#but like idk its a tough topic aha

[magical-girl-04]

What do you think gay men are attracted to in men that they can’t be attracted to in women?

It can’t be anything about femininity or masculinity obviously. That’s both sexist, and cultural so can’t be what drives men-only attraction.

It can’t be anything about stated identity because someone could lie just as easily as they could tell the truth in such a statement, and it makes no sense because homosexuality and heterosexuality exists in other species with no stated identities. It’s not like other animals without gender are all pan.

Saying idk it’s the vibes or some indescribable trait men have that women can’t but “I can’t explain” is a nonanswer.

Soooooooo what is it? Or do you think any sexuality but bi/pan is just cultural performance or an identity rather than an inborn orientation?

Bestie gender itself is a performance, don't know why you're asking specifically about gay men tho when it's quiiiite clear I'm a lesbo lol. But there are clearly people who preform masculinely and feminally and of course those who don't preform either or switch it up. And of course it's not all based on gender presentation but also sexual preference, I would not like to have sex with anyone with a dick regardless of gender for example. So like yeah everything is performative and built on culture and society because that's just how humans work. There are many factors that influence the people we're attracted to and labels are just there to be labels. A gay man can say he likes men but that doesn't mean he likes all men yknow, labels just make shit easier to get across.

Anyway this was a random ass ask but kinda fun to think about for someone who is currently doing a queer theology course lol.

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Infinity Train s3 ep6 reactions

Please don’t check this out until you finish ep6 thank you!!!

OKAY OWEN WHAT DO YOU WANT TO DO THIS POOR CHILD NOW ;; or more so the fandom ajhdsjiak I am terrified of the power than the Infinity Train crew hold Anyways I can’t wait to scream and die all over again I guess Predictions/wishlist: -Give Hazel some coping mechanisms OR JUST GIVE HER SOME WAY TO COPE -GIVE SIMON WHAT HE DESERVES -...i still want Grace and Simon to be together but first Simon needs to learn not to hurt children okay JUST STOP -Hazel reveals more about Tuba??? Like how they met and stuff -Grace 100% adopts Hazel and is like her second Tuba -Hazel freaking HITS Simon with the rock Tuba packed in her bag -The Cat comes back and makes amends or just comes back idk i want to see her again ;; -Tulip/season 1 is referenced -One-one helps the situation (PLEASE DO) -We see Atticus!!! -We see Alan Dracula!!!! -Hazel’s parents are seen or found or mentioned or WE JUST KNOW WHAT HAPPENED TO THEM -I think that they were on the train but left her for some reason -my #1 guess is Hazel was born on the train (maybe made by Amelia, im still interested by that theory but kinda ehh on it idk) and the parents left her bc they didn’t want her (bc that’d be a really tough topic to do and Owen LOVES tough topics) -We see the Toad Terrance again!!! -Grace and Simon get redeemed (PLEASE DO) -Hazel is happy ;; anyways time to die i guess ahjadhjs

THEY JUST HAD TO CUT INTO TO THIS PART AAAAA POOR BABY GIRL

this is so painful hhhh poor thing ;; I’m just really wondering how Grace will react to this Oh man if Simon rejects her I will YEET him

“she’s...gone....” OWEN ITS BEEN LESS THAN MINUTE IM ALREADY IN SO MUCH PAINN

she’s in denial aha h   a    hooray thanks owen just what i needed today some tea and some child trauma and first stage of grief yay

NOOOO HAZEL THIS WASN’T YOUR FAULT DON’T TAKE THE BLAME FOR HER DEATH AAAAAAAAAAAAAA I hate how accurate this must be oh man this hurts

IM NOT OKAY

THANK YOU GRACE

“It’s not your fault.” dude is that a PARALLEL TO SEASON 1 WITH AMELIA AND TULIP OMGGG AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA-

Oh my- I GET IT NOW This’ll be REAL interesting once Simon finds out and poor Hazel will have to hide her form??? form=trauma?? pain?? trauma and grief she has to confront and cope with??? wow show you’re really gonna destroy me huh

Hazel be calling out Grace for her prejudice and i LOVE IT

“But Simon did.” nooo owww

“SIMON’S GONNA KILL ME TOO!!” NOT IF I KILL HIM FIRST- okay but the fact that Hazel doesn’t get angry at him about what he did?? dude Hazel sweetheart you have every RIGHT to be mad at him and it’s just,,,this poor baby

I LOVE THEIR MOM AND DAUGHTER RELATIONSHIP Also Grace please smack Simon or give him what he DESERVES

“We just...won’t tell him okay?” GRACE ARE YOU TRYING TO MAKE THIS WORSE FOR HER FIRST SHE HAS TO DEAL WITH GRIEF OF LOSING HER ONE MOM AND NOW SHE HAS TO HIDE HER TRAUMA AND PAIN??? GRACE CMON PLE A S  E Grace helping her calm down is sweet tho ;;

she be looking angery

this is extremely painful but i love it ALSO SIMON WHAT DID YOU EXPECT THAT WAS CHILD TRAUMA OKAY SHE NEEDS TO COPE 

as always infinity train’s backgrounds are just incredible im just conflicted rn

OH NO PARALLELS

A funeral for her oh my gosh that’s so sweet ;; Let her have one PLEASE ALSO STOP SIMON JUST STOP also we now know that Hazel knows what funerals are so hmmmm

I LOVE THIS FRAME AAAA ALSO SIMON  S T O P

“it helps to say goodbye”

me rn: Grace: “Everything I do makes sense!” Me: first of all no second of all this will come back in Simon not taking orders from her i know it hhh

sorry it’s so weirdly cropped but THE ROCK!!!! also this is really painful

YOU GO HAZEL AND CALL HIM OUT BC HE DESERVES IT also poor girl ;;

the parallel here wow im in pain

im going to cry im this close Hazel saying Tuba can see her children now,,,i cannot handle this also Hazel is handling this surprisingly well! She’s so mature about it and it’s just wow

so im crying now

i can hear tuba singing too im in pain

THE PARALLEL WITH THE BIRDS AAAAA OUCH

the fact that she’s been crying too,,, oh man and “I’m going to keep loving you like you’re still here.” just,,,leave me here to die

her fake forced tone in her words gosh that’s just painful

AMELIA OMG AAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA NOOOO THEY JUST PASSED HER

HECK YES IM SO EXCITED AAAAAA