#because im like sooooooo done with begging for attention
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how do i politely tell my sister i don't want to stay up all night and drink and party with her
#when we bought it many weeks ago i was sooo looking forward to it#and now mom dad koi ni hai ghar pe#and she wants to drink#im not in the mood man#last time i drank it was with my bestfriend and we had fun for about like an hour and then she spent all night#talking to her ex boyfriend and her situationship guy and i was all alone#i mean normally i don't mind being alone i love hanging out with myself at night#but.#well im so depressed now so drinking isn't fun combine that with 3 am thoughts#and my sister is even worse than my bestfriend lol atleast my bestie cared about me enough to make sure i had a good time#my sister just. lol she won't look up from her laptop all day till like 7 pm even if i need for 2 seconds#and after work too she's on her phone she doesn't want to watch movies or anything together she doesn't want to go out for ice cream#she just wants to talk to her friends and scroll thru fuckinv insta rather than hang out with me#and like fine im used to it if you're really so busy then theek hai karlo kaam but then i hate that im supposed#to pretend everything is okay and we can have fun#she's nursing a broken heart too and im sick of being around broken hearts i miss having friends why does everyone prioritize relationships#over everyone everything#and she can be sooo unnecessarily condescending sometimes#like i was watching eras yesterday on tv while having dinner and i gave up on asking her to hang out watch stuff together#because im like sooooooo done with begging for attention#but she sat and watched it between her scrolling#and today she's like so what will we do not taylor swift eras lol i want to do something really rockinv and fun#like bhai sorry im not interesting and important enough to answer when i ask a question and sorry my interests are childhish and not fun#enough for you please just hang out with your friends then
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I have the BIGGEST crush on this guy and I really thought it was mutual because we would talk about our feelings and he told me he felt the same way but he wasnt ready to commit which is alright I guess so I stayed around but now I found out that he’s talking to a bunch of other girls in the same way and im just...fucking pissed and upset and hurt and sad. Idk what to do...
Hey love,
First of all, in case nobody told you: your feelings are valid. It’s okay to be angry, sad, upset and pissed off. It’s all VALID✨
Second of all: I know this is easier said than done, but you have to let him go because he clearly doesn’t deserve you, your attention, your time and your love. I totally understand how you feel and I know it hurts but you deserve sooooooo much better.
I think you should start with facing your feelings by truly processing what is happening and realizing, in your own time, what you truly deserve (which, again, is much better); I personally find that writing in my journal is very useful for that💕then you can, perhaps, confront him about it (if that’s what you feel you need to get closure), then you can decide what you want to do next...I’m personally the type of person that unfollows (and sometimes blocks tbh) as it helps me set that invisible boundary...but you choose what works best for you 💓
Take the time to remember your true worth and remember that if it feels like you’re swimming against the current...then he’s not the one. Love is not always easy but it should come easily. You shouldn’t have to beg for someone’s love or attention. You deserve soooo much better ✨✨✨ you got this, love xx
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