MONEY: Instead of initiating new creative ventures, expanding horizons, learning something new, first give deep thought as to whether the timing is right. The answer is no, because Mercury is retrograde for three weeks and with it comes a lot of problems, delays and mistakes. For now, it would be wiser to contemplate your next move, plan for the future with great discernment and attention to detail.
SEX: Keep your feet on the ground and avoid getting too carried away with love, to the point you lose touch with the reality of what is going on between you and your partner.
POWER: Mercury retrograde in Pisces will also lead you to question what you believe to be true, either because of experiences that occur or something said during the cycle. Either way, your beliefs about life will be challenged and at the end of this retrograde cycle , you may find that the things you thought were real and true were not.
LEO
MONEY: Past karma will resurface during Mercury retrograde that will probably be uncomfortable to deal with. Best course of action is to deal with situations slowly, being mindful in he area of joint financial partnerships, how you’re being perceived. Don’t think for one moment you’ll get away with things that need to be confronted, because always, sooner or later the Universe will remind you.
SEX: Don’t allow wearing rose-colored glasses blind you to deep rooted issues that need resolution between you and your partner.
POWER: This Mercury retrograde could be an emotional cycle for you, especially when dealing with women. Therefore, take a deep breath and don’t let fear take control.
VIRGO
MONEY: Anything of a visual nature for public consumption should be looked at very carefully during Mercury retrograde. This is the time to create, redo and reassess what you have done so far, or make a concerted effort to complete projects by the time the retrograde is over. This is important if you want to make money from new ventures. Time is of the essence and you don’t have much left to put things in place, before retrograde season begins April through November.
SEX: A week to restate commitment and solidify the foundation of love with your significant other. You’ve come a long way in this area of life and know that it’s worth it to keep up the good work.
POWER: You have the capacity with careful wise planning to achieve a lot by using creative talents. However, belief is the key. Knowing that you have something special to offer that is of worth and value.
LIBRA
MONEY: This week’s Mercury retrograde will take affect in the area of work. Situations that you’ve been through before, dealing with people who aren’t necessarily upfront with information or mislead will be the scenario you have to deal with, yet again. Read between the lines of everything presented to you and if something is not understood, go to the source directly. Pay attention to detail and avoid signing papers until the retrograde is over.
SEX: In the area of love be true to what it is you know will make you happy in love and don’t settle for less without compromise that is mutually agreeable.
POWER: If you keep things practical and straightforward and if necessary write things down for clarity, a lot of confusion can be avoided over the next three weeks.
SCORPIO
MONEY: It’ll be hard to keep up with commitments in career and goals because of Mercury retrograde in Pisces for three weeks. While this is occurring, plan for the future and put ideas and work to be done in some type of organized structure. At the same time avoid getting too caught up with extracurricular activities that waste time. Even though this is a retrograde cycle, it means something needs to be redone or looked at again for mistakes.
SEX: Love will go well if you keep your feet f firmly on the ground and avoid being too engrossed with the fantasy of love and what is going on between you and your partner, especially the physical aspects. Don’t take them for granted and remain sensitive to their needs.
POWER: You may feel as if you can accomplish anything, the sky is the limit. This is true, but any achievement will happen with a clear focused plan of action, otherwise you’re likely to come “crashing down” to earth when reality hits.
SAGITTARIUS
MONEY: Your foundation of life is definitely in need of an overhaul, but you must take one step at a time in order to get things done correctly. Once you’re able to decide what exactly it is you want to change then everything will start to move forward in the right direction. This i s what you must do during Mercury retrograde. Anything of a visual nature, once transformed and simplified will bring you tremendous success.
SEX: You r partner may not be all that they appear to be on the surface and whether you know that or not it’s time to deal with the reality of this fact and see them for who and what they are. If you continue to give them qualities they don’t have, you only have Self to blame for your unhappiness.
POWER It’s quite possible that during the Mercury retrograde cycle certain relationships that have a future dissolve or aspects of the relationship that need to go are revised/brought to the surface. Either way, there’s next few weeks will be a time of “cleansing” in many ways.
CAPRICORN
MONEY: It’s possible during this retrograde cycle that individuals involved in projects, plans and ideas may omit certain pieces of information that you need to know about and should therefore read any documents, rules etc. very carefully before you agree to move forward into new horizons. In addition, this isn’t the best cycle to actually begin something new, it will be fraught with problems, difficulties and delays of all kinds. It would be wise to wait until the retrograde is over before starting new beginnings If you don’t understand something, ask.
SEX: Make sure all communication with your partner is clearly understood, There is a danger of miscommunication during the retrograde transit.
POWER: Pay attention to dreams and meditations (a by-product of Mercury retrograde in Pisces), because there will be many insights provided that will help you deal with present situations in your life.
AQUARIUS
MONEY: Money, material possessions and self-worth will all be highlighted during the Mercury retrograde cycle, February 16th - March 9th. You will be dealing with situations form the past, some connected to visual projects and work that somehow went awry/brought sorrow and elf-undoing. Tread with care and don’t allow certain individuals to mislead you into believing other than what you know to be true. Trust your instincts. This way you’ll steer clear of any further negativity directed towards you.
SEX: Friends and lovers are a good combination if you can actually create a relationship on this basis. It can be done and if you avoid becoming detached from your partner, (an Aquarius habit), consciously or unconsciously, love will bloom.
POWER”: Doors from the past you thought were closed could reopen during this retrograde. However, it’s up to you to decide whether or not you want certain individuals back in your life. The question is how negative are they and what were the reasons that caused you to walk away from them? You know the answer to these questions.
PISCES
MONEY: When it comes to getting things off the ground you may find, during Mercury retrograde, that individuals don’t follow through with right action, not living up to your expectations. Also, the fact that this happened before and those responsible come back into your life. Don’t be so quick to let this happen, or agree to anything they’re offering, because you’ll end up with a minus instead of a plus. Carefully assess the situation and then decide what you want to do or not do.
SEX: This isn’t a good time for making commitments or promises in love. Least of all starting a new love-relationship. Promises made will be later broken and more than likely bring a great deal of upset and sorrow. Keep things practical and easy-going for now, at least until this cycle is over.
POWER: Beware of being too idealistic and having expectations of people and situations that just can’t be met, unfortunately. This is because Mercury is retrograde in your sign and you must be clearly focused and exercise great discernment more so than usual in order to avoid disappointments. If people let you down, chalk it up to experience and “lessons” from the Universe.
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Karmic Tools Weekly Forecast: July 7 – 13, 2019
Karmic Tools Weekly Forecast: July 7 – 13, 2019
By Kelly M. Beard
The video version of this forecast, as read by Kelly, is available here.
The Karmic Tools Weekly Forecast covers the current planetary transits which affect people in different ways and to various degrees of intensity. Take notice when it is a Personal planet (Sun / Moon / Mercury / Venus / Mars) interacting with a Social (Jupiter/Saturn) or Collective planet (Uranus / Neptune/Pluto). And pay extremely close attention when it is a Social planet interacting with a Collective planet because that means something *big* is brewing that will move large groups of people along their evolutionary paths. Tuning in to the energy and rhythm of the planets can serve as a useful *guide* as you move along your Individual Path. It also helps to understand your place within the context of the larger Social & Collective Story. Below, you will find out how these energies tend to manifest, as well as guidance and direction.
*NOTE* There are some days when there are NO CONTACTS (besides the Moon), please note that there are no missing entries, we just list the actual Activations of each week + the day they happen.
Weekly Forecast: July 7 – 13, 2019
7/7 ~ Mercury Retrograde in LEO Mercury is going to go backwards in Leo, asking us to review our creative projects and reconnect with the Heart. This is a chance to rewire your magnetics in a way that is deeply supported by it spending more time reviewing late Cancer. We are being asked to release childhood traumas & dramas, stop letting them color the present and start taking responsibility for our words, thoughts & deeds. This energy reminds us we cannot be superficial with no substance, beauty with no heart, love with no trust. This is also one of three times a year that we get to give our Mental Body a much-needed break. Yes, mechanical breakdowns & miscommunications abound, but conversing with your Soul Self, communing with your Invisible Team (Angels, Ancestors & Animal Spirit Guides) and more right-brain activities are much more supported, and often magical, with Mercury Retrograde. This feeds into all the Solstice/Eclipse advice I have already given to dedicate some time to self-care. The initial stop in Leo tells us that the Heart is involved and if it doesn’t “feel” right, it is best to hold off until it does. Obviously, you cannot stop the world for any retrograde, so the caveat with this one is to check, re-check, triple check the details and the bottom lines; thoroughly read through any contracts and don’t be shy about asking folks to clarify if you are still not clear. Usually, the attention to detail (and following your own instincts & intuition, which is also better supported at this time) will help you catch any mistakes before it is too late to correct them. That said, retrogrades, especially Mercury, are actually great for finishing projects (not necessarily starting them) and fixing or finally addressing something that has been on the back-burner. Finally, it is also recommended to take as many personal time-outs for some “me-time” as you possibly can throughout the Summer of 2019 because the Summer of 2020 is going to be something else entirely.
7/8 ~ Chiron Retrograde in ARIES Last year, Chiron took its last dip into Pisces for 50-years so for those of you born 1960-1968, you have now completed a very deep healing process, while those born 1968-1977 are being initiated. This retrograde is his first full retrograde in Aries and so we have all been put on notice, especially those with this placement. We can all consciously honor the healing, education & personal transformation that Chiron facilitates. Pisces taught us about sensitivity & boundary issues, being a spirit in human form. Now, in Aries, we are opening up to the new directive of self-healing, self-assembling & self-mastery going forward. Chiron is best known as the Wounded Healer, the aspect of Self that came in with a wound to address this lifetime and in your chart, it represents your *Healing & Educational Path* – it is all that you learn on the journey to wholeness & integration and the healing & education that results from that journey. This 5-month period is going to reveal where you’re at in your own process. This time is deeply supported for a personal inventory or inner review. You have to be willing to face the fears & hurts, accept the losses & defeats, and then get up, dust yourself off & try again. Chiron can help guide this process. It’s time to be brave & pioneering (clearly, the old ways no longer work), it’s time to follow our instincts (though first we may have to connect to them properly), it’s time to face challenges head-on, and remember that though we have to do for Self (be self-sufficient & self-contained), we do not have to do it alone. So this time is really going to support the evolution of the individual within the context of the community or their relationships. It is all connected, if one evolves (Self), the other (Relationship) has to evolve too (or dissolve & go away).
7/8 ~ Venus (relationships, love & money) ~sextile~ Uranus (clarity & inspiration): This energy, thanks to Uranus, activates a certain spark of electricity in the air. New relationships will have an unusual aspect to them and old ones can break-to-realign in a positive, even fun way with this energy. No monotonous routine, humdrum people or boring collaborations with this one. Use it to access your own unique genius and deep well of creativity and then share if you can, with other like-hearted Souls. Take advantage of this energy to tap into areas you may not have realized were available to you before now. Keep it light and upbeat; socialize and enjoy the experience of different people or new activities. Keep in mind, however, any relationships begun this week may not be based on qualities needed for long term survival. It is more of a time to enjoy the people and experiences that pass through and accept it as a gift!
7/8 ~ Mercury Rx (thoughts) ~conjunct~ Mars (energy): I have to preface this with two things: (1) is when Mercury is involved, it is a relatively fast-moving energy. (2) is when Mars is involved, being the lower version of power (Pluto being the Higher version), it reminds us that with power, also comes responsibility. Now, that all said, the positive expression of this energy is that you can control your mind and direct it with passion, getting tangible results. This heightens your intellectual ability and mental capacity (for better or worse). You will be able to clearly articulate your thoughts and you should have quick, effective responses. If you maintain your integrity, this is an excellent time to ‘fuel’ major creative expression. If this energy manifests its negative side, it can make you petty & combative, arguing over nonsense and wasting precious time & energy in ego control-dramas. And if it is not coming FROM you, it is just as possible to be coming AT you (from others). This is the best time to put your energy (Mars) behind your thoughts, ideas and words (Mercury) and get creative. The power of this pairing is that they are occupying the same space, essentially energizing each other and initiating a new 2-year cycle.
7/9 ~ Sun (core essential Self) ~oppose~ Saturn (physical limits & definition of reality): This is an annual process of development. The Sun makes it personal and about you the individual. Saturn helps move your timeline along and build the literal aspects of life, the basics of providing for yourself (food, shelter etc) and your own personal limitations. What renewed aspect of Self got activated about 6-months ago and how do you want that to fully develop over the next 6-months? This is a potent midpoint, the most powerful course-correcting time in any cycle, this one being an annual meeting between Sun & Saturn, a check-point between you and your responsibilities. Each year, you evolve, some years more consciously than others so this is a good time to check in with your own personal definitions of what you are or are no longer responsible for. Often, this energy activates a push-pull between who you are and who you want to be; between what you want to do and what you have to do. My age-old advice is to: do what you gotta do so you can do what you wanna do. And while it may not be the easiest path, it’s usually worth it for the peace of mind that it brings. You may swing between extremes of fulfilling all your obligations to the neglect of your own Truth & Purpose -or- neglecting your obligations and doing whatever you choose, which only means those obligations will be there when you get to them and they will have most likely increased by the time you do. Balance is the key! Practice, there is no perfection and it’s time to practice handling business before pleasure.
7/10 ~ Sun (authentic Self) ~trine~ Neptune (intuition): This energy triggers your idealistic, altruistic inclinations, but remember that help has to be invited. But if you have the energy to share & to spare, then dedicate your Self to something greater than you. Choose a cause to support or help those less fortunate for the sheer pleasure of giving. If your energy is low at this time, it may be better directed inward. If you can, take some extra time in intentional solitude, praying, meditating and connecting to Spirit this week, you will be rewarded with deep revelations & mystical discoveries within you. It’s a great time to do divinations, ritual or ceremony if you’re into that. Your intuition is heightened also, so pay attention to any ‘messages’ that come through or to you. Try to use this energy to reflect on where you are and dream a little about where you want to be, mentally, spiritually and physically in 6-months to a year from now.
7/11 ~ Mars (action) ~square~ Uranus (freedom): This is the “Rebel” energy – what’s your “cause”? If you are clear about your own authentic Truth & Purpose, then this energy is refreshing and uplifting. You acknowledge that change is necessary (and inevitable) and you co-create with this energy to transform your current life. This is a rebirth energy too and being “reborn” is never easy. Worth it – but not easy. However, if you are NOT clear about who you are and what you’re capable of, this energy shines a light on that aspect of your life which you instinctively already know needs an overhaul but for whatever reason you are still holding on to the old habits/patterns. Unwilling or unable to embrace change at this time, you only increase the feeling of being restricted by external energies. Your life is a direct reflection of what’s going on inside you. How’s it lookin’? Check your ego, recommit to your Truth and remember that change is GOOD! And if you don’t go voluntarily (read: consciously), then you’ll get dragged to the new level, kicking and screaming and you’ll be so exhausted when you get there that you may miss the beauty in evolving to that next level. (This IS what you’ve been working toward, correct?) Remember, conscious, effective action creates freedom.
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How your organization can become AI powered
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Companies can make many mistakes in launching AI projects, including not taking the time to understand the technology at a business level, and trying to get by with inadequate IT infrastructures.
To move your organization toward AI success, make sure you have a clear objective for the project, a good definition of success, and a way to measure whether you got there.
Have a plan to integrate AI into your organizational infrastructure, and build a knowledge scaffolding using an ontology.
Organizing information properly will allow for future growth of AI systems and will also help your employees right now. It all comes down to data management.
I have spent more than 25 years researching and implementing AI technologies — from the days of IBM’s “discovery server” which lead to “OmniFind” and then became part of their flagship AI brand Watson to various iterations of text analytics and machine learning applications to prototypes and deployed projects using conversational technologies.
During these cycles of new technology – all of which were marked by hype, missed expectations and eventual adoption — I have seen patterns of success and failure as the AI landscape has evolved. In The AI-Powered Enterprise, I seek to help businesses deliver AI’s promise of revolutionary change.
Achieving this goal means avoiding the most common mistakes I’ve seen companies make, including:
Lack of understanding of AI technology
Executives tend to think AI technology is beyond their ability to understand. The complex programming may be out of reach for many, but the basic functioning needs to be explainable and understandable in business terms.
Businesspeople can understand the principles, and vendors can explain their solutions in an understandable way. Effort is required on both sides.
Unrealistic expectations due to vendor and market hype
This is a big one. Every major technology change causes vendors, gurus, consultants and organizations to confuse what is possible with what is practical. SRI, the company that originally developed Siri as part of a DARPA project, created intelligent assistants 25 years ago.
Approximately $150 million was invested, and that research and development showed what was possible. These tools did not become practical until the last several years (and they still have a long way to go).
Underestimating the required investment
All too often, ROI is projected without a real understanding of what is needed to make things work and the costs of achieving functionality. Startups often try to do things that have not been possible before and are selling what I refer to as “aspirational functionality.”
They may believe they can deliver what they are selling, but this will not happen without a lot of customer investments and pain. “Moon shot” projects (big, ambitious and game changing) are the ones most likely to fail.
Miscommunication, misinterpretation and misinformation
Consider a marketer trying to translate the work of an AI researcher or data scientist into something that the marketplace (and their salespeople) understand. Marketing’s understanding will be an approximation that is then interpreted by the salesperson.
In each translation of the message, the high points are emphasized and the challenges minimized. There is bound to be misinterpretation and miscommunication and in some cases misinformation.
Unfortunately, this has led to millions of dollars in wasted funding and career limiting mistakes for the executives who took those risks.
Immature supporting processes
In many cases, AI technology can be equated to a high-performance super car. However, the necessary supporting processes are like rutted dirt roads, not smooth flat racetrack where the car will perform to its specifications.
Personalized experiences are an example of this. Some marketers segment customers but don’t know how to differentiate the experiences across those segments. The tools and the architecture are ready, but the supporting messaging and content processes are not.
Disconnected technologies
Organizations are experimenting with lots of tools, and some functions – like marketing – have been evolving very rapidly with easy-to-deploy cloud-based tools.
In many situations, this has led to more fragmentation of data, processes and the experience. Legacy systems are difficult to upgrade or replace, and adding AI tools on top of an outdated infrastructure can make things worse.
Poor data quality
It’s all about the data. In fact, the data is more important than the algorithm.
Some projects work well in a proof of concept (PoC) but only because the data was hand selected, integrated, cleansed, enriched and/or curated for the AI. In a production environment, companies don’t have the same conditions or luxury.
What business leaders need to know about using AI to move their organizations forward?
So, how can companies avoid these mistakes? It’s really back to the basics. Executives need to be very clear about their objectives and understand the processes that they want to improve.
AI for AI’s sake or to check a box to say “yes, we have an AI program,” is an exercise in futility – and a drain on resources.
Governance is also key – from deciding on strategic priorities to assigning accountabilities, mobilizing and allocating funding, monitoring preconditions (such as data quality) and linking to process and outcome metrics, guiding working agendas, and evangelizing, educating and socializing to catalyze needed changes in work habits and culture.
AI cannot replace entire functions or jobs. Rather, it enhances specific processes that need to be narrowly defined and well understood. You can’t automate a mess, and you can’t use AI to fix a process that your people don’t understand.
It is also critical important to know what success looks like and to measure how well things are working today (as a baseline) and then measure after deploying an AI solution.
If you cannot measure it, how will you know it’s working? Be clear about the objective, the process and the success measures.Otherwise getting support and funding will be difficult.
Finally, executives need to understand dependencies – data, technology, process, people – and be clear on what is needed in each domain.
AI has to be integrated into the organizational infrastructure. This means everything from the technology stack to cultural readiness, decision making and governance.
Who is going to own the capability? What are the upstream and downstream impacts – both short term and longer term as capabilities evolve? How will resources be allocated? How will course corrections be made?
Why the key to successful implementation of AI comes down to data management?
AI algorithms (programs) run on data. One of the reasons why AI has become more practical in recent years is that so much data is available to “train” the algorithms.
Training data comes in different forms and structures. For example, training an AI that is looking for fraudulent transactions, requires providing multiple examples of valid transactions along with examples of fraudulent ones.
Alternatively, for a “cognitive” assistant (a really smart bot or virtual assistant), the training takes the form of the actual knowledge needed to answer questions that will be posed to the assistant.
In The AI Powered Enterprise, I describe a project for insurance company Allstate, for which thousands of pieces of information had to be broken into pieces and ingested (imported) into the system as answers to questions.
In other words, AI needs to learn about your products, services, solutions – the knowledge architecture that defines your organization’s value in the marketplace.
This is why effective bots are difficult and costly to build. Indeed, projects like the insurance example above can cost upwards of $1mm+, but they provide enormous return on investment.
Imagine that you are trying to personalize an experience for your customers. The key is identifying their “digital body language” when they come to your site.
That is data – the data exhaust thrown off by sometimes dozens of applications that support their experience. Without those data signals, the AI has nothing to go by.
In many organizations, data is disconnected, inconsistent, and in many cases of poor quality. You cannot be successful with AI until you have your data house in order.
Which companies are getting AI right, and what we can learn from them?
Born digital companies – like the big tech vendors – are obviously amassing enormous wealth by doing it right.
Financial services firms have been building maturity in analytics by using AI programs as an extension of advanced and predictive analytics. Some retailers are capitalizing on their knowledge of their customer needs and the data that is being harvested throughout their journeys.
Other organizations can learn from these companies by investing in a cloud-based, modern, well- integrated infrastructure. Because technologies have advanced so much in the past several years, there are actually some advantages to being a follower now.
New approaches to harmonizing, cleansing, and managing data have been made more practical by using graph data and knowledge graphs.
These approaches allow the linking of related things throughout the organization. Think of Facebook’s “friend of a friend.” Finding common elements allows people to navigate their friend networks by interests, school, employers, associations, etc.
These structures, combined with ontologies (the catalog of data, concepts, products, solutions, processes, and everything else important to the business) become the knowledge scaffolding of the enterprise.
They become the foundation for all AI tools as well as conventional tools and technologies. Indeed, the critical role of these structures and ontologies is the subject of The AI Powered Enterprise.
How AI can help employees being crushed by “information overload”?
We can think of the flood of data employees face as “information overload,” but it is really “filter failure.” Humans have worried about information overload since the invention of the printing press.
The pace of information growth is unimaginable, but people are always filtering out what they don’t need and focusing on what they do need.
This is not done by accident. Libraries were created to manage information in context and to find what humans need to learn, to create, and to solve problems.
That requires effort – the energy needed to categorize and organize. AI can help with this, but first it needs to be trained in what is important — the products, services, solutions, processes and more.
By properly organizing information needed for a high-value process (for example customer support), the business can make it easy for employees to get what they need without being overloaded. That was what the Allstate virtual assistant referenced above accomplished – but there is no free lunch.
Time, money, resources and energy needed to be invested to make the crucial underwriting and policy information accessible and findable. AI helped, but humans needed to teach the AI about the insurance business.
The same elements that are needed to train humans are needed to train AI. Therefore, the investments that are made now for people can be fully leveraged for AI. I discuss how to do this in great depth in The AI Powered Enterprise.
Seth Earley is the CEO of Earley Information Science and the author of the new book The AI-Powered Enterprise: Harness the Power of Ontologies to Make Your Business Smarter, Faster, and More Profitable.
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What is Maritime English and Why It Is Important?
Communication plays a major role in the maritime industry, whether it be between crew members, officers or between two ships.
Ambiguity and confusion are the primary causes of accidents and untoward incidents that happen onboard ships and other vessels.
When crew members speak a wide variety of languages, there can be some confusion in the meaning of phrases that they wish to convey.
To compound this problem, ships and seafarers travel all over the world. They can fly a flag of one country, have a captain of another, and a crew of at least 7 to 8 different nationalities.
Without a common language, there can be difficulty in passing instructions among officers and crew members.
This is where Maritime English comes into play.
Building on the basics of everyday English, certain maritime terms have been adopted by the maritime and shipping community.
By having a set of terms unique to this domain, it rules out any possibility of confusion in meaning. A major issue with using normal terms such as left or right, front or back, etc. is the ambiguity associated with the directions.
For instance, say the captain issues an order changing direction by 5 degrees to the left. Whose left is to be taken for consideration in this scenario?
If the captain and the crew member controlling the navigation are in different locations, there can be quite a bit of confusion in this regard.
Furthermore, if the crew member is facing in a different direction, the ship may proceed off course, leading to possible damages. Thus, terms that can be used irrespective of one’s orientation and location are extremely important.
Similarly, front and back face an issue with the relative direction. These issues are solved by adopting a common set of terms and phrases, used by all seafarers across the world.
This is known as Maritime English and is also referred to as the Standard Maritime Communication Phrases (SMCP).
SMCP has been developed by the International Maritime Organization (IMO) as the international standard for all maritime communication.
As English is considered to be the common language while at sea, Maritime English builds on the basic vocabulary of English while including unique phrases and terms to rule out any possible ambiguity.
It primarily serves three main functions-
1. Ship to ship communication 2. Ship to shore communication 3. Internal communications onboard a ship
Origin and Uses of Maritime English
SMCP or Building on the basics of everyday English, certain maritime terms have been adopted by the maritime and shipping community. Maritime English is thus various combinations of the English language and certain fixed phrases.
Seaspeak is known as a Controlled Natural Language (CNL) and borrows heavily from a limited English vocabulary.
In phrases where finding an appropriate English word may be difficult, terms from other common languages are also used. Seaspeak was developed at a conference of the International Maritime Lecturers Association (IMLA) in 1985.
It underwent multiply updates that aimed at improving the language to account for all possibilities of communication that may arise while at sea.
Eventually, it was combined with the Standard Maritime Navigational Vocabulary (SMNV) to form the SMCP language. This was in response to accidents that took place due to confusion in commands.
Ultimately, the SMCP was adopted in the 2001 conference of the IMO and has been in use since then. It aims to reduce language and communication-related accidents.
In a study conducted on the most common causes of maritime accidents, over 50% of the incidents were due to some form of miscommunication, and of these incidents, just under half was due to the improper use of SMCP and IMO approved phrases. Thus, it is important to equip all seafarers with sufficient knowledge on how to effectively communicate while at sea.
Commonly Used Terms Of Maritime English
There are some terms unique to the maritime sector that is a part of SMCP.
Firstly, direction plays a major role in navigation while at sea. Using lay terms such as right, left, front or back can be ambiguous. For this purpose, there are terms specific to ships.
The front of the ship is referred to as the bow or fore. The region at the back where the propellers are housed is known as the aft or stern. The region in between the aft and bow is known as the midship.
Similarly, when viewing the vessel from the stern to the fore, the left-hand side is known as the Port side, while the right side is the Starboard side.
The various horizontal levels on the vessel are known as decks, while the base is known as the keel. Another important term that is used is the draft of a vessel.
The draft refers to the depth of a vessel that is below the waterline. Thus, when the captain says that the fore-starboard region on deck 4 is out of bounds, he implies that the area to the front right-hand side of the vessel cannot be accessed by unauthorized personnel. Deck 4 is the number allotted to that particular deck which is inaccessible.
Another part of the ship that has a specific maritime name is the elevated area in which the captain and officers work. This is called the bridge of the ship and serves as the main heart of the vessel. Another term used in direction is abaft, which indicates an object being relatively closer to the stern. Thus, the rudder is abaft to the propellers on most conventional ships.
Abandon ship is a term used on ships to imply that a disaster has occurred and that the ship will eventually sink. It is an order issued by the captain to indicate that passengers and crew members are to board rescue vessels or life rafts and follow emergency protocols. Another accident that may occur is when a ship runs aground. In such situations also the call to abandon ship may be issued. When a ship is said to capsize, it turns over such that the keel is above water while the decks may be fully submerged. In such situations, the vessel is said to be taking on water.
An interesting way of referring to windows and doors within a ship is by calling them access holes. Similarly, the passages within a vessel are called alleyways. The gangway refers to a structure similar to a ladder that permits boarding of a vessel. The windows cut out into the hull of a ship is called portholes. The pennant refers to a flag that a ship is flying. This can either be a flag of convenience or a flag under which a warship operates.
The course of a ship refers to the path it is taking. This path can also be determined by referring to the absolute bearing of a vessel. This type of bearing gives the direction of the vessel with respect to true North. When the order to stow something away is given, it indicates that a particular object must be stored in specifically assigned locker or bunker.
The ballast of a ship refers to additional water that it takes on board-specific ballast tanks to lower itself in the water. A berth refers to a place assigned to a ship at a port. It can either be for loading, unloading or just as a port of transit.
Lastly, there a few terms referred to as message markers. They are used to prefix certain statements to clarify their meaning in case of poor communication. These include keywords such as “INTENTION” that means the seafarer is about to state a probable course of action.
“WARNING” suggests a possible warning issued by the authorities to a vessel. “ADVICE” is used to provide suggestions to the officers of a vessel regarding heading and a course. A “REQUEST” implies that some aid or facility is required by a ship. Another similar type of message marker is the QUESTION-ANSWER phrase, that is discussed in the next section.
Common Phrases and Examples Of Maritime English
One of the most common phrases used while at sea is “Say Again”, which indicates that the receiver was unable to understand the message and needs it to be repeated. This comes in place of other more complicated phrases that can be lost while in the relay. Instead of lengthy sentences such as “I could not hear you” or “Please repeat yourself”, this two-word phrase is short and to the point. It also has a lesser likelihood of being misunderstood or misheard.
Another very common set of phrases that are used in the maritime sector is the “QUESTION – ANSWER” group. Instead of asking a question using phrases such as “Should I” or “May I”, the seafarer can use the term QUESTION as a prefix to his query.
This states his intention and allows the receiver to understand that he has a question. In response, the receiver particularly uses the term ANSWER prior to answering the query. This ensures that the seafarer at the other end knows that his query is being addressed. Thus, using these 2 prefix phrases, ambiguity about the nature of the conversation can be removed.
In case of some accident or issue, sentences such as “I am in trouble” or “I need help” can be easily misunderstood, especially in bad weather with poor broadcasting. Instead, the phrase “I require assistance” ensures that the message is not lost or misunderstood.
Prior to starting this phrase, it is advisable to also mention the reason or cause for your accident. This could be due to icing or immediate danger of sinking. After issuing the standard mayday and distress calls, it is also prudent to mention if any particular type of assistance is required and to also enquire into the ETA of the rescue vessel.
This is useful when it comes to reducing wasted time. By stating the issuing that you are facing and the type of aid required, the rescue team can send a group that is prepared to help you in this regard. They can also inform the shipowners of any complications and seek their help in understanding the layout and design of the vessel. SMCP plays a major role in disaster scenarios, as any miscommunication in such cases can have major consequences.
Certain distress signals can be used depending on the severity of the issue. The phrases Mayday-Mayday-Mayday, Pan-Pan-Pan and Securite-Securite-Securite are all used to indicate some form of distress information. Each varies in severity, with mayday implying a major issue with a high probability of sinking.
Securite is the least severe and is a French word used to simply indicate that the information following the signal contains important safety directives. Lastly, SOS is a common distress signal, which originated from the phrase “Save our Souls” or “Save Our Ship”. Most distress signals are repeated three times successively, to ensure that the message is carried out and is not lost in any possible miscommunication.
How to Use Maritime English
Using this type of language can be challenging for beginners. That is why it is important to pick up the nuances of conveying information. While conveying any message, it is important to ensure that the complete data is transferred.
Similarly, when speaking to passengers or crew members, it is also good practice to give them a brief idea of what to expect in a particular scenario. In this section, we will look at some common sentences and phrases used by seafarers in maritime English.
“Ship has run aground. I require assistance. Kindly provide rescue vessels to location … Passenger and crew count totalling one-five-zero.”
The phrase is short and to the point. It indicates that the ship is in some form of distress and requests for assistance. The type of rescue and the location has also been provided. In addition, it allows the rescue team to know that they will have to look for a total of 150 individuals during search operations.
“Possible piracy attack. Location … and heading … I require immediate assistance. What is ETA of backup?”
By implying immediate danger and enquiring into the ETA, the person has conveyed a significant amount of information in just 3 short phrases.
Using the heading and course, a possible piracy attack can be thwarted by sending troops or a warship to the affected region.
One can also use single-word message markers to convey a message.
“QUESTION. What is the ETA of your vessel?”
“ANSWER. ETA zero nine hundred hours GMT.”
This exchange conveys the required information in an understandable manner. The person answering the question is conveying their estimated time of arrival (ETA) to be at 9 am GMT.
It is common to use military time standards using 4 digits in a 24-hour format. This removes ambiguity about the time into consideration.
Similarly,
“WARNING. Proceed with caution. Iceberg ahead.” “INSTRUCTION. Stay on traffic lane 1.” “REQUEST. Dispatch pilot immediately.” “INTENTION. Vessel to move to traffic lane 1.”
When speaking to passengers over a PA system, using maritime English is also advised. In case of an emergency, take this opportunity to reassure the passengers and reiterate that the crew are doing everything in their power to improve the situation.
For instance,
“This is Captain … Passengers are advised we have collided with another vessel. Minor fire on the upper deck. No imminent danger. Firefighting measures being implemented. In case of adverse conditions, you are advised to prepare for possible evacuation by heading to assembly areas nearest to you. Further information will be relayed by either me or members of my crew.”
Although this is evidently a stressful situation, the captain has conveyed a calm and composed message that boosts confidence among passengers.
Even during normal procedures, officers often communicate with passengers in maritime English. For example, once boarding has been completed, the captain often welcomes passengers and briefs them about basic safety guidelines. “Ladies and gentlemen. This is Captain … This is to inform you that we have left the port. We are currently at heading … with favourable weather conditions. The stern and bow doors have been secured and you are advised not to venture to zones … ETA at our destination is 1600 hours GMT.”
By sticking to maritime English phrases, one is able to ensure communication without any probable issues. In addition, it reflects a calm and collected demeanour that suits officers and crew members of sailing vessels.
How to Obtain Maritime English Certification
Budding seafarers are often not provided with the opportunity to learn proper maritime English. This acts as a disadvantage when applying for jobs and when trying to move up the industry ladder.
That is why several private and government bodies offer third-part certification in maritime English. Along with teaching you the basics and more advanced phrases, they also provide documentation that shows your proficiency in the course.
The primary step to learning maritime English lies in picking up basic English terms. This can be especially challenging for non-English speakers, but there are a variety of courses out there that can help you in this regard.
The next step is to attempt one of the many certification exams conducted by authorized bodies around the world. With the documentation provided by them, one can apply for jobs in the maritime sector.
One of the most common tests taken by seafarers looking to pick up SMCP is MarTEl, which stands for the Maritime Tests of English Language. Provided by the European Union (EU) under a funded learning program since 2007, it combines standards from both IMO and SMCP. The project uses 3 grades provided by joint partners from around Europe to provide maritime English certification to seafarers.
Seaspeak, or Maritime English as it is more commonly known today, refers to key phrases used in the maritime industry to prevent accidents because of a difference in language fluency. It removes ambiguity in common everyday phrases and instead replaces several words with more relevant terms. From the crew to the officers, everyone must be up to date on the latest terms and usage of maritime English. A large number of courses can be found- both online and in-person, which provides certification for budding maritime seafarers.
By using the correct terms, information can be conveyed between members of a ship. It even ensures that 2 captains who speak different native languages can still understand each other. In addition to replacing common English phrases and words, maritime English also uses certain codes to indicate various occurrences. This can include fires, leaks, a probable chance for sinking etc. When used correctly, it can be immensely useful in the maritime world.
And now over to you. Do you know any other interesting maritime English terms? Share your thoughts in the comments section below…
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Link earning tactics for movers to implement
More and more companies in the moving industry are opting for investing resources in building their online presence. After all, we’ve argued in the past just how important this mission has become in the modern market. Building your brand, staying competitive, generating moving leads – all of it rests on the digital marketing solutions you implement. And the importance of backlinks is one of the crucial ways to make an impact for your website online. By building a network of links from other websites that lead back to yours, you instill authority and credibility for your moving business. Today, we discuss some of the best link earning tactics that you can easily practice as a business.
Ten practical ways to earn links and build up your backlink profile
Companies and individuals have demonstrated plenty of colorful tactics for building links to their website. And we recently discussed the differences between link building and link earning methods. Needless to say, a lot of initial strategies for creating larger volumes of links from other websites have since been defined as black hat SEO tactics.
Therefore, most marketers have since dismissed them from their digital marketing toolkit and have opted for more subtle tactics. The following link earning tactics for movers are more oriented toward gaining links from quality websites which might require more effort but can also provide ten times the value:
1. Broken-link building as a method
This particular method is very popular as it is as friendly and open-minded as it is practical. The way the broken-link method works is that you reach out to webmasters to report broken links on their website(s). However, instead of simply reporting and going away, you do them the favor of recommending suitable websites to use to replace those broken links with. And easily enough, you put your own website among those other links that you recommend.
How can you implement it?
The first thing you need to do is find websites that are relevant to your niche and have resource pages. You can identify them by running a simple Google search:
your keyword + links
keywords + resources
keywords + inurl
Once you find them, go through the links to search for any broken ones. There are plenty of link checkers that one can use to get this information. And once you find a list of broken links, it’s a matter of fitting your own link inside one of them.
Maintain a professional approach when reaching out to webmasters.
When reaching out to the webmaster, maintain professional courtesy. Explain to them the reason why you are reaching out and offer the exact data for them to explore. When giving alternative links to for them to use, don’t be eager or greedy to link to your own website – simply provide them with well-suited solutions. In most cases, this will earn you favor, but there will be webmasters that will refuse to give you a link in return.
2. Earning links through infographics
You will find that a lot of websites today earn top ranking spots for long-tail keywords through the implementation of infographics. After all, people are always looking for essential data to answer their questions online today. And when you offer them the answer in the form of a colorful infographic that is both visually appealing and rich in content, most can’t resist. However, not every infographic you create will carry the potential to earn you favor. Instead, you need to consider current moving industry trends and provide readers with what they will find most useful during a limited amount of time.
Infographics earn a lot of value and links.
Once you have the data and design all lined up, you need to focus on promoting that piece of content. The more awareness you manage to raise, the better off you will be to earn shares and links back to that infographic. Then, it comes down to advertising it through:
Your website blog
Social media networks
Email marketing campaigns
Numerous infographic directories
Outreaching to websites that have a fondness for linking to infographics.
3. Guest blogging
As probably one of the most popular link-earning tactics that marketers use today, guest articles are globally accepted strategy for boosting your backlinks portfolio. By offering your insightful content to other websites, you can build your authority in your niche and earn more exposure as an expert. However, you are not only increasing your reputation by doing so. You can also expand your target audience and use that credibility and trust to your advantage. And all you need to ask in return is placing a link back to your website in return.
How does it work?
To start your guest blogging endeavors, you need to do some research first. You begin by digging up as many niche-relevant websites that accept guest articles as you can. You can use Google search queries to find such blogs by typing in your keyword and adding phrases such as:
guest posts
write for us
guest post guidelines
become a contributor
submit an article
contribute
become an author
bloggers wanted, etc.
Once you comprise a list of potential guest blogging websites, start reaching out to them by offering content topics or finished articles that would best fit in their portfolio. Make sure to study each blog and topic before reaching out and giving your suggestions of topics you can write on. Also, don’t neglect to create a database and an organized system. That way, you won’t run the risk of spamming the same websites or making miscommunication errors in your link earning efforts.
4. Using competitive analysis to further your own link earning cause
Look to the success of others to improve your own success.
As mentioned earlier, staying ahead of competitive businesses is one of the primary goals of every company. And since most companies today are turning to digital marketing solutions to help them grow their online presence, you need to stay up-to-date in your efforts as well. It’s the same when it comes to link earning tactics – sometimes it’s just a matter of looking more closely at what your competitors are doing. Even if you have an optimal strategy in place, it never hurts to keep a close eye on the tactics others businesses are using. You can use the following methods to achieve this:
SEO competitive analysis
Monitoring competitive content
Surveillance of their link earning tactics and backlink profile
How does SEO competitive analysis help?
By having an insight into the optimization of the websites of your competitors, their rankings for relevant keywords, the choice of keywords they are after, their backlink profile, and the business listings they have profiles on, you can boost your own business as well. And all it takes is conducting a detailed website marketing analysis of your website as well as other websites. You can then do a cross-comparison and fill in the gaps.
Of course, there are plenty of analytics tools that can also help you make your conclusions, with the assistance of a trained SEO expert.
Keep records of current and new content that your competitors publish
Link earning tactics work best when you understand what keywords and articles your competitors want to push forward. And to understand that, you need to familiarize yourself with their content strategy. One of the ways to do this is to simply subscribe to their newsletter or social media accounts. Another way to keep track is by creating a Google alert. All you need to do is input a keyword and the URL of the website such as “site:competitor.com“. That way, each time they publish something new, you will receive an alert from Google.
Monitor all new and incoming link building and earning efforts of your competitors
If your competition is focusing on guest blogging, you can reach out to the same websites they are using. And if they are more oriented towards blog reviews or infographics, reach out to those bloggers and directories with your own proposal. All is fair in the modern warfare of digital marketing and earning links. Of course, there are always tools at your disposal which you can use to gain weekly insight into all newly gained backlinks to help you determine potential link-building opportunities.
5. Establishing a strong internal link network
All quality blogs are founded on a well-developed internal linking strategy. By inner-linking your blog posts and web pages through logical and well-placed anchor texts, you enable them to share link juice. In addition to that shared value, your website becomes much easier to navigate through for all users that come across your content and wish to learn more about connected sub-topics connected to that content.
Despite the existence of tools that can help you create internal links, this is something best done by your content coordinators. Your use of internal links needs to be balanced with your overall content strategy, helping you to push forward the more valuable and important pages in the spotlight, which helps rank them higher on search engine results.
6. Advertising content through a variety of marketing channels
Top-quality content amounts to little if you don’t promote it accordingly. That is why you need to take your creative process a step further and ensure that your target audiences get a chance to see it and explore it beyond just visiting your website. There are several ways for you to do this:
Reach out to niche-relevant bloggers that conduct weekly or monthly roundups.
Get in touch with webmasters and introduce your website, along with a couple of your most visited and top-ranked articles.
Create posts on your social media accounts, asking followers to explore your content and share it with others.
Establish an ambassador program to gain supporters and promoters for your brand.
Recruit influencers to promote your content on their social media channels, podcasts, webinars, etc.
7. Writing testimonials
All websites are on the lookout for establishing their credibility and deep trust in visitors by offering honest and quality reviews and testimonials. For modern marketing and the consumers today, having the option to explore positive reviews about a company and the products/services it offers is a crucial part of the decision to make a purchase. And a lot of those companies are more than willing to offer links to your website in return for detailed reviews about the services they provide.
8. Reaching out to local and national journalists
A lot of businesses are location-based and looking to establish their dominance in the local community before expanding beyond state and national borders. Therefore, you first need to ensure that your business is an authority in the area you offer products and services to. And link earning tactics that focus on local and regional news channels are the perfect solution for that. The good news is that you can easily reach the right people so long as you have the right approach:
Over 90% of emails at publications are formated in the following manner: [email protected]. So, you can try sending your pitch directly.
There are tools that can help you mine for emails focused on specific criteria such as niche, website, domain, area, etc.
If all else fails, there are always social media networks such as LinkedIn, Google Plus, Facebook, etc.
9. Making donations
Donating to non-profit organizations is a proven link earning strategy that can earn your business value. All you need to do is find websites that accept donations and offer links back to the sites that donated in return. Define your donation and attach your website URL to it. Finding such websites is once again a matter of doing a proper Google search with the right combination of keywords for moving companies, donations, and contributors.
10. Scheduling interviews
Online interviews are one of the easier ways to earn links to your website.
Online interviews are trending a lot and they are a great way to not only gain exposure for your business but to also earn links to your website in the process. By creating valuable and top-quality content in your niche, you will attract the attention of others that will want to know the key to your success. All you need to do in order to speed things along is to find websites that operate on interviews and case studies – and offer them your insight into the topics they are looking to explore.
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Website Planning and Creation
Building a website without a plan is like constructing a building without blueprints. Things end up in the wrong place, features are overlooked, and the situation is ripe for miscommunication between website builder and client. Planning your website ahead of time will give it clear direction as well as prevent missed deadlines and backtracking. If you are a web designer working with clients, then this guide will help both of you to plan properly. If you are a business owner or employee of an organization, then this guide will help lay the groundwork for your coming website.
Q: How to Create a Website Plan?
Ans: Before you begin making the web pages that will make up your website, you will need to create a website plan:
Draft a preliminary website plan.
Draw a website map.
Drafting a preliminary Website Plan
Website plan outlines the purpose and goals of your website. It should address the following issues:
Website Purpose: What is the purpose of your website? Clarify your reasons for building the site and list the site's goals, ranked by importance.
Is it to gain publicity for your business? To sell your inventory? To rally support behind a cause? It’s important to identify your website’s purpose, as well as your target audience. You should also define your goals. How many visitors do you expect per month? How many do you expect will sign up for your newsletter? How much in sales do you expect to make? Set measurable, specific goals for your website that are in line with your marketing goals. An analytics tool like Google Analytics will allow you to monitor your website’s performance over time.
• Create a Budget:
Whether you’re an established, mid-sized organization or a fledgling start-up, you should always set a budget for your website expenses. This will probably include funds for web design, programming, and web hosting (though other expenses may apply). Research the market by shopping around and consulting with professionals. Don’t sell yourself short by comparing prices alone. What you save in money you may later pay for with a lackluster site and lots of headaches. It’s better to choose team members based on experience, insightfulness, references, and examples of work.
• Assign Role:
Assemble the team of people who will be working on the website. Your team may consist of:
Company stakeholders (owner, marketing manager, or whoever else represents a primary function of the business)
Web developer
Content writer and/or editor
HTML/CSS professional
Web and graphic designer
Make sure everyone on your team knows their role and what is expected of them, and that they stay abreast of deadlines and new developments.
• Create a Content Strategy:
Detail what types of text and images you want your site to contain. What kind of content will you be displaying on your website? Content is basically anything that gives your visitors information. It can include, but is not limited to:
Text Documents
Pictures
Video
Blog post
Slideshows
Embedded social media feeds (such as your Twitter stream or Facebook page updates) etc.
Your content strategy is the way that you plan to present your content over time. Since content is such a vital aspect of a website, bring in help if you need it. Hire a writer who is experienced with writing for the web, and invest in some professional looking pictures of your storefront and employees. • Structure your website. Decide what pages you’ll be using and what features will be on each one. Most websites have an About and Contact page, but the pages you use should meet your business’ needs. • Create a mock-up. A page mock-up, also know as a wireframe, is essentially the outline of your website (with the initial design being the first draft). Usually created in Photoshop or Fireworks, you don’t have to put too much detail into your mock-up. Use placeholder text to fill pages, and don’t worry about details. This is just to give everyone an idea of what the website will look like. • Look and Feel: Describe the site's aesthetics, such as the color palette you'd like to use and the overall tone or attitude you intend to convey. Keep in mind some basic concepts of usability as you go:
Make your navigation easy to understand and easy to find. Research shows that most users expect website navigation to be vertical and centered at the top of the page.
Use an easy-to-read font for blocks of text. Choose a background color and text color that contrast well (Hint: No red text on a hot pink background).
Make sure your site fits the screen. Use responsive design (or an equally effective approach) to make your website one that adapts to all screen sizes.
Keep your website light so that it loads quickly.
Make the company logo and tagline prominent on the page.
Keep styles and colors consistent across the website.
Make copy clear and concise, and put important information and features (e.g., your newsletter sign- up form) above the fold.
Make notes about what to include in the style sheet as you design, as you want to keep style and function separate. This is important, not only to comply with web standards but to make it easier to change something in the future if you need to. You should also design with the future in mind. For instance, your website may only have a few blog posts now, but what about when you have two hundred? • Site Schedule: Determine deadlines for creating drafts of the Site and launching the final product. • Test it out. Testing is important for getting out bugs out and catching details that you might have missed initially. Make sure your website shows up the way you want it to in all browsers, including Chrome, Firefox, Internet Explorer, and mobile web browsers like Safari and Opera Mini. Test it on your cell phone, your tablet, and your colleague’s cell phones and tablets too. You want your site to have a consistent appearance no matter what screen it shows up on. Make sure all of the links work, that the images are properly sized and that you’ve replaced all of the placeholders with actual content. See to it that all of the forms and other input fields are working. • Maintain your site. Once your site is launched, the work isn’t over. A website is an ongoing entity that continuously represents your company, so maintenance is very important. Monitor your analytics software to see how your website is performing with the public. Keep an eye on metrics like your number of unique visitors, bounce rate, and which pages are most popular on your website. You might find that certain metrics are more useful to you than others, but that is information you’ll find out over time. You should also have a plan for maintaining the website, such as who is responsible for posting new content or monitoring site security. And of course, get feedback from your users. Feedback is a valuable tool for improvement. Planning a website ahead of time is just as important as planning anything else in business, yet this step often gets overlooked by those anxious to claim their piece of internet real estate. Taking the time to plan your website is a great INVESTMENT, and it will better your chances of having a finished product that serves you well for as long as you need it.
Draw a Site Map
Once you have your site plan in place, you're ready to create a sitemap of your website layout. Your sitemap should include each of the sites main pages and how they are linked together. You can draw a sitemap on paper or with image editing software, such as Adobe Fireworks or Photoshop. A typical sitemap might look like this:
#influencer marketing#digital marketing#digital media#digital india#online marketing#branding marketing#content marketing#content strategy#time saver#time management#tutorials#statistics#b2b marketing#blogger#blogging#entrepreneurship#social media marketing#social media#growth hacking#startups#affiliate marketing
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Back-to-school driving safety tips
As millions of students prepare to head back to school, parents and students alike will be changing their morning routines including packing their bags, getting dressed, and driving over to school. Whether for a parent driver or a student behind the wheel, here are a few tips to consider for back-to-school driving safety.
Be aware and control your speed
In the areas surrounding a school there are always many kids walking around, bike riders, and stop-and-go cars trying to drop their passengers off for school. With this craziness, driving quickly through these areas can be tricky and often dangerous. Around children and school areas, especially at peak time such as 7 a.m. to 8 a.m. and 2 p.m. to 3 p.m., watch your speed and stay alert. Most schools have a controlled speed limit in a school zone in order to protect students and pedestrians, so make sure to be aware of this around schools.
School bus or carpool
In order to prevent large amounts of traffic in the school lots and surrounding areas, carpooling can reduce this craziness and is also a more energy-efficient alternative! It can lead to safer roads, too. In high school I would pick up my neighbors before heading to school; it was a great way to start the day by spending time with friends! Another option is of course the school bus. I took the school bus throughout grade school and loved it!
Don’t rush
I know the mornings can be a busy time with everyone getting ready for school or work, trying to start their day, etc., so prepare the night before. Pack your bag, prepare your lunch, and set your alarm so your morning can be stress-free. Because of this, you can leave on time with plenty of time to reach your destination. Being late often causes people to rush and drive aggressively. Although this is common, it often leads to accidents or traffic violations. So even if you are running late in the morning, drive carefully and cautiously. Safety is most important!
Stay off your cell phones
I know it is hard to stay off your phone when you are driving through a parking lot trying to find your kid so you can get in and out with ease. Many modern schools today have cell phone zones, where you can stop, call your child safely, and then proceed to the pick-up zone after you put your phone down. Or plan a meet-up time and place with your children, so there will be no confusion or miscommunication, and you can drive without worrying about checking your cell phone.
Whether you are a student or a carpool driver, these tips and tricks will help you kick off the school year without a hitch! Stay safe and have a great year!
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Contingency Management
Kim:
o Limits: I can be a perfectionist which can sometimes make me really stern about working hard and ensuring we have the best possible work. I also have a full time job and I enjoy going to the gym after work.
o Capabilities: I am detailed oriented and I am big about time management when working in groups.
Nour:
Contingencies:
1- Family/Personal issues.
2- Funding.
3- Lack of time.
4- Lots of information.
5- Politics!
6- Being lazy or careless.
7- Miscommunications among the team.
8- Judge others for their ideas.
Limits:
1- Full-Time Job.
2- Other courses (IDSN 520)
Capabilities:
1- Mobile
2- Connected & Available.
3- Motivated and willing to proceed.
Victoria:
Contingencies:
Time constraints
Family/personal obligations
Travel
Limits:
Full time job
Nonprofit
Other course: tech essentials
Capabilities:
UX/UI Design
Marketing
Making stuff look good!
Team Intentions:
· Work proactively, anticipating potential problems and working to prevent them
· Keep other team members informed of information related to the project
· Focus on what is best for the whole project team
· See the team project through to completion
Team Gaps and Mitigate:
· Encourage everyone to participate in solving problems
· Only use constructive criticism
· Strive to build on each other’s ideas
· Hold each other accountable for meeting the aforementioned standards
Participation, we will:
· Be honest and open during all project activities
· Encourage diversity in team work
· Provide the opportunity for equal participation
· Be open to new approaches and consider new ideas
· Have one discussion at a time
· Let the team know well in advance if a team member has to miss a meeting or may have trouble meeting a deadline for a given task
Communication, we will:
· Decide as a team on the best way to communicate various information
· Focus on solving problems, not blaming people
· Present ideas clearly and concisely
· Meet and communicate frequently to discuss project progress
· Arrange additional meetings, as needed
· Keep discussions on track
· Honor meeting timeframes
· Read communications (emails, meeting minutes, action items, etc.) from each other
· Respond to each other in a timely manner (i.e., within 24 hours)
If your task cannot be completed by the deadline please communicate to the team 72-48hrs in advance so we can help you with your part.
● Reward yourself. What incentives do you and your team value when you meet your goals and, conversely,
what is agreed upon and accepted “consequences” for you or your team members not contributing or
behaving poorly?
· We all live in Los Angeles so I think it is a good idea to get together and do something that takes our minds off of the project or something that can cause inspiration but in a fun way.
· We are a small group so I think it is important for us to work closely, but if one of us lacked to complete our portion without any communication this person should let us know how we can help them and make their processes easier.
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Contingency Management
Kim:
Limits: I can be a perfectionist which can sometimes make me really stern about working hard and ensuring we have the best possible work.
Capabilities: I am detailed oriented and I am big about time management when working in groups.
Nour:
Contingencies:
1- Family/Personal issues.
2- Funding.
3- Lack of time.
4- Lots of information.
5- Politics!
6- Being lazy or careless.
7- Miscommunications among the team.
8- Judge others for their ideas.
Limits:
1- Full-Time Job.
2- Other courses (IDSN 520)
Capabilities:
1- Mobile
2- Connected & Available.
3- Motivated and willing to proceed.
Victoria:
Contingencies:
Time constraints
Family/personal obligations
Travel
Limits:
Full time job
Nonprofit
Other course: tech essentials
Capabilities:
UX/UI Design
Marketing
Making stuff look good!
Team Intentions:
· Work proactively, anticipating potential problems and working to prevent them
· Keep other team members informed of information related to the project
· Focus on what is best for the whole project team
· See the team project through to completion
Team Gaps and Mitigate:
· Encourage everyone to participate in solving problems
· Only use constructive criticism
· Strive to build on each other’s ideas
· Hold each other accountable for meeting the aforementioned standards
Participation, we will:
· Be honest and open during all project activities
· Encourage diversity in team work
· Provide the opportunity for equal participation
· Be open to new approaches and consider new ideas
· Have one discussion at a time
· Let the team know well in advance if a team member has to miss a meeting or may have trouble meeting a deadline for a given task
Communication, we will:
· Decide as a team on the best way to communicate various information
· Focus on solving problems, not blaming people
· Present ideas clearly and concisely
· Meet and communicate frequently to discuss project progress
· Arrange additional meetings, as needed
· Keep discussions on track
· Honor meeting timeframes
· Read communications (emails, meeting minutes, action items, etc.) from each other
· Respond to each other in a timely manner (i.e., within 24 hours)
If your task cannot be completed by the deadline please communicate to the team 72-48hrs in advance so we can help you with your part.
Reward yourself. What incentives do you and your team value when you meet your goals and, conversely, what is agreed upon and accepted “consequences” for you or your team members not contributing or behaving poorly?
· We all live in Los Angeles so I think it is a good idea to get together and do something that takes our minds off of the project or something that can cause inspiration but in a fun way.
· We are a small group so I think it is important for us to work closely, but if one of us lacked to complete our portion without any communication this person should let us know how we can help them and make their processes easier.
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