#but if we cant eat and drink together then that’s a deal breaker

[highflyerwings]

Ha Jungwoo being a white wine drinker and not liking spicy foods makes me think we might be fundamentally incompatible with each other. And that breaks my heart.

[ilovenamtaekook]

85 Questions

I was tagged by @isitjamiemoriarty ! I love doing these SO much! :D

last

drink // water phone call // my dad! text message // it was to my friend jackie, we were talking about attending a happy together taping :))) song you listened to //  R.E.M by miss ariana grande time you cried // a couple hours ago...some people aren’t kind

ever

dated someone twice // nope. never dated anyone! kissed someone and regretted it // YES.  been cheated on // nope lost someone special // a best friend? yuuup. been depressed // yeah :// gotten drunk and thrown up // noooooppeee..woohoo :D fave colours // bluueee and yelllooooooww

in the last year have you

made new friends // yes! <3 (thank u mr styles) fallen out of love // never been in love laughed until you cried // yes, i love that feeling! hehe found out someone was talking about you // mmhhmmm met someone who changed you // yes, and its for the better! found out who your friends are // YES kissed someone on your facebook friends list // noooopee

general

how many of your facebook friends do you know irl // dont have facebook. if i did im pretty sure it would be just family!

do you have any pets // yes! husky named indie (my pride and joy) and a cat named raja!

do you want to change your name // i grew hating my name...but now i don’t mind it. 

what did you do for your last birthday // i went to san pedro and ate tooonns of seafood. oh! also i traveled to comic con in arizona and met some of my favorite marvel actors! what were you doing at midnight last night // more than likely reading blurbs/one shots what is something you can’t wait for // i can’t wait to move out of my house, and dorm at the college im transferring tooooooo! what are you listening to right now // successful by ariana grande  have you ever talked to a person named tom // yes! i met tom holland before! (such a cutie) something that gets on your nerves // ignorant and impatient people >:p most visited website // twitter...but more recently tumblr!! hair colour // dark brown! long or short hair // short! i love short hair sooo much. do you have a crush on someone // does...mr....styles....count? if not, no. what do you like about yourself // i like my smile and curly hair :p want any piercings // nooopee blood type // HONESTLY I DONT KNOW. AHHHH nicknames // pecas! pecas just means freckles but in spanish relationship status // singleeeee zodiac // capricorn pronouns // she/her fave tv shows // Parks and Rec, Jane the Virgin, the Good Place, and sooo many more! if you have any recommendations please let me know...im in a show drought! tattoos // none! right or left handed // right ever had surgery // yes! i just recently had sinus surgery! i can finally breeeaathee piercings // nope! i wanted one so bad in high school, but my parents never let me lol sport // i used to play soccer and kickbox when i was younger! vacation // italy, london, or bora bora!! trainers // vans or converse! (they count right?)

more general

eating // i love eating Korean bbq! drinking // water! about to watch // about to start Castle Rock on hulu! waiting for // asos to have 20% off so i can order more clotheeeess want // happy and successful! get married // maybe...one day! its not a deal breaker for me career // i really hope i’m doing something i enjoy and love!!

which is better

hugs or kisses // BOTH. I CAN’T PICK lips or eyes // hmmm maybe lips! shorter or taller // taller hehehe older or younger // older nice arms or stomach // for me? nice arms forsure.  hookup or relationship // relationship!  troublemaker or hesitant // ahhh! okay maybe im reading too much into this buuuut being hesitant kinda means putting more thought into something? buuuut troublemaker would keep me entertained...

have you ever

kissed a stranger // nooope drunk hard liquor // yes, never again. lost glasses // yes :(  turned someone down // weirdly...yes sex on first date // i mean if u wannnaa broken someone’s heart // omg i hope not had your heart broken // yall saw that haylor kiss on nye? hehehe jk  been arrested // no cried when someone died // yuuup.  fallen for a friend // nope

do you believe in

yourself // yes, but i also have my doubts! miracles // i guess? love at first sight // i believe more in lust at first sight santa claus // i used too lol kiss on a first date // surreeee angels // skeptical but maybe so

others

best friend’s name // nope, i cant pick eye colour // brown fave movie // 13 going on 30. fave actors // my mind literally just went blank lol

I tag: i’m not just gonna tag mutuals! please if i didn't tag you and you wanna do it...do it! (sorry if you already did this and im tagging you! just ignore me) @meetyourmouths @infamous-webhead @sa1ntlaurent @pendantstyles @thesadstoryofme @honeyskins @tbhollandd

[dovechim]

After a hectic week I can finally sit down and dedicate the next hour or so to continue my story because I really want to get to the part which I'd like to hear your opinion - and everyone else's - about!! ☆ Long Story Anon

So we kept messaging for the following days, both busy with our respective classes; but before I knew it and I can't say I was surprised, he invited me to do something again less than a week later. We're from a considerably small city, there isn't much to do around here, so we had a hard time coming up with an idea. Well, he suggested to pick me up and we'd go back to his house to eat something, to which I agreed. I was with my friend and we were both jumping around from excitement ☆ 1

Needless to say my friends all loved him; they were happy that after such a long time and with such bad luck in love I finally found what seemed to be the last guy on earth who was worth more than two seconds of my life. I knew going to his house implied something more serious than making out could happen, but honestly I didn't mind if it did. In context, he lived with his little brother and parents; where we're from it's common at our age to still live at home since we've not graduated yet ☆2

But he'd mentioned during the first date that his parents were away for an anniversary holiday and his little brother was staying with the oldest one who lived in his own apartment with his fiance; meaning we had the house for ourselves. As planned he picked me up and took me there, had some food delivered and we watched terrible horror films on netflix. He'd cheesily try to put his arm around me on the couch and I'd move closer, ending up snuggled together with my heart about to burst ☆ 3

At one point both brothers and the fiance show up with some food, for some reason and that's when I knew half his family on the second date lol. But they moved upstairs quite quickly after eating and left us alone to watch the movies. Eventually he'd kiss my cheek, not-so-subtly letting me know he wanted to KISS-kiss me, but me being the nervous little shit I am didn't really know what to do. It'd been two whole years since I even attempted to make out with someone!! ☆ 4

So he had to move even closer and he said, which I'll never forget: "you're so shy", which I wasn't surprised about, it's not common for a 22 year old to be that reserved, I guess, but with a little bit of patience that single moment turned into the best first kiss I've ever had. I was so scared he'd be a terrible kisser, like I'd experienced before bc that's just a deal breaker for me and everything else about him was so perfect; but boy...was I wrong. We ended up making out for so long that ☆5

Our lips hurt, and he didn't even try to go too far, already noticing that I wasn't the kind of girl to tear off our clothes and start fucking (not that I didn't wish I were lol), so he just held me tight and took me home eventually. God, the memory of his kisses will never leave my mind. To this day I still get butterflies because it was the kind of kiss that makes you feel like your bodies fit together and makes your toes curl :') ☆ 6

im so soft for you and him already :”)))) it’s so sweet that he wasn't afraid of scaring you off and still went for it!! a lot of guys i know are hesitant about dating an inexperienced girl bc they’re scared they will scare her off, and once my friend asked me how he should chase after a girl who has never dated. i literally got so pissed lmao i just said “just fucking treat her like a fucking normal person!!! what are you intending to do that might scare her off???” 

We had a third date after that, about a week later. We went out to eat and it was the day he started posting instagram stories with me and tbh I was surprised. In our generation it takes more than just a couple of dates for a guy to 'announce' he's not 'single' anymore. You know, like if he had intention of seeing other girls at the same time he wouldn't be parading me around for everyone to see, which only fed my hopes of him being 'the one' even more ☆ 7

omg yes :/ the dating culture is so complicated lmao like ppl can be going out with different people at the same time and there’s a certain time after which you’re considered exclusive... it’s so tiring tbh

Another week passed and out of the blue he was asking me to meet his parents. He was very lowkey about it; he said he missed me, mentioning they'd returned from NY and asking if we could meet again that night, but "my parents would be there too, is that a problem?" lol. So I said no, obviously, even though I was shitting my pants, I'd never met a boy's parents in that context before but he seemed excited. He picked me up and we drove back to his place where they were waiting for me ☆ 8

I decided I didn't want to read too much into it back then, but still couldn't help but notice that the older borther+fiance had dropped plans to go to dinner with us so 'the whole family would be there to meet me'. Did that mean him bringing a girl home wasn't that common? Was I actually that special? As if I didn't notice myself falling fast and hard for me enough, his whole family welcomed me with huge open arms. His little brother, extroverted as they come at the age of 10 did everything ☆9

To include me in the conversations; the older brother would tell embarrassing stories. The parents, both doctors, both dating since college and pretty much the whole family (fiancee included) were some of the most welcoming people I'd ever met. They treated me like a family member from the very beginning and noticing how nervous I was they would try to make the dinner as easy going as they could. The guy in question, let's call him Jed? Would hold my hand under the table to calm me down ☆ 10

Or rub soothing circles over my the fabric of my jeans to distract me when a family member would embarrass him. I fell in love with his family as fast as I fell in love with him and I just couldn't believe I'd found someone so perfect. We'd make out until our lips were sore and he'd drop me off at home always leaving me with a feeling of sadness that I had to say goodbye. He made me so happy that I started to go out more, meeting my friends I was just in such a good mood because of him ☆ 11

no you must have been so nervous!!!!! i mean i get that he was low key but  still... parents are a big deal. i hope his intentions were rly pure and that he was that into you!! but im glad they were nice :”) 

I'd even dare to say he made me a better person in ways only I can understand. He'd text me what he was doing or who he was with every day, all the time, even if I didn't ask -which I never did. Sure, he wasn't perfect; sometimes he'd forget we had plans. I have a feeling he lied to me a couple of times but about nothing really major; sometimes he'd be in a bad mood and be sarcastic and annoying af but honestly nothing too bad. All in all I had absolutely nothing to complain about him☆ 12

It wasn't until around a month and a half into the 'relationship' that we went out for drinks and then back to his place that he tried to have sex with me (he'd waited to bring it up more than any other guy I'd ever met lol). I didn't directly tell him I was a virgin, he kinda guessed, and he was more than okay with it, even saying 'I'll wait as long as you want to'; and damn I didn't really want to wait that long, it was just that the time was never right! ☆ 13

At this point we'd both had dinner with his parents several times already. They told me in that household they'd set the habit of having dinner together every night, and were more than happy to let me into their little tradition. At more casual nights we'd sit down and watch some film on netflix, the parents and little brother always moving upstairs at the end and leaving us both alone to make out some more lol. I was even invited to his dad's birthday dinner at a fancy ass restaurant ☆ 14

this is so cute 😭 im just very ugh whenever a guy kinda hints at sex bc dude u gotta make me WANT it not just ask for it :/ but it sounds like he was super respectful!! and tbh im just very bad with other ppl’s parents, but his sounds rly perfect  😭 do such ppl even exist??? i cant even remember the last time i ate w my family :/ 

So by the third month I already felt part of that family tbh. I'd cooked alongside the mother like lifelong friends, and sat down for coffee after dinner to talk about how fast technology is moving with his dad. His little brother would tell jokes or ask me to teach him some guitar and I think they began to love me as much and as fast as I loved them, honestly. I was even invited to the dog's birthday part lmfao I was just unable to attend but was kindly provided with video memories ☆ 15

Everything was going so perfect, I think we could've lasted so much longer but maybe just the timing wasn't right. I still remember him dearly though, but back then I had my heart broken so bad that I simply wish I'd never met him. What hurt the most was growing so attached to his family and then out of the blue, and without a single chance to say goodbye I never saw any of them again. I should've known life isn't a movie or a book and nothing that starts so well can end just as happily ☆ 16

WHY ARE YOU USING PAST TENSE?????????? NO!!!!!!!!!!! IM SO SHAKEN RIGHT NOW bc this feels like that part in a book where the author’s just leading u towards that horribly devastating ending and that’s exactly what ur doing  😭

The last night I went to his house - btw we never visited MY house because MY family as much as I love them to death aren't as welcoming as his was with me, so until I knew FOR SURE this guy and I were serious, I decided to suggest activities that required not being at my place lol - the whole evening started weirdly. He'd been taking longer than usual to text me, and it was getting too late so I though we just weren't doing anything but he insisted he wanted to see me ☆ 17

And fuck, I wanted to see him to, once or twice a week just wasn't enough anymore and I missed his touch so badly. So I agreed for him to pick me up, even though he kind of strung me along for a few hours. By the time he picked me up I hadn't eaten, not knowing wth we were going to do but he said he'd had dinner before picking me up. Why would he though? He knew we had plans, which usually involved dinner, why not wait for me for eating? Either way, I'd missed him, I wasn't about to fight ☆ 18

We reached his place and his mom was already going upstairs for sleeping along with the little brother; the father was performing a surgery so we were alone at the living room together. He was a little tense and I didn't understand why, he said he was tired because he'd had class up until late and I asked if he just wanted me to leave but he asked me not to; he wanted to see me, he wanted me to stay. We cuddled on the couch and I had to wake him back up several times, growing annoyed ☆ 19

And when the dad got home he quickly got up and pretended to do something in the kitchen. The man had to eat and we had to wait for him to leave to sit back together, the whole situation was awkward af. I was wondering if I should just call a cab and leave, but he insisted not to. At around 2am (it was a friday) while making out he asked if I wanted to go up to his room, to which I said yes. He knew what that meant, so he was excited about it, going upstairs to check if his room was clear ☆ 20

Damn, I hit ask limit again :'( I'll have to leave it here right now but I swear I'll get to the point eventually lol I'm sorry!! also thank you for giving me your patience and space to tell this story, I feel like this way I can tell it without filters about what really happened or how I felt and actually receive honest unbiased opinions

omg i literally cannot believe u ended right there??????? i hate tumblr’s ask limit. im on the edge of my seat right now!!! thank you for taking the time to send me these, im so invested in ur story now its insane!! 

come back whenever you have time bb

[notsoshykpopfan]

11 Questions Tag

I was tagged by the amazing @ramune-and-rain! Thank you so much you are literally the best :)

1. Would you rather explore the many planets in the universe or explore the wonderous depths of our oceans?

hmmm I would have to say the wonderous depths of our ocean. I don't know what it is about it but the ocean has always fascinated me. I would love love love to explore the ocean and find new sea creatures and stuff people have no idea about yet!

2. Can you explain your favorite color with out saying what it is and it’s shade?

hmmmm lets see if I can do this. my favorite color is the beautiful color of my favorite alcoholic beverage. it gives me that nice classy feeling  even though I know I'm not ( and I actually secretly really hate the taste of alcohol ) I drink it anyways. My Favorite color Reminds me of the smell roses give off when I'm around them. To be completely honest I think I did terrible but if you guess good for you!

3. Your bais texts you, mistaking your number for one of their friend’s. Do you talk to them and keep up an act or do you admit to the mistake? How do you do it? What happens after?

I would honest let them know that they have the wrong number. I would tell them I appreciate them and hope they are taking care themselves. That I hope they have a good day and find their friends number. They would most likely never talk to me again but I would honestly be absolutely okay with that :)

4. Describe your favorite feature of one of your friends without saying what it is?

AHHH IM SO BAD AT THIS! okay okay here goes nothing. My favorite feature on my best friend would have to be the lovely brown curls that just seem to always lay flawlessly off her head. like honestly she slays all day everyday.

5. What super power would you have and how would you use it? Would you choose the path of hero or villain?

hmmm I would want the power to teleport. I don't really know whay I've just always loved the idea of teleporting were I want when I want to.I would honestly probably use for the stupidest things ever. like I woke up late so I would teleport to my lecture or something stupid like that lol. I would love to say I would be a hero but to be completely honest I would be that person in the middle who doesn't really care. like yeah I would help people when its life or death but like it would just out weigh all the stupid selfish things I did for myself that day........I know I'm terrible.

6. What are 3 things included in your ideal type? Why? Would you accept someone with out these features?

1 - I like people who have a really nice personality. Idk what its but if you have a nice personality it makes me feel comfortable and happy. sorry but this is the one thing I'm very big one. I cant introduce a guy with a bad personality to my family. so no this is a definite must. 

2 - I like someone who is funny and can make me laugh. its really not that hard but I like it :). Again it just makes me feel comfortable around you and not so bored. I mean if your not funny that's fine though. so with this one no I'm not to big on it

3 - I’m very big one a guy who has a nice style but can still be comfy at home. idk what it is but I love when my s/o dress up to go out. it makes me feel like he I very well put together and I love it. I don't really know how important this is to me but I have never been attracted to a guy who is always in lazy clothing. 

7. Vampires, werewolves or witch's? if you could become one, which would you choose and why?

hmmmmm I’ve never really been into that stuff but if I had to choose I would say vampire because I could live forever and see how society changes in the future. I don't want to burn in sunlight though.........or sparkle.

8. If you released a mini album with 4 songs one it, what would the titles be?

hmmm dear mom, when i was young, grown up, and here we are.

deae mom would ( clearly ) be a letter to my mom and how grateful I am for her.

when I was young would be about all my struggles growing up.

grown up would be about trying to find a place in the world.

here we are would be  song about the place me my sister and my brother are at currently and how difficult it was to get there and how grateful I am to both of them.

9. Describe what you are feeling right now by using a metaphor without including the word to describe how you are feeling?

oh okay. heres one I really love that I describes how I currently feel really well. 

“After great pain,a formal feeling comes--” 

10. Your bais from one group confesses to you in front of your bais from another group. who do you choose? They can not be your ult bais.

if I had to choose between hmmmm lets say moonbin and wonwoo I would pick moonbin because he is the same age as me. awe I feel so bad,

11. Finally your bais promises to go on a date with you on the condition that you plan it. plan the entire night. 

This sounds really boring but honestly I would probably plan a movie night at my place. idk I'm a simple girl I like movies, candy, and popcorn. I love at home dates and have conversations with people.

here are my questions 

1. If you could travel anywhere where would you go?

2. If you could only keep 5 possessions what would you keep?

3. who are your top 5 bais’?

4. what is a relation ship deal breaker for you?

5. Your bais sees you in the crowd and calls you backstage to talk with you, do you go or leave without seeing what they wanted?

6. if you could do one thing for the rest of your life, what would you do?

7. what did you eat today?

8. top 5 favorite foods?

9. top 5 favorite songs?

10. your bais decides they need a new stylist and want you to take the job. do you take it? why or why not?

11. If you could become a kpop idol or a celebrity in general, would you? why?

This was a lot of fun! hopefully the people I tag enjoy it as well. of course you don't have to answer if you don't want to :)

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