#breaking news: lain is once again agonizing over how all of sqx's most redeeming virtues are also her most damning flaws

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I'll take "posts that aren't about SQX but also are completely about them too" for 500

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#as i've said previously: LEECH RATE 1000000% CRITICAL DAMAGE.#not to be a tag essayist again but i think a lot about their attachment style/love languages#throws their whole self into it. doesn't care how/if it's reciprocated. it's pure and unfiltered but also obnoxious and overbearing #moss on a rock is a very apt descriptor i thingk....

#fascinating to me how interpretations by her peers on how she shows affection tend to veer in very different directions #either “childlike and wholly uncomplicated” (WRONG!) or “self-serving and patronizing” (WRONG!) #it's... well not both actually; not in their entireties #childlike in the way they don't hide anything; they don't dress it up or down if they like you they like you if they love you they love you #self-centered in that they do have high opinions of theirself & therefore their personal standards#though i must stress it's not a case self-centeredly choosing ppl who only flatter them/boost their perceived value/can't say no#self-centered in that 'i would never settle for less' = (in their mind) 'nobody i'm friends with is anything less'

#breaking news: lain is once again agonizing over how all of sqx's most redeeming virtues are also her most damning flaws#something something. girl who was made to be in love but not built to withstand the trials of love without breaking a little. hrm. um.#moss on rock. moss on rock.....#needs the rock there to persist. she needs that damn rock

I'll take "posts that aren't about SQX but also are completely about them too" for 500