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#bosslady

Life is busy. Busier than it's ever been and it feels good. Promotions. Lonely flights. Training. Handovers.. IMATS. Music. Friends. Family Love. There is no more room for hate. There is no more room for doubt. Change is not such a bad thing. It allows growth, discovery and being open to different things. It brings understanding, beauty and confidence. Change leaves behind those toxic thoughts that keep you up at night and lets you say goodbye when you need to. Love, light and good thoughts.

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq-q_pZgmoz/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1rov27hrmv495

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq8vSvjAm04/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1eij7kxsz3gtz

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/Bq1ARsVgFZl/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1kjmhitd66kgy

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/Bqc_-izgm0S/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=jknglluekdbr

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/BqVT4FsgLfE/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=10d8ouuunpqt1

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/BqP5FTJAo1M/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1s4iqau0wc8ev

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/BqKl9mCAf0Y/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=z9313ld00r9x

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/BqIGuQUAnwh/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=1t6l8g7e8z8hn

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Merry Christmas season Brunch is here. Preregistration is required for this spectacular holiday event. It’s time for our annual upscale Christmas brunch and yes it’s live music and delicious all you can eat buffet. Pre-registration is required to attend via SoulNightEvents.com #champagnes #champagne #champagner #champagnelover #champagnelovers #champagnelife #party #champagnepop #veuveclicquot #partynight #champagneparty #domperignon #belvedere #moet #losbocciatore #sciabolata #belvederevodka #vodka #noirclub #theloud #sabrage #senzapagare #sunday #partytime #jaybi #jaybiofficial #bubble #bellavitalis #sbam #soulnightevents https://www.instagram.com/p/BqEfiZDgH5F/?utm_source=ig_tumblr_share&igshid=gypjxt77or3

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Surry Hills.

On my way to work yesterday I was confronted by a man who said to me “you’re dead bitch” and took my photo. Surry Hills in Sydney is a place for all sorts and you’ll come across a lot of characters but this guy took it to a whole new level. A level I wasn’t sure I was comfortable with. Today I walked up the same path 15 minutes earlier than I did yesterday without incident. I wanted to get something to drink for the day and there was a gentleman standing outside a store with a dog trying to get the store attendants attention. The gentleman’s name was Michael and he was very polite and told me that he wanted a coffee with two sugars. I went into the store and got his coffee and he was very grateful. I told him it was on me and he left the store. There was also a lady in the store who was being quite loud but was harmless. She wanted me to be served before she was because I had paid for her friend’s coffee and she was willing to wait. I told her not to be silly but she insisted. She insisted that the clerk double bag my items and I insisted on paying for her newspaper. Both of these lovely souls were such a stark contrast to the man I encountered yesterday and they have given me faith in the characters of Surry Hills again. As they say – Don’t let one bad apple spoil the bunch. Don’t judge people. Pay it forward. The universe will show you what it’s made of.

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More love, less hate.

In December last year I felt like I was drowning. My parents divorce was finalised and my father got remarried. My beloved Grandmother and Kingston Vitaly had passed away in the previous 12 months. But it wasn’t all bad though, there was also the good with being newly married (which spawned other peoples unwelcome opinions) and working in a job that was giving me the opportunity to build something with the strengths that I possess. There was a lot going on and then one day I just decided to switch off from the world and not let others words or actions take a hold of my decisions, opinions or have any sort of weight in my life. Since then everything has been about healing, finding out who I am, learning to love myself, my life and the people around me, developing my passions and creating a little magick. 2016 started in silence. Silence is something that I have always been comfortable with but I know can be unnerving for others. I made few engagements with people and pulled back a lot. In February I found Gala Darling. I read her book Radical Self Love: A Guide To Loving Yourself and Living Your Dreams all in one weekend and felt like I had finally heard a voice that was coming through all the static that was registering with me on a deeper level. The end of February saw me pack my bags and head to New York. New York is a city that inspires me. It is busy, beautiful and the perfect city for someone who wants to be alone but surrounded by life. While I was there I got to meet Gala and found that the inspirational person I had read about was exactly what I needed and more. After a week in New York I headed down to Miami to catch a boat filled with over 2000 Paramore fans and the band themselves. Hearing Hayley talk about their struggles as a band, the loss of faith in those closest to her and feeling like the world they had built was coming down was something I could relate to. She also talked about the strength of love from people who have got your back and how uplifting it can be and get you where you need to be which I could see in my own life with the people I chose to surround myself with. So now I fast forward to last week when Christopher Gutierrez had his first speaking in Sydney and the actions of what I have been doing in my life put in words that I know other people can understand. Christopher said that he has been looking at the people around him too and he has been asking himself two questions: Would I trust this person with the key to my apartment? Does this person ask about my life? For years I have been surrounded by fair-weather friends. Those people who only get in touch with you when they want something from you. You can’t count on them for anything and they know nothing about you. Everything you talk about is superficial and while I can still see these people, smile and be gracious, I knew I needed something more in my life. In the last few years I have found that I no longer am willing to invite someone into my home. I go there to escape because I can lock the world out so now it takes a lot for me if I was to ask myself if I would trust a person with the key to my apartment (or house if you so please). The fact is there are only a handful of people I can say yes to and that number is seriously low. And does this person ask about my life? There are more of these people in my and in the last 3 months they have shown themselves to me more. I don’t like playing a game of social media news bulletins. Or the “you need to get of this person” game either. I’m over thirty and these games just aren’t my thing. What I love about the people that ask about my life is that they genuinely care about the answer. There is no frustrated tolerance or advice on offer that doesn’t have the heart of the person giving it. There are no doubts being created by the things that the person has said making me second guess the beliefs I have in myself or my self love and respect. These people genuinely care and I care for them in the same way right back. I love that my friends are genuine. We’re all a little bit fucked up and are definitely society’s misfits but that is what brings us together. I can say what I feel without judgement and they can do the same. When we make decisions for our future there is support filled with love and encouragement. When something is bringing you down and you share it, they are there to listen and you can see that they care and feel the pain you are going through at the same time. You know they are there to love and support you through anything. Friendship is being able to say anything and know you won’t be judged. Friendship is being able to ask for the truth and know you are going to get it with love and your best interests in their heart. Friendship is being able to sit in silence in the same room for hours and not have to say a word because you are content being in the same room. This is what friendship should be. And that is what friendship is now for me. Love + Light. In December last year I felt like I was drowning. My parents divorce was finalised and my father got remarried. My beloved Grandmother and Kingston Vitaly had passed away in the previous 12 months. But it wasn’t all bad though, there was also the good with being newly married (which spawned other peoples unwelcome opinions) and working in a job that was giving me the opportunity to build something with the strengths that I possess. There was a lot going on and then one day I just decided to switch off from the world and not let others words or actions take a hold of my decisions, opinions or have any sort of weight in my life. Since then everything has been about healing, finding out who I am, learning to love myself, my life and the people around me, developing my passions and creating a little magick. 2016 started in silence. Silence is something that I have always been comfortable with but I know can be unnerving for others. I made few engagements with people and pulled back a lot. In February I found Gala Darling. I read her book Radical Self Love: A Guide To Loving Yourself and Living Your Dreams all in one weekend and felt like I had finally heard a voice that was coming through all the static that was registering with me on a deeper level. The end of February saw me pack my bags and head to New York. New York is a city that inspires me. It is busy, beautiful and the perfect city for someone who wants to be alone but surrounded by life. While I was there I got to meet Gala and found that the inspirational person I had read about was exactly what I needed and more. After a week in New York I headed down to Miami to catch a boat filled with over 2000 Paramore fans and the band themselves. Hearing Hayley talk about their struggles as a band, the loss of faith in those closest to her and feeling like the world they had built was coming down was something I could relate to. She also talked about the strength of love from people who have got your back and how uplifting it can be and get you where you need to be which I could see in my own life with the people I chose to surround myself with. So now I fast forward to last week when Christopher Gutierrez had his first speaking in Sydney and the actions of what I have been doing in my life put in words that I know other people can understand. Christopher said that he has been looking at the people around him too and he has been asking himself two questions: Would I trust this person with the key to my apartment? Does this person ask about my life? For years I have been surrounded by fair-weather friends. Those people who only get in touch with you when they want something from you. You can’t count on them for anything and they know nothing about you. Everything you talk about is superficial and while I can still see these people, smile and be gracious, I knew I needed something more in my life. In the last few years I have found that I no longer am willing to invite someone into my home. I go there to escape because I can lock the world out so now it takes a lot for me if I was to ask myself if I would trust a person with the key to my apartment (or house if you so please). The fact is there are only a handful of people I can say yes to and that number is seriously low. And does this person ask about my life? There are more of these people in my and in the last 3 months they have shown themselves to me more. I don’t like playing a game of social media news bulletins. Or the “you need to get of this person” game either. I’m over thirty and these games just aren’t my thing. What I love about the people that ask about my life is that they genuinely care about the answer. There is no frustrated tolerance or advice on offer that doesn’t have the heart of the person giving it. There are no doubts being created by the things that the person has said making me second guess the beliefs I have in myself or my self love and respect. These people genuinely care and I care for them in the same way right back. I love that my friends are genuine. We’re all a little bit fucked up and are definitely society’s misfits but that is what brings us together. I can say what I feel without judgement and they can do the same. When we make decisions for our future there is support filled with love and encouragement. When something is bringing you down and you share it, they are there to listen and you can see that they care and feel the pain you are going through at the same time. You know they are there to love and support you through anything. Friendship is being able to say anything and know you won’t be judged. Friendship is being able to ask for the truth and know you are going to get it with love and your best interests in their heart. Friendship is being able to sit in silence in the same room for hours and not have to say a word because you are content being in the same room. This is what friendship should be. And that is what friendship is now for me. Love + Light.