#because judging or assuming or flat out rejecting ANYONE based solely on their identity is bad actually...

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i think it's actually quite misogynistic and queerphobic to act like queer femme ppl who date cis guys are incapable of vetting them. sure some are gonna be stuck in something toxic w/ an a-hole but like that's just a sign something worse is going on for them???

if somebody who is a minority is in a relationship w/ somebody who hates minorities uhhhh something is going on w/ that person and like maybe they actually need help to get out of that situation????? instead of acting like it's their fault the partner is a piece of shit. like obviously something is going on there!!!

idt anyone presents themself as a piece of shit when they first start dating you!!!!! idk this is just so annoying to me. OP please grow up and touch grass. meet people outside your insulated community of puritanical queers because judging or assuming or flat out rejecting ANYONE based solely on their identity is bad actually...not just when it hurts you, personally.

"i am a fem-aligned nonbinary person who goes by they/she/he pronouns and i am currently in a queer ethically non-monogamous relationship with my partner :)"

her boyfriend: my name's mike and i hate minorities