#bc i NEED to. like. the anxiety in particular is really bad and it's stopping me doing Most things
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dont-offend-the-bees Ā· 2 months ago
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Anyone else out here haunted by the unknowns of recovery?
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panspaming Ā· 4 days ago
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Don't mind me I'm giving myself therapy in the tags
#pan.txt#why can i like the idea of a particular ship dynamic in my head and then get triggered by it if i read someone else take on it#WHY CAN FAN WORKS TRIGGER ME FULL STOP absolute bizzare i don't get it#torn between doing exposure therapy for it and ir just Not Engaging bc like fucks sake dude why put urself through it#but idk!!!! it could be a good way of working through some of my hang ups#just very odd#i suppose it triggers me bc thinking about blorbos in my head is like the Safest Space#so when i see something that makes me feel Bad with them in it's almost like. anxiety twice over#i saw something that makes me feel gross that actively involves something that usually makes me feel happy#it's so odd bc it really is a Uniquely upsetting experience. i feel like it's somehow tapping into my ocd tendencies#i feel like it's somehow. some kind of creative insecurity#it is specifically fanfic that does it most frequently#and i'm kinda uncovering in therapy that i have a massive complex about the grand concept and contents of my stories being 'lesser' somehow#i feel bad that i 1) can't enjoy other peoples fics just bc it doesn't appeal directly to my tastes#2) feel bad about this at all?? like this is a bizarre thing to get upset about#but also like. what good am i doing getting worked up about a trigger?? i'm allowed to get triggered by Anything#anxiety is not logical or empathetic or academic#it's something i'd like to try to overcome#bc somehow. this feeling is connected to my inability to share my writing i can feel it#but right now i need to do something else or this is gonna turn into a compulsive thought loop lol
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brokebonewritings Ā· 2 years ago
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can you do one where reader hasnā€™t ever dated anyone, or gone on a date and kissed anyone before bc of anxiety and being shy, and somehow youā€™re friends with matt and the gang (maybe from law school? idk) and foggy and karen keep telling you matt likes you but you donā€™t believe it until he tells you himself, and then youā€™re at a loss for how to proceed since you have 0 experience šŸ„ŗšŸ‘‰šŸ»šŸ‘ˆšŸ»
My friend. Anything for you, especially since youā€™re my first request in a long time! So thank you so much! Hope you enjoy this little story šŸ¤
Sincerely, Anxiety.
Matt Murdock x reader
Tags/ Warning: Pure Cane Fluff
Word Count: 2.1K
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You sat quietly at the cafe booth you currently resided in. Waiting. Currently youā€™re waiting for your friends as they slowly filtered into the coffee shop. Karen joins you as she gets her coffee, the both of you catching up from the weekend. Foggy and Matt join 15 minutes later.Ā 
The lot of you sit around the table and talk about the previous week. Cases you are all working on, your families, dates. Not that you have been on any date. Your social anxiety was far too bad to do any of that.Ā 
ā€œOkay, well we have to know.ā€ Karen says. ā€œAre you and Marci getting back together?ā€ This was directed towards Foggy. His cheeks caught a tint of pink before he cleared his throat.
ā€œI mean, I donā€™t know. It was just a date.ā€ He replied.
You turn and give Karen a side eyed look before smiling. ā€œSo is there another date?ā€Ā 
ā€œYou guys suck you know that?ā€ Foggy mutters. ā€œYeah, weā€™re planning a second date.ā€
Matt lets out a small chuckle next to you, as you shake your head and take a sip of coffee. You stare at the way his eyes crinkle out of the side of his glasses. It makes your stomach fill with butterflies. Focusing on your cup a little too intensely, you realize Foggy had been calling your name after a few minutes.
ā€œHuh?ā€ You look up from the cup ā€œWhat happened?ā€
ā€œKaren asked how your date went?ā€ Foggy replied. Out of the corner of your eye you see Matt tense a bit. Karen noticed as well as Foggy. You sat in silence for a moment.
ā€œI didnā€™t go.ā€ You said quietly.
ā€œWhat?ā€ Matt said abruptly.Ā 
ā€œYeah, what?ā€ Karen cleared her throat, in confusion.
ā€œI just,ā€ You start, rubbing the back of your neck. ā€œI couldnā€™t bring myself to do it. I knew it would turn out bad.ā€
Now it was Foggy and Karenā€™s turn to look at each other in a knowing way. The dating conversation was dropped and everyone continued to finish their coffee. Once you are all determined to be done for the day you all part ways.
It was nice to see your friends almost daily. It helped that you all worked closely together. Karen, Matt and Foggy shared an office, and you worked right up the street in a PI office.Ā 
What wasnā€™t nice was torturing yourself by seeing Matt almost daily. Your hands were always clammy when you were near him. Heart beating slightly faster whenever you accidentally brush your hands. You really had it bad for Matt, and could you blame yourself? Yes, you always did blame yourself.
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You and Karen walk through Central Park on a leisurely stroll. It wasnā€™t too often that the both of you got to hang out, so when it did happen it was nice. You both giggle as you make fun of Foggy and Matt the previous night at Josies. They had been arguing over what had happened on a particular night in college.
ā€œWhat a great day for a picnic! This was a great idea!.ā€ Karen exclaimed.Ā 
ā€œRight? Iā€™m glad you were able to come.ā€ You smile warmly at her. ā€œEspecially without the boys.ā€
Stopping on the top of a small hill, you both begin setting up for your little lunch. It really was a nice day out. It was cloudy and the park wasnā€™t packed for once. The small basket was quaint, but nothing too fancy.
ā€œYou said you needed to talk to me about something?ā€ You asked after a moment. The both of you continue setting out small plates and cups. She looks up for a moment, pushing a strand of hair behind her ear before clearing her throat.
ā€œRightā€¦ā€ She starts. ā€œItā€™s about the other day at the coffee shop. Foggy and I noticed that Matt looked surprised when I mentioned the date.ā€
ā€œOh.ā€Ā 
ā€œYeah. Did you tell him about the date?ā€ She asks curiously. No. The answer was that simple. You didnā€™t know how to speak to Matt like a regular person. A big part of that was because you liked him. Another part was that you were too shy around him, and why would he be interested in someone that canā€™t even speak up at a bar.
ā€œI didnā€™t think he would react the way he did.ā€ You finally respond. Karenā€™s lips flattened, obviously she disapproved of your answer. You decide to ignore the look on her face as you pour the both of you a cup of lemonade.
ā€œYou know he likes you right?ā€ Her comment makes you spill a little juice on the blanket. ā€œWaitā€¦ did you not know?ā€
ā€œDid I not know?!ā€ You choke out. The reaction coming out of you was actually laughable. Honestly, how could you have known. The man likes to keep secrets, you knew he was good at it too. ā€œHe canā€™t possibly like me. Iā€™m definitely not his type.ā€
ā€œHeā€™s got it bad for you, y/n.ā€ She says. ā€œMaybe you should just shoot your shot.ā€
ā€œI donā€™t think he does though.ā€ You admit quietly. ā€œEven if he did the what if he rejects me?ā€
ā€œHe wonā€™t.ā€ She takes the small sandwiches out of the basket before putting one on a plate for you. ā€œHe talks about you constantly, and you know he doesnā€™t date anyone?ā€
ā€œHe doesnā€™t?ā€ You take the plate and hand her a small bowl of salad in return. ā€œNot even his infamous one night stands?ā€
Karen shakes her head and knits her eyebrows together. ā€œHe hasnā€™t spoke about that in a long time actually. Point is, heā€™s confided in Foggy about being smitten by you.ā€
The red tint on your cheeks didnā€™t hide the fact that you felt the same way. You very much were smitten by him too. However there was one thing that was holding you back. Your anxiety. How could possibly tell Matt that you felt the same way.
ā€œWait, why are you telling me this?ā€ You ask, and she snorts in response.
ā€œAre you kidding me? Foggy and I are kind of tired of the both of you dancing around each other.ā€
ā€œYou mean to tell me, that Mr. Confidence is anxious about telling me he likes me?ā€
She nods in response as she eats her salad. You focus on your own food for a moment before speaking up.
ā€œIā€™ve actually never been on a date before.ā€ You begin. ā€œAnd Iā€™ve never kissed anyone before.ā€
Karenā€™s head flies up as she stares at you with wide eyes. ā€œNo way!ā€
You blush and nod. It really was never your fault. Your people skills in High School were very limited. Even after you entered college they were limited. Working as a private investigator helped a little but not a lot.
ā€œI donā€™t even know where to begin in asking someone out.ā€ You admit.
She considers the statement for a moment. ā€œThen maybe we should come up with a plan.ā€
The smirk on her face says it all. For the rest of the picnic the both of you devise a scheme to tell Matt how you feel and a way to ask him on a proper date.
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The week had come and gone in a flash. You all gather at Josies for your Friday night rituals. Same Table, Same Drinks, and Same People. Karen quickly takes a seat next to Foggy, which leaves you to sit next to Matt. You set your drink down before sliding into the chair. Matt looks over and smiles at you.
ā€œHey.ā€ He says softly.
ā€œHi Matt.ā€ You reply in the same tone. A blush slowly rises from your neck. The smile he gives you makes the butterflies that were in your stomach migrate to your chest. The warmth of his body sitting next to yours was comforting.
Throughout the night, everyone laughed and drank the woes of the work week away. Liquid confidence crawls through your vein, and once you have gotten enough of it you look at Karen and nod at her.
ā€œOh hey Matt! Y/n had something at their apartment for you!ā€ Karen says abruptly changing the current topic. He raises an eyebrow before turning to face you.
ā€œWhat would that be?ā€ He asks curiously.
ā€œOh. Well, just a late Easter gift.ā€ You stutter. ā€œYouā€™re still catholic right?ā€
Matt lets out a loud laugh which makes you smile. ā€˜Take a breathā€™ you tell yourself.
ā€œYeah, I guess I am still Catholic.ā€ He replies. ā€œWhy donā€™t we go now. Itā€™s getting a bit late.ā€
You nod, and give Karen and Foggy a smile. Of course in good Nelson manner, the other man gives you a thumbs up. Karen winks and mouths a quick ā€˜Good Luckā€™ before you and Matt stand and make your way out of the bar.
It's crisp outside. Not enough to need a jacket, but you could tell that summer was quickly turning into autumn. You both walk mostly in silence, besides the little jokes you both made to each other. It was crazy to think that the pining was mutual between you two. Outsiders could look and think you were already in a comfortable relationship.Ā 
Once you arrive at your apartment, you open the door and allow the both of you to enter. Setting your stuff on your counter, you offer Matt a glass of water. Happily he takes it and sit at your kitchen table.
ā€œWait right here a moment.ā€ You say before disappearing into your room. Closing the door behind yourself, you lean against and take a big breath. Like you had been holding it in for ages.
You walk over to your small desk and retrieve the gift you had actually bought the day before. It was a small little box with a letter inside. Written in braille of course. Underneath the letter was a ticket to a candlelight orchestra.
Taking another deep breath, you step out from your room and head straight for Matt. He is waiting patiently in the same place he was before.
ā€œHappy Easter, Matty.ā€ You say quietly before handing him the small box. He grins as he takes it, opening it slowly.
His fingers gracefully take the letter out of the box before he sets it on the table.
ā€œBraille?ā€ He cocks an eyebrow. You nod.
ā€œI wrote it myself.ā€ A small smile forms on your face. Turns out learning how to read braille was hard. You had started it as a hobby a few years prior, and it finally came in handy.
Setting the paper on the table. His fingers glide over the page. You can see the smile growing on his face. Once he finishes reading your note, he turns his head in your direction. Anticipating his answer you forget to breathe.
ā€œYou like me?ā€ He says shakily.
ā€œYeah, Matt. I really do.ā€ You say with the rest of your breath.
His hand stretches out towards you and you grab his in return. You were shaking from the anxiety building up. He chuckles lightly when he feels the small tremors.
ā€œAnd you want to go on a date with me?ā€ You nod after his question.
ā€œOnly if you want to.ā€ You let out.
ā€œOf course I want to.ā€ He says. ā€œIā€™ve wanted to for a long time.ā€
ā€œYou did?ā€ The realization was settling on your face. Karen had been telling the truth after all.
ā€œYeah and you know what Karen told me?ā€Ā 
ā€œHm?
ā€œThat you have never been on a date.ā€ He grins. ā€œAnd never been kissed.ā€
You were going to kill her. Thatā€™s on you though, she was the reason you were asking Matt out anyways. Your cheeks burned bright red as you stared at him.
ā€œYouā€™re gonna be the death of me, Matt Murdock.ā€
ā€œMe? Or will it be your anxiety?ā€ He quips.
ā€œTouche.ā€
The night went on until the sun came up. It was the longest conversation you had ever mustered the courage to have with him. Nothing was awkward about it either. It was like you both had been friends forever, which was somewhat true. Maybe this was the start of a huge stepping stone in your life.Ā 
Matt didnā€™t seem to be bothered by your anxiety anyways. He always knew how to get around the minefields in your head. That's what drew you to him to begin with. Hopefully the first date would turn into more. You could only hope.
Secretly you thanked Karen for the way she helped you ask Matt out. Maybe all you needed was that one simple push. When he finally decided to go home, he wouldnā€™t let go of your hand. It was like he had become attached to you.
ā€œI promise Iā€™ll call you later.ā€ He says
ā€œOr maybe we can get some coffee once you do wake up?ā€ You suggested.
ā€œItā€™s date then.ā€
ā€œOkay fine. Itā€™s a date.ā€ You say with a smile pushing him out your door.
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sanderssidesthehouse Ā· 3 months ago
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Casual observer of your gradual slip into obsession with Anxceit so I'm wondering if we could get your shipinions? (For the ask meme.)
I would love to give my shipinions!
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I actually wasn't that into them until I started making those playlists (master post, anxceit link), but now I can't stop myself. There's just so much, so many possibilities, and no answers to be had (yet).
They are currently exes to me. It could be healthy, it could be toxic, it could be left in the past. Something I've said before that I think it sums it up well: "Maybe it's about what was. Maybe it's about what could have been. Maybe it's about what is. Maybe it's about what could never be."
All I know is that it's devastating and tragic but also has the potential to be the most beautiful love story you've ever seen. And if not, I'm a fan of toxic yaoi, too. I literally can't lose.
Another quote from me: "I absolutely need to know what Virgilā€™s deal with Janus is and if itā€™s anything like my theories bc there are so many ways that could go, all of which being angsty and fun. Like did Virgil assume something and spiral? Could Janus not manage to tell the truth when it was important? Was it a single incident or many? I am unwell about them."
I think it would be amazingly angsty if after all this time they still knew each other best. Like maybe they don't know each others current favorite foods or movies, but they know each others deepest fears and how to calm each other down and what each others most formative moments were. I like the idea of them having deeply entrenched history.
They are prime for 'bad thing happens and suddenly you're the person I turn to and it's different now but I never stopped loving you and we'll have to work through that all later, but for now please just hold me' or 'we still have a lot to unpack but I trust you with this thing that is important to me bc I know you can and will do it'.
Them both having protecting roles is very interesting and it would make so much sense if that's why they had a falling out in the first place. I explored one possibility of what that would look like in Why Do I, excerpt here: "The thing about Deceit- Janus- Self Preservation, whatever you wanted to call him, was that he had one singular agenda: Make sure Thomas gets what he needs and then what he wants, regardless of who he has to cut through to do it. And so, once upon a time, Virgil ended up with a knife in his back."
A second excerpt: "And whenever something happening to Thomas would make Virgil freak out, Janus would have Thomas lie it away." I wrote while thinking about how lying can affect anxiety and Anxiety. When you lie, there's always the chance of getting caught, which can potentially be more stressful than the thing you lied about, and if you get caught too many times, it's the boy who cried wolf which would also be a very anxiety inducing situation bc what if you really need someone to believe you?
There's also the fact that this would increase avoidant behavior. Janus CANNOT defer to Virgil if he wants to keep c!Thomas safe bc long term that would be disastrous to his health. Sometimes things that are good for you are scary. But this in particular is related mostly to their jobs so they shouldn't be taking it personally, especially since 'dark' sides know better than anyone that they can't help what their jobs are, they just have to do them.
I feel like I'm just going to end up talking a really long time only to end up no where, so I'll end this here, but absolutely ask me specific questions if you want to know what I think bc I have so many thoughts.
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aroace-poly-show Ā· 1 year ago
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HELLO OMG im so intrigued about hw actually and you have been talking about hw ruinene in particular so can i ask about what their history is like. what is their relationship currently. how are they doing. sorry if this question is a bit vague i can always reword it if needed!
FIRSTLY. THANK YOU OH MY GOD iā€™ve honestly been worried iā€™ve been too annoying about them dlkjfhjs BUT YAYYY SOMEONE IS INTERESTED YAHOO
anyway this is got SO FUCKING LONG so ramble is gonna be under the cut:
so to answer your question, the short answer is that theyā€™re doing bad :D!! this is a nightcord/wxs swap after all.
for context in this swap au, rui was able to join neneā€™s theater group when they were younger!! nene wouldnā€™t join unless rui was allowed to as well, so begrudgingly the members let him join despite not liking him much bc they thought nene would be a good member. rui didnā€™t really want to join either, cause he could tell the members didnā€™t like him much, but nene really wanted him to and since didnā€™t want to stop her from joining, he agrees to it.
rui and the troupe donā€™t get along too much but theyā€™re willing to deal with him to keep nene around and ruiā€™s pretty content being able to do shows with nene. until nene has that fuck up on stage moment like she does in her canon past, but its made worse when rui tries to stand up for her. picture the wxs main story fight. something like that.
unfortunately the member rui ends up arguing with gets all up in ruiā€™s face and provokes him into shoving them. the guy isnā€™t seriously injured or anything but that doesnā€™t matter much because now they have fuel for rumors to spread about him, that they knew they never should have let that weirdo kid join, they always knew he would hurt someone, etc, stuff like that. but neneā€™s involved too now!! given that she was his friend and ends up being the only one to stick around with him, rumors spread around her as well since not only did she ruin their show, she also hangs out with ā€œthat weirdo kid,ā€ so sheā€™s probably just as weird and dangerous. so theyā€™re both stuck in this together throughout middle school. how fun :)
neneā€™s stage fright and social anxiety after that is fucking godawful. she canā€™t bring herself to sing anymore despite wanting to SO fucking badly, so she turns to composing as a hobby. she sort of takes on kanadeā€™s role as the shut-in composer. girl is completely petrified of leaving the house. rui still makes robo-nene for her, so she doesnā€™t have to leave the house if sheā€™s too scared to and can use it to go run errands or something with rui as company. my girl has so much self loathing in her about what happened and berates herself a lot. thinks of herself as horribly pathetic and cowardly. also so much guilt i will get into in a minute
rui meanwhile is really discouraged from doing shows after that. discouraged feels too light for it tbh. he still loves shows dearly but (pre main story at least) he is like. so convinced he wonā€™t ever be able to and shouldnā€™t even try connecting with people after that. because if all his attempts are only going to lead to him and other people getting hurt, whatā€™s the point? heā€™ll always be the weirdo kid no one trusts, and he knows he canā€™t do shows alone, and heā€™s kinda accepted that heā€™ll just be forever be lonely and isolated, aside from having nene with him. but thatā€™s not rlly comforting to him bc of how guilty he feels about dragging her down with him.
speaking of which: time to bring up their mutual guilt!! good fucking lord they both have so much guilt inside them and despite how deeply they care about each other neither of them have ever heard of communicatingā€¼ļø they are both fully convinced they are at fault for what happened.
nene hates herself bc she feels like she pressured rui into joining, for messing her moment, for not being able to stand up for herself, for making rui do it for her and leading to what happened, and then STILL being so much of a coward that rui has to defend her throughout middle school. she feels like a burden to him and feels so so horribly guilty about it. he made a whole goddamn robot for her because of how scared she is to leave the house anymore after the harassment and she feels she does nothing for him in return.
rui on the other hand feels horribly guilty for making a stupid decision in the heat of the moment and dragging neneā€™s reputation down with his. he thinks if he hadnā€™t been there, if nene had never been friends with him, nene would never have gotten so much harassment. he thinks he deserves it all, but nene doesnā€™t. heā€™s really protective of her and took most of the heat when the harassment was really rough. heā€™s fully convinced he did this to her, that itā€™s his fault and the very least he could do for her is try to help her as much as he can. this is nightcord wxs so of course he wants to disappear but rui doesnā€™t less because he thinks nene would miss him and doesnā€™t want to make her sad (he cares so so much about her but broā€™s convinced she should resent him for doing this to her, cause he definitely feels that way about himself) and more bc in his head, itā€™d be fucking shameful of him to try to take the easy way out. like, how dare he leave nene like that, when heā€™s the one that did this to her. how dare he abandon her when this entire situation is his fault.
neneā€™s also been the closest one to ever actually disappearing. she berates herself a lot for being too much of a coward to actually do it, to free rui of the burden that is her. she wants to both bc of the amount of guilt and self loathing she has but also just. feels really lost and aimless. like her dream was to be an actress, but she can barely leave the house anymore, so how is she even supposed to do that? like. sheā€™s tired of living the way she does as a shut in. but at least she has music. she finds comfort in composing.
theyā€™ve clearly stayed friends through it all, and they both care so so much about each other, but thereā€™s a sort of wall between them after everything. they still tease each other and hang out together since theyā€™re neighbors, and try to pretend everythingā€™s stayed the same between them. they get better at not being so closed off to each other!! eventually!! but god starting odd neither of them EVER open up to each other. thereā€™s rui who struggles to identify his own feelings in the first place and nene who doesnā€™t want to bother rui but generally they both just have the mindset of ā€œi canā€™t trouble them more than i already have.ā€
when nene starts composing, ruiā€™s really really happy for her. like he sees how miserable sheā€™s been so her finally finding something she seems interested in makes him really really happy. and later once the group is fully formed, being able to do music videos makes him happy too. itā€™s not quite the same as doing shows obviously, but heā€™s happy heā€™s able to tell stories one way or another.
guhh. i hope this made sense and didnā€™t contradict too much. iā€™m probably missing stuff. thatā€™s all the coherent stuff for now though. these horribly sad clowns who have never communicated in their livesā€¦iā€™m insane about themā€¦
anyway, a few miscellaneous facts about them:
nene is fucking ruthless online, especially when it comes to people even being slightly mean to rui.
nene switched to home schooling since middle school, after rui graduated from it.
rui picked out their online aliases, tako (octopus) and kurage (jellyfish). he likes sea animals and thought itā€™d be funny. nene did not seem to find it funny, but she kept the one he chose for her anyway.
ruiā€™s also gotten really good at video games since heā€™s played them with nene for so long.
they stay over at each others houses quite a bit, and as they learn to not be so closed off to each other, staying over happens a lot more. if one of them feels like shit, all one of them needs to do is just text the other and no matter how late it is, the other will already be prepared with some spare blankets and maybe a few snacks. they might not always talk, but itā€™s comforting being in the presence of the other.
they came out to each other as aroace during a sleepover back in middle school. it really just went like:
ā€œhey, rui?ā€ ā€œyeah?ā€ ā€œi think iā€™m aroace.ā€ ā€œoh. me too actually, i think.ā€ ā€œoh. okay.ā€
nene got to know mizuki a little bit, since she stayed close to rui during middle school. he introduced them to each other, nene still keeps in touch with them.
they have a hobby of trying new cup noodle flavors and combos together. they have a tier list and everything.
they both get anxious about arguments, but nene especially gets really panicky and nervous.
judas by abuse is hw core hw rui in particular. but thereā€™s good lines that make me think of nene in there too. feel free to ask me for that ramble itā€™s been living in my brain
feel free to ask more stuff iā€™m more than happy to ramble
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maygranted Ā· 2 years ago
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I saw your post about Buck being OCD-coded! Can you please say more?? Iā€™ve always read him as being ADHD-coded and Iā€™d love to hear more!
omg ofc iā€™d love to! i do apologise for how long this post is going to be šŸ˜­
so to start off, this all began bc my friend (who has adhd) really related to buck and i (who has ocd) also really related to him so we were like hmm wait a secondā€¦ adhd AND ocd???
anyway i think one part of him thatā€™s just v ocd coded to me (but also definitely is in combination with rsd from his adhd) is how he tends to catastrophise situations. like he has such severe abandonment issues to the point where he actively obsesses over it, hereā€™s an example !!!
BUCK: Starts out small. Uh, she's-she's canceling plans. She's got to work. She needs to wash her hair or do her laundry, and before you know it, poof. Dropping them off at the airport and never seeing them again.
HEN: Okay, Buck, you're being a little too Buck about this.
like itā€™s just a very irrational line of thought and u can see how hen says oh youā€™re being a little too buck abt this bc itā€™s common for him to exaggerate situations he obsesses over in his mind. and then in turn to alleviate this anxiety somehow he begins to cling bc all his irrational thoughts are telling him that people will leave
and then ofc thereā€™s the situation where after chimneyā€™s left he feels so heavily responsible for it (responsibility ocd ) to the point where he says heā€™ll leave the 118. like thatā€™s such an irrational line of thought that his mind has catastrophised from obsessing over it.
and then also the tsunami episodes <3 like ofc he feels responsible for chris itā€™s a normal response but the way he actively obsesses over losing chris and that that makes him a terrible person and he has such severe guilt over it is just v moral ocd and responsibility ocd to me? so he searches for chris to the point where heā€™s severely dehydrated and bleeding and he still doesnā€™t stop thatā€™s just a v obsessive thing to me does that make sense??
hereā€™s an explanation of hyper-responsibility related to ocd, which btw sounds very buck coded to me:
But what happens when someone overestimates their responsibility? What happens when someone feels that they can control things that they cannot actually control? These feelings might even seep into relationshipsā€”feeling like they can control how someone else feels, or feeling that they are responsible for making everyone happy or content. This can create people-pleasing patterns and make them constantly feel the need to put othersā€™ needs in front of their own. This can look like saying yes to things they do not want to do but feel they need to do, lest someone get upset with them. Or, they may think, ā€œIf I donā€™t do this, then something bad might happen.ā€ [ā€¦]
Anxiety and guilt are often at the root of an inflated sense of responsibility. The person with OCD thinks of all the possible repercussions of not acting in a particular scenario. They feel guilty for possible negative outcomes, often engaging in magical thinkingā€”believing that their ideas, thoughts, actions, or other things can impact the world around them. This results in compulsions, which can take on many different forms; for some, it may involve very detailed rituals they feel they must perform to prevent something very specific from occurring. For others, it may be a vague need to do something ā€œjust in caseļæ½ļæ½ or to feel like everyone will be safe.
and then ofc thereā€™s my gifset where heā€™s developed a compulsion bc heā€™s scared heā€™s still in a coma so he has a list of things he checks </3
anyway i feel like a huge part of this is definitely also projecting bc i personally struggle with moral ocd and responsibility ocd and a lot of guilt bc of that but itā€™s just something iā€™ve noticed a lot with buck, how his mind is constantly jumping to the worst, most irrational conclusion (and irrationality IS a huge part of intrusive thoughts) and so in turn he either feels the need to fix it (bc itā€™s HIS responsibility in his mind!) by distancing himself bc heā€™s the problem or clinging. trying to fix something that isnā€™t even a problem that needs fixing or isnā€™t even ur responsibility to fix is just a very ocd coded thing to me <3 and i think a lot of this is definitely more related to mental compulsions which a lot of people donā€™t really know abt and instead assume ocd is just the stereotypical compulsions (washing hands, organising etc which ARE ofc things that happen but itā€™s not just that!) so he v much falls into that ā€œirrational thought / obsessionā€ ā€”> anxiety, uncertainty, guilt ā€”> compulsion (trying to fix shit, apologising, reassurance) cycle u see with ocd.
i hope this made sense somehow and ty for asking, as u can see i love talking abt this :)) also itā€™s absolutely ok to disagree with me on this, itā€™s just something i personally noticed and really identified with due to my own ocd, i just hope i did a good job of explaining it!
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toxicanonymity Ā· 1 year ago
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You once said something about the incongruity between how you might feel about a particular Joelkemon and how popular he is. How do you manage the anxiety that the next chapter of a story might not be what you wanted it to be? I'm juggling three or four series and someone said they liked one (holy shit! Someone else liked it! Tee hee) of them and asked me for a part two (which I was gonna do anyway) but now I'm writing it and it's killing me that this might not be as good or as well characterized (and maybe I just needed to toss this into the brothel where my man NW can share with me a new strain and we can fuck the publishing-day scaries away).
Also no, I don't think my regular writing has such Thomas Hardy-esque (read fucking long ass) sentences lol. Actually, if you need to call me something...that... Thomas Hardy-esque. I probably deserve that lmao.
LMAO night walks has a strain for everything.
Ok Thomas Hardy anon, I'll let you in on my secret, which is having a pretty bad track record at predicting what will and won't be a hit, to the point where anxiety about it is meaningless. IDK how many times I've thought "this is too much, no one's gonna be into this lol oh well" and people were more into it than other stuff. or "why am I ruining this with ___ and i cant stop myself?" and I still did it bc it felt right for the character and the ___ is like people's favorite part. On the flip side there have been follow-up fics where I thought it was hot but it felt like most people just stopped reading the series lol like night walks late night dip (but he kinda recovered with the next one). I guess it's most important that it feels right to you. I know if I don't like something I can scrap/start over or overhaul it into one I really like before sharing. And if it's just not happening, maybe he doesn't wanna be written, the key thots might come easier some other time, like when I least expect it and often when I'm trying to work on something else šŸ˜ but then it feels so right šŸ¤”
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chelseasdagger Ā· 7 months ago
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i'm not sure if you're a taylor swift fan or not but i was just scrolling my dash and someone asked the question of whether 'tolerate it' by her was matt or frank-coded. and i was thinking about it and it's giving... like if frank from your teacher series and reader had some angst, like they had some relationship problems like, 'i wait by the door like i'm just a kid' / 'you're so much older and wiser' / 'if it's all in my head tell me now, tell me i've got it wrong somehow' (bc reader seems to be like anxious (so me)). it all screams them if their relationship went wrong, ALSO 'i made you my temple, my mural, my sky' reader i feel like ADORES frank an insane amount and if that relationship ended badly?? god she would be SO HURT
anyway, i just had the thought in my head and needed to share <3 (sorry)
i just so happen to be a taylor swift fan and i need you to know that you NEVER have to apologize for coming to talk to me through here and ESPECIALLY never when itā€™s about my fics, i adore any and all feedback/ideas when it comes to my stories!!
iā€™ll also have you know that tolerate it is one of my FAVORITE songs sheā€™s written but i canā€™t listen to it often because i cry every time. as someone who over analyzes and has so much emotion and knows deep down that iā€™ll never receive the same amount of love as i give out that song HITS so hard and iā€™m a big ball of mess when that song comes on but i never have the strength to stop it!!
but ruby iā€™m actually sitting here about to cry cause i cannot believe you took something so beautiful and related it to my silly little story šŸ„ŗ i adore that song and i feel like that would fit them SO well should something bad happen between them. those lyrics you pointed out in particular are a really good highlight to readerā€™s anxiety when it comes to the whole thing, something i wanted to still keep a thread of throughout the series because sheā€™s supposed to be like me and be crazy anxious. iā€™m glad sheā€™s relatable, but i also hate that you know the feeling
reader definitely has feelings for frank and this next chapter iā€™m only going to turn the dial up some more. i kinda expected her to fall hard and fast (like me) and then have her try to struggle with calming herself down, and beginning all the questions of if frank cares about her that way or not. iā€™ve wanted to do some angst in this story, cause i adore the feeling my heart gets when i read really great angst fics, but i just am such a crybaby i donā€™t wanna have my characters sad CKSKDKSK i hope i can sprinkle in some low-stakes angst that a few friends had recommended i try out to cause tension but not do too much harm
but oh my gosh, you have no idea how high of a compliment this is to me. i adore that song, i adore taylorā€™s writing and i want to be able to tell stories and phrase things like she does when i grow older :ā€™) thank you SO so much for sharing, this has been the highlight of my week. i love you šŸ©µ
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shkika Ā· 2 years ago
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I'm starting to think this is making yur wrist WORSE with all the typing /lhj also also also type as long as you'd like its so fun reading it all
Anyway that makes a lot of sense actually like.,.,,..wow man rainworld is really?? Sad when you think about it god
I wonder if moon felt any sort of obligation to be how she was towards fp aside from being the big sister etc, like maybe bc he was built to like carry her population something like that I think its silly how she spoke so badly of the ancients but then when fp ends up doing something she's so much more like understanding I guess it shows how much she does really care
Maybe her anger is driven more towards what she could have done herself alongside being mainky the ancients..She seems the type imo like......maybe she should have started the communications faster or maybe if she had done more he wouldnt have felt the need to work with the rot in the first place or maybe that she didnt even really figure something was terribly terribly wrong in the first place?? Itd be cool I think if she was only so patient with fp actually like...... she was faster to stop forgiving with other iterators or anything really, but I think as you said way earlier she'd just be a little passive aggressive or something and that'd be enough for her probably
I COMPLETELY FORGOT ABOUT THE ROT BEING GOSSIP MATERIAL that must've messed pebbles up like so so SOO bad. Like first off he failed he did what he never wanted to do and then it just gets spread around?? As conversation?? Like wow. Wow wow wow thanks I guess. Ok.
Speaking of suns too I wonder do they regret telling pebbles (someone highly impressionable at this point in time and someone looking for ADVICE) the whole bug situation, like it feels as if they were kind of just venting out some of their own frustrations rather than truly truly meaning it but then again suns is such an odd creature why are you so mean to this guy he looks up to you so much be NORMAL
On a much lighter note though his intrigue(special interest/j) with the history and like poetry the ancients had is so silly I think I wonder would he have ever rambled about it to others like more in depth than what he tells artificer
Hopefully not!! I really need these lazy hands to work!! bahah
Iā€™m having fun youā€™re aall good ^^
I have a lot of hcs about Moon Iā€™d like to explore in an ask blog I hopefully open soon >> especially her relationship with ancients, her group and five pebbles in particular hoopefully. Sheā€™s a really mild person, because of the way she carries herself, but has a lot to her character. At least I like to hc her that way!
She does feel responsibility over Pebbles, but I doubt she ever blames herself for the situation which they ended up in. I also doubt the responsibility felt forced to her!
Or well I at least enjoy the hc that she loves thinking herself as a big sister! She likes to dote on people and help out when she can. Though her approach does end up being one where she holds your hand a lot (not for proud iterators oops!!!!)
Also passive agressive moonā€¦? yesā€¦. just yes. we deal with anger by looking at you wrong bahahah
The rot was gossip material it is very upsetting!! but a little funny! Not to mention how iterators reffered to Pebbles I found myself snickering. ā€œThe near Looks to the Moonā€ like alright sheesh. People also tried to contact poor Pebbles i think! Not just his local group! Imagine how stressful that is.
Suns feels like that one nihilistic atheist guy with a big ego who overshares his opinions a lot and thinks the world sucks and has like unchecked anxiety.
But thatā€™s probably just me hehe. I think Suns and Pebbles had fun being hateful little goons and then Srs dropped his depressing opinions which.. arenā€™t even fully wrong. Isnā€™t it sad. Pebbles ended up exactly in the way which srs described. Something he was so afraid of he gave himself the rot over </3
Suns is a silly goon to me. A critter I contain in my jar.
And yes!! Iā€™d love to know what more Pebbles has to say about art and culture! Mmmm more content please yum yum!! His painting analysis was super cute.
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ladytauria Ā· 11 months ago
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hey liv sorry in advance i am nosy
šŸ“šŸ‡šŸ§ƒšŸŖšŸ¬šŸ¦·šŸ¦‹šŸ¦“šŸŖ²
dont be sorry! i enjoy nosy uwu
šŸ“ ā‡¢ how did you get into writing fanfiction?
hmm
i was 12. my favorite tv show at the time was this old disney cartoon, "super robot monkey team hyper force go" (abbreviated as SRMTHFG or SRMTHG. i prefer the first but plenty of people use the second.) it was canceled after its 4th season and, uh. the ending was SO bad. like, major major cliffhanger.
anyway, i was looking up... i don't even remember at the time. and i discovered deviantart, and i discovered this person's OCs. read a lot about them, including some fanfic, and then eventually discovered fanfiction.net
i didn't realize what it was at first; i thought it was just a writing in general site? and i was like oh! i can share the book i'm working on! (i have been trying to write a novel since i was 10). and then as i was looking into where i would post it, i realized what it actually was. (no, the title didn't give it away. idk why.)
so then i was like oh!!! this is really cool actually!!! and i wrote my first fanfic xD
that was in 2011? so i was 12, almost 13.
and i've been reading & writing fic ever since~
šŸ‡ ā‡¢ do you prefer writing original characters, reader inserts, or a mix of both?
okay so this is a tough question
bc like
i love love love love love second person.
like.
*adore* it.
second person, present tense is my absolute fave, but past tense is good too. (i have written an entire sapphic little mermaid retelling [12k words i think] in second person. uh, it needs revisions but it's a full draft. i opened it it the other day and im still so proud of it uwu)
howEVER. outside of writing second person w/o ever explicitly naming the pov character i have not actually written a reader-insert? so for that reason alone i will have to say 'prefer writing oc's'
šŸ§ƒ ā‡¢ share some personal lore you never posted about before
uhh
hm
i'm a chronic oversharer (mostly in the tags) so that's kind of tough!
ah! since my grandmother's memory issues started, i've been doing about half of the cooking (it's been a bit of a battle, as she keeps trying to do everything xD) and i've cooked a lot of new things this year!! i've gotten very good at cooking pork chops. which šŸ¤” now that i bring that up, i might make friday! or tonight, but they're still in the freezer, so...
šŸŖ ā‡¢ name three good things going on in your life right now
my grandmother's memory situation has improved a lot!! it's still not great, but like. strides ahead of where we were 7-8 months ago!
my anxiety has been much kinder to me this year <3 i've made some very lovely friends this year~
mmm, oH, my energy levels have been fantastic this year. i didn't realize just how bad they had gotten until i started these new meds, and now i'm just. <333 much better.
šŸ¬ ā‡¢ post an unpopular opinion about a popular fandom character
hm
idk if i have any unpopular opinions...? i mean. i'm sure i must, but... nothing immediately comes to mind ^^;
šŸ¦· ā‡¢ share some personal wisdom or a life hack you swear on
hmmm
recently been trying to get in the habit of summarizing what i want to do before i start writing. it makes the process much easier, if ik a bit about what i want to do before going in?
šŸ¦‹ ā‡¢ share something that has been on your heart and mind lately
i am much better at being patient than i ever gave myself credit for in the past <3
šŸ¦“ ā‡¢ is there a piece of media that inspires your writing?
i can't think of one piece in particular, as the places i find inspiration are. all over the board?
šŸŖ² ā‡¢ add 50 words to your current wip and share the paragraph here
picked a wip from my open tabs at random! funnily enough this is also the one i ended up doing for the emoji ask xD
it's also almost triple what this asked for but once i started writing i couldn't stop <3
He swallows, staring up at Tim. Jason has had plenty of practice reading people through a domino, but. He has no reference for the look Tim is giving him now. Only that itā€” That the feeling it gives him isā€¦ is new and strange. He has no name for it, the way his stomach feels fluttery and tight, his scalp and fingers tingling. His mouth opensā€”but all that escapes is a stuttery puff of air. Thatā€™s okay. He doesnā€™t know what he was going to say anyway. Tim hooks a gloved finger under his chin; tipping his face up. He leans in, slowlyā€”so slow that Jasonā€” Thereā€™s nothing keeping him there. He could run. Turn away. But he feels caught, feet anchored in place. Timā€™s mouth touches his, and all thought leaves him. Jason has never been kissed before.
[ writers truth or dare ask game ]
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ninasbooknook Ā· 8 months ago
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vent post šŸ«¶šŸ¼ (tw skin picking, ocd, anxiety, mention of blood)
2 weeks ago i started taking adhd medication. this is my first time on this type of medication so i expected some new side effects but i feel like my mental health has changed sort of drastically since i started taking them. i have had a past of OCD traits but i have never been tested. i have an anxiety disorder and i havenā€™t been fully diagnosed but i am taking medication for that and my depression.
so my anxiety has spiked since taking the adhd medication. before the medication i was actually doing really well with anxiety and depression. i hadnā€™t had that general anxiety feeling in a long time. and then it came back. yk that feeling where you feel anxious/worried but you donā€™t have anything in particular that youā€™re worried about? thatā€™s what i mean by ā€œgeneral anxiety feelingā€. so that was one of the first signs of my anxiety spiking bc it was just there. i could sense it. next was the nausea. i have different feelings of nausea and i have been able to label all of them over the years. the nausea i have been feeling is my well known anxiety nausea. again, there was nothing making me worried. although i was starting to get a little worried around this time because i was really struggling with communication so it was hard to tell people how i was feeling. itā€™s made my social life really hard. but i wasnā€™t necessarily overthinking this when i got that anxiety nausea. next was the obsession with my fingers. i could not stop picking the skin around my nails. i hate the little bits of skin that stick out. it looked bad and it made me uncomfortable somehow. so iā€™d pick it. and iā€™d pick it again and again until all my fingers had scabs/infection or were bleeding. i felt so bad. i didnā€™t want to keep picking but i couldnā€™t help it. even though it made me feel worse for picking my skin, it make me feel a bit better. it relieves some of the anxiety. thatā€™s how i felt at least. it was a distraction from the things around me. i realised i actually liked the pain sometimes. this worried me. iā€™m not the type of person that hurts themselves as a coping mechanism. but the pain felt good. like i deserved it.
i started using the app ā€œi am soberā€. itā€™s been sort of helpful. so today i was so close to reaching the 3rd day milestone. i was so proud of myself. at school i planned with my bf to go to his house. one, because i love hanging out with him and two, i never feel anxious at his house and atm iā€™ve been opting for the ā€œstress-freeā€ option ofc. turns out i couldnā€™t come over. i was really disappointed but i sucked it up and went home. me and my bf were kind of pissed and i felt like he was a bit annoyed at me which didnā€™t make me feel any better (he wasnā€™t annoyed at me btw). i get home and i remember that i broke a nail at school and my nails are uneven now. as much as iā€™ve been trying to avoid going anywhere near my finger nails, i realise my finger nails are getting in the way of my mouse pad giving my finger tips a weird feeling.
fast forward 3 hours. i spent 3 fucking hours, trimming, cutting and filing my nails. i picked at the sides of my fingers with the nail clippers trying to remove any dead skin that might show up later (which i hate). i attempted to remove my cuticles because i just couldnā€™t get them even. i picked at the side of one of my fingers so much it began to bleed. i hated myself. i realised then that iā€™d lost my streak of not picking my skin. i had been doing so well and then i ruin it all. which is untrue, i didnā€™t really ruin it all. but thatā€™s how i felt. still, i kept picking. it had been around 2 hours and i hadnā€™t even finished a whole hand of fingers. by 3 hours iā€™d completed one hand. the only thing that stopped me from continuing my picking was the call that dinner was being served and after dinner my bf called me. he knew i wasnā€™t ok. i wanted to leave the call but he begged me to stay. i canā€™t say no to him. the feeling that i need to finish the other hand is still lingering in the back of my mind but i donā€™t want to upset or disappoint my bf.
tonight i felt like hurting myself. there were scissors on my bed i used on my nails earlier. i imagined what it would feel like on my skin. i hate myself for admitting that i was going to hurt myself if my bf wasnā€™t on the phone with me at the time. i pray i wouldnā€™t have been brave enough to do it anyway. i felt like i deserved it. to be in pain.
anyways my lovely bf made me feel better just be being there. we didnā€™t talk, he listened to me and when i stopped talking we sat in silence. but he was there and thatā€™s what matters. if we wasnā€™t there i might have done something id extremely regret. i also think i might have had a panic attack if he wasnā€™t there to calm me down. i love him šŸ«¶šŸ¼
i realised later that when i wanted to go to my bf's house it was like my body was warning me that the anxiety was going to be bad. that the picking was going to be bad. it's not bad at his house so my brain wanted to go there. maybe i'm reading into this too much but the way i felt when i realised ii couldn't go to his house wasn't just disappointment. it was worry and stress. i felt like i needed to go to his house.
if you read all of this, bless your heart šŸ˜­šŸ«¶šŸ¼ if you have any similar experiences or thoughts on this lmk!! could this be ocd or is it something else?
ļ½”ļ¾Ÿļ¾Ÿļ½„ļ½”ļ½„ļ¾Ÿļ¾Ÿļ½” ļ¾Ÿć€‚ - nina's book nook 怀ļ¾Ÿļ½„ļ½”ļ½„ļ¾Ÿ
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radiovisual Ā· 9 months ago
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are you going to come back?
((I keep telling myself im going to, but im not sure. Im especially unhappy with how this blog was written and how it looks at the moment, bc theres a lot of things id Want to change before getting back into rp here, but I have no energy or motivation to do so šŸ˜” my art block from last year is Still ongoing, im still deeply fixated on other fandoms, and VERY recently I had an epiphany of some kind and haven't been able to stop paying attention to the news, bc anxieties about what's happening in Gaza/the West Bank, Sudan, and Chile, and not to mention this next American presidential election, have me reassessing my priorities in life, ykwim?))
((Im still around technically, i wont be deleting this blog or anything, im just in kind of a tough spot, mentally+emotionally+physically, and that makes it hard to get reinvested in something like this.))
((There's also the factor of... feeling rather restricted in this community. It's not any particular person or group of ppls fault, people are entitled to feel however they want around fictional subjects and themes, but i know that the types of things that i like to write and rp are dark and mature, and this fandom [despite the Nature of the show itself and the topics it covers] tends to attract a lot of very aggressive, very judgemental people -- as im sure youre all aware šŸ˜‚ i found some friends here, but even still, a lot of the time i know i Can't get into the kind of stuff i ACTUALLY want to write, because most of the ppl in this community would [at least, way back when,] assume that That kind of writing means I'm a bad, dangerous person who wants to engage with those themes in real life šŸ™ƒ. Which isn't to say anyone is Wrong for avoiding me if darker themes trigger them, by all means PLEASE block me for your sanity if thats what you have to do!! but when most all of those Exact Themes are LITERALLY, graphically present in the show, now, it's like. Idk man whats going on! Why are you here! if sexually abusive relationships bother these fans so much, then Why are they in THIS fandom of all places instead of somewhere tangibly Safer for their sanity, yk???))
(( i don't know. Maybe im just a brat, but ive always felt a little put out by the Hazbin community online. Its extremely self policing and isolating trying to find people i can feel comfortable talk to about my ideas, so ive kind of... given up and moved on, found a nice group of Freaks to be perverted about the Avatar sequel instead lmao))
((So... idk. I guess we'll see. But im very sorry it may have been wishful thinking when i said id come back. I really, truly meant it at the time -- things just changed šŸ’”, both in me And in the community. And maybe theyll change again, idk!but i Do know there's people in this overarching Hazbin Tumblr RP community who don't like me very much (which is Okay), and I don't want to force myself to walk on eggshells anymore -- so I'm won'tšŸ’ŖšŸ˜Ž))
((I adored my time here while i was active, whuch it why i wont delete it -- i go back to re read threads all the time! -- but unless there's a group of sexual weirdos developing that i could fall in with AND I can find a way to balance this with the rest of my life, im still gonna be on this indefinite hiatus šŸ’€šŸ‘ sorry))
((Btw -- Palestinians are in desperate need of e-SIMs to keep in touch with their loved ones and to organize humanitarian aid within the Gaza strip itself -- if any of you have a few spare dollars, please consider getting involved. I know the news is very quiet rn, especially if you're in America like me, but let me make this very clear; We are. kind of sort of Already IN World War Three. Russia and China and the global south are finally starting to hold the west accountable and the west is failing a shitting its pants about it Spectacularly. The world order is literally shifting. There's not one, but SEVERAL major international conflicts brewing right now, as America is sliding into fascism at break neck speed bc Genocide Joe is finally realizing he's probably not going to get re-elected [on account of all the genocide] on TOP of finally seeing the tangible effects of climate change. South America and Australia are on FIRE. Like NEVER before.))
((Never Again is Now. We could be going over the temperature "tipping point" of the planet BY 2030. now is NOT the time to be wallowing in escapism, no matter how much we desperately need/want it. If there is EVER a time to get involved with the real world and to take a step back from the internet and high stress fandom bullshit, it is NOW. No matter what Side of these issues you stand on, EVERYONE needs to be voting, everyone needs to be paying attention.))
(( if you can't afford esims [no shame, i often can't either, money is tight everywhere], then at the very least get This website open in your tabs. It generates revenue with free Daily clicks, the proceeds of which are all sent to UN organizations -- particularly UNRWA, which is VITAL to maintain not only getting aid INTO Gaza, but also retaining Palestinians legal right to return to their land -- without UNRWA, Isreal can begin to LEGALLY, haphazardly "deport" Palestinians, which would take YEARS to reverse through future court proceedings. Do your part, it only takes a few seconds a day šŸ’ŖšŸŒ±))
((Alright, thats all! Sorry if you wanted a short sweet answer, but ive actually been ruminating on all of this, so thank you for this ask, for giving me a chance to talk about it all. Im happy to see this community thriving in the wake of Season 1, even if im not joining in myself -- you all keep up the great work, and keep having fun with it ā¤ let it empower you to explore the value of Charlie's message and think of ways to impliment it in your daily life And on the world at largeā€¼))
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tsubasabasahazard Ā· 2 years ago
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Pretending tumblr is therapy
[tw: anxiety, depression, donā€™t read unless you wanna hear abt my boring life]Ā 
okay so Iā€™m having an anxiety attack right now, but I donā€™t have a therapist or friends to talk to (abt this particular issue) so Iā€™m gonna unload here, specially cause I need to get better asap and go back to studying.Ā 
you see, I donā€™t know if I told you but I started an internship two months ago, on a factory that makes bike parts, as a translator, japanese translator, so yeah I work translating documents and translating convo for some people between japanese and brazilians. at first I was excited and afraid, but more excited, after all I loved the opportunity to learn more while also making some money. two months passed.Ā 
after the first month and first salary I wasnā€™t that happy already, and I was already thinking that 6months would be more than enough (they could hire me for at least 2years and 6months is the minimum) and was already counting the days. after talking to a few classmates who also worked as interns (not translation) in factories they said my company was one of the worsts, the pay was really low and the work was too much. and I was still like, okay I can take it, letā€™s just get through 6months and then Iā€™m out.Ā 
but anxiety got waaay worse on the second month, I woke up and went to sleep extremely anxious, sleep was already bad and it got worse, I always felt tired af even after sleeping for at least 6hours, btw my schedule was: waking up at 6-6h30, go get the bus at 8h45 (i take my time having breakfast thnx to adhd) get to work at 9h15, have 1h break from 11h30 to 12h30, then 15min break from 15h30 to 15h45, get out at 16h45, get to college at 17h30, get to class at 18h, get home by 22h45 or 21h45, go to sleep around midnight or later. I even got sick in the second week. oh well, back to second month.Ā 
I was already overwhelmed with internship, college and living alone with my friend, when my dad decided to stop by for two days, he lives in another town, whenever he comes here I get even more anxious, itā€™s a family thing. he went to see my sisters in another state, came back a week later after fighting with them and only told me 6hrs before he got here and I had to pick him up at the airport at 1am. two days more of pure anxiety.Ā 
the month was ending and I have tests and seminars now that december started. I havenā€™t been able to study for a single day even on weekends since college started bcs Iā€™m always too tired from work. I also started having classes on some saturdays, on other staurdays i had work bcs we needed to pay for the days we would stay home thanx to soccer (this is brazil after all 8-D).Ā so yeah, sundays turned to pure hell, free days in the middle of the week only made it all worse to my biological fucked up clock.Ā 
I stayed home on the last day of november after taking my dad to his boat home. then I overslept the next day and said I had some personal business to take care. and damn I like this day. I could sleep a bit more, I got up and did some studying, then I went to college early and studied there too, until I met my friends for dinner. then we had class.Ā oh yeah, class, specially this one, Japanese II, I started hating it in the first month of internship. it used to be my favorite class. I couldnā€™t stand it on this day, even tho my spirits were just fine. and this is why Iā€™m writing this today.Ā 
I have a test in 8 days, japanese II, itā€™s usually a very long test and I really need to study kanji cause I suck at it. I sat down today (after hours of procrastinating) and after writing down half of the kanji i need to study, I started having anxiety, very hard anxiety, I started shaking and my hands and feet got cold, at every stroke or every read I would hate it more, I hated every second of studying for half an hour.Ā 
Now let me resume how I feel abt studying japanese. I love it (or loved). I started when I was 14 and loved it ever since, I got depression and after trying to get back to college I realized the only thing that could keep me there would be to study smth I Loved. and damn was I right. I simply LOVED my first two semesters, was super excited for the 3rd one, no matter how hard it got, it was FUN.Ā 
I hate it now. I feel like itā€™s killing me. I feel depression creeping in closer every day. and god that is one of the scariest feelings Iā€™ve ever felt. no my depression is not cured or being treated. I donā€™t have the money, even with the internship. but it was under control just fine for two semesters. now itā€™s loose and looking for me like a hungry wolf.
So anyway, I tried talking to people about this. but you see, Iā€™m the happy go duck type of person. nobody takes me fucking serious unless I start crying and shaking and shit. itā€™s always been like this. but thereā€™s another problem. I donā€™t cry that easily. not for me. Iā€™m a total crybaby when it comes to fiction, gurl I start crying just from listening to love like you thinking abt TGCF. but crying in front of people? thatā€™s a weakness I was not allowed to have, and I locked it up deep inside. imo itā€™s almost a talent at this point, how much I can hold back tears no matter how bad I feel, no matter how scared I am of my own thoughts of hurting myself.Ā 
It hit me yesterday that no one is going to be on my side, when my oldest bff told me I was being a crybaby for wanting to quit the internship, ā€œmoney is moneyā€, then I explained to her how bad it was and she just said ā€œhmnmā€. my bff who lives with me? said sheā€™ll beat me up if I leave it, we need the money, life has been to hard to give up on this money. my dad? he said ā€œdo what you think best, we will do smth abt it (money)ā€ (in a tone of ā€œwe have no money, you should just hang in thereā€).Ā 
and well, I guess Iā€™ve been too privileged my whole life, people just donā€™t think Iā€™m having a hard time no matter how much I say Iā€™m having a hard time, itā€™s like everyone looks at me and goes ā€œitā€™s hard for you bcs youā€™ve never known true hardshipā€. and I know thatā€™s bullshit, I know hardship is not something to be compared. I also know Iā€™m privileged as fuck! so what is the truth? whoā€™s right? what am I supposed to do? like SHINee says, TELL ME WHAT TO DO.Ā 
you know whatā€™s worst? this internship is the first time my course got an opportunity to work with industries, it could open doors to all my peers and my cute juniors, also the lead teacher said ā€œyou have a huge responsibility in your back, donā€™t fuck it upā€. so yeah, no pressure lol.Ā 
if you read this until here you can comment smth or just move on, I donā€™t really care. you canā€™t say stuff like ā€œask for helpā€ tho, I already did several times during my years of depression, no one could do shit for me, I know what the people around me can do for me, none of it will help me right now.
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biggest-gaudiest-patronuses Ā· 3 years ago
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I suspect quite a few people on this site donā€™t realize they are struggling with the effects of chronic trauma. In particular I think more people need to learn about the symptoms of C-PTSD.
Distinct from general PTSD, Complex PTSD is caused by prolonged, recurring stress and trauma, often occurring in childhood & adolescence over an extended period of time. There are many risk factors, including: abusive/negligent caregivers, dysfunctional family life, untreated mental/chronic illness, and being the target of bullying/social alienation.
Iā€™m not a mental health professional and Iā€™m not qualified to diagnose anyone, I just remember a million watt light bulb going off in my head when I first learned about C-PTSD. It was a huge OH MY FUCKING WORD eureka moment for meā€”it explained all these problems I was confused and angry at myself for having. The symptoms that really stood out to me were:
Negative self-perception: deep-seated feelings of shame, guilt, worthlessness, helplessness, and stigma. Feeling like you are different from everyone else, like something is fundamentally ā€˜badā€™ or ā€˜wrongā€™ with you.
Emotional avoidance of topics, people, relationships, activities, places, things etc that might cause uncomfortable emotions such as shame, fear, or sadness. Can lead to self-isolation.
Learned helplessness: a pervasive sense of powerlessness, often combined with feelings of desensitization, wherein you gradually stop trying to escape or prevent your own suffering, even when opportunities exist. May manifest as self-neglect or self-sabotage. (I remember watching myself make bad choices and neglect my responsibilities, and having no idea why I was doing it, or how to stop myself. Eventually I just stopped caring, which led to more self-neglect.)
Hyper-vigilance: always feeling ā€œon edge,ā€ alert, unable to relax even in spaces that should feel safe. May be combined with an elevated ā€œflightā€ response, or feelings of always being prepared to flee. (I used to hide important documents and possessions in a sort of emergency go bag, even when I was living alone and there was no logical reason other than it made me feel ā€œprepared.ā€)
Difficulty regulating emotions: may include mood swings, persistent numbness, sadness, suicidal idealization, explosive anger (or inability to feel anger and other strong emotions), inability to control your emotions, confusion about why you react the way you do.
Sense of foreshortened future: assuming or feeling that you will die young. Recurring thoughts that "I'll be dead before the age of 30/40/18/21 etc." As a teenager I used to joke darkly that I didn't plan to live past 30ā€”not because I planned to end my life, but because I simply couldn't imagine myself alive and happy in the long-term. I couldn't imagine a meaningful future where I wasn't suffering.
Emotional flashbacks: finding yourself suddenly re-experiencing feelings of helplessness, panic, despair, or anger etc, often without understanding what has triggered these feelings. Often these flashbacks donā€™t clearly relate to the memory of a single event (since C-PTSD is caused by repetitive events, which can blur together), making them harder to identify as flashbacksā€”especially if youā€™ve never heard the phraseĀ ā€œemotional flashbackā€ and donā€™t know what to look for. For years I just filed it underĀ ā€œsometimes I overreact/freak out randomly for no reason, probably bc I am just a terrible human being.ā€ (It turns out there was very much a reason, it was just hidden in the past. I have since learned to be kinder and less judgemental towards myself.)
There are other symptoms too, here are more links with good info.
Iā€™ve been meaning to write this post for awhile, because Iā€™ve noticed that a lot of the people I interact with online have risk factors and experiences similar to mine. These include:
growing up in a dysfunctional household
having caregivers who do not fulfill basic emotional needs (do not provide consistent positive attention, encouragement, support, acceptance, communication, a sense of safety and security)
on a very related note, experiencing neglect or abuse at the hand of caregivers or other adults. I also want to emphasize the significance of emotional abuse, since it is hard to recognize, easy to ignore, and utterly rampant in so many communities. In general, family dysfunction, abuse & neglect are quite difficult to identify when you are a child/teen and that is the only ā€œnormalā€ you have known.
(For example, in my family it manifested as an emotionally absent father I was vaguely frightened of, constant nagging from a hypercritical mother, and a house full of people who yelled and screamed at each other. It took me years to realize I grew up in an abusive environment, because there was no physical violence, because I participated in the fighting, and because my behavioral problems made me the family scapegoat. And I internalized that guilt: I thought I was the problem. But noā€”I was a child, and I deserved not to grow up in a household full of anger and fear and negativity. You deserved that too. You deserved to grow up safe and loved and treated with kindness.)Ā 
anyway back to more risk factors:
being neurodivergent or chronically ill (especially without receiving proper treatment/support/accommodation)
being queer (especially in a conservative or undiverse community, or without the support and acceptance of family & friends)
being the target of bullying or harassment (from peers, teachers, authority figures, irl, online, etc)
being isolated or alienated from peers, from family, from your wider community.
growing up with chronic anxiety, discomfort, pain, fear, or distress caused by any of the above and more.
There are many other experiences that can cause chronic trauma, but these are some particularly common ones I see people in my own community struggling with. And I want more people to be aware of this, because weā€™ve been taught to ignore and second-guess the significance of our traumatic experiences. Weā€™ve been taught to feel guilty for our own pain, because ā€œother people arenā€™t struggling, so I shouldnā€™t eitherā€ or (contradictorily) ā€œother people have it worse, so I shouldnā€™t complain.ā€ But thatā€™s not how it worksā€”you are not other people, and you deserve to have it better. We all deserve better. We deserve to be happy. We deserve not to be in pain.
I used to think I couldnā€™t have a trauma disorder because (I argued in my head) the things that happened to me werenā€™t that bad. And then I spent five years in therapy learning to accept the full extent of my issues. Iā€™ve since learned that trauma comes in many forms, and can happen quietly, invisibly, silently, chronically, and usually without the survivor being aware of the long-term repercussions of what they are surviving. That revelation comes later, after you have survived and must instead learn to live.
Finally, no single type of trauma is more real or harmful than any other. Severity is measured by the way the individual is affected, and the same situations affect different people in different ways. Because no one gets to choose how their brain reacts to trauma. No one gets to choose their hurtā€”otherwise there would be a hell of a lot less hurting in the world.
We can, however, choose to seek help. We can learn to recognize when something is wrong, we can learn when to reach out to professionals, and we can learn to educate ourselves on our injuries.
And gradually, we can learn to heal.
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slexenskee Ā· 2 years ago
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Re: Does Shouto have his scar/what happened to Rei in May Death Never Stop You
TL;DR - Shouto does not have his scar but Rei is still in the hospital. Okay and now for the long version -
So we donā€™t know the specifics of Reiā€™s mental disorders in canon, but judging from her actions I imagine thereā€™s a whole laundry list of cluster a, b, and c disorders in there to certain degrees. For this fic Iā€™m assuming her particular cocktail is bipolar disorder (mania and depression) with psychotic features (delusions, hallucinations), avoidant/dependent disorders, PPD and generalized anxiety.Ā 
Reiā€™s first born is a really weird fucking baby. Heā€™s basically an alien. He doesnā€™t really cry or make much noise, and he has a terribly unnerving and unblinking stare. Sometimes it seems like he just sees right through her, judging her and finding her wanting and deciding to dismiss her from his perception of reality. Or at least thatā€™s how she sees it - is it actually? No because Gojoā€™s awareness hasnā€™t even come in yet, but the wholeĀ ā€˜old soul in a new bodyā€™ is still making him a weird infant. Also the whole body/soul thing in JJK is very ??? which means its possible Gojoā€™s soul has always been in his body, and so has his cursed energy (even if his 6 eyes and his awareness didnā€™t fully manifest until he was about 4 or so), so even in utero he would have had cursed energy, and who knows how that would react in the body of a human without any cursed energy to speak of? In JJK even normal humans have trace amounts of cursed energy even if they canā€™t see curses, which would explain how sorcerers come from non-sorcerer families. But MHA has zero cursed energy, and the 6 eyes have evolved to see quirk energy. Idk what that would do to Rei, but nothing good, I imagine. I wouldnā€™t say her mental issues are entirely Gojoā€™s fault, since a lot of that is hereditary and environmental, but it certainly didnā€™t help.Ā 
In a normal person it would probably give mood swings, more depressive episodes, and other symptoms that weā€™ve seen in JJK for normal people who are unknowingly cursed - anxiety, sudden nervousness, bad dreams, that kind of stuff. But because Rei already had plenty of undiagnosed mental health disorders, it sort of compounded everything.Ā 
Rei is already under pressure just by the nature of her marriage, which I head-canon as her agreeing to by pure technicality of the legal definition ofĀ ā€˜consentā€™, but in reality was very much so caused by the pressure her parents, society and endeavor himself was exerting on her. Basically she made herself believe it was what she wanted because everyone else seemed to think it was the smart choice - marry a rich and handsome famous hero who has offered to take care of your family and you financially for the rest of your days, in a society thatā€™s already misogynistic? I imagine her friends in school and just everyone in her everyday life even beyond her parents was putting pressure on her, maybe not intentionally, but exerting their opinions on her nonetheless.Ā 
This is a lot of stress and environmental pressure for everyone, but again Rei already had BPD and was more susceptible to these kinds of changes, and never got the help she needed to deal with any of it. In line with cultural values, it probably never occurred to her to voice her struggles aloud or seek help for them.
Sheā€™s alone, suffering under undiagnosed PPD, canā€™t bond with her baby in any capacity, feels like a failure, and itā€™s just a huge spiral that gets worse and worse until it eventually breaks.Ā 
I imagine she didnā€™t start having more violent/hysteric attributes to her psychotic features until this point in her life, and they would have scared her. I have to imagine this is canon, bc otherwise I donā€™t know how she ended up going from a mild woman to having a violent episode and scarring Shouto.Ā 
Sheā€™s also not taking any medication whatsoever, and has never been diagnosed or seen a doctor for her mental health issues. Untreated BPD is basically a recipe for disaster in this instance, but instead of harming her children like in canon, the coin flipped on the other side and she acted on her depressive side and not her manic one, and she makes an attempt on her own life instead. Frankly its unrealistic that she hadnā€™t injured anyone else in one of her manic episodes beforehand, like a maid or one of her own kids, but thatā€™s where the avoidant distorder comes in, as sheā€™s always been more of a recluse and more likely to hurt herself in a manic episode than someone else. But anyway this is enough to finally get psychiatric help involved.Ā 
Again, in canon sheā€™s seen to be pretty cordoned off from life and has been in a psych ward for most of Shoutoā€™s life - that wouldnā€™t make sense unless she had pretty uncontrollable violent tendencies and exhibited an inability to deal with stressors in regular life, so I have to imagine her particular cocktail of disorders is extreme and was probably already there and got worse due to the environmental factors of her marriage.Ā 
Ā To be specific Iā€™ve slotted her psych ward admittance into the timeline to be right around the time that Gojo confronts Endeavor in the dojo. Honestly maybe even like a week or two before it. At that point in time Gojo is spending like 80% of his time away from his own house and honestly has no idea it even happened. In his POV in ch1 he mentions how odd it is that Rei isnā€™t in the house when he stops by because sheā€™s always there, then heā€™s distracted when he notices Endeavor and Shouto.Ā 
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magicpumpkin3 Ā· 4 years ago
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hey you i see your req are open ? if you have time , can you write about reader ( female or gender natural ) who always act cold and strong in front of other but one day the dorm leader see her crying in the sleep . they like having a nightmares about the dorm leader leaving them and sleep talk about begging them to stay ?
i am sorry if this is too long .
Note: I went through seven stages of grief while writing this. And the crazy part, I have no idea why! (Prob BC of the art/writing block).
Noteā„–2: I sincerely apologize for the delay. But at last, most of my finals are over and I hope my will to live and create will return (and NOT at 3 AM!)
Riddle Rosehearts
He honestly didn't know you fell asleep. You were staying in his room, listening to him, rambling about his dorm members not understanding the importance of rules.
He stopped rambling as soon as you let out a small sob. Slowly turning his head towards you, to make sure he didn't mishear it, Riddle looks at you. Another sob leaves you followed shortly by a hitched inhale. He's momentarily at your side. Riddle isn't quite sure what to do. He knows for sure, he needs to wake you up. While he attempts to do so, you start crying even more, particular shacking from the amount of tears.
Riddle stills when he hears you call out for him. Never have he ever imagined you, of all people calling for him. It's unusual for you to show such deep emotions to anyone so poor thing is absolutely lost at what to do again. He had similar nightmares too (not to the point of years though), so he understands your fear.
He attempts to comfort you in your sleep, since he could wake you up. Riddle hugs you and whispers reassuring things and lot's of "I'll never leave you"s. He'll never mention it to anyone but he will talk about this with you for sure.
Leona Kingscholar
It was one of the many sleepless nights for Leona. He usually listened to your heart to fall asleep faster, feeling safe and loved. Laying on top of you, using you as a pillow, it always helped.
Leona is no stranger to nightmares, quiet the opposite actually. But never did he imagen that you will have one. In front of him. There isn't a lot of people who would understand you, lucky for you, Leona is one of a few, who understand. He trys to wake you up at first, causing you to cry even more. He's panicking, he has no idea what to do. You're always so cold, calm and quiet one of the many reasons why he likes to sleep near you.
Once Leona hears your cry for him, beginning him, to stay. He stills, not believing his ears. He had similar nightmares about you, leaving him. You were always there to comfort him when those night terrors came, so he does the same for you.
He cuddles you, pat's your head, running his fingers through your hair and says probably the sweetest things you'll ever hear from him. Leona won't mention it to anyone and won't talk with you about it. He will cuddle you more and say encouraging stuff to you in private though.
Azul Ashengrotto
He was in his office, counting contracts, before heading towards his room. He couldn't leave his angelfish waiting! You and Azul made an agreement that whenever he's being late to your 'privet' date, you'd wait for him in his room.
Standing right outside the room, Azul heard faint crying. Momentarily, he enters room, normally he knocks, even though it's his room, privacy is privacy but in this situation, he had to.
Seeing you crying in your sleep, made his personal killbill siren go insane! Usually it was the other way around, you comforting him after another bad dream. So Azul did what you usually did to him, try to wake you up and comfort you.
You let out another cry but with his name. Poor Azul was afraid you were having nightmare about him, hurting you. He was about to push away, when you weekly grabbed onto his arm and pleaded to stay with you, still asleep.
Azul stayed by your side whole night, not daring to fall asleep. Not like he could. Whispering words of love and reassurance, cuddling you, with his whole being, Azul silently cried with you, feeling your pain, like no one else. He won't say a word to anyone but he will talk about your fears and insecurities.
Kalim Al-Asim
He just returned from one of his night flys. Usually he just flys on his carpet whenever he couldn't sleep, thais was one of those nights. As soon as you entered Kalim's room and sat down on his bed, you fell asleep, due to up coming exams. Sunshine boy truly tried to fall asleep with you but he couldn't.
So imagen his suprise, when he heard your crys. You! The ice majesty you! You were like that comical 'polar opposites' couple. If anything, it was most likely him being the crying one then you!
Poor Kalim was panicking half of the time! He was about to call Jamil for help (since vice dorm leader always helped him to calm down in saddest moments) but then he heard your crys for him. You, the always cool and calm, you were calling for him???
Kalim wouldn't even try to wake you up in fear of scaring you even more, instead he'd attempt to comfort you through your sleep. Hugging, cuddling you, pressing gentle kisses here and there. He'd try to stay awake the whole night but unfortunately he falls asleep embracing you. In the morning he's very tempted to ask others for advice but Kalim understands, that it's too personal. He'll be a bit awkward about it (he doesn't know how to approach you when it comes to emotions) but he will talk with you about your nightmares.
Vil Schoenheit
Normally he was the one to fall asleep first but oh well. You did look horribly tired this whole day. Schoenheit was in a good mood, so he decided to have a beauty sleep with you (aka go to sleep at 9 pm).
He was about to fell asleep but was shacken back to the reality with your sobs. At first, he thought it was just his sleepy mind and imagination but when you started to toss around the bed and cry even more aggressively. Vil would usually just knocked some sense into you, to not ruin his beauty sleep but it's not the case.
He isn't the best guy if you need comfort. Especially if he's used to you being cold and calm on the outside (like him). So Vil is really confused on what to do. Logically he'd try to wake you up first and if that fails, he'd still be lost for a good fee seconds. Don't be mad at him, please, he trys his best. Vil would try to hug you and keep you in place, so you wouldn't accidentally hurt yourself, try to calm you, by saying stuff like 'it's okay', 'let it out' and 'shā€¦I'm here for you'.
When he first heard you cry for him, Vil like Azul thought, he was the cause of your tears. He was about to start to think some really depressing things but then you begged for him to stay. It's like something snapped in him. Vil never thought that you'd be that attached to him. He'd be more 'aggresive' in his calming attempts. More 'I love you's and 'I won't ever leave you's, tightening his embrace and all. He wouldn't talk to anyone about it and he would be hesitant to talk to you about it too. Since he's also an 'ice queen' he tried to think how'd that go through his point of view. But in the end you'd still discussed it.
Idia Shroud
You both were chillaxing in his room. Idia was having one of those long night gaming marathon/sessions and you accidentally fell asleep on his bed. Idia doesn't mind though, he understands that you're probably tired and his bed is comfy!
Before long, he was at max level fighting with the boss and he was about to disintegrate that worthless being- Wait, did he hear it correct? Pushing pause, Idia pushed his headphones a bit. Yep, that was someone crying. Hold on... IT'S JUST YOU AND HIM HERE!!! Remember, I told you about killbill siren in Azul's head? Now THIS is a killbill siren. Idia is panicking his shit out and has no actual idea what to do! His anxiety level has never been so high.
Usually he was the one having nightmares (if you were lucky to catch him asleep) in your couple, so if something you or Ortho were the one to comfort him. Poor Idia, he was on the verge of tears from the panic. He was about to call Ortho for help when he heard your cry for him, his name being chocked out from your trembling body. Hesitant, he would try to wake you up (And miserably failed). Idia will mostly say reassuring words and won't do much physical contact since he's afraid of scaring you even more. He really is worried, don't get me wrong! After that, he would only ask Ortho for the advice (or internet in anon mode). He doesn't want to mess up things even more so he'll be shy asking you about it. You and him will still talk at some point though.
Malleus Draconia
Fae's sleeping schedule is a... wierd thing but it is what it is. Usually Malleus just watches you sleep instead of sleeping himself. So here you were in bed next to him, sleeping peacefully, while Draconia watched you like a hawk.
So when your face started to show the slightest hints of discomfort, he noticed it. And from that moment on, his 'protecting' instincts were acting up. He didn't risk waking you up right away but he git closer to your sleeping form non-theless. He was monitoring everything, starting with what expression does your face makes and ending with your heart beat.
When you let out your first shaky sob, Malleus felt like there's a crack in the floor and it's getting bigger. He had no idea what to do. While he was spacing out and silently panicking, you started to cry even harder. Poor baby, was scared to do anything! He tried to wake you up but you just started crying even harder! Malleus got a heart attack when you cried his name out. Like Azul he thought, he was the reason of your nightmare. The only thought about it made him go to the verge of tears. Malleus was brought back to the reality by you, pleading for him to stay. Mal mal would hug you, whisper promises of being with you forever and try to slowly rock you like a baby to ease your bad dream. He won't mention it to anyone and won't talk with about it. But if it happens again, he'll decently confront you about your nightmares.
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