#but beware the quiet piling up of the costs of not being authentic with other people around you
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Is it bad if I don't come out because the secrecy of being closeted turns me on?
people who dont come out because being closeted is hot 🤝people who aren't poly because it turns them on to cheat
#i get you anon. it is hot to get away with something#but beware the quiet piling up of the costs of not being authentic with other people around you#one day you may find you are completely alien to everyone even to yourself#and this can feel like power. if you cant be seen you cant be hurt. but that feeling is a lie#the power of concealment is the power of someone who is forever hiding#it is the safety FROM harm not the safety TO do what you like.
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