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lingeringscars · 1 year ago

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i don't think van is very into labels. while van is extremely committed to tai, it's not this 'tai is my girlfriend or would be my wife' thought process. they're together in the wilderness, they were messing around before the wilderness, but without the wilderness, that's really all it would have been. van isn't a person who expects a relationship, especially not in the 90s. she's not ashamed of her identity, either as a lesbian or a nonbinary person, and does not care if people know and eventually ensures that they always have a safe space for LGBTQIA+ youth and adults, but they're not into the committed relationship vibes.

#this is kinda based off a meta cj wrote that i did not fully read #but basically van isn't a put a label on it type of person #it is what it is. they're hooking up. they're into each other. it doesn't have to be anything more than that #and in a lot of ways that is preferred #tai said happy wife happy life and van said i'm happy where i'm at #'i get my needs met'#van was never gonna get married it's just not what they see for themselves <3 #i honestly don't know if van would ever refer to tai as her gf either! would just be like yeah we were together.#and now we're not.#lots of thoughts #muse: van palmer #meta: van palmer #this is kinda all over the place bc i did mean labels in terms of relationships #but i felt like i should add that they're very open about their identity in the present timeline and wants to be a safe space

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