#because I associate Welcome to Earth heavily w myself and him

[l0rdf0rneus]

I support gay rights but more importantly gay wrongs.

"When you die and go to hell will the Eridan animals look at you like the homophobic dog?" Yea probably. I would not put it past them they're awful like that.

Ignore the shitty anti-aliasing on the gif, I was just playing around w that one and not being #srs

[pinkipie100]

Lance and the 25 Days Chapter I: Awake

Welcome to the first installment of Pinkipie’s Fic-cember 2017! This will be a twenty-five chapter fanfiction involving the characters of Voltron and the spirit of the holiday season.

In this chapter, Lance wakes up as if he’s just had a terrorizing nightmare, but perhaps he’s just awakened to a dream come true.

Happy Holidays, and enjoy!

Words: 2048

Category: Gen

Contains: Lance's Christmas boner, inappropriate use of the castle ship’s alarms, tired paladins + Coran, Jewish!Pidge, a dust of subtle angst [because I can’t G*DDAMN HELP MYSELF, CAN I?!]

Takes place during S4, sometime after Keith left, but before Reunion.

Lance’s eyes shot open in a cold sweat. He was panting heavily and felt pinching anxiety in his gut. Something was happening to him, but he couldn’t get himself to move. He did not shift his paralyzed body from the bed in fear, so he only sat there like a log, flat on his back, shaking with anticipation for some reason unseen.

What could possibly be triggering this? Lance panicked, dreading the possibility of sleep paralysis. If had to endure a terrifying vision of a demonic alien, he would never sleep again. The paladin just sunk deeper into his mattress as he pondered what was wrong with him, considering several other equally unnerving options, such as a Galra poisoning him with a nightmarish drug, a previously unnoticed mission injury, an intense alien disease, and the like.

Lance attempted to look over to the day cycle clock built into his wall, and managed to read out of the corner of his eye that it just turned midnight. The boy then gasped, for he knew exactly what this meant- he knew he wouldn’t sleep again, but for an entirely different reason than fear.

Lance spontaneously regained control of his muscles, bounced off of his bed and flopped ungracefully onto the ground whilst gasping breathlessly, “IT’S TIME!” He landed upon the floor in an awkward sprawl of lanky limbs, but quickly regained his composure and launched out of his room like a sprinter at the sound of the handgun.

The boy practically flew through the hallways, zooming all the way to the bridge in just a dobash. When he arrived, shoulders nicking the edges of the doors he burst through before they were even fully open, he tumbled over to the intercom system, pressed the button to turn it on, and then shouted, “CHRIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISTMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAS!!!”

Hopefully, that would be enough to wake the others to this important occasion. Just to be sure, in all his panting and lightheadedness, Lance turned on the alarm and manually set the day cycle to morning so that the ship was brightly lit and cacophonous. He then waited as patiently as possible, tapping his foot rapidly until the other paladins and Coran had showed up.

The others rushed into the bridge fully-armored and disoriented, and Shiro was the first to speak, inquiring intensely about a Galra attack.

Lance shook his head, shutting off the blaring alarm. When Allura questioned what the emergency was, Lance announced, “Didn’t you hear me in the intercom? It’s CHRISTMAS!” Team Voltron looked unimpressed. When Pidge uttered and irritated ‘what,’ Lance continued further, “It’s Christmas! We’ve got to get to celebrating, stat!”

Coran and the pink paladin looked at one another, totally lost, while Pidge sighed and pinched the bridge of her nose.

“Lance, you understand that the ship’s alarm is only for emergencies, right?” Shiro groaned, rubbing the corner of his right eye. The red paladin assented to this, but argued that a holiday should never, ever be missed, so therefore this was and emergency. “How do you even know it’s Christmas?” the black paladin asked, desperately attempting to hold off a yawn.

The boy’s lips formed a guilty-looking squiggle, and he held his breath for a moment before admitting, “Well, technically, it’s not Christmas, but it is December first. So, that means we have a lot of preparation to be doing for Christmas! We have to start right away!”

Pidge groaned loudly. “So, it’s not even Christmas?! Lance, you woke us up for this?” Lance protested that the winter holiday was no joke to him, and it shouldn’t be such to anyone who is associated with him, but Pidge then continued, “Why would you think it’s December?”

Lance responded, “Well, here’s the story: when I was four years old, I was super excited for it to be December. I mean, I was a little kid, right? Of course I was excited for Christmas; anyone would be!” Hunk warned Lance about going on a tangent, so the latter resumed, “Right. Well, my parents won’t tolerate anyone in our family saying anything about Christmas until the month of; they couldn’t stand holiday overexcitement and all that, you know? Anyway, it was November 30th, and I went to sleep like normal, but the next day came- and I mean exactly when the next day came- I woke up so that I could start preparing for Christmas. I woke up at midnight on my own, jumped out of bed, and pulled out all the Christmas decorations with my tiny four-year-old arms, and I started setting them up. When morning came around, my siblings woke up and started helping me, and by the time my parents came down, they found the mess we made with the decorations. Needless to say, they had to clean it all up and make the decorations right. But ever since that night, I’ve always naturally woken up at midnight on the first day of December to decorate the house with my family! I did that same thing just now, and the only explanation is that today is December first!”

Pidge scoffed and rolled her eyes, deeming it impossible for Lance’s biological clock to work like that, until she was interrupted by Hunk concurring with Lance. The yellow paladin had been fiddling with some calculations on his armor device, and he confirmed, “Lance is right; I just calculated the amount of quintants we’ve been here according to my logs, converted that to Earth days, and then added them to the date that we left Earth. It came out to be December first. Besides, Lance’s biological calendar is never wrong when it comes to Christmas the First. Right, buddy?” Lance high-fived his companion, and Pidge stared at Lance in shock, asking him if she could monitor his sleep patterns from now on, for science.

Coran joined in that he was very lost as to what was going on, and Allura’s expression echoed this.

Shiro took it upon himself to explain the holiday to the Alteans; the trees, the stockings, the strange white-bearded man who broke into your house at night and made out with your mom, the carols, the mistletoes, and especially the gifts. The two aliens listened intently, ears twitching with fascination.

“That’s so odd!” Allura exclaimed when Shiro finished. “And you do this every decafeeb?” Shiro answered, ‘yes,’ adding that there are other December holidays, which surprised Allura even more. “Other celebrations? Unbelievable! That seems like so much work!”

“Indeed,” Coran agreed. “Well, at least it’s only an end-of-decafeeb rush.”

Hunk shook his head at that, delineating that not all people celebrated the same holidays in December as Pidge nodded in agreement, and also that there were other holidays throughout the year, like Halloween and Easter. The Alteans were taken aback, and when the yellow paladin asked if Alteans even had holidays, they shook their heads, claiming they had nothing of the ilk, only celebrations for recent events or ceremonies.

Lance’s foot-tapping evolved into thumping until his impatience grew too much, and he interjected, “Alright, that’s enough exposition! We’ve got work to do! We need to decorate the castle with lights, find something resembling a pine tree, maybe get a mistletoe or two,” Lance said this waggling his eyebrows in Allura’s direction, “Oh! and some ugly Christmas sweaters…”

“Lance.”

“What, Pidge?”

“I’m Jewish,” the youngest paladin stated with an eyebrow raised.

Lance’s jaw dropped while he gawked at Pidge. Hunk recalled that he noticed a clay dreidel amongst her stuff back at the Garrison, but he’d since forgotten about it. Shiro had this countenance that suggested that he was berating himself for forgetting about the Holts being Jewish, and he promptly facepalmed. Coran and Allura just looked at one another and shrugged.

“W-wait, you’re Jewish?!” Lance piped out, just before Shiro spoke over him.

“Pidge, I’m so sorry- I should have made the connection that you’re Jewish just like the rest of your family,” Shiro apologized in a You’re-An-Idiot-Shiro tone.

Pidge reassured everyone that it was fine, but she laced her fingers and twiddled her thumbs bashfully. Upon noticing this, Lance ran up to her, grabbed her by the shoulders, and began apologizing profusely. Pidge dismissed the grovelling, “Lance, it’s not a big deal! I never told you, how could you have known?! You can stop!” Lance still expressed his regret for assuming, but Pidge just grabbed the older teen’s arms and pushed him away, firmly telling him to quit it.

“Pidge, let me make it up to you! I’ll do anything, just tell me!” Lance persisted, and Hunk sighed fondly at his friend’s antics. Hunk vociferated that Pidge probably did want something, and he nodded her way, whilst she scrunched up her face and looked back at Lance’s begging eyes.

Pidge reluctantly began drawling that there was, indeed, something she wanted Lance and the others to do for her. Lance perked up, as did the other paladins. The green paladin drooped her head, and a slight blush could just be identified by Lance. Then, she slowly mumbled out, “I… I want you… Umm…” Pidge looked up through her brow to make eye contact with Shiro, who smiled warmly, and Allura held an eager and supportive gesture behind him. The paladin sighed, finally spitting out, “I want you all the play the dreidel with me!” Everyone stared at her for a half second, then stalwartly agreed to do so, especially Lance, who was enthusiastic enough to kneel before her and shake on it.

Hunk questioned, “Do you have the dreidel from the Garrison to play with?”

Pidge cleared her throat slightly, then answered, “No, I left it at the Garrison. Can we find one?”

Coran speculated that they could certainly look for something similar at the Space Mall, along with the Christmas décor. Pidge added that she also wouldn’t feel comfortable this Hanukkah without a menorah with her, and Shiro confirmed that they could look for one at Terra in the Space Mall.

Lance cheekily inquired if this meant that they were going to go to the Space Mall to decorate for Christmas, which was met by a firm, ‘Lance!’ from Shiro. When the red paladin turned to their leader guiltily, the latter spoke with a stern face, “If we went to the Space Mall…” Lance waited in anticipation, “…does that mean we can get peppermint bark?!” Shiro finished giddily.

Lance answered with a hearty, ‘Absolutely!’ and Shiro pumped his fist with a constricted ‘yus,’ followed by him high-fiving Lance animatedly.

This exchange gave Hunk an idea, so he turned to Lance and excitedly asked if he could do all the preparations for the Christmas dinner and Hanukkah dinners as well, to which his best friend pretended to shed a single tear, then declared that it would be an honor to be served by Hunk the Master Chef. Hunk responded melodramatically, “Oh, no no… It’s my pleasure to serve Lord Lance and the Paladins of Voltron! Pidge, you can teach me the basics of making latke and sufganiyot, right?”

“I… can… try?” Pidge shrugged.

“Also, Lance! We should totally go to the Balmera for ingredients and new recipes!” Hunk suggested enthusiastically. Pidge and Lance made eye contact, wordlessly concurring to the true intentions of said suggestion.

“Sure, Hunk,” Pidge jibed smugly.

“For recipes,” Lance mocked.

Pidge and Lance’s snickers went right over Hunk’s head as he started jotting down ideas for the dinners in his log.

Lance finally announced, “Alright! It’s all settled, then- Princess, Coran, would you like to experience your first Christmas, Hanukkah, holiday season, and holiday in general?”

“Yes!” Allura and Coran firmly endorsed, pumping their fists.

“Okay! Get ready for the holiday shopping, because we’re going to the Space Mall!” Lance declared, wrapping his arms around each Altean.

“…Yeah, can we go back to bed first?” Hunk muttered in the distance.

Shiro grinned fondly as the others laughed and joked around with one another. He stood silently in his spot for a moment, looking to his feet gradually, then shifting his gaze out the window to the stars. His mood lowered a little at the thought of the little brother missing out on the holiday festivities. What broke Shiro’s heart, however, was that this wasn’t even close to the first time the aforementioned person had missed Christmas.

[lifeideserve]

Ep 1 - The Journey to a Better Life, Starts Here: What Jack Canfield Taught Me

We all have the ability, to be successful.  And, while it’s common knowledge that a great education, valuable skills, and strong relationships, are pivotal to success, there are actually some fundamental beliefs, perspectives, and disciplines, that will dramatically increase your chances for success, regardless of your education and skills.  Take this journey with me, as I share what I've learned, and we learn more together, to achieve success, beyond your wildest dreams!  :-)

Hi, my name is Adrian McMillian.  Welcome to “The Life I Deserve”!!

This show was designed to help you identify your passion.  And, figure-out, how to pursue that passion.

Here’s a quote that I learned from Jack Canfield, on finding your passion, and your purpose in life: “Don't ask what the world needs, identify what makes you come alive, and then go do that.  Because what the world needs, is people who come alive!”

“The Life I Deserve” project was designed to help you, come alive!  Join me, as I help you discover your passion.  And, then, determine, how to pursue your passion!

I also want to help you, to enhance your health, grow your wealth, and fill your life, with happiness.  Subscribe to the Podcast, and stay tuned, as we explore these different areas.  

Health

I will share ideas, perspectives, and interviews, on how to enhance your physical, mental, and spiritual health.

My favorite exercise, is dancing.  For several years, I’ve been very involved in salsa dancing, and the other dances, you would find at a salsa club, like Bachata, and Cha Cha.  I love all types of dances!  I started taking West Coast Swing classes a few years ago.  And, then I got busy with other things, and stopped the West Coast Swing.  But, I really enjoyed it!  I really think I’m going to have to work more West Coast Swing, into my life.  :-)

Wealth

I will share information, insights, and opportunities, that may help you to, increase your income, and increase your return on investments.

I grew up in San Leon, Texas.  Which, is between Houston and Galveston.  I have 2 brothers and 2 sisters.  We didn’t have much money growing up, but we did have very caring parents.

Through many years of study, and hard work, I am now a Director of Technology, for a major motion picture company in Los Angeles, California.  

However, the path to true financial freedom, is passive income!  I discovered the power of rental properties, about 15 years ago.  I bought my first property on Halloween day, of 2002, in beautiful Santa Monica, CA.  I have learned a great deal in the last 15 years.  And, I’ve developed a strategy that works very well for me.  Stay tuned, for episodes, in which I share more about my experiences, and strategies in real estate investing.

Happiness

I will share insights and perspectives, that will help you to discover your passions, and empower you with the skills, resources, and support, to pursue your passions

Happiness, can be an elusive pursuit.  What makes one person happy, can be drastically different, from another person.  And, for each of us, the source of happiness, changes over time.  To make the happiness pursuit even more complex, it is heavily impacted by our past, and associations that we’ve made.  True happiness, is often connected with, helping, reaching-out, and connecting with others.  It’s human nature to help our brothers and sisters.  I believe happiness must be a shared experience.  Because, if we only look out for our own happiness, we will end up feeling empty.

What makes me happy?  Besides dancing, I love spending time with family...visiting my Dad, creating memories my sisters and brothers.  And, of course, I really enjoy time spent, with with my, amazing and talented, nieces and nephews.  I also love catching-up with friends.  I enjoy tropical vacations.  And, I really love helping people.

So, how can we, all, take our happiness to the next level?  And, how can we spread that happiness, to the people we love, and care about?  Listen to upcoming shows, as I interview experts in this area.

Listen to this entire episode, as I share with you, a powerful formula, that will allow you to take control of your life.  Also, I will share with you a story, that has impacted me, and my view of the world.  And, I have no doubt, that it will impact you as well!

Questions, Comments, Compliments

“The LIfe I Deserve” is here for you!  Please let me know what type of topics you’d like me to research.  What kind of people you’d like me to interview.  Or, if you, have something valuable to share.  If you have any knowledge, insights, perspectives, that can help people to improve their health, wealth, or happiness, reach out to me.  Visit “TheLifeIDeserve.com”.  And send me email or voicemail.  From the Web Site, click on the “Contact” tab, and you’ll see a button, that will allow you to record voicemail.  Or, if you’d rather leave email, just fill-in the form, just below the voicemail button.  

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Unlocking Success

Jack Canfield, is known as America's #1 Success Coach.  He is the founder of the billion-dollar book brand "Chicken Soup for the Soul", a leading authority on Peak Performance and Life Success.

So, how did I discover Jack Canfield? While in college, I was got a job at the NASA Johnson Space Center, in Houston, Texas.  I was very excited! As a staff member, of the "Scientific and Technical Research Library", I worked hard to prove myself. And I was humbled by the fact, that some people I met, would literally leave Earth for a Space Mission. What made the difference, between a person, doing a job they dread, and a person living their dream, as an Astronaut? Looking for clues, I noticed that many patrons of the library, would put themselves on a waiting list, for a particular set of videos. Out of curiosity, I added myself to the waiting list. After a few months, it was my turn to check-out the coveted videos. The videos were by Jack Canfield. They were titled "Self-esteem and Peak Performance". I watched the videos. Despite the fact, that the videos were already several years old, everything Jack talked about in the videos, made sense to me. The lessons were timeless.  And, the concepts were simple, but powerful. Before watching the videos, I had no idea, why some people seem to be on the easy road to success, while others, seemed to be heading down a dead-end road. Watching the videos, I realized that I would be able to accomplish anything, by re-programming how I thought and reacted to my world. Those videos, were the beginning of a new life for me! It's amazing how small changes in the way you approach life, can dramatically change your world! Let's Do This! This is the reason for "The Life I Deserve". I invite you to take this journey with me. I invite you to try, new ways of thinking, and ways of being, that may help you to become the person you want to be, for yourself, and for the people that you care about. Over the next several months, I will evolve "The Life I Deserve" into a medium for sharing, learning, and growing together. Please feel free to share with me your thoughts, suggestions, comments, and questions. If I can help even one person in a significant way, this project, and the effort involved with this project, will all be worthwhile. We are all trying to navigate our way through life. Working together, we will not only survive, we will thrive!

The Universe Is Speaking

Last November, I visited my family, in Houston, for Thanksgiving. For some time, I have been trying to figure-out the next steps to take in my life.  During that trip, I remembered, it was Jack Canfield’s teachings, that significantly impacted my life, years ago.  Maybe I should meet Jack in person.  Maybe I should go to one of his events.  After discovering Jack Canfield, years ago, I checked-out other motivational speakers, to see what I could learn from them.  Zig Ziglar was another great inspiration. Zig was a Texan, full of Texan personality and charm.  And, a great sense of humor. He would tell amazing, impactful, true stories.  He also, would sometimes tell fictitious stories, that would either make a great point, or inspire his audience with laughter, or both.  Here’s one of Zig’s funny fictitious stories. A lady in Dallas, went to see an attorney, about a divorce.  The attorney said, “Do you have any grounds?”.  “Why yes”, she said, “we have about 40 acres, right out here, on the north end of town”.  [laughing]  He said, “ma'am, that’s not what I’m talking about, do you have a grudge?”.  She said, “No, but we have a nice little carport, on the side of the house”.  [laughing]  He said, “Ma’am, does that man ever beat you up?”.  “Oh no”, she said, “I’m up every day, at least an hour, before he even turns over”.  [laughing]  He said, “Ma’am, do you accept any responsibility for the difficulties?”.  She said, “What do you mean?”.  He said, “Well, do you ever wake-up, grouchy?”.  She replied, “Oh no, I just let him get-up, on his own”.  [laughing]  He said, “Well, why do you want to divorce the man?”.  She said, “He just can’t communicate.”  [laughing]  I remember hearing about Zig’s passing several years ago.  And I remember thinking, I should’ve seen him, in-person.  Well, no more should’ve’s.  I’m going to meet Jack Canfield. So, I checked-out the date and location for the next event.  At the end of February, in Newport Beach, Jack was teaching his “Breakthrough to Success” course.  This course is based on his amazing book titled, “The Success Principles”.  Okay, end of February would work.  Okay, now how much.  $3,000.  $3,000?  Hmmm.  Am I really going to get that much more out of meeting him in person. I decided to go to the gym, get a workout, and think about it.  I worked out, came back to my room, and noticed that my binder was not on the nightstand, where I usually put it.  I searched everywhere.  I went out to my car.  Not there either.  I looked for at least an hour.  Then I started taking inventory, in my head, of the valuable items, in my binder.  A cashier’s check for $2,500, from a real estate deal, I had in progress, and gift cards, totaling $500.  I had exactly $3,000 in my binder.  I told myself.  Okay, if I lost the binder, and the $3,000, it’s not the end of the world.  I’ll deal with it.  After more searching, I finally fell asleep.  I woke up the next morning, and somehow remembered exactly where I last placed my binder.  I found the binder, with all of the contents inside, including the cashier’s check, and gift cards.  The universe was telling me, I can afford the $3,000 to work directly with Jack Canfield.  So, I went online, and registered for Jack’s “Breakthrough to Success” seminar.  Ironically, it was the last day for the early registration bonus, which was VIP status.  VIP status meant, even more time, to spend with Jack!!

A Week of Learning, Exploring, and Sharing

I’ve been to many real estate seminars, but never a motivational seminar.  So, I really didn’t know what to expect.  The first night was only for the VIPs.  I got there early.  I spoke to some of the other VIPs.  One girl, I spoke with, had been to several motivational seminars.  A couple of them, were from Tony Robbins.  She told me that she really like the Tony Robbins seminars, however, that nobody got to meet, or spend time with Tony.  Tony was on stage, then escorted backstage by bodyguards.  Just after telling me that, she said “there’s Jack”.  I turned around.  And Jack Canfield is standing right behind me.  He was speaking to someone.  But, as soon as he finished, he warmly said hi, and greeted me.  I introduced myself.  Told him how he’s already impacted my life, and gave him my “The Life I Deserve” card.  He read my business card, “The Life I Deserve”, what a perfect name! I spoke with Jack briefly.  I noticed that the girl who was sharing, her motivational event experiences with me earlier, was waiting anxiously.  So, I graciously introduced Jack to her, and stepped away.

Broken Agreements

The next morning, we all met in a big hotel ballroom.  Music was playing.  And the Jack Canfield team gave us high 5’s as we entered.  Jack laid-out the logistics.  And had us sign to a list of rules, we would abide by.  “Arrive on time”, “Do all of the homework���, “Sit in a different seat, after each break”, “No alcohol (until the end of the week)”, “No new, major decisions within 2 weeks after course ends”, and several other commitments.  Jack explained each.  Different seat each time, to get us out of our comfort zone, and so we would do the exercises with different people each time.  Alcohol (even the prior day/night), can affect our focus.  And, no major decisions, for 2 weeks, because, in Jack’s words, people sometimes leave the course with a natural high.  Jack asks us to then sign the page.  Basically, it’s a contract.  Oh yeah, Jack also had us read every item out loud.  We then had to all stand, if we agree to play by the rules.  Jack walked around to see if anybody was not standing.  I’ve never experienced so many measures to have everyone keep their word.  A couple of days later, while everyone was seated, Jack asked people to stand if they had broken any rules.  I was surprised to see, that most of the attendees, stood.  Apparently, we all need to work, more diligently, on keeping our word.  I remained seated, at first, anyway.  But, then I began to review in my head, all that we promised.  Okay, we were supposed to think of 100 successes in our life.  I think I only wrote down about 60.  So I stood.  The lesson, if you give your word, keep it.  This will improve every aspect of your life.  Especially, with yourself.  We need to be able to tell ourselves that we are going to do something.  And follow through.  Broken promises, deteriorate relationships, and they also deteriorate your belief in yourself.

Silent Hug Process

Everyday began with different exercises, physically, and mentally, to get into a state, in which we could open up about our goals, challenges, self-image, and fears.  One great exercise, was the silent hug process.  I didn’t think I would get much out of this, since I do a lot of dancing, and I’m close with my family and friends.  However, Jack taught us how to hug.  Kinda seems silly, huh?  A lot of the exercises felt kinda silly, at first.  However, after years of acting and improv classes (earlier in life), I realized, sometimes you have to just let go.  Try the exercise.  In improv classes, I learned, if to don’t commit to the scene, it just feels awkward for everyone (you and the audience).  Back to the hugs.  Jack’s guidelines for hugs;  Left to left, so the hearts are closer aligned.  No talking.  No fidgeting.  Breathe.  Make eye contact for a couple of seconds after (instead of trying to quickly run away).  Okay, let’s give some hugs.  After about 10 minutes, you feel, an amazing amount of positive, loving, energy in the room.  It was a great way to start each morning.  It enabled us all, to feel a little more connected (which enabled everyone to share a little more).

E + R = O

Have you ever heard someone say, that person “made me mad”?  In reality, things happen, people do, or say things, we may not like.  However, it’s up to us, to decide how to process, whatever happens, or what is said.  Jack gives a great example of this.  He’ll pick on someone in the front row of his seminar.  For example, he might say, “Look at Susan here, can you believe her?  She’s dressed like she’s going to a picnic.  She’s not dressed for a seminar.  And boy, does she ask a lot of questions.  Is she even listening?”  After giving an example like this, Jack would then ask, “how many people think this would make the person feel bad?”.  People would raise their hands.  He would then tell them, it was actually a trick question.  Because, in this example, only Susan, has the ability to make Susan feel bad.  Susan could say, “I knew I should have dressed differently”.  And she could say “I guess, I’m asking questions, because, I’m the only one not getting the concepts”.  Or, Susan, could say, “Jack’s just picking on me, because he knows I”m confident.  I mean, look at me!  I’m in the front row.  And I ask questions, that other people are afraid to ask.  As a matter of fact, with the way he’s looking at me, I bet he has a crush on me”.

The secret formula here is E + R = O.  This stands for Event + Response = Outcome.  You see it’s not the event, alone, that determines the outcome.  It’s what Susan says to herself afterwards that determines the outcome.

That’s just a quick example of this powerful concept.  We will cover this more in future episodes.

Come As You Will Be

There were many great lessons.  And, I think everyone, became clearer on their life purpose, there goals, and the necessary actions, to get to those goals.  For me, the most powerful exercise was the “Come As You Will be Party”.  This was the final exercise, in which everyone, was to attend a cocktail party, as if we were 5 years, into the future.  As for the people, I talked with, at the Come As You Will Be Party, Phillipe-Franz was the most prepared.  He had a copy of his book.  The custom cover had great detail.  He was dressed in a tux.  And he discussed, in detail, how successful he was.  And, how he gives back, to the world.  I would provide more detail, on Phillipe-Franze, “Come As You’ll Be” image, but I was preoccupied.  In my mind, I was thinking, “maybe, my goals should be more aggressive?”.  So, where was I, for this, 5 years into the future, party?  I had sold over a million copies of my book “The Life I Deserve”.  I think Phillipe-Franz had sold 100 million copies of his book.  I speak internationally.  I was recently interviewed by Oprah Winfrey.  And, I’ve been invited to do a Ted Talk.  I have a 4,000 square foot house in Santa Barbara, CA.  Same town, as Jack.  How convenient.  As a matter of fact, we occasionally meet for lunch, and brainstorm on ways to help more people in the world.  Also, I have a 3,000 square foot house in Maui, where I frequently entertain family and friends. I travel the world, speaking, and training, on how to each person can achieve the life they deserve.  And, of course, teach some salsa dancing, while I’m at it!!  The “Come As You Will Be” party is powerful because we all have a mental image of ourselves.  And we do things unconsciously to support that image.  If you’re image, of yourself is 30 lbs overweight.  You will quickly get back to that weight, no matter how great the diet.  If you’re image, of yourself, is making $75,000.  It will be extremely difficult to ever make $100,000.  At the “Come As You’ll Be Party”, we spent about 2 hours, with an image, that we were each, very successful.  We talked in detail, about our businesses, investments, books, vacations, and philanthropic activities.  After the party was over, you want to take the actions to make it a reality!!

Rule of 5

Ever since, I listened to Jack’s “Self Esteem and Peak Performance” videos, years ago, I knew about the “Rule of 5”.  A simple concept.  In summary, we should each perform 5 actions, every day, to move us toward a breakthrough goal.  A breakthrough goal, would be a goal that would really impact your life.  A goal that would be so significant, that not only meeting it, would positively, influence your life, but also the pursuit of it, transforms you into a better person.  The “Rule of 5” is such a simple concept, that I overlooked how great it could work.  Normally, we think of our end goal, and we breakdown what needs to be done.  And set a date for each of those items.  The Rule of 5, however, forces you, if you are disciplined about it, to get things done every day.  It doesn’t matter if they are tiny steps.  The Rule of 5 works well, because it keeps the momentum going.  If you’re writing a book, for example, which happens to be my breakthrough goal, you must come up with 5 things you can do, toward that goal.  You could study someone’s work who you admire.  You could add some items to the outline for your book.  You could do a little research on one of those items.  And, at the end of the day, if you don’t have 5, you push yourself to come up with another item or two.  Since I took the “Breakthrough to Success” course, I’m happy to report, that I’ve been implementing the “Rule of 5” every day!!

BTS Summary

Overall, the Breakthrough To Success experience was great!!  I’ve learned many great skills from Jack, which have already made a huge impact on my life.

“The Success Principles” Book

I would highly recommend the “Breakthrough to Success” training.  If nothing else, at least buy Jack’s book “The Success Principles”.  Or, if you’re like me, and you’d rather have a narrator, with an amazing voice, read you the book, while driving, or on the treadmill, you can get the audio version instead.  I have Amazon links to both of these on “TheLifeIDeserve.com”.  Please use the links from “TheLifeIDeserve.com”, as they will provide me with a very small commission, which will help to support this show.  The price to you, is exactly the same, as going directly to Amazon.  I sincerely appreciate your support!!  :-)

Teaching is the Best Way to Learn

Since the Breakthrough To Success week, I’m happy to announce, that I’ve decided to become an official Jack Canfield trainer!  I’m very excited to be taking this journey!!  I’m confident that working with Jack, and his training program, will empower me with the tools and skills to be even more instrumental, in helping people discover their passion, set goals, overcome obstacles, and build a life that they deserve!!

Story

I’m going to leave you with a story that I heard Jack tell.  This story was part of my inspiration, to create “The Life I Deserve”.

Susanna Crowder was a homeless person, living on the street, in a city, in Ohio.  It was winter, and she was 8 months pregnant.  She didn’t feel that she had the capacity to take care of herself, much less, a newborn baby.  She was very depressed.  She was also not in a good mental state. She wasn’t taking her medication.  She would dig in dumpsters, for food.  She was basically, trying to survive long enough to give birth to the baby.  After that, she was planning to kill herself.  She had already planned to throw herself in front of a train, that came by, every day, at a certain time.  When it was really cold, she would seek shelter in the local library. The library would kick people out, if they weren’t reading, or buying books.  One day, she went into the library, to get out of the cold.  She walked by a table of books.  Susanna said, “I just grabbed one, and I went to a corner, where nobody would bother me”.  It happened to be the first “Chicken Soup for the Soul” book.  She randomly, opened the book to a story called “Puppies for Sale”.  It was a story, about a little boy, who saw a sign, outside of a store, that said “Puppies for Sale”.  The little boy went in, and asked to see the puppies.  The guy whistles to the back, and someone brings out the box of puppies.  The little boy said, “How much are you asking for the puppies?”.  The man replied “$20 to $50, depends on the dog”.  The little boy replied, “I’ve only got $3.28”, as he put all of his money, on the counter.  But I’ll pay you $.50 a week, until it’s paid in full.  The man asked, “Which puppy, do you want?”.   “I want that one”, the boy said, as he pointed to a puppy, who was limping.  The man said, “Oh, you don’t want that one. He has a damaged hip socket.  He’ll never be able to jump, run, and play, like the other puppies”.  “That’s the one I want”, the boy said.  “Kid, are you listening?  He’ll never be able to play like the others”, the man replied.  The little boy, continued, “That’s the one I want”.  The man replied, “Well, you can have that one for free”.  The little boy, said, “No, I want to pay full price for him.  That puppy is just valuable as the other puppies”.  The man replied, “Why would you want to pay full price, for that puppy?”.  At that moment, the boy reached down, to pull up his left pant leg, revealing his badly twisted left leg, which was in a brace.  “You see, mister, I figure that puppy is going to need someone who understands him”.  As Susanna, read that story, she got goosebumps, and said to herself, “If someone could love that puppy with his brokenness, perhaps someone could love me with my brokenness”.  And at that moment, she decided not to kill herself, at that moment, she left the library, and went to a mental health center, she got back on her medication.  In the course of a year, she got out of that situation, she got a job, she bought a house, she started something called “Soup Kitchens for the Souls” where she not only feeds people, but she teaches people the skills to become self-sufficient.  And she still runs her foundation, to this day.

That story resonates with me.  Did it resonate you?  If so, let me know.  Visit the “Contact” page on “TheLifeIDeserve.com”, to send me voicemail or email.  We all have the power to inspire, and make a difference, in someone’s life.  What difference will you make?

Okay, now time for something a little different.  What time is it?

It's Trivia Time

Jack Canfield holds the Guinness Book World Record, for having seven books, simultaneously on the New York Times, Bestseller List.  However, it took determination to get there.  In 1993, Jack Canfield and Mark Victor Hansen, approached publishers with the very first, “Chicken Soup for the Soul” book.  How many “no’s” did Jack and Mark get, before a publisher said “yes, I’ll publish your book”?

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That’s going to do it, for today’s show.  My mission, is to inspire and empower, those that I encounter, to live full and meaningful lives, by sharing lessons learned, tools for self improvement, and life-­changing perspectives.  I’m starting a journey.  A journey, to pursue a better me, to inspire a better you, and to help influence, a better world.  Subscribe to the Podcast, so we can take this journey together.

Closing

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