#but it's less so about wanting men to like her (lbr sandra is NOT starved for male attention lmao) and moreso about wanting the spotlight | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

marshmellowtea · 22 days ago

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i would say "pour one out for sandra being the only woman in the cornley drama society for so long" but i know her ass loved being the only female lead with no competition for as long as she was lmao

#luckily i don't have to use the term 'pick me' because that's not quite what's happening here and i fucking hate that term lmao #it's not so much about male validation as it is about validation in general #like yes she is not immune to cisheteropatriarchal influence and in this context she DOES see other women as competition #but it's less so about wanting men to like her (lbr sandra is NOT starved for male attention lmao) and moreso about wanting the spotlight #all to herself because she sees herself as oh so talented and oh so deserving of all the audience's love #and she does NOT wanna share that with another woman!!#men come and go for her all the time but the ever tantalizing glow of stardom...........that's what's important to her #(and i am picturing my arospec sandra headcanon factoring into her mindset here........yes she sleeps around and yes she likes having guys #be into her but she doesn't really care so much about the relationship part #she doesn't really get *why* she feels that way because lbr. girl doesn't know about aromanticism for a long fucking time lol #but it's still a factor into why her priorities are what they are #she'll settle down one day. rn she's having fun and chasing her dream :) she has to get to hollywood!!)#anyway tldr part of it is internalized misogyny and part of it is being a spotlight hog and all of it is being absolutely insufferable <3 #god i need to write about sandra more i love herrrrrr #the goes wrong show #sandra wilkinson #marshy speaks

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