#beware mention of rape and SA

[lseazys]

Here’s my take on this argument. First of all, the classification of ‘bitch’ and whether or not it’s a slur is irrelevant. It’s still an incredibly disrespectful and disgusting word to use to in reference to another human being and when disagreeing with people, it’s important to be respectful because at the end of the day, we all are humans, who face our own unique struggles and Tumblr should be a place to find positive communities, share our experiences and opinions and engage in civil debates with empathy, nobody wants to be called a ‘bitch’ online after a long day of work or school, and as soon as a person stoops to petty insults in order to justify their argument, it becomes apparent that either they have no argument or they simply cannot articulate it in a cohesive manner that can win them the debate. And the primary aim of debating is to justify your viewpoint, learn other’s viewpoint, or if you still disagree with their point, politely knock down the fallacies and misconceptions that you believe they are basing their argument off of.

That being said, the only reason why somebody wouldn’t classify what happened to Snape in SWM as sexual assault, is because of the common misconception that sexual assault is equal to rape and if a person wasn’t raped, they weren’t sexually assaulted. In reality, however, rape is merely a subcategory, which falls under the umbrella of sexual assault. For an act to be classified as sexual assault, it needs to contain a physical, emotional or psychological violation of a person, that is of a sexual nature. A few examples of sexual assault would be indecent exposure to an unwilling participant, forcibly exposing the body of an unwilling individual, inappropriate and non-consensual touching of one’s private parts and the severest of the lot, rape. These are all forms of a physical violation against an individual that is of a sexual nature. And so when, sexual assault is redefined, it slowly becomes apparent that what James did to Severus was a physical violation of a sexual nature, because, to reiterate, exposing a person’s genitalia is an inherently sexual act and so, therefore, forcibly exposing a person’s genitalia is a sexual crime in itself, regardless of whether or not the perpetrators intent was sexually motivated. And if James wasn’t a fictional character but a real person, he would be facing an upwards of 7 years in a juvenile detention centre for his crimes against Severus. And also, can we please stop with the argument that Severus and James were enemies, and therefore ‘even’ Severus didn’t sexually assault, nearly murder or relentlessly bully any one of the marauders. In 90% of the incidents, it was Severus getting hurt, humiliated or assaulted, that too by a large group of people (because it wasn’t just the marauders who were witnessing this, it was a massive group, in front of which James was doing this, and I doubt that had it come to that, the other people would also hex Severus for the marauders approval and their own entertainment.) It is crucial to remember that privilege was crucial in James’s characterisation and was his main justification for why he acted the way he did. He was privileged, Severus was unprivileged and therefore, he could bully him if he wanted to and boy, did he want to.

Secondly, while I do agree that Severus was a bigot with incredibly problematic views on blood purity, it is crucial to remember that these views didn’t originate out of no where. He grew up in a neglectful and dysfunctional household, which comprised of his volatile muggle father and in his eyes, his saint of a mother, who had lost everything, because she chose to marry a muggle. It is important to remember that Eileen Prince was an aristocrat and the princes family line was exceedingly wealthy, however, after Eileen rebelled against her family’s traditions and married a muggle, she was cut off from her family tree and left with little to no resources and completely dependent on her husband, Tobias Snape. Now it could have been because Tobias felt threatened that his wife could do magic or Eileen’s own resentment of sacrificing her family, money and affluence away to marry Tobias or maybe both, but either way, both had an awful and violent marriage, which deeply scarred Severus. In short, he hated what muggles like his father represented to him, and he realised from an early age that muggles often felt threatened by magic folk and felt the need to subdue them with violence and magic folk, would often sacrifice too much of their own life away, in order to be with unworthy muggles. And this belief solidified, when he observed the interactions between Lily and Petunia. Lily would give too much of herself away in order to be accepted by Petunia but was consistently shunned because of Petunia’s envy and fear of Lily’s magic. Now whilst his fear and hatred of muggles is wrong, it is understandable. His hatred, slowly extended towards people with pro-muggle agenda, because he was also brutally bullied and ostracised from people by the marauders, solely because he was a Slytherin, A poor Slytherin. A poor Slytherin who threatened the sense of authority and respect the marauders felt they were entitled to receive from a poor, ugly Slytherin and when Severus didn’t give them that, the bullying escalated to sexual assault, public humiliation and nearly murdering him, it almost feels as though the marauders were testing the limits of their own control and it gave them a rush of gratification to control and humiliate Severus, which was why they deliberately picked on Severus, when they were bored. In short, humiliating and assaulting Severus fulfilled the marauders sadistic cravings and when, you see it for what it is, it becomes apparent why he became the way he did. Severus was a child, who desperately wanted protection from people who were using him as a toy to fulfil their own sadistic craving and desire for control through means of oppression, and wanted to be free from his own shame of being who he was and to be accepted by a community, regardless of the community’s beliefs. He was a victim in an oh so vulnerable state and was manipulated into joining an extremist group by Lucius Malfoy, similar to how cults in real life, typically pray on people in an emotionally vulnerable state and use their sadness as a tool to isolate them and turn them into members of the cult to do the leader’s bidding. In short, the marauders weren’t courageous vigilantes, who stood up against a bigot, but rather entitled, wealthy and affluent boys, who were deeply troubled and used Severus as a scapegoat to exert their control over and indirectly pushed him in the arms of extremist blood-purity groups. Severus wasn’t a bigot, who was bullied by the marauders, but a boy who was bullied by the marauders and was placed in such a vulnerable state, that he was manipulated into becoming a extremist, and also, it was never explicitly stated that he used any of his spells against muggle borns, it is said, however, that he was complacent in the hexing of muggle borns, in order to fit in with the Slytherin boys. Also, he only ever canonically used sectum-sempra on James, when he was being assaulted, and even then, he was only able to scar James’s face, he wasn’t able to kill James. So no, Sectum-sempra wasn’t a killing curse nor was it intended to be.

And finally, the dynamic of Jilly as a couple and the individual characters were based off JK Rowling and her husband at the time, Jorge Arantes. JK Rowling and Jorge Arantes were married and barely hit the one year mark before getting an immediate divorce. It turns out that the while the relationship was sweet at first, it slowly deteriorated until the relationship became physically abusive and on both Rowling’s and Arantes recounts, he hit her, regularly. In fact, she referred to him once as her ‘vile ex-husband’. Lily wasn’t a feminist nor was she intended to be, she was, however, a self insert of a troubled woman, with severe internalised misogyny who was a victim of an abusive marriage, normalised being abused and was deeply attracted to violent and abusive men because of her depression and low self esteem.

Lily was based off a domestic abuse victim and James was based off the abuser. Think about that.

I love it when Marauders stans try to portray Lily as the ultimate feminist icon when any woman with half a brain and even the most basic understanding of gender studies knows that you’d be safer locked in a cage with a hungry lion than with a rich brat who publicly strips people and blackmails you into dating him in exchange for not committing sexual assault. Like, what world do you even live in? Seriously?

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How Living with Dae (JudasFlower) was A Sex Cult:

Dae went for vulnerable people, especially those with mental illness and in harsh families. Dae chose you, you didn't choose it. I was in a very abusive relationship and, at the time, I did not want to go back to my parents. Dae offered me a "temporary place" to stay, and after two weeks of staying there and doing a COVID test to make sure I didn't have COVID, I was supposed to move in with a friend of his and eventually get my own place. After two weeks, the friend had some "personal issues" going on and I was told I was just going to live with Dae and the rest of the household. I tried applying to my own place, but didn't make enough money, and he told me to stop trying because I was safe with them.

"Zero tolerance for criticism/questions" - asking questions or trying to criticize anything only lead to being gaslit, or ignored, or treated badly.

"A belief that former followers are always wrong for leaving and there is never a legitimate reason for anyone else to leave" - Any other person that had lived with him who had left were deemed as "abusive/toxic/a rapist", no matter the person. His ex partners, his ex roommates, his ex friends, anyone. If you wanted to leave willingly, you were made to feel bad about it. I made the excuse that my mother was gravely ill and she needed me home, he made me feel worse and tried filling my head with lies. When I left, I was the "abuser".

"Abuse of members" - everyone in the household was being mentally/psychologically, and sometimes even physically and sexually, abused. None of us were allowed to talk to each other to sort things out, we always had to go through him. We believed anything we said was in confidence, but he'd report everything to the other person, but warp it into "shit talking". No one could trust anyone.

"Followers feeling they are never able to be “good enough”" - none of us were ever good enough for him, even if we followed everything he said to a perfect T, he still wanted more. If you made even the smallest of a mistake, you were "toxic".

"A belief that the leader is right at all times" - no matter what, Dae had to be right at all times. Even when I had secretly fact checked things he said, it was not something I could bring up, or I'd be "crazy" and the mental abuse would get worse and I'd be shit talked to everyone else.

"A belief that the leader is the exclusive means of knowing “truth” or giving validation" - Another member in the household talked shit about their partner to Dae and made up lies about them, all to gain Dae's "approval" and "validation". Everyone had to go to Dae for advice because he "knew all". He claimed he was the most educated on DID/OSDD since he was older than all of us, and we all had to get his advice and follow it, or we were "toxic" and "anti recovery".

Dae controlled what we wore and how we acted, even sometimes with what we ate/drank.

"Isolation from society" - Dae isolated us from the rest of the world and made it seem like no one else outside of the household was trustworthy, unless it was a person he "chose" and was trying to recruit.

Dae would often "recruit" more people - one being my best friend and another person, both of who were vulnerable and has DID and in abusive households.

Of course there was a lot of sex going on, too. A lot of it was when we were high on our pain meds and didn't necessarily want to, but didn't say no. He also made sex seem like it was something we had to do, and would often force our persecutor alters into "deals" where the persecutor would be made to have sex with him. He convinced us it was to "heal" the persecutors.

Dae was very into "polyamory", but what that really meant was having sex with everyone in the household and even talking about having sex with other people without communicating with his partners first. His excuse was "it's my body and I'll do whatever the fuck I want with it". He'd often talk sexual/flirt/and even start dating other people without really talking to us, and try to recruit those people.

Once he stopped seeing you as "worthy" or "enough", that's when the accusations of rape would start. He'd accuse you of raping him, turn everyone in the household against you and isolate you from the rest of the household - even people outside of the household who you became friends with - and eventually kick you out, only to bring more people in.

I'll add more when I can remember more. This was just at the top of my head.

I am not the only one who believes it was a cult. Other members who kicked him out have also confirmed it was, indeed, a cult, and others who I've spoken to about it - even professionals - have also said it was a cult.

Full call out about him.

[rylanboo]

Important!!! Please Read

I usually don't do bewares as much but it came from attention that two users @/analogdaddy aka salmonmaws and kipper (fruitlerdoodler) have been caught with Disgusting and awful behavior Trigger Warning:mentions of SA Gr00ming and other stuff that might be very triggering towards other people please read at your own risk or feel free to scroll away! Salmonmaws has been caught grooming a minor by the age of 14 according to the documents Xe has also vented towards minors about their past 4bus3 Xe also has posted nsfw in a sfw space according to the document Link to salmonmaws doc:

Kipper aka Fruitlerdoodler has SA'ed a person (not naming them due to their safety) and blackmailed them and gr00m3d them as well they even gave d34th threats towards the victim and told them they deserved to di3 from c4nc3r Link to Kippers doc:

Side note:

some tags that are used is to spread awareness especially towards people who are in the same fandom as these 2

Theyre also both on tumblr as well Accounts to report and block

Salmonmaws has a habit of changing xer's user name whenever they get caught

[nalyra-dreaming]

I hope this is okay to ask, it's a sensitive subject--but with the finale having Lestat quoting Magnus's words, and other mentions of him, it feels clear that Rolin intends to make that encounter a major part of season 3 and probably to make it as truly horrifying as possible. I'm wondering, do you think he'll make the sa aspect of it more metaphorical, like it is in the book, or more literal, like what happened to Claudia? I kind of lean toward thinking the former, but that they'll REALLY emphasize the sa nature of Magnus's focus on Lestat's looks. And then as I think about it, isn't it a literal sa either way? Magnus feeds on him for seven nights, using his fangs on him not for food but for pleasure, and that pleasure is tied to his physical form--so by literal legal standards I think that's sa, no? Anyway, I'm rambling, but I'm wondering if you have thoughts on how you think the show will depict this (acknowledging of course that none of us can know what RJ will do).

Oh, I think Lestat‘s turning will be literal rape, and probably shown, too. Or at least by shadows on the wall or something like that. Rolin said Lestat had the most traumatic turning of any vampire and they already laid out the (horrific) corner stones of that event.

It won’t be pretty. It is written as rape with forced orgasm in the book.

I was prompted to write about it and I kinda exorcised my feelings there with it, if you want to see what I expect it to be? I poured it all in there, tbh. And also what I hope happens to them and between them eventually.

On Ao3

Beware of the tags though.

And I do think some of those tags will be fitting for what’s to come.

[lukey-pookie-hughes43]

Yall! Idk how people can do shit like this.

just a quick TW: there are mentions of sa and R in the later paragraphs so beware

luv u <333

I was just informed of all of the #cancelpercy sa allegations and I just want to say that that is 100% stupidity created for clout and honestly I don't know how all of these girls who are saying that percy did all of this shit without anything to back up their accusations and I personally am so sorry that he has had to go through this bc he doesn't deserve it at all.

He just wants to not be put on blast constantly about stuff that almost definitely didn't happen. And no I don't condone sa or rape or anything like that but like...it's literally so stupid that someone can accuse someone so cool to do something so terrible.

If anyone has anything to update me on bc I don't want to waste more time reading about it on my own please let me know and if you've gotten this far thank you and I hope you have a day as beautiful as your personality :)

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