#but if they could easily answer these questions in a groupchat how could they shittalk and gossip about me at church??? | Explore Tumblr posts and blogs

thatswhatsushesaid · 1 year ago

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i am very relieved that i am not the only person who hears the words ‘family groupchat’ and immediately thinks “sounds fake, but ok”

like no judgment if you have them, i can theoretically understand their usefulness. it is still just. so divorced as a concept from my relationship with my family, like how can they guilt me about not staying in touch if they have an easy way of remedying that problem???

#ray.txt #it’s a time honoured tradition amongst southerners to name and shame the ones who have left the south for whatever reason #‘oh so-and-so #he/she/they moved out west/up north and we just never hear from them anymore #bless their heart 😌’#or #my favourite #‘so are you finally going to come home for thanksgiving this year??’ i’m sorry but i AM home i am not on an extended vacation #i pat taxes here i have a mortgage i have family here through my husband this is not a holiday #but if they could easily answer these questions in a groupchat how could they shittalk and gossip about me at church???#edited to add i guess they could still shit talk and gossip about me at church #however. consider that i would have to talk to them #to give them ammo for their shittalking and gossiping #no i think i will pass on the groupchat thanks

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