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oh-my-im-ply · 1 year ago

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Recently was told that being attracted to women and enbies "doesn't count as attraction to multiple genders," and that if you're attracted to women and enbies, you "should just identify as lesbian or straight."

As if nonbinary people are just an extension of women. As if nonbinary genders aren't real genders. As if enbian attraction is just an extension of sapphic or romeric attraction instead of a valid and beautiful experience in its own right.

And the person who told me this shit was also nonbinary.

I'm so tired.

#Mod Kylo #like yeah I also identify as lesbian/straight #because I'm pangender/demifluid and whatnot #but women and enbies... is literally multiple genders #and my enbian attraction isn't necessarily lumped in with my lesbian/sapphic/straight/romeric/darcian attraction either #I experience many forms of enbian attraction #some of which is sapphic/romeric- and some of which is not #enbies aren't just woman-lite #not to mention the fact that enbies aren't always comfortable with being lumped into lesbian/sapphic or straight/romeric/darcian attraction #a major reason that I identify as polysexual is because I recognize that my attraction to enbies-#-can't necessarily be described with my more binary-aligned labels all the time #monosexism #polysexual #polyromantic #polyalterous #polysensual #polyaesthetic #plysexual #plyromantic #polisexual #poliromantic #ply #mspec #pluralian #lgbt #lgbtq #lgbtqia #queer #nonbinary #text post

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