#but being called stupid repeatedly for so long ive learned isnt what friends should do
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#I've slowly been giving up on one of my closest friendships#I've told them previously how i dont like being called dumb for merely stating an option or fact#ive shown discontent and even expressed my displeasure when he takes trolling me to far#only for them to do it again and again#but being called stupid repeatedly for so long ive learned isnt what friends should do#its one thing to do it in friendly banter amongst friends like when im being goofy in game#but they genuinely mean it when they call me that just for stating an opinion or fact#i was afraid of letting that friendship burn out but i can't take the cursing and name calling any longer#even though i truly do appreciate the good they've done i cant keep them around any longer#sucks cause our friend group all talk to one another#i only have 3 friends and one them i only recently got back to talking to after so long of not speaking#it was the childish remarks when i was talking about things i found interesting it was the cursing at me for just talking literally#i honestly could call it some sort of abuse cause not one day in the last year would go by without being called stupid or cursed at#this is my longest friendship I've had too we met in 2015 and its been 10 years this year#but ill forgive them if they ask for it and give a genuine apology but i don't think i can see myself being their friend any longer#its sad#im sad#im mourning a friendship#i suppose thats why im sad#but i think its best for me and i dont know how that will affect the friend group i have#I've only told one of my friends out of the group that im done talking to them. i was done being cursed at and called stupid.#they supported my decision and i supported theirs of not talking to one of the other in the friend group - not the one im unfriending#for clarification#but yeah i guess thats why i feel a bit sad and teary eyed rn cause im really about to go through with it.#i dont even remember the last time we all got in a PlayStation chat together.#i haven't joined the chats hes made cause i dont want to deal with the verbal abuse. and they'll scoff if they read this cause they wouldn't#believe what they do to me is abusive but you dont curse at your friends for talking or mock them when they talk literally he mocks me#In some “ nerd ” voice he called it before and not only that but he calls me stupid for giving an opinion or fact#in my opinion thats some sort of abuse cause the constant cursing mocking and name calling has made me so hesitant to talk in that chat#i suppose im ready for this new chapter of life
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