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#but sometimes society's expectations and my family's gender norms smack my ass and im back at square one of 'I want long hair to feel pretty
applejongho
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2 years
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I need advice: I do not know what to do with my hair
#so fun fact about me is that I used to have a fear of haircuts (genuinely) like I would shake in the chair and these past few years ive been
#trying to get over it
#it has been ok! my hair was like halfway down my back before any haircuts were done and I would cut it little by little testing my fear
#and it was going really well. I felt confident
#but I wanted to try something different and go shorter than I ever have gone before: above my shoulders
#and when that happened it ruined me! I cried for days and I feel like I lost my beauty bc I had connected a lot of my beauty to my hair
#my family saying that my hair is so beautiful and dont ever cut it blah blah blah
#which was now rly affecting me bc ow now my hair is above my shoulders and it's alley fault and I feel so ugly
#all my fault**
#it has grown out a bit and I got layers despite a lot of anxiety bc I have curly hair and
#I like the layers and I like the short hair
#but sometimes society's expectations and my family's gender norms smack my ass and im back at square one of 'I want long hair to feel pretty
#bc with long hair I feel like I adhere to society better even if it doesnt make me happy(I feel like short hair is more Me)
#and with short hair I feel more me but then I feel out of place and ugly
#and ik this is all just identity issues but what should I do for this next haircut? my hair is just past my shoulders. do I just get a trim
#or do I get it cut a little more so it's just above my shoulders?
#which would make me happy bc That's Me but also not happy bc Society
#sorry y'all had to learn about me today but I would appreciate any kind of perspective
#apple lady words
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