#boundaries are hard but i’m trying to hold to them regardless GDJDHDH
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listened to francis forever & didn’t cry so. Progress!
#like it absolutely hits yeah#but. i think like. realizing the core of why i want to be able to approach this in a healthy way. is helping me actually work towards being#better about it? like#yesterday i wouldve heard the autumn comes line and sobbed until i was dry heaving#but indulging that part of my brain that just wants to cry and cry and cry about it is just#turning myself into a worse and worse potential friend#and if i become someone who’s not helping at all then i wouldnt feel right being there#but i also like. idk. i want to be someone who can still be there but healthy about it. like i’m hellvent on it#so even if i can’t get myself over it i want to at least. sit healthily on it#i can’t decide if accepting that i am not and will not be over any of it for a long time is a. healthy approach#but it’s helping me hold myself accountable#so it’s good enough#like i’m not. not struggling GDJDHDHD i’m definitely struggling but#i think worrying less about where things are going to end up and thinking more about what kind of person i need to be to not. be like.#to not make things feel worse#and trying to be that#boundaries are hard but i’m trying to hold to them regardless GDJDHDH#mano.mindtalk#neg#kind of??? it’s kind of positive but still a vent kinda so under the neg tag it goes
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