#but i usually don’t yap unless the person on the receiving end basically invites me to 🙂‍↕️

[genxnarumi]

23, 24, 25 🩷🌸

based on this rb

23. My relationship with my sibling(s) starting off strong, oof... umm, NONE really. i have four half-siblings (all older) and i never met the eldest two, i cut off contact with my second youngest sister entirely and i speak to my youngest older brother like, twice a year (once on my birthday and then again on his birthday in which we also wish each other happy holidays LOL)

the only one i miss a little bit is my youngest brother. we used to be pretty close and he is who made me into a gamer and is also responsible for my nü metal taste, but,,,, i guess we just grew apart due to age differences (that, and my relationship with my sister severely strained everything ig, he doesn’t like to be caught in the middle which he inevitably would be if she learns we speak)

BUT!!!!!!!!!11 i have gained lots of found siblings online and then eventually irl <3 i have so many chosen older siblings and younger siblings that my life is full anyways 💖

24. My relationship with my parent(s) COMPLICATED!! i’ve had a pretty rough childhood as my mum was unstable *and* i was unwanted. (gee i’m on tumblr this must be such a surprise) my dad was my everything, but he passed away some years ago. that being said, as i got older, i realised a lot of things, my dad wasn’t perfect either, was the stereotypical “fun dad”, but he failed to protect me from a lot of things because he simply wanted to avoid confrontation.

on the other hand, my relationship with my mum is still complicated but we are much better than we were. i can tell that she’s trying and i’m trying to learn how to accept a parental relationship lol. we share some passions and do more things together than before. we are trying to heal i guess 💖 so the good news is it CAN get better!

25. My idea of a perfect date this is the toughest question out of the three wtf. i have thought long and hard and still don’t really have an answer 😭

i think i’m pretty easy to please and as long as i have a good time with my date, anything goes! but,,, given what a nerd i am,, you could make me really happy with simple shit like… playing a video game together, or going for a hike to look at plants, or simply playing a board or card game together or…. you get the idea. this also works reversed, for my date to take me into their world and what makes them tick. 🙂‍↕️

i DO prefer activities over going out for some coffee or food though!! since i’m pretty shy, i do better when the situation creates opportunities to come out of my shell more lol 😖

thank u🥺💖