#bathroom control

[thebonerstealer]

You should play this

[burstingsblog]

Making a sub choose between being able to cum and being able to empty their bladder is the hottest thing.

Make them edge every day for a week (or longer), so they're a desperate, needy mess by play day.

Then lock the bathroom before they wake up on play day. Keep that bladder nice and full on play day. Keep plying them with drinks, so it keeps getting fuller, until the evening when they're bursting and begging.

Once they start begging to pee, have them lay naked on the bed, and spend an hour or two teasing and edging them, until both of their needs are at their peak.

That's when you give them their choice.. piss, or cum. Only one.

But here's the part that doesn't get talked about enough:

Consequences of their decision.

Ok, so you chose to piss. Probably a good idea since you look like you're about to wet yourself any second. But you're going to spend the next 24 hours being teased and edged, with only enough breaks to eat, sleep, and piss in between. You might get to cum tomorrow night. Or you might have to just wait until we play again next weekend...

OR

Ok, so you chose to cum. I can see why, you're so needy you can't even form a coherent sentence. But I hope you didn't think you were going to get to cum and then just hold it for an hour or two until you wet yourself and let that be the end of it. No. From now until bedtime tomorrow night, you're holding. If I decide it looks like you really can't hold it anymore, I'll let you piss for 5 seconds. Just enough to keep the dam from breaking. Then you'll cut it off, pull your pants back up, and we're going back out. Yes, we're going to be in public. Did you think I would just let you stay home so you can have as many "accidents" as you want?

If you *DO* have an accident, I'm just going to have you drink enough to fill right back up. So don't even think about it.

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Let each consequence be enough torture that they want to choose the other next time, every time.

[omosoclose]

I don't want you to just ask me for permission to use the bathroom. I want you begging, pleading, telling me every little detail of how badly you have to go, how you don't think you can hold it much longer. Persuade me. Tell me how much you've had to drink and how long it's been since your bladder has last had relief. Tell me how good you've been, staying nice and hydrated, not even thinking about asking for the restroom until you're squirming and your bladder is heavy in your abdomen. Let me feel it. Let me run my hand over it and test how firm it is, pressing down on it, poking and prodding it to make sure it's full enough to warrant mercy.

Cross your legs and shove your hands between your thighs if you need to, but don't you dare complain. You know that I get to do what I want. You, you wouldn't know what to do with that kind of control. You're better like this: a submissive little thing who knows your place, who knows that you couldn't possibly tell what your body really needs, who knows that you need someone else to tell you what you deserve and when.

You're going to have an accident? It has been an awfully long time since you last went. And you have had so much to drink. I can see you trembling, your eyes welling up with tears from how badly you think you need it, the way you're holding yourself like the pressure is the only thing keeping it all from coming out. Wow, you do feel pretty full. All that liquid making your bladder nice and firm under my touch, making it swell out, bulging as it tries to make room to hold more. Tell me how much you need it, again? Enough that it aches? Enough that you feel like you're going to explode?

Hmm. Well, your bladder seems to have been able to fit it all so far. Have another glass of water and come back to me in 20 minutes. Maybe you'll deserve some relief then.

[youre-in-big-trouble]

okay so i just had such a close call driving home..

i left work already about a 6/10 and prepared by putting some towels down cause my commute home is an hour+, i have a huge bladder and really wanted to wet so i had water, gatorade and monster probably 3L all together. anyway things just got slowly worse and worse and the worse it got the hornier i got and i managed to get to about 15 minutes from home until it all just became too much, my bladder was rock hard and bludging so much i looked pregnant, i needed to hold myself but was too scared id cum i was so sensitive and i genuinely couldn’t tell if i was about to wet or cum hands free, suddenly i was just hit with the most extreme desperation of my entire life and i knew there was absolutely no way i’d make it home, i was trying to just find a side street cause it was late and dark but got stuck at a stop light and i could feel every leak like a jolt to my tdick it was the best and worst mix of panic and pleasure. i barely managed to park and immediately stuck my hand in my pants, accepting id wet when i came, and my orgasm hit in seconds which gave my muscles a second wind and i managed to hold it but as the horny wore off and i started to leak i panicked and jumped out of my car, barely getting my pants out of the way or checking if the street was clear and just let go. it felt like it lasted forever and about halfway through the relief wore off a bit and i realised i was pissing in the street!! a street perfectly in view of many houses and illuminated by street lights!! i tried to cut off my stream but it was no use, i tried to piss harder to empty my bladder quicker but it was so much and so loud so i had no choice but to just let my body go at its own pace while i anxiously kept my eye out for any sign of another person with no plans to what ill do if anyone caught me. everytime i thought i was done id start again it was so embarrassing. after what felt like forever i was finally finished and it was no use even trying to clean myself up my panties were soaked in both piss and cum and my pants had managed to avoid anything noticeable. afterwards i had to sit in my car and catch my breath my entire body felt so loose and relaxed

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aw you poor thing! that must have been mortifying, just peeing endlessly like a damn fountain lollll

sounds very fun ♡ im glad you had a good time! let us know if you end up pissing your pants next time :p

[potatomaster760]

Where are you going? The bathroom? You're not allowed to go there! :3

[littlebunnywinter]

Omo thoughts

When you're so desperate you can't stop squirming, you're leaking every couple of seconds and your bladder is bulging. Then when you ask for permission to use the bathroom they deny you, of course, and laugh/tease you about being desperate. Telling you about how cute your squirming is and how you must be bursting. How full your bladder is and how you want but don't need to use the potty. Best if they use the toilet themselves and tell you about how good the relief was, reminding you that you're not allowed to pee, ever 💛.

[pisspilled-drinkmaxxer]

On the topic of

Urgency vs Desperation

I've been sharing a lot about Omorashi with my partner lately as I sort of delve back into holding and it has me thinking about the different between urgency and desperation, or at least how I categorize them.

Here's my best attempt to make sense of it

Urgent feelings happen earlier in the hold and keep going throughout. It's that signal to your brain to hurry hurry hurry and get somewhere to piss. It's irrational and frantic and fast paced. Urgency gets worse, and becomes more problematic later in the hold, it can be increased with the sound of water, the sight of a toilet, or even just simple words, the breeze, anything.

-I also think urgency causes more leaks.-

Meanwhile, I use Desperation as a marker for physical need. Desperation is the constant state of struggle during a hold. For me, about a liter in and I can guarantee I'm going to be Desperate. It may not be very urgent, but I can feel the fullness in a way where I know I really really need to pee. Desperation gets worse too, obviously 😈, it makes you feel more like you can't walk or breath or stand fully upright. Desperation makes you feel totally paralyzed and brings tears to your eyes.

When added to higher urgency, they're as much at war as they are one in the same.

I love high desperation and low urgency holds the most because I can feel absolutely laden and like my bladder weighs a ton and still be able to do tasks that press and torment it and then raise the urgency with water or sound or walking into the bathroom and just feel the pressure mounting until I feel absolutely heady with it all.... But I'm wondering about other people and what y'all prefer?

🤷🏾‍♀️✨🥃

[thebonerstealer]

Piss fantasy, somehow being given an infinite bladder capacity, and being plugged shut so I can't pee :3 or having a magical seal make me completely unable to pee :3

[raunchypaunch]

gotta love a cartoony tube with bulges of slime in it

full image on bsky

[youre-in-big-trouble]

concept: you and a piss loving buddy both agree to hold together for a day. the catch is - youre both pulling from the same pool of bathroom breaks. meaning, between the two of you, you can only use the toilet six times today. once those six allotted breaks are up, neither of you can use a toilet for the rest of the day

imagine trying to wait as long as possible between breaks for the sake of helping your friend, because they have a much smaller bladder than you and need to pee more. but by the end of the day, youre BOTH bursting and begging one another to pleasepleaseplease let me use the last break, PLEASE i need it i need it

[potatomaster760]

I wanna plug someone's bladder so they can only go when I let them :3

[burstingsblog]

Disclosure, I copied this post from Piggy_Trainer on Fetlife:

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I have an interesting idea for a sort of medical play setup, and I wonder if it appeals to anyone, or if anyone has any other comments or safety-related observations. (This is coss-posted from the Bathroom use control group, but it's a very small group!)

The subject is catheterised and restrained in such a way that removing the catheter is impossible for them. The catheter is then connected to a long tube with a reservoir (which could just be a catheter bag) at the end. The reservoir is then elevated to a suitable height to maintain an uncomfortable amount of pressure in the subject's bladder. The dominant can control the amount of discomfort by raising or lowering the reservoir.

There's a handy guide as to how much pressure can typically be applied, and it doesn't actually need to be that much. (Half a metre of head should be more than enough to safely cause discomfort). https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK562310/

Urine can be drained from the reservoir as required, but because the bladder pressure is governed by the height of the bag, it provides no relief to the subject.

If the subject is particularly in need of reminding who's in control, then the dominant can always give the bag an extra little squeeze! "

-end of post-

I saw this again and feel like it could be used even more deviously. I love the idea of filling a sub's bladder to a certain pressure level, not knowing or caring what the actual volume in their bladder is. I think it would be even more fun to fill the bladder, then remove the catheter and have the sub hold for a predetermined (or not) amount of time. That time could just be set on a timer, or to be able to hold through some task. The dom could say "we're going to the store and running some errands, and should be back home in 2 hours, so I'm filling your bladder to a 6/10 (% of available head height/pressure) before we go" Or "we're going for a 30 minutes walk, so I'm filling your bladder to 9/10 and you have to hold it until we're back."

[subpottypants]

I am looking for a mommy that will completely take control of me and do the following

UNPOTTY TRAINING 24/7

NO TOILET USE EVER NO EXCEPTION

You choose if you want me to wear diapers

Dress and treat me like a little girl

Make me wet and poop my pants then spank me for it

You choose when where and how you perform checks and changes

If you choose to diaper me you choose how thick or thin you also choose how noticeable it is

You choose how you dress me and what I wear

You choose when you clean me up after a potty or a messy

I'm also into

Bdsm diapers enemas LAXATIVES PUBLIC HUMILIATION PUBLIC DIAPER CHECKS PUBLIC DIAPER CHANGES PUBLIC DEGRADATION

Denied delay changes

[thebonerstealer]

Fucckk I had to duck behind an alleyway almost halfway home. I was breathing so fucking heavily I kept leaking big spurts with every step and I could feel the warmth going down my thighs. I just leaned against the wall and tried to breathe and hold myself. I don’t know why I didn’t even think to take off my pants and actually try to pee, I was so focused on holding. It felt so so good. My legs were vibrating and my muscles just gave up. It felt so good to soak my pants and feel the pee running down my legs. Everything’s wet now but it’s dark enough that hopefully no one will notice. It felt so so so good. And now as I’m walking home since I’m already soaked, I’m just letting out spurts as I walk. I left a puddle back there in the alleyway. I feel so much better after having an accident.

Ooh that sounds really fun :3

[pisspilled-drinkmaxxer]

Having two subs practice body doubling by filling them both and having them hold each other accountable to staying dry...

[utterperversion]

if you wake up and see this, press hard on your bladder and tell me what it felt like 😌

It made me squirm and my eyes rolled back a little.. I could feel my g spot getting pressed on from my swollen bladderrr..

Gonna drink more water..