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transwolvie · 8 months ago

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Again I will forever and ever support telling any person I am friends with to step back and consider their gender and the idea that they may be trans. I've had multiple friends come back to me afterwards and talk about how that really did open the door for them when it came to thinking about the possibility, and contributed to their current identity and transition.

That's so lovely. I wouldn't sacrifice that for the world. Even if you're cis, or don't really think about these things usually, I suggest you examine your gender. So ofc if someone is actually questioning I'm like.....there's a beautiful world out there, have you considered transing your gender?

#tomi talks #it's so unkind to NOT at least suggest it imo #but I mean also tons of ppl have a lot of weird hangups based on social cues n shit #but I simply Cannot Read Those and will just be honest with you #this has two outcomes which is rly great friends and also some ppl that fucking hate your guts lol #but also a fair amount of ppl who say they hate your guts but come back and are like. actually u were right. and be great friends again #that's happened with a few ppl that I've bluntly been like 'ur parent is abusive' to #cuz sometimes that honesty goes over like a lead balloon I tell u hwat #anyway apparently there's some concept abt it being insulting to tell a dude he might be trans #but that cannot be true in my world because being trans is cool af #so.#also like if he genuinely is a cis dude he can survive being asked if he might be trans?? like. he'll live. c'mon.

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