#avainhersubspace

[babygirl-isbad]

I penned down something after watching a video, it is for all people, but specifically for men.

Its not what i write usually, very different rather, its a message perhaps, for all men :)

(Its a little long tho)

Dear men,

You are enough.

You are enough Just as you Are, you are worth more than what you bring to the table, your worth is not determined by how much you earn. Your worth is determined by you, and the person you choose to become.

Men, specifically, are pressured by society to earn a livelihood or they wont be accepted by society which I believe is pure- pure baloney.

You are enough just as you are, maybe you earn a little less, but does that really determine who you are?

I believe someone's worth is to be checked by how they act, Their intentions,their behavior, how they treat you, what changes they bring in your life, and how they are as a person, and not how much they earn.

Also, there are so many open letters to men about how they should be,tough and strong, not show any emotion and always act like a man, I sometimes wonder why? Why? Aren't men humans? Do they not have the same mind and heart and soul? If yes, then won't they feel the same emotions as every other human being on this planet? Then why hide them? To look strong?

Does not crying make you strong?

No. Crying makes you stronger.

I believe the person who faces their trauma and tries to solve it and work with it, is the strongest. The person who cries is the strongest, because they have the courage to face the problem and not dismiss it and hide the tears.

I also understand that the men aren't at fault, they were taught to be like this, from the start but now, maybe you can start with a small Little change, when you want to cry, cry. Don't dismiss your emotions,the sad ones especially, or bottle them up, it just makes it worse, if i must say.

Lastly I would just like to say don't belittle yourself because of other's words, and always know that you are enough 💌