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[blueberrylovv]

I think it's important to set realistic goals for yourself during holidays. because of the nature of how my family celebrates I can't just say 'im not gonna èat or I'm gonna rèstr1çt heavily' because I know it won't work and then I'll feel bad and disappointed and like I'm good for nothing so here's a list of my realistic goals/rules for holidays that I know I can realistically stick to - maybe some of you could get inspired!

I also urge you to not get too ambitious! if you know you won't be able to stick to it then save yourself the disappointment, aiming too high when you don't have the means to achieve it will only do you more harm than good I promise. not progressing/regressing during this time is a norm for more people than you think, it's not the end of the world, you're not alone in it and we know you have tried your best

a list of realistic goals for the holidays break:

- do not accept any seconds, stick to èating only one portion

- try walking as much as you can - go on a walk around your neighbourhood if possible, if you have a dog volunteer to take them out/play with them to move around

- if you're craving sweets go for fruits instead of baked goods like cakes or cookies

- hydrate hydrate hydrate

- be mindful of your alçohoĺ consumption

- be mindful of your attitude towards others - when you're frustrated because of your èď it's so easy to turn nasty towards others please do not turn nasty or hateful towards others just because you're hurting

if you have any goals/rules for yourself please share them!

here we always say that how you end the old year is how the rest of your new one will look like - let's not end the old one being miserable about fòod so we won't curse ourselves to be miserable about it for the whole next year!

sending you all the best wishes, i hope you will be able to rest during the holidays and i hope everyone will remain healthy

with love bea <3

[blueberrylovv]

i think the most annoying aspect of ąń4 (for me at least) is people thinking you just simply dont ęat or that you dont like fó0d or dont care about it as if the reality wasn't the total opposite...

every waking moment i think about fó0d, i watch tiktoks of ppl có0king, of people owning and working at diners/restaurants, of office workers/school kids assembling their lunch trays, tiktoks like 'choose one' with different dishes or 'build your own lunch tray'. my instagram explore page is literally 50/50 split between inspo (b0dy or m3al) and posts like 'which dish are you based on...' or just straight-up aesthetic pictures of fó0d. i go to bed thinking about fo0d, i wake up thinking about fo0d, i exist between waking up and going to bed thinking about f0od. i plan my męałs in my head weeks ahead of time even tho i know by the time i get to them i will change my plans ten thousand times. i go to a store and i check the labels and do quick math in my head even tho i hate math and im bad at it but i learned to do it well just for this fucking d1sórdęr.

there's not one bit of nonchalance or apathy in this. it is a sad existence that borderlines obsession on good days and overtakes your whole life and makes you fight for survival on bad ones.

but yes sure 'i just dont like fó0d' whatever you say.

[blueberrylovv]

i love when there's a person in my notifications spamming likes/reblogs (which i adore so dw if you do that too!!!) and i never seen them before (bc i am insane and i check my notifications and i try to memorise people so if you interact with me regularly there's a big big chance i know you and i think fondly of you whenever you pop up in my notifications like a friend that drops by to say hi <3) i go OMG DID YOU JUST FIND ME DID YOU JUST FIND MY BLOG DO YOU LIKE IT ARE WE FRIENDS NOW WILL YOU FOLLOW ME NOW ARE YOU GONNA COME HERE OFTEN HI I SEE YOU AND IM SAYING HI TO YOU IN MY HEAD!!!

[blueberrylovv]

AM BACK!!!!

anyways hi hello I'm so sorry for being inactive for the past idk how long it all has been just oh so shitty and I was fighting for my life :') I am kinda still fighting for my life but ig I had some nice interactions recently, I started dressing up nicely every day, I am waking up around 6am every day even if my first class is at 9 or 11 and I have time to get ready in the morning (which is so unlike me I've always been last minute kinda gal waking up 10 minutes before I have to get out and stuff), I took 4 exams recently 2 for my Latin class and 2 for my German class and I got 100% in all of them so that provided some academic validation and motivation I needed.

ana has been kicking my ass, hate her so much rn... she came back, kicked down the door and said 'you're gonna be miserable now' and yeah I've been miserable alright. usually i don't mind when she comes back randomly bc usually I use her as motivation but this time she came back as 'you're not making any progress, you will never be able to achieve your goals do you even deserve fo achieve them blah blah blah' v nasty stuff hate it here but oh well I am pushing through ig...

but yeah I'm gonna get my ass back into posting here I think I would benefit from some creative output even if its just a board here and there

so sorry for people I've been ignoring I feel really about about it :c I'm gonna go through my notifications to check who @ me in the past couple weeks so I can respond to you even if it's v late :') also thank you to all the people who are still here and haven't unpfollowed me you're the best ill get back into interacting with you now <3

WATER REMINDER!

[blueberrylovv]

AMEN BROTHER

[blueberrylovv]

tomorrow a new month starts - however you did in september does matter now - if you did well take it as a challenge to do even better, if you did badly take it as an opportunity to make up for it - new month resets the board, the past you doesn't matter only the current you and the future you you're working on, dont let the slipups of september drag you down, dont let the wins of september make you fall into a false sense of security - new month, blank page, prove that you really want this

[blueberrylovv]

i can joke about it, poke fun at the situation but it's hard to put on a brave face when you know you're wasting your 20s sitting alone in your room, avoiding socialising, losing on friendships and relationships, slowly fading into the background just because you cannot stand the sight of yourself and even the idea of being seen makes you want to jump

[blueberrylovv]

I said in the groupchat that I feel like sh1t bc of my period and one of my friends ordered me f0òd to make me feel better :') I have no idea what tho I just got the tracking number so ik the delivery person is coming...

i want to be sad because I'll have to break my fãśt bc I think it is unfair for my kind friends if I ignore the fò0d they sent me but at the same time how could I be sad when I am being loved and taken care of

I think we all have to choose our battles and today I'm chosing to not be miserable and self-loathing but instead be grateful for the friends I have who want to show me they care about me in the way they think is the best (even if it crashes with my own goals)

I hope you (and me too because I know I'm guilty of it more often than I'd like to admit) can recognise that the people that seemingly hinder your progress don't do that out of malice but out of care, they aren't in your head they can't read your mind they don't know what you're going through all they see is a person who is struggling and needs help and for some people helping is making sure you êat somethig so you won't díe - as frustrating as it is at times they just want you to be okay, I don't think we are justified to be upset with them over that

[blueberrylovv]

your friendly reminder to maybe screenshot your fołlowińg/moots list just in case tvmbłr gets you so you can find your friends easier - with love, your friendly neighbourhood bea who got got 3 times already so she knows her shit <3

[blueberrylovv]

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if you work hard this could be your spring/summer/autumn/winter the vision boards:

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[blueberrylovv]

as the weather is getting gloomier and gloomier by the day please remember to implement supplements in your day to day life - vitamins D and C, iron, magnesium. remember to drink warm drinks like tea or just warm water with lemon slices if you don't like tea. and to moisturise your face/lips to protect it from harsh wind.

here it's been raining and raining and raining, the weather shifted and now we are truly well into autumn. its supposed to be warmer for a few days next week but after that it will be getting only colder and gloomier. if its also the case for you then remember to adjust to the weather accordingly - getting sick will only slow you down and make you feel terrible, let's take care of ourselves as much as we can to not deal with any more issues than we are already dealing with okay? <3

[blueberrylovv]

as a lot of us probably are preparing to celebrate holidays with our families I wish all of us smooth sailing through the holidays, I hope we won't have to deal with too much questioning at the dinner table and too much guilt, this is one of these hurdles you can't avoid you just have to get through it so let's try to not lose our minds over it

whatever you gain you will lose after the holidays it's not the end if the world

[blueberrylovv]

the contents of my fridge rn:

half of a zucchini

2 cartons of vanilla flavoured oat milk

opened brie cheese with a small slice missing

3 protein yoghurts (blueberry one, vanilla one, cappuccino one)

opened bottle of teriyaki sauce

1 bottle of apple juice

half of a cucumber

2 bottles of whiskey

3.5 red bell peppers

1 acai berry redbull

thank you for your attention

[blueberrylovv]

dont mind me just doing honey's polls in the morning like the newspaper's crossword

[blueberrylovv]

Dear Santa for Christmas I would like

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[blueberrylovv]

also mandatory follow my bąćkup post bc duhhhh

@blu3b3rryl0v

also stretch your body rn!!! stand up and stretch your neck, arms and legs!!! now!!!!