#but my god neither she nor her daughter made me feel weird or unwelcomed or like an outsider
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Update: I have now been proven to be a real person lol
The woman who is basically a second mom to my girlfriend doesn't think I'm real and it's absolutely fucking hysterical oh my god
#i met her her husband and one of her kids last night and it apparently went well#i briefly met her before the concert and then we all hung around and talked for like 45 minutes after#she was so sweet and told my girlfriend that i was lovely which is incredible and im happy to hear that she approves#and her daughter/ my girlfriend's friend was super sweet and i feel like we got on pretty well#oh and it was cute because she playfully gave my girlfriend a little bit of shit for not intruding us sooner#and she got told that she needed to bring me over to their house soon so that definitely made me feel good#like this woman is the mother of my girlfriend's ex and could very easily not like me because of it#but my god neither she nor her daughter made me feel weird or unwelcomed or like an outsider#it genuinely felt like they immediately were accepting me into their lives and im happy it went so well#i mean im still nervous as fuck that i somehow fucked things up or that it actually went bad and everyone hates me#but my girlfriend was very kind and reassuring and im trying my best to remember that they have absolutely no reason to lie to me about that#im am still pretty nervous to met my girlfriend's ex though#because like idk how to deal with a situation in which i have to talk to a person who loved and fucked my girlfriend before i did#that shit seems awkward as fuck lol#but i knew this day would come eventually because they told me they were still friends super early in our relationship#so at least im not being blindsided by it#plus she is and has been in a relationship since before me and my girlfriend started dating#and my girlfriend is friends with her exes new partner which im not gonna lie is literally the first time ive thought about that holy shit#oh my god how did i never fucking realize that my girlfriend is and has been going through the exact same thing holy fuck???#okay holy shit actually that realization has made me reframe literally everything#okay well maybe not exactly the same but pretty goddamn close#we've been together for 10 months and I never internalize that my girlfriend has been friends with her exes new partner#but what i was gonna say before that realization hit was that her being friends with her ex and her exes new partner makes me feel better#because i think if their ex was single I'd probably feel a lot worse about the whole situation#but hey I love this person more than most things in this world and would do almost anything for them#which i guess includes dealing with some awkward situations occasionally#and I'm more than willing to take that deal#because my god even as we're coming out of the honeymoon phase I am still so incredibly in awe with her
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