#but its a grey area when it comes to kids. cos you dont want to lie to them or stigmatise scars

[walking-loather]

This is my opinion, but I don't think it's a good idea to explain self harm scars to kids with anything except something like "they're from some old injuries".

(Im talking about scars which by their very nature are healed and therefore "old" compared to fresh wounds. Personally, i think its your responsibility to cover up fresh self harm if you're around other people, especially children. Not because of shame (though usually most of us cover up anyway because of that) but because it has the potential to cause harm to others.

Kids shouldn't be told that you injured yourself on purpose, and that the scars are from doing so. It just puts the idea in their head that that's something you *can* do.

Im not saying that conversations around self harm should never be had with children. I just dont think its a good idea to bring it up unless they've already thought about it themselves. Self harming is unfortunately socially contagious. I dont want to be the person that plants that idea in their head.

My scars are something that I can't hide, and i dont want to hide them because im not ashamed. Moreover, its also not feasible. Its not practical to wear long pants and sleeves in hot weather, or other such conditions (like swimming, or simple shit like rolling up your sleeves to wash dishes). Skin will be shown, and it can take a long time to get over the shame of self harm and feel comfortable exposing scars. Sometimes they're faint and not easily seen, but sometimes they can be discoloured or very noticeable. I don't think someone should have to hide, but that means that sometimes uncomfortable discussions will happen. Kids are curious, and they will ask questions. They're usually satisfied with simple answers. There's no need to tell them that your scars are from hurting yourself on purpose.

If they ask you something along the lines of, "did you get those from hurting yourself", then yeah, obviously, be honest but keep it age appropriate. But if they just ask "how did you get those?", then its really not necessary to open that whole can of worms.

[animatedrapture]

girl honestly if suna and kana are/were fwb and they're that close and kana has feelings for him, its literally just a watered down way of saying they're together omfg id be so hurt like literally im just gonna back off 😭😭 like are u kidding me SHE is the girl from hook line and sinker then. fuck kana's bitch ass im cryingejgwjsgajsh no cos like even the thought hurts me

yeah honestly. they act sm like a couple but then again, look at us now almost pretty much in the same situation except kana still exists. almost like we're just another kana but less important.

Anonymous asked:

about kana's relationship with suna...tbh i understand why girls in the past would be worried about kana even if she didn't do anything out of pocket (in suna and kana's eyes). because. like. idk man if my partner has a best friend who used to crush on them big time and who also calls them baby and who acts the way suna/kana act, i'd be pretty insecure in the relationship too.

tbf, they obviously know their limits when theyre already in a relationship but that doesnt make their relationship less threatening...? i suppose?

Anonymous asked:

NO CAUSE i get my homegirl y/n and even if rin chooses her in the end i wouldve been jealous as hell too cos kana's always gonna be more important than her and if he even gets intimate with her... 🤷🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ yk idgaf if theyre bestfriends if i was y/n thatd suck for me too MY RATIONAL THINKING OUT SHKWHAOAHW

:D yikes.

Anonymous asked: i am very much sad and i do think those mfs fucked BUT even if suna did like kana and even if they fucked, at the end of the suna doesnt want to date his best friend and i doubt that will change (well i hope 😀) so yk!!!! there’s hope!!! hopefully 😨 howeverrrrr, that tenderness in his voice y/n talked abt😕😕😕 that hurt more than finding out he had feeling LOL kana is still a big issue tho, but i don’t think she is in a romantic way, more so that the more time he spends w y/n the less he spends w kana. obviously we’ve already seen that BUTTTTTT that will impact kana and sunas relationship in the long run more bc suna is definitely not going to want to be in a relationship where his friendship w kana is effected, but thats inevitable

let's hope that that really doesn't change. ultimately like, from prev. chapters suna expressed his frustrations abt his friendship w kana being a hindrance. it could point to like, making him think that he might as well go through with it and pursue it if he wanted to? if everything's really not working out.

"more time he spends w y/n the less he spends w kana. obviously we’ve already seen that BUTTTTTT that will impact kana and sunas relationship in the long run more bc suna is definitely not going to want to be in a relationship where his friendship w kana is effected, but thats inevitable" This was super thought-out and you're completely right!! it's something everyone has to remember or like, take note off too.

Anonymous asked:

different anon here but i do too think suna x kana friendship was - maybe still is depends on the grey area they are on - kind of unhealthy. like they were bff in hs and liked each other but decided (suna said he didn’t want to - we dont know if kana agreed or faked to agree) not to be a couple bc their friendship was more important BUT then he/both of them became hasty (she accepted/agreed to the situation) LIKE make it make sense...being physical with a friend you have feelings for but not being in a romantic relationship is KINDA MESSED UP😬😬

yeah but then again, it's a very real situation, no? sometimes (u see it in fics too!!) feelings get ahead of u and despite your better judgement, you end up doing something that goes against what you previously agreed to or something along those lines.

Anonymous asked:

i mean 😢 he has his "bestie" kana who will ALWAYS have a special place in his heart (not just bc they are bff BUT also bc he liked her at a certain point - and they were - still are(?) fwb doesn’t mean they had sex but maybe kissed/touched each other) so why should he care.... as you said yn is just a good friend 😩😩😩

Anonymous asked:

ALRIGHT WHERE THE FUCK DID KANA ANAL KINK COME FROM WHAT MY IMAGINATION RUNS WILD WITH FWB KANA AND SUNA I HATE IT HERE never wanted to unlearn something so bad

lmfao pain.

[eastenderstranscripts]

Ben: its there something you need to discuss with me? Ian: you werent here Ben: youve heard of one of these, havent you? you are my brother. how can you invite that tart to live under the same roof as me? Ian: who do you think you are, walking in here drunk, calling my friend that Ben: what do you want me to call her? shes a tart Kathy: ben Ben: ah, you in on this too eh? Kathy: no, of course not, but if ian insists then Ben: no. no. now you go up there and you chuck her out and you do it now Ian: no. it doesnt matter what shes done, she is my best friend, she is pregnant, she is desperate and im going to help her Ben: so thats your choice is it? youre gonna choose that woman over your own brother? Ian: ben, its not about choosing sides. right? no one is choosing sides Ben: i did Kathy: ben, look i dont like this either, but we have to find a way to make this work Ben: no. no. there is no compromise, there are no grey areas. this is black and white. when it comes to your family, you back your blood and if you dont, if she stays then i go Kathy: ben please Ben: yeah, lola and lexi too. again, i'll ask you one more time, ian. is that your choice? Ian: yes. im gonna help my friend Bobby; if someone forgives and amends theirs rewards are with allah Ben; ah, where did you get that bobby? christmas cracker? Ian: dont talk to him like that Kathy: hes only trying to help Bobby: i can speak for myself. look, um, maybe you didnt like what i said or the way i said it, um, but i have to believe that its possible to forgive and to feel forgive cos if i didn't then, then i may as well just end it all right now Ben: you were just a kid, bobby. you didnt know what you were doing ok? she knew what she was doing to my dad, so, no. there is no forgiveness. theres none and there never will be. none. ill go and pack our stuff

[ritingsandwramblings]

Daddy (Connor Murphy x Reader)

Request from anon: Perhaps a Connor x reader about the reader figuring out that Connor has an interesting kink (Whether its certain nicknames such as master, alpha, daddy.) or something like (Choking or spanking his partner) anything like that. maybe start out as a fluff and move on to a smut when she figures out about the kink and teases him about it just a bit.

Warnings: smut obviously ya ding dongs, connor is such a dom here holy fuck, all consensual but p dominant and rough ayy (edit I meant to make it tougher and wrote the warnings before writing the story so disclaimer it’s still p vanilla bc I’m a child of god), ps connor has a daddy kink that’s the kink for this and also doNT FIGHT ME ON THIS, also shit ending and imagine in general ahahahahahafmlkms

The Murphy household was empty, the exception to that being the two teenage lovebirds laying on the taller of the two, the boy’s, bed. The girl laid her head on her boyfriends chest, looking up at him and puckering her lips to reach his chin to leave a flurry of featherlight kisses on his neck and jawline. He chuckled lightly as she did so, looking down and returning the favor by littering the top of her head with similar kisses. She giggles as he did moments ago, and moved herself closer to his face so the two can leave such kisses on the others lips. She pulls the fuzzy grey blanket wrapped lazily around the two tighter and moves herself to lay her small figure directly on him, continuing to peck his lips. She lets her hands travel to his face and squish his cheeks slightly as they continue the purely romantic kissing session. She pulls back and squishes his face more, giggling at the sight. He laughs as well, her laugh bein contagious to him.

“Okay, babe, as much as I love this, I’m sweating to death with you and a blanket on top of me,” he says before pecking her lips again and carefully moving her off of him so he can stand up to remove his hoodie and replace it with a t-shirt. He stands, pulling the neck of his hoodie up and over his head, leaving his pale chest and subtle abs revealed to his girlfriend, who proceeded to swoon a bit as she remembered how attractive her boyfriend is.

“Damn, baby, take it off, yes, daddy, fuck me up!” She calls to her boyfriend, teasing him and watching as he chuckles when she starts and how his face grows darker near the end of her sentence. He bites his lip but opens his drawer to grab a miscellaneous band shirt anyway, shutting it rather harshly and throwing the shirt on. He crawls back onto the bed, awkwardly, and sits upright against his headboard now. She studies his face and furrows her eyebrows, curious as to what she had said that set her boyfriend off, as she knew he was known to have quick mood swings set off by a simple phrase. She thought of her words, coming to the conclusion that her joking tone had set his mind into a whirlwind of thoughts of how she probably didn’t love him or actually think he was attractive and was just joking.

“Conny? You okay? Look I was only kidding but I do think you’re attractive, okay? I-I mean if that’s what you’re even worried about-“ she continues to ramble shakily until he cuts her off.

“Not that, I’m fine,” he speaks dryly before shifting uncomfortably and pulling his knees up. He grabs the blanket and sets it over his long legs and folded lap.

“Baby I know you’re lying, somethings wrong, what is it, was it something I said or is your own mind wandering?” She rests a hand on his chest and rubs him comfortingly, hoping to coax her boyfriends worries out of him.

“Y/N, I promise nothing is wrong, or nothing bad at least,” he mumbles the last part and shifts yet again, leaving her to furrow her eyebrows further and question his behavior. She think over every word she said until it all finally clicks; his awkward and uncomfortable shifting, his dark look in his eyes, the sudden behavior at one specific word in her sentence.

“No way,” she laughs out, his attention snapping to you as you giggle, “you totally have a daddy kink!”

His face grows red as he stutters, “Wha-, uh, uhm, n-no, why- why would y-you, uh, would you think th-that?”

“Oh I don’t know, just a thought,” she speaks seductively, biting her lip before leaning up to whisper against his ear, “daddy.” He growls, letting his legs straighten to reveal the near fully grown bulge in his black jeans.

“Call me that again and I can’t promise that I won’t rip every last piece of clothes you’re wearing off, hold your arms far above your head, and fuck you so hard you won’t be able to talk to call me that tomorrow,” he grits his teeth as he speaks, his voice low and practically a growl. She bites her lip as she feels her own arousal growing at his statement, before deciding she’d want that more than anything.

“Whatever you say, daddy,” she nibbles on his ear before he throws his head back slowly and groans.

“That’s it,” he grumbles before flipping the two of them over and attacking her lips with his, this kiss filled with more passion and lust than the ones shared previously. His lips travel from her lips to her jawline and then her neck, mercilessly sucking and biting the area, leaving marks to let the world know she’s his.

She reaches for the hem of his shirt and begins to lift it off of him before he pulls away from her to pull it off all the way and take hers off, leaving her laying below him in her jeans and bra. He leans down to bite a hickey on her breast before his hands move to fiddle with the button and zipper on her jeans. Releasing his lips from her chest, he moves down her body, kissing the trail down her stomach, to remove her jeans and toss them somewhere in his room. He places a kiss to her clothed heat, smirking at the shudder she lets out and enjoying that he has this control over her.

“Conny,” she whines as he looks up at her and smirks again, shaking his head.

He crawls back up to her and leaves sloppy, wet kisses on her neck and temple before whispering, “That’s what you get for teasing me, babygirl. And it’s daddy to you from now on, you got that?”

“Mmh, yes.”

“Yes what?”

“Yes, daddy.” She bites her lip as he smirks contently before standing up and removing his own jeans, letting his underwear come down with them and revealing his hard member to her. She lets her eyes travel up and down his body as she reaches back to unhook her bra and toss it aside. Connor crawls back on her on the bed and kisses her passionately before yet again traveling his lips down from her lips to her breasts. This time he sucks her right nipple and moves his left hand to tease her other. She throws her head back and lets out a whiny moan.

“Please, daddy, fuck me already.”

“Patience, babygirl,” he says after he’s removed his lips from her breast. He slowly crawls down her body til he’s reached her core and is face to face with her soaked through panties. He smirks before taking the hem in his mouth and pulling them down her body, her thrusting upwards slightly to allow him to pull them down. After they’re tossed aside, he crawls back to to face her again, the tip of his hard member teasing her entrance. She bites her lip and thrusts towards it, while he chuckles.

“My, babygirl, you are impatient today, aren’t you? So wet, all for my cock?”

“Yes daddy, for you and only you, please daddy fuck me already,” she speaks exasperatedly and looks into his eyes, pleading for him to take her as he said he would. He reaches over to her bedside table to grab a condom, slipping it onto his member before reaching up to hold her wrists above her head, like he promised he would. She bites her lip in anticipation while he slides into her, giving her no time to prepare before he begins to thrust. Within mere seconds she’s already a moaning, screaming mess.

“Oh yes, Co- daddy, fuck, daddy,” she screams repeatedly, loud enough the neighbors could probably hear. She throws her head back and continued to call out his new title for many more minutes, before the two cum loudly, both moaning the others title.

“Oh god babygirl, you were amazing babygirl,” he gasps as he moves to lay next to her, catching his breath as he moved to rest her head on his chest and move his arm around her protectively. “I should’ve gotten you to call me daddy forever ago.”

[raychulemma]

50 Completely Random Questions People Rarely Ask Tag:

1. What’s your favorite candle scent? Red Apple Wreath - Yankee Candle. It's perfectly Autumnal and always goes on half price sale after Christmas. I have far too many versions of it

2. What female celebrity do you wish you were related to? Probably Maya Rudolph because she's a shameless weirdo like me

3. What male celebrity do you wish was your brother? Probably Peter Kay. I feel like he would be easy to open up to. And he would make awkward family events so much more bearable

4. What’s your favorite thing about marriage? (And if you’re not married, what’s your favorite thing about being single?) Security. Safety. I didn't expect it to feel any different because we had been living together for a while but something about the actual marriage made me feel protected and comfortable. Also because its a same-sex marriage it's a lot nicer to say my wife than my fiancée, because i would wonder if they assume my fiancée is male

5. What’s one thing you own that you should probably get rid of, but just can’t? Books that I'm not going to re-read but have memories linked to buying/receiving/reading them.

6. Can you do a split? not a chance

7. How old were you when you learned how to ride a bike? Seven. i learnt at the end of my road because it's a dead end. and i got a green bike for my birthday with a seat for my teddy

8. How many oceans have you swam in? just the Atlantic ocean 🌊

9. How many countries have you been to? 6. France, Spain, Germany, USA (Florida), Wales, Scotland.

10. Is anyone in your family in the army? No, my Grandad was, and some of my Great Uncles but no one during my lifetime

11. What was your favorite TV show when you were a child? Superted, Adventures of Winnie the Pooh, The Story of Tracy Beaker, Dick n Dom in da Bungalow, Jungle Run

12. What did you dress up as on Halloween when you were eight? A classy binbag witch

13. Have you read any of the Harry Potter, Hunger Games or Twilight series? I got into the Harry Potter books in 1998 and am still in love with the series. I went to the midnight release for the last book. I watched all of the films in the opening week and vividly remember that the cinema i saw the first film at in 2001 had a Harry Potter themed sweet shop. I have jewellery, clothing, books, dvds, wands, other collectibles. I read the books with my mum when i was younger and watched all of the films in the cinema with her. she had her own HP merch. My wife also loves Harry Potter. We have been to see Cursed Child twice and have been to the Studio Tour 3 (or 4?) times. We had a Harry Potter themed wedding which was absolutely perfect. Hunger Games was something i avoided reading until the first film was coming out, and then absolutely loved the first 2 books (3rd one got too political for me) and the films are still some of my favourites for costume and set design. I read the twilight books after my best friend recommended them to me. We all actually read them as part of our sisterhood club. I went to blackpool to watch the first film in the cinema with my best friend. I watched the last one at midnight with my wife and one of the girls from the sisterhood who is one of the biggest twilight fans i know still. she has behind the scenes books and dvds and has re read the books that much that the spines are just gone. my mum was also a big twilight fan and would watch them any time they were on tv. i watched a few at the cinema with her, always her choice. she hadnt seen hunger games at the time of them being released but we did watch them all with her a few years ago

14. Would you rather have an American accent or a British accent? i film YouTube videos and always think my accent would be more interesting if it was American

15. Have you ever taken karate lessons? no, my 2 brothers and sister did when i was 5 or 6. i didnt like being touched so never did it

16. Do you know who Kermit the frog is? yup

17. What’s the first amusement park you’ve been to? im going to guess Gullivers world Warrington because its the closest one to where i live

18. What language, besides your native language, would you like to be fluent in? French because I love disneyland paris. or japanese because i would love to visit tokyo but its way out of my comfort zone

19. Do you spell the color as grey or gray? grey. e for england, a for america

20. Do you know triplets? yes, 2 girls and a boy but i only met the girls

21. Do you prefer Titanic or The Notebook? Titanic. my mum was a massive fan. She watched it 3 times in the cinema when it first came out. we watched it with her when it was released in imax on an anniversary. she had behind the scenes books, a few versions of the vhs and dvds, playing cards. her love for it made me love it

22. Have you ever had Indian food? no im a very fussy eater and have never tried indian or Chinese

23. What’s the name of your favorite restaurant? Of all time? Tough choice but im going with pizza hut. Cheesy bites base with double mushroom. Never craved something more

24. Have you ever been to Olive Garden? they dont have it in England so no but i would probably like it

25. What would your parents have named you if you were the opposite gender? i have no idea, maybe jason after my dad?

26. If you have a nickname, what is it? rach, chicken, chickadee

27. Who’s your favorite person in the world? i want to say scruff but shes technically not a person. kirsty is my best friend and i would pick her every time

28. Would you rather live in a rural area or in the suburbs? where i live is in between. drive one way and its city, the other way is farms. so living in one ot those farmhouses not far from city life would be the dream. i would have chickens, sheep and cats.

29. Can you whistle? yep but my cats hate the noise

30. Do you sleep with a nightlight? i can see the hallway light from where our bed is so i dont generally need a nightlight but we do have cute ones. i have 3 HP ones on my bedside table

31. Do you eat breakfast every morning? yea as long as i have time

32. How many times have you been to the hospital? ive only ever been to a&e. once for palpitations, a few times for mental health and once for an x ray on my hand. ive been to walk in centres for urine/kidney infections and for fractured fingers. oh i did go to hospital to see a neurologist to be diagnosed with essential tremor

33. Have you ever seen Finding Nemo? yes i love it. my brother and sister both bought me the dvd for christmas the year it came out so i had 2 copies for a while. i also had the game for pc and ps2. and i had a game on my phone and ipad where you could build up the seabed and gain fish. the film is just so nice and calming to watch. the scenery, the sound effects, the movements are all just gently flowing. and somehow you get attached to these characters and root for them whether youre a fan of tropical fish or not.

34. Where do you buy your jeans? primark, next, sainsburys, asda

35. What’s the last compliment you got? kirsty said my eyelashes look like im wearing mascara when im not

36. Do you usually remember your dreams in the morning? yea and they're weird as fuck. the latest one was about the bath being clogged with poo

37. Favorite beverage that isn’t water? Tea ☕

38. How many pairs of shoes do you currently own? a disgusting amount. maybe 20. maybe more

39. How old were you when you found out that Santa wasn’t real? about 8 which I think wasnt too young or too old. my brother told me which I was glad about because i was prone to being bullied at school and would have hated to be told by nasty kids

40. What is one food that you used to hate but now you love? cheesy garlic bread WTF

41. What is a weird lie you’ve told? i told kirsty once that i had pood the bed and asked her to help me clean it.

42. Heels or flats? flats always. specifically trainers. i think dresses look so much cuter with trainers. same with suits

43. Do you have any weird phobias? no just common ones. moths, spiders, flying insects, beetles, heights, being completely isolated, finding a dead person

44. What is a phrase or word you always say? i cant actually think of a current phrase i say but i do get stuck on phrases

45. What is a song that you bast or belt out when you are alone? part of your world, let it go, bridge over troubled water, over the rainbow. any that i try to actually hit the notes on

46. What is one of your biggest pet peeves? nails. nails tapping, and the sound of cutting or biting nails. or people that stop in the middle of an aisle or walkway when you're trying to get past

47. Do you sleep with your closet door open or closed? they dont even have doors on yet so open

48. Would you rather be attacked by a big bear or a swarm of bees? bear. the noise of bees terrifies me. i had a flying ant in my hair on flying ant day but i didnt know. i heard it buzz and cried

49. Do you have any weird things you do? i cant have 2 cream biscuits together (custard cream and jam n cream). i sometimes say hi to my teddies so they know i havent forgot about them. i buy hatchimals when theyre on sale even though i havent previously collected them cos im an impulsive pos. (honestly collecting animal jam figures and my little ponies were the best though)

50. What movie could you watch over and over again and still love? any of the harry potter films, titanic, sisterhood of the travelling pants, Princess diaries 1 and 2, enchanted, princess and the frog, raise your voice, catch me if you can, chalet girl, the shining, slumdog millionaire

[protectjuminhan]

Bella, could you tell us a story of something (that you hadn't shared yet) that made your relationship with Matthew stronger? Only if you want/can, and ofc thank u in advance! It's really cute how you talk about him! Makes me kinda believe in love ;)

Awwe! This one is what happend next that day, if you read part one please. This was a moment where i was trying to held in so much, and it didnt work. and Matthew had his patience and composure tested. It defiantly made us stronger when we got home and talked it over. im sorry for the swearing but its necessary to tell the story.

Part two:

April 29th, 2014:

“Would you like some clothes? I know you have a limited amount of them.” He was right, i only owned what i could fit in my suitcase at the time, and what i picked up from smaller stores on sale. He had finaly come around and wasent mad anymore, because he got back into ‘Lets find something sexy to convince her to buy’ mode. His playful face when trying to help me shop is something i was to patent and sell to to the general public, because its SO DAMN CUTE. “What about here?” He point to a higher end fashion store, one i would have to pray to the gods to find something in my size.

“Maybe not that one..” But he had already went in ahead of me. I walked in, and was greeted by the store manager, i think. She looked me up and own and bluntly stated “You may want to try a different store. Nothing here will fit that.” Point to my stomach. She wasent even trying to spit at me or anything, she just stated it like she was bored and didnt want to help me look for no reason. RUDE ASS BITCH. So she turned around and noticed Matthew, and smiled. Oh. My. God. Im not a jealous person most of the time. Most.  “Can i help you sir? Trying to find something for a special lady? Anyone with you on their arm must be a goddess.” Oh, you didnt understand lady.

“Yeah, shes curvy, do you have anything that is ment for heavier chested girls?” He kinda stuttered a bit, because she was pretty, you guys know that drill.  “yes! this section over here is the plus size section. Girls with big boobs or a nice butt have this section, and smaller girls over there. i didnt think you the guy who likes a little meat on his women. She must be so pretty, with how handsome you are!” She was laying it on thick. Trying to eaither get his number, or him to buy something. I stood back because when i get mad, i get kicked out of places for being sarcastically rude. He smiled akwardly, and made his way to the sweater dress he was eyeing up from outside, seen its size, and proceeded to turn it down. it was going to be to tight. (I have a reaaaaaally big chest, so alot of outfits wont fit there or will ride up in the belly part to compensate for space.)

“yeah, shes wonderful. I asked her out in high school. I like her curves, Her skin is soft, and i dont mind that shes got a little more, beanpoles are hard to hug with these arms.” “and arms you do have sir.” She slurred at him. He walked over to the bra section, and found one close to something i already have. Black and grey plaid, with black lace around the edges, and they had one in my size. He took it off the shelf and took it to the counter, turning around to see me at the door, being very quiet. THEN THIS BITCH OH MY GOD. “Is she making you uncomfortable sir? I asked her to leave already, nothing here will fit her. “ Looking right at me “We dont service fat people. You lot ruin our brand look. Now get out.”

*insert sinister chuckle* You guys dont understand, Matthew and i haddent had our first fight yet. We had ran into this problem before, but not as bad. It got worse when i got pregnant, but we found a way to cope and make it funny by then. Let me make this next part clear. I had never seen Matthew tap into that “The fuck did you just say” Yandere side yet.   All guys have one when being protective of their S/o.

“Can you come here?” He was looking at me with eyes i could not describe. Those eyes you see when someone is being dead calm. Trying not to strangle someone on the spot dead calm. I stepped forward, a little hesitant, because i knew something was wrong. “Do like this? Its really pretty.” “Yeah, it looks like one i have at home.” “Good, I thought it looked nice.” ‘Umm, that is one i have a set for and its one i wear when we sleep together, of course you like it. Whats wrong?’ was my thoughts. He pulled out his card and paid for it without having me take money out of the jar. And hands me the bag after he paid for it. “Next time we fuck, please wear this one, okay? I like the way the colors compliment your eyes. Lets find another store to buy clothes. This ones staff is horrible to talk to, considering all she was doing was attempting to get in my pants. what bad service.”  

“Yeah, i hear (insert store) had amazing service.” He wrapped his arms around me with all the bags still in his hand, placing a kiss on my forehead. “Noone disrespects my Queen and gets my Queens money. If i really didnt want to see you in this, i wouldn’t have bought anything. Lets go, my Queen.” (thats his favorite endearment) Of course she had to open her mouth. “This girl is the one you came in here for? Are you kidding me? shes so out of your league! Shes ugly and Fat, Why her? You would do better with me. And did you say you fuck her? What is she doing, paying you?” “Nope, In fact i gave her nearly 2 grand today as a birthday and late one year anniversary present. Now shut your moth before i contact your Superior and report you for being rude to us. She didnt do anything to you, and who i love doesnt concern you. Now, stop being a trash whore and leave us alone. My Queen and i are gonna give our money to anyone but you.” His face indicated he was repeating a phrase in his mind ‘hitting people is a bad idea’

When we got out of the store, he was silent. Not a good sign from someone who never shuts up. We reach one of those areas where there are sofas and phone chargers, and take a seat on the love seat, adding the bag to the chain system i made to prevent thefts. He set all our bags down and a little roughly pulled me closer where my only option was to wrap my arm behind his back. I felt it then, he was trembling. Men who tremble are on the verge of beating someones ass, or breaking down. Matthew looked like both at the same time. hes very emotional, and i just didnt say anything. i heard little gasps, those you hear from someone trying really heard not to cry by sucking in breaths. those sounds alone were breaking my heart, because none of her words were at him.  

“W-Why do please have to be so rude to people? We might have spent more than she will have in other customers all day, but instead she chose to shoo you out over your weight.” I forced my other arm out, in order to put it on his head. i put light strokes on his scalp. a sure way to calm him down and get him to let his feelings out. Creatures of habit will always be ones of habit. “Shhhh, you dont need to be upset over her simple-mindedness.” I tried to say, but he just shook his head. “Im tired of people telling me who i can and cant love. You ARE a goddess to me. And because you dont fit a type, i cant love you in their eyes. Why? Why the fuck do they get to tell me what to do?” He was ranting. Not being quiet about it. We were getting stares. I highly doubt he gave a single fuck at this point. We always got stared at.

“Matthew, i dont care. Your choices are your own. Just like her opinions are her own. She cant make you do anything but leave the store. People Make choice all the time and this was one you made..” “You make it sound like i chose you like a breakfast cereal. Thats not how this works.” He let go a little so he could dip his head into my chest, a habit when he feels insecure about something. “If you left me, i would rather live alone forever. Your love made me fix so many things wrong in my family. You arent a choice. If you would let me, I want to be together forever.” He was crying, I felt the tears on my exposed area of my chest. Do i make him cry harder by accepting? Do i ignore his statement? Do i make him laugh? Yeah, default. “You mean i have to deal with your crazy ass forever? i dont know if i can handle the puns. Oh god…. The puns.” I felt a chuckle followed by a sob or two. Bingo.

“Am i crazy for loving you?” Oh Fuck. I didnt know what to say. You see, Matthew isent perfect. you guys get the silly sappy stories, but hes really insecure about people loving him. Hes been abandoned and treated like a walking piece of meat so much he feels confused about everything. He felt like the only permanent thing in his life was me. This is called emotional co-dependency in a relationship. its not all that healthy, but no ones perfect. Its that troupe of “If You leave me ill kill myself! i cant live without you!” Saw He this far deep? No, hes not like that. But thats the jist of it.

“No, You dont chose who you love. And if thats me, im happy to have you as my personal eye candy, Koibito. You take good care of me, and i love you so much. Dont think that i dont love you just as much. Plus, you didnt hit her so i congratulate you there.” (Koibito means lover, or sweetheart. I mean it as sweetheart. Hes half japanese and says it to me all the time.) He relaxes a bit, chuckling again. He looked up at me with his joke-serious face “Is that all i am to you? Eye candy?” “Only the finest, i mean you are the hot one in this relationship!” I poked at his side, in a really ticklish spot, and got the reaction i wanted. That laugh that could cure cancer “Dont do that here, you will get REKT.”

We spent the rest of the day hand in hand, in all the rest of the store. I deduced that there was near 3 grand in that jar, and we spent about a thousand of it. I got a new system behind his back, because i wanted to play together later. i mean you know mall prices. a system and two shirts is 500$ smh calm down.

The point that was made here, a loosley put together one at that, is that life does have a path for you. There will be times you can branch off, and make your own. Matthew chose to go with me that day in high school. Life is like a book. Each chapter is a year. You write your book by living. No one will have the same book as you do, but they can connect, like a crossover au. If you quit writing you book, the reader will get sad. i know for a fact unfinished fan fictions are a pain to come across. Pain from life is never gone, its only shared with someone else so it doesnt feel so bad. My pain was my anxiety and self consciousness about my looks. Im not as beautiful as he is in 60% of humanities eyes. People love to comment on it, Oh well.  

Human nature and their capriciousness isent something you can fix. You just hope they have enough respect to not comment on it. Why? Because every human on this earth is beautiful. No one deserves to be told they are not to a human standard. You being alive is amazing, and you should be loved and cherished. This made me and Matthew stronger because he finaly came out and admitted to himself that i wasent there because of his looks. I was there because i love him, and he loves me. This is hard to say in relationships. But saying it is so important.

So let me say it a little louder for those in the back.

Humanities capriciousness to judge others is not something that can be overcome through degradation.

Only trust, communication, and understanding can help people overcome the impulsion and unpredictable decisions people that have to degrade others, instead of being respectful. I hope anything of this helps you understand that everyone deserves love, and some people are just hateful i dont have time for it haha.

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