#but at some point you're just bumming everyone out if not causing collateral damage
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my mom: I never remember to do things on time I'm such a worthless piece of shit LMAO
my aunt:
#I didn't want to imply that this was part of the same conversation#but I know my mom HAS expressed this sentiment in the past in the context of christmas cards specifically lol#how to express to my mom that her self loathing hurts other people even when she presents it as 'a joke'#anyway I screenshotted that 'if being hard on yourself worked it would have worked by now' for fb specifically to vague my mom lol#like I GET it you wanna self-flagellate a little to express to people your Issues have affected that you do know it sucks and you feel bad#but at some point you're just bumming everyone out if not causing collateral damage#it's a tough balance and I'm not good at it either but my mom is like this about. everything. constantly. it's tiresome#if you wanna start being better you have GOT to love yourself. you have to try#about me#posts from facebook#irl frens#(and family)
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