#but it does seem to be associated with BPD and possibly HPD as well

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5 signs that you could be hyperromantic

for the anon who was curious. I decided to make a full post instead of just answering your ask, feel free to send another ask if you have specific questions!

you have a preoccupation with romance. it's normal to fantasize about your crush or having a partner. it's not normal to spend multiple hours a day fantasizing or have distress from these fantasies. you may be hyperromantic if you are constantly thinking about romance and yearning for a romantic partner

you have strong urges for a romantic relationship. I'm not talking about wanting to ask out your crush - I'm talking about trying to date random people because you want to have a romantic partner and don't particularly care who it is. you may spend excessive amounts of time on dating apps or seek out people who may be willing to date you

you have trouble maintaining stable or healthy relationships. you may bounce back and forth between partners or intentionally seek out toxic partners because it feels familiar. you may be so focused on getting a partner that you end up in unstable and unhealthy relationships

you use romance to escape from other behaviors. hyperromantic behaviors may be used as an escape from depression, anxiety, loneliness, stress, or other negative feelings. you may feel like you are unloved or unwanted, and that you can only be loved by romantic partners

you have unmanageable romantic urges or behaviors. if you experience distress from your romantic urges or behaviors, then it is a strong sign that you are hyperromantic